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Open Question: My Best Friend's Little Sister? and more... Open Question: My Best Friend's Little Sister?My best friend's sister (We'll call her Brittany) is in 8th grade and I am a Sophomore. When I was in 8th grade, I realized that I was attracted to her. I haven't acted upon those feelings because she was too young and we didn't spend much time together. Now my feelings for her are stronger and this has led to some struggles with myself. When I was a Freshman, I watched all the girls in my grade date the Juniors and inevitably give the Junior guys what they were looking for. I told myself I'd never do something like that. The problem is, I wasn't thinking about Brittany. I've contemplated this over and over again. I know I wouldn't have sex with her because I'm a Christian and besides that, I wouldn't want to screw up my friendship with my best friend (We'll call him Kody). However, it is the perception of it and what her parents might think. This leads me to my next problem. Kody and I have been friends since 4th grade. He found out once that I liked Brittany and didn't seem mad about it, more like confused as to why. However, I wasn't prepared to act upon my feelings then ad he knew it, so now if I were to be serious about this, I don't know what his reaction would be. Tonight, I slipped in a hypothetical situation where I was dating his sister and he told me if I did, he'd kill me. Also, I know I'd never intentionally hurt Brittany, most people don't intend to hurt people, but it might happen. If it did, I know he'd take her side and even if he didn't, her parents would which would be just about as bad. So should I go out with her or not? If I do, how do I go about telling him and what do I do if me and her break up? Open Question: gay relationship help please! boyfriend has constant need to know i love him.?I'm am the older one in this relationship, i am a 16 year old male. and my boyfriend is a 14 year old male. I will 17 this January. My boyfriend will be 15 this March. We have been dating for 3 months. We we're not friends at first ether, we just sorta hooked up after my friend told me he liked me, plus i was willing to try this out. After the first 1 month, everything was fine, we got to know each other, and our love grew. Then the first problem came, he claimed i said i love you a lot more then i say today, and that's probably true, but after 3 months, you just get this feeling even if you say it once a week they know. not him, he needs to understand that i love him all the time, like having me be there everywhere, i have to hang out with him all the time, its like he gave up his life to spend it all with me, and just because i have a hobby of making a video for you-tube every second week, that I'm helping organize a play in my school, i suddenly have no time for him, he feels like we aren't in a relationship? we broke up about 4 times for this reason in the last month, we got back together because we can forgive and forget, but, i feel like I'm the only one forgetting at least, because he continues to claim i don't love him, that it doesn't seem like i (anything to do with him) (love, spend time, ext) I try to fix this, but i have a bad temper, and he knows this, plus when I'm being serious, he asks me whats wrong, and I'm a serious person, I'm not smiling 100% of the time I'm with anyone in the world. I know he's my boyfriend, but still, we try to fix this over and over, but it never seems to last. I'm not sure what to do, we do talk about this issue a lot, but it always counts as an argument. When ever we get close to breaking up again, he suddenly changes, and cries, claiming he never wants to lose me. But i know we might have to change a little in order to love each other, but then again, he also has to change, I'm not going to prepare to spend every second of the day telling him i love you, while he gets what he wants without changing one little bit. Open Question: I think this is a scam.If you see this spasm it and pas on the message.?Yahoo! MailUpdates occur every 1440 minutes. Automatic page updates causing problems with your screen reader? If you are using a screen reader and having problems using Mail, it might help to disable automatic page updates. Please note, this will also disable chat and text messaging within Yahoo! Mail. You can toggle automatic updates on and off using the link below. Disable automatic page updates. Hi, Leslie ProfileContactsAccount InfoYou are signed in as:lesliebrunsonSign OutAll-New MailHelp HelpTutorialsBlogSend FeedbackMake Y! My HomepageYahoo!MailMy Yahoo!NewsFinanceSportsSearch Web Search MailContactsCalendarNotepadWhat's New?Mobile MailOptions