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Open Question: My boyfriend is so confusing and I really need to get his interest back... help!? and more...

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Open Question: My boyfriend is so confusing and I really need to get his interest back... help!? and more...

Open Question: My boyfriend is so confusing and I really need to get his interest back... help!?

He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 7 months. He says he "Cant tell me he loves me" cause of being hurt so much in the past and showing emotions has always gotten him hurt, but he says his actions should speak louder than his words - and they did til about a month ago. Now he never texts first - he used to text "good morning babe" or SOMETHING during the day if i wouldnt... now nothing. If I text, he'll text back though the first time - but after awhile or if I ask him a question, he won't respond. For instance, I said "Want to go to see the lights saturday night?" and nothing. I said "Just an idea" and still nothing. Its probably because he doesn't know... but he used to ALWAYS text back. Also, his kisses have become infrequent and rare and he almost avoids mine. I ask him what is wrong and he says "nothing babe" He doesn't seem as interested in my day to day life. I know he is having money problems right now... severe ones... so maybe this all has nothing to do with me. I don't want to scare him away with my insecurities but it sure as hell seems like something is wrong! Some people say I should back off... let him come to me. But all I can think about is "out of sight, out of mind"... if I do that, and he doesn't call or text, I'll be heartbroken with no answers. Normally I would say "how about this weekend we..." and he agrees. He hardly every initiates plans unless its something planned like a birthday party, etc. Think I should continue to do this? Also, to make him wonder... today I sent him a text asking "hows it going hun?" and nothing. So three hours later I sent him a text saying "Hope your day is good mines terrible" and he said "whats the matter?" in about two seconds. I didn't reply. I wanted to make him wonder. What should I do? long but please read!

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Open Question: Husband does not like giving oral?

He used to when we were dating and he once said that he likes to everytime he has sex, but after we dated a bit, he does not do it anymore, even when i ask. I wax that area, and it is very clean, and it is not the taste because alot of guys liked my taste(sorry for the tmi, but i had to make clear it was not the problem) He went down on me the other day, but stopped shortly after because i was enjoying it so much, he said he was afraid I would squirt in his mouth (Yes, i am one of those people you see on porn movies who squirts on occasion, its really embarassing, but I have only done it when being fingered) Why do you think he wont now, and what can I do to maybe pursuade him. and i have asked him nicely, i have tried to seduce him to do it and he agrees that he should, but never does. It is not that big a deal, but i really enjoy it and i do it to him all the time, so i feel like he should at least try sometimes. and it would make our love life even better!

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Open Question: Best friends boyfriend just tried to kiss me?

My best friends boyfriend (both guys) just came over to my house and he tried to kiss me. There's several problems with this: 1. He's dating my best friend. 2. He's dating my best GUY friend. 3. I have a boyfriend. I told my best friend, who's angry, and my boyfriend who is also angry. I always thought that this guy was just my friend. Does this mean that I should just...stop talking to him, or just act like it never happened, or what?

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Open Question: Anyone have an idea why my dvd rw drive is having trouble?

It basically doesn't want to read the discs I put in there anymore, well most of the time rather. It used to read them all fine. Once in a while I can pop a dvd in there and it will play for a few seconds before the picture gets all hitchy and stuff. No matter what disc, it will spin a few times and try to do something, but often can't. I've made sure the driver, firmware etc..is up to date. I've opened up my pc, took the drive out, and cleaned the lens with no result. Someone suggested to me to delete upper and lower filters from registry, but I thought that was just if the dvd drive itself couldn't be recognized, not the dvd drive not being able to read discs. Anyway, doesn't seem like a good solution to me. Should I try this? Would checking to see if the jumper isn't set correctly make a difference? I really don't know much about that or if this pertains to my problems, but the drive worked fine before so why would it be changed or be a problem? It was also suggested to me that maybe the lens wasn't aligned properly anymore? I have an idea what this means, but have no experience with it. It seemed to have stopped working properly after burning some discs. Not sure if this is of any relevance, but I figured I would add it in. The only disc it does seem to read and play 100% of the time I think is my Assassin's Creed game. Well sorry for the long post, but I figured I would try everything possible and get all solutions before scrapping it, which I'm very much leaning towards at the moment. Any more solutions and support are appreciated, thanks.

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Open Question: i have a 17 year old girlfreind n idk wat to do about her drug problem.?

Ok my girlfreind started doing drugs before we started dating and when we started dating she said that she wanted to go into a better life style n im tryign to help her out.. she hasnt been doing drugs or drinking anything sence we been daing n we been together for about month in half.. n last weekend she smoke 2 bowls.. what do you think i should do for her consiquences.? ok. i forgott to put that she been doing it sence she was 12. n she smoke like 10 bowls a week. for wat she tells me. n i got her to stop for awhile n she started doing it agian? so wat do i do?

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Open Question: What do I do? It hurts so f*cking bad....?

