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Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behaviour and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jelousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerend me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: I really need some help from anyone out there =/?Okay my boyfriends b-day is the 29th of dec, its really close to christmas, my one problem is, i don't know if i should get him 2 separate gifts. one for christmas one for his birthday or just one =/ The other problem is we have been dating for a long time. But I really have NO clue what to get him =/ I want it to be something he remembers, I don't want it to be corny, I want it to be something cool like a friend would get him, but shows that i love him too. He likes music, he plays saxaphone and guitar. He also likes hunting and that sort of thing. Any help =/ Open Question: Can a Baptist date a Jehovah's Witness?This guy I'm talking to is so freaking amazing. He is seventeen and I am sixteen. We've been talking since the eighth grade but he moved away and I didn't talk to him for a year until he sent me his number through myspace. I remember him telling me that he was a Jehovah's witness a long time ago but i guess he forgot that he told me and now he will not mention anything about it. Like every Tuesday, he says he has to go to a meeting with his mom around seven o' clock. I be shooting hints at him like "I have to go to church on Sunday and Wednesday and I tell him what I learned in church", but he never really remark on what I say. He doesn't go to church. One day, I was on the phone with one of his homeboys because my friend was busy so he put me on the phone with him. Then the guy ask ME "Oh didn't you say you had to go to a meeting in the morning?" and I was like "uhh, no.. i have to go to church" then he said "oh so you're not Jeh-" and i heard my friend in the background say "shhh bruh".. but I pretended like i didn't hear it. I always try to shoot hints, hoping he would just come out and tell me that he is Jehovah's Witness. Like he tells me that he loves me but we don't go out and he tells me that it's because he lives in Charlotte and I live in Monroe which is like 30 minutes away but we BOTH have cars... so I don't see the problem. Like I notice how he doesn't celebrate Christmas or Easter OR birthdays.. but I don't want to be rude so I don't question why. He tells me how he take relationships REALLY seriously which is a good thing to me because he doesn't date that much. But maybe he doesn't want to date me because I am Baptist. But I will not deny MY GOD just to date him even though i like him. I will never consider being a JW and if he ever tries to get me to convert, we will probably have a bad falling out. He tells me I'm perfect and he is perfect to me but he will not date me. I wonder if they are even allowed to date outside of their religion. Open Question: Help...I need help with some problems with my GF?Ok so me and my girlfriend Christy got together on saturday night, (we have been friends for 5 years and have dated like 4 years ago) and anyways, she is now asking me "when are we going to get engaged?" and stuff like that! and then we talk all the time (and this isn't that bad) but I mean almost every moment other than when we are at work.... So how do I tell her that we both need to slow down a little...I mean I love her but I don't think I'm ready to get engaged especially since we have only been together for 4 days... Oh and the talking thing I guess is because she used to live here in town (little rock, arkansas) but then she moved to Branson, Missouri (which is like 4 hours or less away) with her grandparents (but she moved before we got together) Am I wrong for wanting to slow down the relationship and tell her we need to have some time where we don't talk for like a day? Like cause she will want me to stay on the phone till 1 in the morning with her (so I give in and do it) but then she calls me at 5 cause she has to get up and shes bored... Thanks, Cory Open Question: did my dream tell the future?ok so dreamed about my ex like 3 times in one dream i was helping him and his sister that i know is older than me but in my dream she was little for some reason, i was helping them by offering them a ride because it was raining but i ended up not helping thenm cuz mom came and i had to go. then i dream that he was sick or in pain and that i didnt care but i still wanted to know like i was being a jerk to him while everyone was like oh are you ok. and another dream i dreamed that i was dating him but that i was dating him to be nice and that i really didnt want to be with him and that i receted him for it, i guess he was going thru stuff in my dream and thats why i was with him to be nice. IN REAL LIFE NOT IN A DREAM like a week of having dreams of him i turned on the tv and i saw him on the news giving an interview, something bad had happened to his sister and he was having huge problems in his familly. so is it odd that i had this dreams? what could they mean? where my dreams trying to tell me that he was going thru problems? Open Question: Have a boyfriend but like another guy. Help!?I've been with my boyfriend for 11 months. He is a great guy, but sometimes I feel like we aren't intellectual equals. Lately I have been talking a lot with this guy in one of my study groups. He is very interesting and intelligent. We have great conversations. I really am starting to like him, and I think he feels the same way (he knows that I have a boyfriend though). I even miss him when we aren't together! I feel so guilty for feeling this way, but I do. There are some problems in my relationship. I feel like I have way more power than my boyfriend in this relationship and I'm tired of it. I always am the one who decides what to do on our dates. I'm tired of him acting so "girly". I'm tired of him always whining about petty things. I'm tired of having to correct his grammar and correct him on common facts (like how Asia is a continent and not a country). Part of me wants to break up with him. However, part of me thinks that I should just settle and be happy because I found a guy that is reliable, honest, and good hearted. Maybe it is just a case of the grass being greener on the other side... What do you think? Open Question: How can I meet girls out of school?I'm not interested in dating anybody in my school and I want to meet people from other schools, particularily girls. The only problem is I am a bit of a social recluse. Apart from school and work, I don't like to go outside my house. I prefer to spend my time listening to music and playing guitar (up to 6 hours a day) in my home, so I don't get out much. I would like to meet a nice girl but I'm not a very social person. How can I solve this problem? Open Question: I feel unloved and lonely... need help