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Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 7 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behavior and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our relationship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jealousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerned me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: does he REALLY like me? is he using me while shes away?First of all Im sorry its so long .. So 3 days ago this guy asked his friend to ask my friend for my number. That day i got a message from his friend saying they were going out did i want to go, so i did. He thought i was new to school and when i told him i wasn't, he was shocked and kept saying " how did i not see you before, i would of noticed you" .. which i took as a compliment :) The next day he rang and asked if i wanted to come out again, So of course, i did. He kept trying to hug me and saying "are you cold, want a hug, you sure?" etc. i was sitting on his lap, and we kissed .. kind of. Im a really really shy person, so not only was i nervous, but it was my first kiss too, and of course i messed it up, so i confessed to him i never had before and kept apologizing he said " its no problem, really, didnt worry about it, it took A lot of courage to tell me that, don't worry" and rubbed my leg/held my hand.. he kept introducing me to everyone he talked to and trying to add me into conversations, get closer to me when we saw someone we knew. he gave me his jacket to wear home that night and pecked gave me a hug & peck on the lips. today it was REALLY cold out, so when we were standing anywhere he would wrap his arms around me from behind and rest his head on shoulder, wrap his arm around me while walking,etct. when we sat down i sat on his lap, he held my hand and kept kissing my neck/ cheek, whispering into my ear, cuddling me close to him. When we went out he saw one of our friends and she asked if we together or "meeting" ( to be meeting someone is like to be half dating them. a half sort of commitment between single and going out. To french kiss, snog,etct) and he said meeting .. which i know is not true because haven't kissed properly yet? was he just trying to embarrass me? we have plans for tomorrow too :) The day before he asked for my number he was at a party, and on a girls online profile i read that she was texting him and had been kissing him at the party, she went on holidays either the day or 2 days after that. so i was wondering, does he REALLY like me, or does he just want someone while this girl is away? she's back the end of this week and im afraid he'll be interested in her then? i really like him, so i obviously dont want that to happen :P Also his friend told me that im the only girl he's ever been to shy to talk to (: & said "the first time ___ seen you he said you were goregous" and he replyed with "so what, im not afraid to say that" :D Open Question: Why am I so jealous of my boyfriends relationship with his ex-wife and children?My boyfriend has a 3 year old daughter, and a 2 year old son. His wife left him last year and we have been dating for about 6 months. I am not embarrassed in any way to say that I am head over heels in love with him. He is in love with me too and our relationship is wonderful.. a match made in heaven. However I can't shake this jealousy that i have of the relationship that he has with his children and ex-wife. She left him, but she has made it clear that she wishes they could be together just for the sake of their family. I told him that if he thought there was any way he thought they could work as a family then thats what he should do even though it would break my heart, but he says he absolutely won't go back with her and loves me more than anything. (so whats the problem, right?) Well I have just always grown up being the adult in many situations, even when i was younger with my parents I had to make tough decisions for myself and go through some difficult things, so I think I'm jealous of the fact that he has taken the bull by the horns and become such a grown-up to raise two children and deal with a wife leaving him. I constantly look at pictures of their wedding and feel like i want to burst into tears (though i havent cried since i was about 9). Something about it just gets me. The fact that we will never be able to experience a wedding together and it be the first time for both of us. Or the fact that raising children is supposed to be a learning experience that you do for the first time with someone you love and it is rewarding.. but he already has that and i don't so it just makes me feel insignificant and stupid. I love him with all of my heart, and we absolutely plan to get married, but i just wish these feelings would go away. Open Question: My mom hates my girlfriend?Hi, this may be a little offensive to some people. My girlfriend and I have been dating for some time now, and my parents do not know who she is yet. My mother has seen me around with her before we were dating, and she thought she was a nice girl. The problem is, she told me that i better not be dating her. My national background is Russian and I am expected to carry on my family name with a Orthodox, Russian girl. My girlfriend is however not Russian, but Egyptian Arab/Copt. My religion and her religion are pretty much the same. She is Coptic Orthodox and I am Russian Orthodox, but ethnic mixing is frowned upon in my conservative family, and by that i mean (almost) forbidden. My parents aren't racists but as i said, they want the family to be purely Russian because of cultural and traditional reasons. I have known and liked this girl for a long time and i have only recently worked up the courage to tell her how i feel, and she felt the same way, which is why we're going out. I can honestly say that she is the most amazing person i have ever met, and i love her with all my heart, but i also love my family (in different ways of coarse) and i don't want to have my parents disowning me, but i also don't want to have to lose my girlfriend because of this dependency to carry on my family name with a Russian girl. So i guess what i'm trying to ask is does anyone have any advice on what i should do, my friends are being supportive and i haven't told my girlfriend about this because i don't want to hurt her. All advice is appreciated. Oh an also my girlfriend and i are both 17. Open Question: Do you think he likes me?Ok, so I am not to sure if this guy likes me or not so I want others opinions. I have class with this guy who I really really like. And some say he likes me back but im not sure. But anyway, here recently I have been having