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Open Question: My boyfriend flipped out on me, what do I do? Please help?!? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend flipped out on me, what do I do? Please help?!?My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for six years. He loves me very much and I know it, but lately I feel like he's been taking me for granted. We don't have any problems are issues and for the most part everything is fine. I go the extra mile in our relationship and he doesn't really have to do much. I hadn't wanted to bring it up but it just really wore on me so last night I wrote him a long letter explaining how I don't feel fully appreciated anymore and how I would love to see a kittle more effort. I left it in his jacket pocket for him to read on his way to work. He ended up flipping out saying he couldn't keep dealng with this and that he was backing off. He usually says that when he gets mad. I don't know if he is just feeling guilty and mad or if he really means it. I don't know what to do. Th only time I've really talked to him today after that was to let him know his Christmas present was being delivered today and he could send it back to me if he wanted. I'm basically begging him to stay because I love him. But I know I look pathetic. Someone please help me fix this. I don't want to be without him. Open Question: What is this girl doing?A girl I liked text me at the start of the summer to say she was coming home. We text and I met her out in the club, a couple of weekends and we kissed. I asked her out and she kinda changed. I am friends with her brother and she said that was a problem. She didn't give me a full answer until I made a fool of myself 2months ago. She said no to going on a date and I was kinda devastated. I called and apologised for my behaviour the next day. she said it was ok, as she didn't handel the situation well either. I said id give her back her space and ease off. Now 2 months on I see her out and avoided her as I still have some feelings for her. I got home at 3am and got a text from her. She said she was going to come over to me in the club and say hi but chickened out. she also said she can be odd sometimes.We text for half an hour. Why is she texting me? She knocked me back. Im kinda annoyed at her because im kinda flattered too by her texting me. thus starting me off again thinking of her. I will see her out over xmas any tips of how to keep it cool Open Question: Could I be accused of sexual harassment as an adult if I keep this up?There are many guys who are called awkward, creepy, or unattractive at some point in their life. It's normal for guys to subconsciously glance at breasts, legs, etc. But what sets me apart is that most other guys, even the most sexually driven ones, have at least a bit of control over the way they look and act around girls. Other guys don't stare at girls for longer than a few seconds, like I do. Other guys don't follow girls with their eyes and look away when they're caught looking, like I do. Other guys don't gawk at women's shoes and legs, like I do. Other guys don't walk outside doors and peer in to see girls they find attractive, like I do. Other guys don't try to find ways to look at girls when they're not looking, like I do. Other guys don't pussyfoot around girls they like and tell her friends she's gorgeous but make no move the way I do. Other guys don't do stuff like that; those are things you JUST DON'T DO. Those are things most people know NATURALLY that you don't do them; it's socially unacceptable. It's not appropriate, and it's very weird. When girls call guys weird, creepy, or awkward, they're usually just joking about it, or they did something weird and they're using those terms to gossip about it. But in my case, it's not a joke, and it's not just an opinion shared by a few girls. It's not just gossip about a kid who's merely somewhat awkward. There are many girls (even ones whom I've never met) who find me so awkward and creepy that they literally think I might have a mental disability. Even for my age, the way I act towards girls is abnormal, it serves as an uncomfortable distraction for them, and it has to stop. I have to be the one to change that, because if I don't gain control of that, this problem will continue on into adulthood. No girl wants to date a creeper. Speaking of adulthood, do you think the above problems could result in me being charged with sexual harassment were they to persist into my twenties and thirties? Bear in mind, the legal definition of sexual harassment is "Unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature that tends to create a hostile or offensive work environment." Girls are deeply offended by my body language towards them. Open Question: Religion: I need your help to live in God's path?Note: I did post this question before in a different room and didnt not received a good answer to help me I am a bible school teacher that is very religious and believe in God and the word as written in the bible. As you can see I am a new user and I did create this profile on purpose to hide my true identity since I do have friends that visit Yahoo Answers. Anyway I believe that marriage is between a man and a woman and being homosexual is choice but I have a problem. I recently met a woman(I am a woman too) and I have fallen in love with her and now we are dating secretly. Unlike other homosexuals I did not choose this it just happened and I really love her and cannot break up with her. We both pray everyday that God will help us to stop being gay but it's so hard when we didn't choose this for ourselves. I still do teach the children in my classes that homosexuality is wrong but I feel so hypocritical. Is there any other way that we can stop being gay. Any ideas how to stop or people that used to be gay stopped what did you do? I really need help. We are looking for that miracle God has left us for us to stop being an abomination. Thanks Open Question: what would you do in this situation?i am due on sunday! however, i don't think he is coming till after then. obviously there is no way to know. the problem is, if he is late by even 2 days i will be stuck in the hospital on christmas. this wouldn't be an issue, but i have a 3 year old son, and the hospital has a policy that no one under 18 can visit in labor and delivery due to the h1n1 thing. i have an appointment tomorrow and i am going to ask the doctor about being induced the day after my due date, but i don't think they will go for it because they don't induce till you are a week over due. what am i supposed to do? i cant miss christmas with my son. what would you do? ive tried every thing. i had my membranes swept on friday, ive had sex, i walked all over town. i will ask her to sweep them again tomorrow. but im just afraid its not going to work. oh yeah. and i