mainly from girls guys won't understand...?So girls, I'm NOT GAY pls don't call me gay cuz i'm asking this ok? I'm a really romatic guy being from italy and i grew up with people like me, that care and love for real. I'm 16 almost 17, I've been dating this girl since 1 year and 1 month today and I LOVE HER SO MUCH, but lately she's been bitc***** me out and making me suffer but a lot! I'm really attached to her, and a lot of people say that this is just killing me inside and i should just leave her and find someone better... but here comes the problem... I CAN'T! I can't stand the fact that she won't be mine, i can't stand the fact that she'll be with someone else... i can't stand that, i'm really attached to her but really attached and i can't stay without her, in the other hand she's not, she's moody, changes moods alot, always makes me feel bad and when i'm sad she doesn't care as much =( I want some advice or help to how not get attached to people and what to do with her... mainly i just need someone to talk to because i really can't live like this anymore it's just killing me inside and i don't know how to get dis attached from her... :-s Any advice? please help me :-( I'm 16 almost 17 and I'm NOT GAY i moved here from italy in october last year Open Question: My boyfriend and other girls.....?So my boyfriend of a month,is always hanging out with other girls. All of his friends at his school are girls. I dont know why. Maybe we just doesnt get along with guys.But he always hangs out with them alone,and they always end up hitting on him or telling him they like him. I've put up with it eversince we started dating. Even when one of his "girl friends" kissed him. We've talked about this and how it upsets me. He said he would stop. Actually just last night we talked about it. But today he texted me saying "Babe i need to tell you something" i said okay, he then says "I keep forgetting to tell you,but she just reminded me to tell you...one of my friends wants to make her ex jealous so we are pretending to date. We dont really do anything at all. We just hang out really...If one of the guys friends comes by we will hold hands or hug. But no kissing or anything is that ok?" Then of course i didnt text him back because i was upset so he texts me again saying "babe are you mad? i told her the boundaries and she respects them. And she always feels bad cuz of you.....But i told her you'd be okay....was i wrong" And usually he is a very caring guy,really sensitive and loving,but other girls are always a problem....I dont know what to do anymore i really care about this guy and part of me doesnt want to break up with him but this is becoming to much....Please help me out.): Open Question: what is this guys deal & why is he acting like this?:'(?Ok well there's this guy at my school & we meet each other at the mall and he told my friend he thought I was cute and we started txting each other over thanksgiving break and he told me he really likes me & he was like the sweetest guy in the world to me and he put me #1 on his myspace and put my 2 best friends on there to and we were suppose to go to the mall last Tuesday & we kept changing the dates and I told him Saturday and in Saturday me & my 2 bestfriends waaaait & we called & he said he was in the bathroom & meet him there but he wasn't he was at some kinda party his mom was throwing & he made me cryyyyy and I confronted him the next morning in txt and he said you ask me to go to the movies?! And I said noo we are going to hang out and he nvr txted back and today he took me off his top friends and stopes talking to me but at lunch he alwayyyys stares at me....what's his problem?:( Open Question: A quick delima that i have... moving in with my boyfriend(that will not be to long to pay attention to!)?so basically me and my boyfriend are dating, pretty serious, etc... well its time for me to move out of my parents house. what i want to do is split the cost of an apartment with 4 people. my bestfriend and her boyfriend and me and my boyfriend one problem. he tell me that he has this aprentice job working, and since he has no job and needs to get one im not gonna stand in his way, i support that completely. but the plan was he would move in with everyone, but if he does this job, it lasts for a year, and he wants me to move to his town with him... this worries me for 3 reasons. 1) if i go there, i lose my job, and if his job doesn't pay, ill be stuck there. cause there will be no way to go anywhere. 2) he wanted to move to oregon, and i told him no, but i know if i give into this, he will try to make me go anywhere cause i wont have a choice. 3) my friend tells me those jobs are for working there, so he would be wasting his time to apretice and move. dont get the wrong idea about him hes a nice careing sweet guy, just a bit lazy... i told him i may move... but im not sure. what should i do? Open Question: How do you break the news that you want to see your ex's best friend?Ok so me and this cute little blonde find ourselves in a problem. I dated a girl for 3 years, had a kid with her, she broke up with me for another guy. 6 months goes by and then she and this guy dont make it, she moves into my apartment as a roomate. We have a child together and I wanted to be as normal as possible in the situation. The problem is the same day I met this girl which was about 6 years ago I met her friend michelle. We all used to hang out and have such a good time, I always had a little thing for michelle, but never told her. After a few months we stopped hanging out with everyone and spent 3 years being pretty much to ourselves, now 6 months after we break up and she moves back in I get into contact with michelle, first it was talking online, then texting. I felt some sort of wierd connection between us and wanted to see if things could turn into something more. We hung out once, i took her to dennys cause thats where she loves to eat, and I felt such a strong bond with her, long story short 4 weeks later and after hanging out numerous times we are stuck with this situation where we dont know how to tell her friend that her and I want to see eachother... Just wondering if anyone has any input on how to break the news to this girl. Im crazy about michelle, and pretty sure she is crazy about me. is there an easy way to tell a friend, or an ex that you and someone else is gonna start something? it's complicated, and it's going to suck! unfortunately Im not willing to just let it go, and give up. I dont really care what it takes, or how many people get their feelings hurt, I have a good feeling about this girl and want it to work out. maybe not forever, but longer than 4 weeks. please help us, personal experiences would be great. if I go another week without a solution then Im just gonna spill the beans and deal with it when the dust settles. 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