So my girlfriend of two months just broke up with me this morning. She said that she has a "commitment issue", meaning that she still has the urge to sleep with a guy, even while we were dating. So she told me that she still loves me, and hopes that things won't change between us (aka, friends with benifits), but doesn't think that us being together right now is a good thing, while she tries to figure out how to straighten out the whole "commitment" problem. What should i do? She keeps telling me to be happy, that she loves me so much, and that she is sorry, but no matter what, it hurts. a lot. She was my first relationship, my first love. I just don't know how to deal with this. What would you do in my situation? would you move on, or would you wait it out, seeing if after she figures out the commitment problem, that maybe she will come back to me, saying shes more prepared this time? I love her so much, and i just can't seem to let her go after all of this. She is my best friend. I'd hate for us to get awkard and stuff, because we have to see each other at school everyday, and we have practice after school everyday, and we have classes together too, so its not like i could even avoid talking to her if i wanted to( which i don't). Please just give me advice on all of this..i'm so confused and in so much pain....

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Open Question: What age difference would you consider wrong?

I know a lot of people who would say an 18 year old dating a 21 year old is wrong. They would say why can't the 21 year old find some one their own age. Well, let me tell you something. My boyfriend is 21 and I'm 18, we've known each other for 11 years and we basically grew up together. We were best friends and now we have been in a relationship for 3 and 1/2 years and I don't find a problem with it. Do you?

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Open Question: AIEEE PROBLEM . Will the form be accepted ?

I applied online for aieee 2010 . On the confirmation page , i pasted 2 coloured photos without my name and the date , got it attested by the principal and sent it via speed post . Will my form be rejected because of no name and date on photos . If so should i send another confirmation page ?

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Open Question: how do i stop feeling like im not good enough for him?

I have a crush on this guy. We barely know each other but I think he might kind of like me back (at least be interested in me). The problem is, I dont want to be with him because I dont feel like I am good enough. We are both in college but I've never dated anyone before. He has. He is pretty social but I get nervous in social situations so I prefer to spend my time alone. He is very smart (he's gotten awards for achievement and all that in high school). I am barely passing my classes. He has hobbies and interests. I do nothing but watch tv (although there are some things that I would like to do, i just never got around to it.) He's very cute. I dont think I'm good looking enough. He comes from a pretty decent, united and middle class family. My family relationship is really messed up and we belong to the lower class (my parents have those jobs no one wants- security card and janitor). He knows nothing about my family or about how i'm doing in my classes or how I am socially (we work together in the library, so we dont know each other very well.) I have severe self esteem issues and I want to fix this even if we dont work out. I know that I will have this attitude no matter who I like, but I dont want to keep putting myself down. Do you think a guy like him can really like a girl who is like me? I know I need to improve my life, and I will (I will study harder, find hobbies, and try to overcome my social anxiety). But there are some things I cant change (like my looks or my dysfunctional family relationship).

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Open Question: What is the best way to dump my girlfriend for her sister?

Alright so I have been dating this girl for 6 months now. I am 24 and she is 20. The problem is that a week ago I finally met her sister who is a two and a half years younger, and me and her hit it off. So I am wondering the best way I can dump my current girlfriend so that I can date her sister?

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Open Question: How do you nicely break up without killing the guy?

I'm a 17 year old girl, and, I've been dating this guy for 3 weeks, and we have had sex almost every day, and its been great, until yesterday, it started getting boring, he just isnt doing it for me anymore. I usually have no problem breaking up with guys, but I really care about him and I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I need to find a guy who can satisfy me in bed again, this guy was pretty big, around 8.5", but he didn't use it well enough to make it last more than 2.5 weeks.

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Open Question: I need help with this problem?

I could really use some help please!!!!! Lakia Corporation reported the following current-year purchases and sales data for its only product: Date Activities Units Acquired at Cost Units Sold at Retail January 1 Beginning inventory 120 units @ $6.00 _ $ 720 January 10 Sales 70 units @ $15 March 7 Purchase 200 units @ $5.50 _ 1,100 March 15 Sales 125 units @ $15 July 28 Purchase 500 units @ $5.00 _ 2,500 October 3 Purchase 375 units @ $4.40 _ 1,650 October 5 Sales 600 units @ $15 December 19 Purchase 100 units @ $4.10 _ 410 Total 1,295 units $6,380 795 units Lakia uses a perpetual inventory system. Ending inventory consists of 500 units, 400 from the July 28 purchase and 100 from the December 19 purchase. Determine the cost assigned to ending inventory and to cost of goods sold using (a) specific identification, (b) weighted average, (c) FIFO, and (d) LIFO.

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Open Question: Ok im having girl trouble?

Ive been talking to this girl for a long time and we were just about to get together when she found out that anutha dude she like was dating a girl after she sent naked pics to him,i have no problem cuz we wernt dating,but i wanna get her and she said that nothing will ever be the same HELP

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