Mail OptionsMail PlusSwitch to All-New Mail Options Mail Search Try the new Yahoo! Mail Free Phones FoldersInbox (2)DraftsSentSpam (40)[Empty all the messages from the Spam folder]Trash[Empty all the messages from the Trash folder]Search ShortcutsMy PhotosMy AttachmentsChat & Mobile Text[Hide]I am Available0 Online Contacts[Add]No contacts online right now. Start a New Chat 1 Mobile Contact[Add]Keith Brunson 435-864-7430Not Listed? New TextSettings My Folders[Add a new folder - Edit folders] Go to Previous message | Go to Next message | Back to MessagesMark as Unread | Print ReplyReply AllMove...myspace scipt. Flag this messageVERIFICATION ALERT!!!Tuesday, December 15, 2009 8:59 PMFrom: "Yahoo! Mail Service" Open Question: I need some support =/?Hey, maybe you know I am in a LDR with my girlfriend in Brazil. I'm from southern usa ( unlucky). I recently asked a q and told everyone that my family is scared of other religion, race, culture...anything that isn't white christian. TBH, I am a christian =)..my girl is catholic..she believes everything i do, and even if she didn't I respect that..(maybe that treads a controversial line among many christians..but it's IMO that it is not a problem) There is not a relationship that doesn't involve work, no matter the race, culture, faith. I am bred from good parents, but I have led a boring life up until now (21) b/c they are judgemental and overprotective b/c I'm the baby of the family. My brother dated a hindu indian ( she was the best girl he ever had), and my parents let him deal with it on his on. My sister dated an athiest( he was decent) and they let her..but I'm getting a sneaky suspicion that I'm about to walk into a death trap....and in my heart I'm sorry but I know what I'm gonna do. I'll tell you why i think this about me walking into the "death trap" A few weeks ago I told my dad i was gonna get a loan from school to go see my girl. He met her on skype , but was kinda drinking (buzzing, thanksgiving party lol) and he thought she was gorgeous and nice . Well...a few hours later i said "Dad, I'm gonna take a loan out to go see her, and I know you may disapprove, but I think i DESERVE atrip after all this hard ass work..( i graduate in a year.5) He said " sure, so if you know you are, then why are we talking.." he was laughing so i think that was just the buzz he had unfortunately. Well , last week I acted upon what i said, and I was NOT bullshitting my dad. I literally got a staffor loan , and I have all the means to responsibly pay it off during and after college ( over $7k is the only one i could get for myself) So, today, i got the money directly deposited ..again i was NOT bullshitting haha..i got over 3.6k into my bank account and immediately transferred to savings. Dont let this story be about a monetary issue or lecture, because that's not important..paying this off is nothing , I am just giving detail b/c that's me. So, it went from my parents kinda manipulating me into thinking the loan was "confusing" and "hard to deal with"...well, I'm not a dumbass, b/c I realize they wanted me to give up the idea. I didn't , needlesstosay, and I have the money to see my girl now. Well, they went from vaguely telling me it was a bad idea ( a few days after i signed up for the loan, and a few days b4 today) , to "my whole family is going NUTSSS"(TODAY) because they think she's not a christian blah blah( i'll say again, she believes identical to me, but I would respect anyway if she didn't). ...so I feel that the upcoming weeks ( yes, christmas, my birthday =/ ) my parents who ALWAYS were not overbearing, but overprotective, are being the same way to their 21 year old , almost graduated and out on his own SON...and I know what I'm going to do ...part of me is SO PISSED AT THEM..they are ruling out a girl they never really met just because she's not from the south and souther baptist...and she's Japanese, and shes a different culture (Brazilian).. Seeing now that this is not a vague disapproval and that most of my family is being very closed and trying to treat me like a fucking baby again...and they are really trying to get me to NOT go on this trip(my dad emailed me and told me to NOT get a plain ticket lol, I'm not going now, I'm going in May)..so, I'm still goiing to follow my heart, and if it absolutely doesn't workout, then I went about the same way my brother and sister did...but I really love this girl, and I think I need to do what is best for me..b/c is less than 1.5 years, I'm gonna be living far far away going to PT school..so what the fuck can they really do? Potty trainme until I'm 30? FUCK THAT..I'm SO READY to be independent..I'm gonna stand up to my parents/anyone else who has a