just had a sonogram today and the baby is around 8lbs 2oz. my son was only 7lbs 4oz. im a very tiny 5'3" woman. if the baby is a week late he will be close to 9lbs!! well what would you do? Open Question: please help boy problems?so i like this guy named colten and i have liked him for a long time but he has a girl friend so he is kind of 'off limits' but i think he likes me to . im in 7 th grade and there is a 8 th grader who is in love with me literally like today on the bus every time i looked at him he said he loved me i went to homecoming with him and i don't know if we really dated. then today a guy named Dillon gave me a note saying that he rly rly rly liked me there is a height different big time but im in love with my ex still last year we broke up because i was going to a new school btw there was a 4 year diff. he 4 grade; me 6 grade but we said we would wait for each other there is another guy that's daring my friend who has said he was in love with me last year and said he would wait for me because he knew i just wanted to be friends and i am soooo confused who i go with i know i am boy crazy no stupid answers im soooooooooooo confused Open Question: My Boyfriend can't stay hard for me.?I've been dating a guy for 9 moths now. I'm 20, he's 22. When we met the sex was great and often, but even then he had a hard time cumming in me. He had a bad experience with a former lover and he was afraid to repeat it, he claimed. But it's been over a year since her, and nine of those months have been with me and he still has to close his eyes to cum in me. Now, for the past few months we've been having another problem- we start to have sex and he just goes soft inside me. Any little thing distracts him and then it's gone. He can usually get off if I blow him till he's hard again but this is beyond frustrating. Sometimes he can't even get hard in my mouth after he goes soft during sex. We've stopped having sex as often as we used to, and well, as often as I'd like (I could do it everyday, twice a day) because he's tired or scared he's going to disappoint me by not being able to stay hard. To be honest, it does disappoint me and hurt my feelings. I'm an attractive girl, in good shape, and experimental when it comes to sex. Last night I dressed up in a sexy santa costume to give him a christmas present, and then I had hoped sex... I've been working out a lot and wanted to show off my abs and I know I looked smokin' and he told me he was too tired for sex. I know he masturbates and he told me that he thinks the problem may be that for years he masturbated to porn 2 or 3 times a day, looked at 6-7 girls per time. Basically, the lack of variety (one woman) bores him and that's why he can't stay hard. This says to me basically that he doesn't find me attractive and he'd rather beat off. This is so hurtful. I've tried things from costumes to tying him/me up to massage oil to whips to whipped cream. Usually when I break out something new he can't stay hard because he claims he feels the pressure to perform. Is there anything I can do to fix this? I'm a girl with needs, physical and emotional, and this isn't just isn't cutting it. I love him but I really can't picture a future with someone who isn't aroused or as passionate as I am. Is this a reason worthy of ending the relationship? I REALLY don't want to, but I don't want to feel like this anymore either. I need advice.. PLEASE! Open Question: My boyfriend doesn't appreciate me and so I tried to talk to him and he flipped out! What do I do?My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for six years. He loves me very much and I know it, but lately I feel like he's been taking me for granted. We don't have any problems are issues and for the most part everything is fine. I go the extra mile in our relationship and he doesn't really have to do much. I hadn't wanted to bring it up but it just really wore on me so last night I wrote him a long letter explaining how I don't feel fully appreciated anymore and how I would love to see a kittle more effort. I left it in his jacket pocket for him to read on his way to work. He ended up flipping out saying he couldn't keep dealng with this and that he was backing off. He usually says that when he gets mad. I don't know if he is just feeling guilty and mad or if he really means it. I don't know what to do. Th only time I've really talked to him today after that was to let him know his Christmas present was being delivered today and he could send it back to me if he wanted. I'm basically begging him to stay because I love him. But I know I look pathetic. Someone please help me fix this. I don't want to be without him. Open Question: Missed ship date for Military?Hi all, a quick question for those who may know. I was scheduled to leave for boot camp a few days ago. My recruiters have apparently lost contact with me since the summer (i enrolled in feb.). I do regret signing up but have no problem leaving and dealing with my actions, however i did not want to spend christmas and new years there so i did not bother to contact them either. What should I do now? I was planning on contacting them in january, after new years, to see what happened. Any intelligent suggestions? Ok, i dont care about discharges. And i also don't care about other ppl's wishes, they've made their decision and I've made mine. Never will i consider military again anyways. Open Question: Can you apply to a university with only a work permit ? PLEASE HELP?I currently have a work permit and was wondering if it was possible that i can apply without problem...my interview date is almost here. So should i wait becuase i don't want to waste my one shot at applying to this college. And has any one ever applied with only a work permit ?....PLEASE HELP i am not a citizen nor do i have a visa or green card. i just filed and received my work permit Open Question: E-mail/ word document problem/?I sent some really important e-mails to a teacher with a word document attached and I need to find that e-mail. I've checked my sent folder and it is no longer in there. In fact, all sent messages before the 11th are missing. I do not have any preferences making it delete messages after a certain date or anything like that. My e-mail account is through my school, so I called up my school's tech support and they had no way of fixing it because they get the email service from Google. I've e-mailed Google but don't expect much help and I need it now. Also, I have the word document but what was in the document at the time I sent it has since been deleted and saved over. I tried to see if the old stuff I had on the document was still in the versions on Word but it wasn't. If anyone know some magical way I can get this document back or get my sent mail back, that would be awesome. More Recent Articles
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