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Open Question: My best friend has started smoking, taking drugs, having sex etc.? and more...

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Open Question: My best friend has started smoking, taking drugs, having sex etc.? and more...

Open Question: My best friend has started smoking, taking drugs, having sex etc.?

Well my best friend has got friendly with a group of people where she lives, but the problem is they've had such a bad influence on her. She used to be nothing like them and now she has started drinking and smoking. She lied to me and said that she didn't smoke. She also has took drugs and got totally out of her head and ended up giving a guy she didn't even know a ******** in a tent. Don't get me wrong, I drink too but as often and to the extent that she does. I'm pretty sure she's not a virgin anymore and I know there's nothing wrong with that but it's just the fact that she's been doing it with people she's not even dating. It's not just the smoking and stuff, it's the way she acts now. She used to be the nicest person I knew, didn't say a bad word about anyone, but now she's changed and she's been blabbing to other friends about what other friends have said. As well as that it seems like she tries to make me feel like ****. I've recently moved to a new neighbourhood and it's a lot different and more rough than my previous one and I don't know anyone, and she keeps joking that I don't have friends etc. I still wanna be friends with her but I'm worried of what she's got herself into. These people have totally changed her and I just want my old friend back. I feel like she would rather spend time with them than me and our other friends, she's ditched me for them before too. What should I do to help her before this gets any worse? We are all 15 by the way.

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Open Question: Does he like me? Does he not like me?

Well...I know this guy in my year who is constantly flirting with me, he would randomly come and give me a hug or tickle me and would always make flirty comments with me, we're really playful with each other and we spend a lot of time alone just having random conversations...he seems to really like me. But, the only problem is...he is quite a flirty guy, and im pretty sure he flirts with many other girls as well, but i just get this feeling that he is more intimate with me, and his flirting with me means more than with the other girls... im just confused, and i really want to know if hes into ME....because i really like this guy, but his flirty nature just makes me unsure about whether he actually likes me, or he just enjoys flirting... How can i make sure that he actually likes me, and would consider dating me, without me having to ask him directly.... :-S hope you guys can help me out...

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Open Question: Should i stay or should i go? My girlfriend and i have been fighting over the same issue for months now.?

I moved in with my girlfriend after 3 months of dating. I've always known she has an 8 year old son. BUT i didn't know the kid was a handful! Everything happened so fast. I didn't get the chance to get to know her(deeply) and her son. I also didn't know that she was actually married to his dad. Of course i knew that the boy didn't just pop out from nowhere! But i wasn't expecting the dad to always be there. Knocking at the door, early morning i would wake up and hear his voice downstairs. Sometimes i would question myself if she's ever gonna "change teams" again. I've also dated men before but when i realized i could never have a long term relationship with them, I've always been with women and stayed faithful. I was also never married. I could never get married to a man. Going back, I love my girlfriend. But i have been reading forums, yahoo answers that dating somebody with a kid is NO NO. You will never be number 1. The Kid will always be a priority. I am starting to see that now. I am 30, and apart from my job, i have no responsibilities. I am able to travel around the world with no problem because i am not tied down to anything. But since i started seeing my girlfriend, my world has changed. I didn't complain coz i love her. But lately i am questioning the relationship. I am not comfortable with the baby daddy coming over, him and her(my girlfriend) seeing each other at football, talking etc. Although i know, she's doing it for her son and that he will always be number 1. What should i do? This is not the kind of life i want. I want to be free with somebody. Go places, sleep in on the weekends and not go to chuck e cheese and worry about our phones. I want to be with somebody who i can get lost with in the middle of nowhere and not care about calling anybody. Am i being selfish? I know i deserve more i am very attractive and a lot of people (guys even) want to date me even marry me! But i really love this person! Should i stay or go? And is it normal for me to be jealous?

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