problem...I have the nuts, and I just want to bee left alone to make this decision for myself...I have the money in my savings, if they try to take it, legal action will take place( which is absurd lol..b/c it should never come to that, and my dad's a lawyer..lucky me ! ) SOOOO..if you are still here..give me some SUPPORT!!! I'm really gonna defy my parents and do this anyway, and pop that titty that they have been shoving in my mouth for 20 years..it's MY TIME to make up my mind..they will not live my life! I Is this a good idea? Open Question: My Sims 3 wont update?Hi, i recently purchased the sims 3 world adventures, and when i try to install it on my laptop (windows 7), it says i need to update my sims 3 and when i press 'ok', it says 'update error: unable to update game', but in the sims 3 launcher it says my game is up to date... Is there any way i can fix this problem? thanks! Open Question: Guys dating really short girls.?So im 18 and im 4'11. Ive always been the small girl and its never really bothered me. But for some reason lately i have hated my height. Even though im a senior and the oldest in my class i feel like im looked at as a little girl because of my size. Ive never had problems getting guys but i still feel so self conscious when it comes to my height. SO does it bother guys when a girl is really short? Pic--->just to see http://i289.photobucket.com/albums/ll215/smg091/tallreindeer.jpg Open Question: Should I Be Cautious With Him?????Do You Think He Is An Abuser?I have been dating him 5 DAYS. His brother is a celebrity but I could care less (never could be a groupie) Well we click. He told me he wants a relationship. We have had alot of fun these past 5 days together. He told me I belong to him (sounded kind of creepy) He even called my ex from my phone to make it clear I was with him (that was too much) We had sex and it was AMAZING!!!!! I know I should have waited but the chemistry was there. He calls me asking who I am with and I better not be with a man (I was actually with my ex just FRIENDS) He asked me if I ever had any diseases and what will I do if he gets me pregnant will I keep it or abort I told him I WILL NEVER let him get me pregnant CRAZY!!!!I have a child and he was a little disappointed but he still likes me (I told him if he can't accept that he could leave he chose to stay) Everytime I am on my phone he is trying to see who i'm talking to. We were having sex WITH a CONDOM when he asked me If I want TO HAVE HIS BABY (I SAID HELL NO) He is in school and really a nice guy but I see some control issues. He'll just ask me if I'm mad at him out of the blue it's Weird...I like him alot he is so handsome but should I be concerned...I just got out of a relationship with my ex and he wants to know how many people I slept with and their NAMES!!!!!WHY Should I beware him...I have so much fun with him. I think he has a problem with the fact that a man will be connected to me forever (my child's father who I have not been with in 8 years) He told me to show him my call log too....I am gonna still be with him but do u think something is wrong with him I am not married although I want to be someday. I am posting here because your answers are more Serious than Single and Dating Open Question: Wanna read some hilariously funny true Readers Digest stories?Gee, Thanks for the Help 43. For some reason, the bookstore clerk couldn't get the computer to recognize my preferred customer card. Peering over her shoulder at the screen, I said, "There's part of the problem. It shows my birth date as 12/31/1899." "That's right," my husband chimed in. "She was born in June, not December." --M. Patricia Capin 44. At 82 years old, my husband applied for his first passport. He was told he would need a birth certificate, but his birth had never been officially registered. When he explained his dilemma to the passport agent, the response was less than helpful. "It's all right," the agent said. "Just bring a notarized affidavit from the doctor who delivered you." --Elgarda Ashliman War Stories 45. Short and baby-faced, my buddy Wiggins had trouble being taken seriously in the Army. A mustache, he assumed, would fix that. He was wrong. "Wiggins!" bellowed our drill instructor after spotting the growth during inspection. "What's so special about your nose that it's got to be underlined?" --K. Trott 46. While my husband was stationed overseas, our four-year-old daughter decided that she needed a baby brother. "Good idea," I told her. "But don't you think we should wait till your father's home?" She had a better idea. "Why don't we just surprise him?" --Kay Schmidt 47. During basic training, our drill sergeant asked all Jewish personnel to make themselves