some problems with this other guy. And one day the other guy made me cry and the guy I like didnt find out about it until we got home and I texted him. And when I told him he got super mad. And he doesnt usually do that. And he was saying how he was going to set stuff straight with this other guy and everything. And he was like "Your amazing dont let him get you down." Well things got worse with this other guy and now the other guy is spreading a rumor saying that me and the guy I like are going out. And I told the guy I like about it and he got mad. So I automatically got defensive, and was just like dont worry I am going to get him to stop I am not going to let ppl think u are dating the ugly fat girl. And he sent a message back saying "Your beautiful, I just dont like when fake rumors get started." And we talk everyday. But I always have to be the first one to talk. And on his myspace top friends I am number 4 and there are 2 other girls in front of me. So I just dont know if he does. What does everyone else think? Open Question: Girls, any explanation for this??????I currently have been dating this girl that I really love for a year now. She is so sweet and is the one for me. However the only problem is we really do not have sex that often. I would like to say it is maybe once every 2 weeks, but sometimes more or less. The last gf I had we had sex a few times a week and she actually wanted it more than me. I dont want to feel pushy, but I do not know what to do because I am still not used to it. Any advice? Open Question: Am I depressed? Or bipolar?Please don't tell me not to kill myself because I'm not going to. I know that people love me and I wouldn't want to hurt them and that I'll go straight to hell. I am religious and I to pray to God multiple times every day of my life. I'm not asking for pity, I'm asking for an answer as to what is wrong with me and what I can do to fix it. This probably started about last year, when I entered high school. I am 16 now and a sophomore, if that helps. I've got a boyfriend who is basically my best friend and we have a very steady, happy relationship. (been dating for 2 years) My father is an alcoholic whom I see about once a week if he can afford the gas to come pick me up. (he spends his unemployment checks on alcohol) My mother and step father are very good providing, working parents who I love very much..but am not close to. I have two best friends that I can talk to about anything and then about 5-6 other friends that I'm pretty good friends with also. I'm not sure what my problem is, but I feel suicidal all the time. I came home from school today in a great mood until I starting doing my calculus and physics, those two always frustrate me. I always end up crying and yelling like a child because I get so stressed out and frustrated. Then I get scared that I'm going to fail (I've never gotten lower than a B) and begin to cry even harder. It's just the small things like that. I'll get frustrated with someone or something and get really sad. I usually go to school, come home, do homework, and if I don't hang out with friends (usually only do on weekends and once a week) then I will sleep literally all day. I love sleeping. I also love being alone. I always turn down people when they ask to hang out if I feel like being alone, and I feel like being alone a lot. I never have the energy for anything. I'm always super mad and always picturing killing myself in my head. It's always so tempting, but I won't. There's your description, any clue what's wrong with me? BTW, please don't tell me to be with friends more because I really hate being around people. I don't need a tutor. I've got straight A's. And I forgot to add that my father is bipolar and my uncle is also bipolar. (uncle on my mom's side) Open Question: Do the ''road test examiners'' remain the same each time you take a test on the same ''road test site''?I've failed my road test 4 times .. NO RUDE COMMENTS PLEASE.. and I am a good driver , its just that i have anxiety problems and stress a LOT. I want to retake my road test at the place I took it the THIRD time.. and this is because it is the earliest test date I can receive.. the problem is that, the instructor who examined/failed me was EXTREMELY rude and gave me an attitude from the start for some reason... My question is : Do the examiners remain the same each time you go to the same ''road test site'' Yes or no?? LONG ISLAND, NY Or are there different examiners each time??? Please let me know, thanks! Open Question: Need help guy problem?So my friend lets say his name is bryan. bryan liked me alot earlier this year and we had a thing. I passed up on him because i was afraid of getting into a relationship and I didnt think i was personally good enough for him. After a few weeks i started to serriously like him again. Bryans with another girl now. But i ask him like if he still likes me and hes like no comment and when we were at a dance recently i was dancing with my date and he was looking at me still. I told him recently that i was over it and the truth is im not. I miss him every single day and its hard seeing him with this girl. We are best friends and idk if i should tell him about how i feel or not..helpp Open Question: Probability/Statistics Problem?4 couples can be seated at the same table for prom. In how many different ways can these 8 people be seated at a RECTANGULAR table (4 on each side) if: A) Any person can sit in any seat? B)Boys are to be seated on one side of the table and girls on the other side C)Each boy will sit next to his date (on the same side of the table)? Open Question: do we really need sex to be happy?I have been married before and am about to be divorced but I have since met and moved in with the love of my life. We have so much in common, never fight and he gets me more than my ex ever did. we are so good together and knew after only 3 months of dating that we were completely in love and wanted to live together. My dilemma is that we never seem to have sex - but we hug all night long in bed and I love this. He kisses me passionately and I am so in love with him. I think my problem is that I cam from a marriage where my ex would be like - want sex - and so we did and it was a weekly thing, so now to have gone 6 weeks with no sex I am finding it hard and seem to keep questioning the relationship. I feel like society puts out this image of sex is everything, but should it be the relationship itself that's everything, i mean ANYONE can have sex - but not everyone can be in love. So could you be in a relationship where 2 people love each other but never have sex? More Recent Articles |
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