known. Six of us tentatively raised our hands. Much to our relief, we were given the day off for Rosh Hashanah. A few days later, in anticipation of Yom Kippur, the sergeant again asked for all Jewish personnel to identify themselves. This time, every soldier raised his hand. "Only those who were Jewish last week can be Jewish this week," declared the sergeant. --Allen Israel 48. Just before I was deployed to Iraq, I sat my eight-year-old son down and broke the news to him. "I'm going to be away for a long time," I told him. "I'm going to Iraq." "Why?" he asked. "Don't you know there's a war going on over there?" --Thomas Cioppa 49. When I worked as a medical intern in a hospital, one of my patients was an elderly man with a thick accent. It took a while before I understood that he had no health insurance. Since he was a World War II vet, I had him transported to a VA hospital, where he'd be eligible for benefits. The next day, my patient was back, along with this note from the VA admitting nurse: "Right war, wrong side." --M. Murray 50. Few people outside the military know what a quartermaster does. So during my aircraft carrier's Family Day, I demonstrated a procedure called semaphore-I grabbed my flags and signaled an imaginary boat. When finished, I pointed to a little girl in front and asked, "Now do you know what I do?" "Yes," she answered. "You're a cheerleader." --Danny Sullivan Open Question: Girl relationship problems please help?I just started dating this girl kylynn we really like each other but we always feel awkward and have nothin to talk about what should I do can u guys help or should I end it today I don't think I made myself clear it's awkward cause we were best friends for years and I'm only 14 I don't think I made myself clear it's awkward cause we were best friends for years and I'm only 14 Open Question: Habitual Late Payment of Rent? Am I Going to be Evicted?For about the past year, I have paid my monthly rent to my landlord late. This was primarily due to a host of financial and personal issues that I won't elaborate on here. In each instance, I sent my landlord a partial payment around the due date, then remitted the balance (with the late fee) later in the month. After the first few months of this, I sent my landlord a letter explaining my situation and telling him that I expected these issues to be resolved (at that time) shortly. Well, my problems grew worse as the year wore on.I sent another letter a few months ago updating my landlord on what was happening. Still, I never fell more than a month behind on the rent payments and have paid all late fees. Throughout the year, my landlord has never contacted me either by phone or mail about anything, and I DO expect to begin sending full, on-time payments again soon. With my lease coming up in the spring, I'm wondering if I'm going to receive an unpleasant surprise. Will they renew my lease or kick me to the curb? Despite my "habitual" late payments, my landlord has been collecting late fees from me throughout all of this, and I've never fallen more than a month behind. I've mainly been forced to break my payments up. I realize, legally, my landlord can begin the eviction process over this (or chose not to renew my lease in a few months), but in reality, has anyone here been removed from their apartment for reasons such as this? If anyone is familiar with Pennsylvania landlord/tenant law, any insight would be appreciated as well. Open Question: My friend is having selfdefense difficulties and I need to help stand up for her...? Please help!!?My friend Alice was dating a guy named Josh about a month ago. They broke up, and Josh went 'out' with another girl in our grade named Jillian. Well, it turns out that Josh broke up with Jillian because he STILL loved Alice. (She was the dumper by the way). So this whole week in our art class, Jillian was talking to our art teacher and whispering and pointing at Alice. It's ben bothering the HECK outta alice. She was so sad one day that she just texted her mom to pick her up from scholl. Jillian is being very stressful towards Alice! It wasn't even alice's fault that Josh broke up with Jillian. I'm trying to stick up for Alice, but I don't know what to tell Jillian. I'm not very fond of Jillian, so it makes it harder to think of how to defend Alice. What could i say to her? "hey listen jillian, stop whispering to the teacher & talking about alice right in front of her face. it wasn't her fault that josh broke up wish you. she doesnt even love him back" Something along those lines? Please help. Alice has self defending problems so i'm trying to set a good example in front of her. And yes.. there are lots of grammar errors.. im typing this from my iphone yknow. cut me some slack? Open Question: What do you think of a 17 year old dating a 27 year old?I met a 27 yo guy last weekend at a party and I just got this weird feeling as though I was instantly attracted to him. We hit it off. He was so much fun to be around. He was a bit flirty but he wasn't touchy feely which is good. We were alone outside and we were talking and we ended up kissing. I felt fireworks. I said to him that if i'm just a bit of fun, then I would put things to an end there and then. He said that he is attracted to me and he said that he wasn't planning on hooking up with any girls that night. He also said he's only ever had 2 one night stands ever. Also, I was sitting on him and we were cuddling because it was freezing that night. He had his hands up my top at the back but even though he had a chance to touch my butt or boobs, he didn't. So that must go to show that he respects me yeah? He has a job, a car, his own place. So I think that's good that he can take care of himself. The age difference does bother me a bit but it doesn't turn me off of the idea of dating him. I would only date him if I felt as though the feelings for each other were serious, strong and if I could see a future with him. If it's just a crush or lust, i'm not going there. The thing that scares me is that i'm so young, I don't have the life experience that he has. I really want to travel but I think he wants to do that too because we were talking about places we'd like to visit. I don't fall for guys easily. I've only had one serious boyfriend and he broke my heart after 13 months. He was one year older and he wasn't mature when it came to sorting out problems with the relationship and other things. I am so sick of the immaturity of the guys aged 17 to 25. Open Question: How to get a guy to ask you out again?This guy and I have been talking for a while. We're both in our 20's. We have so much in common but the problem is that he's a different race than me. I totally have no problem with it, but I live at home and my mom would be so angry. She's not racist because a lot of my family are half of what he is. But she thinks that you should date within your own race. I really like him but I don't know how to deal with my mom. He asked me if I was interested in him. At first I said I liked him as a friend, then changed my mind and said yea I like you, but then I changed my mind again cause I didn't want to deal with my mother. We still hang out and we're going to a friends house this weekend. What should I do to show him that I'm still interested in him. Advice as to what to say and how to act around him. Please Open Question: I really really like this girl at my school.... Please open...?I like this girl at school, I've never had a girlfriend before and I think she might be the one, or at least for a long time. The only problem is that she is one year older than me. I don't know if she would date someone younger than her. How would I approach her in that way that's normal and she would feel the same way? I know for a fact that we are interested in the same things (I'm friends with her sister). Please help guys, I appreciate it.... I feel different around her for some reason. Open Question: Why can't I find a quality Girlfriend? Why am I single?I'll keeep this brief. 1. Im 24 Male 5'6 white 2. I get told all the time I am hot and sexy blah blah blah. Usually by unattractive women. Heres a link to my pic: myspace.com/abercrombieboi22 3. I have a good unique personality, funny in my unique way but shy till i get to know/comfortable around people. 4. I own the house I live in, I live by my self and I keep it clean. I am self employed and make decent money for my age. 5. I dont go up to every girl i meet and flirt or come on crazy.. I am open and receptive and willing to be a frind. NOR am I not a crazed boyfriend controling freak, high-strung, desparate, and all the other stories girls tell about their boyfriends ect. HERES WHERE THE PROBLEM COMES IN 6. The only women or girls that want me are divorced and/or have kids, or not attractive, on social security, are nobody's ect. (add: I am not shallow, I have dated those people...more than not) 5. The women I run across that would seem to be: Level headed, down-to-earth and someone generaly of "quality" ((Like me)) are either, taken or party animals. QUESTION: Im not looking for Ms. Perfect, just a normal human being thats looking for the same. Why is it so hard for me to find what im looking for? PS I dont use the Myspace (with playboy theme) as a tool for meeting people. I dont hookup with people from the internet. More Recent Articles |
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