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Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 6 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behavior and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jealousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerned me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: why cant my husband give up pornography?My husband and i have been together for a little under a year. while we were dating i found out that he was looking at porn. I did not freak out but i did let him know that i thought it was disrespectful and demeaning. After that he acted like it was no big deal and that if i didnt like it he would stop. We got married several months later and i got pregnant as the story goes... After a while he was staying up late at night and sleeping in til noon or later because he was so tired. After i found out he was staying up watching porn i did totally freak out. Even though i was pregnant and miserable i still wanted to have sex and it seemed like things were fine but he was staying up and doing this saying that he didnt want to wake me up! We had a huge fight the day our daughter was born and the same as all the other fights he promised that his family meant more to him than the porn did. Well my daughter is now six and a half months old and this has happened several times since then. now when we have a fight instead of dealing with the problem he just thrown me down on the ground and holds me still until i dont feel like fighting anymore. i have bruises all over on the inside and out... HELP p.s. please dont post if all you are going to say is I should let my husband watch porn. thats not helpful and i hope someday you will find a real woman! and if you are a woman I hope someday you gain some self respect. okay, this is why i asked to please not post if all you are going to say is i should let my husband watch porn. Its not going to happen, I respect your opinion but thats all it is... an opinion! it is different than mine and that is just fine but i am entitled to my own just as much as you are. for the record i do not have a problem with people who watch porn, i dont believe that it should be part of a healthy relationship and some people who replied seem to think that i am crazy and my husband should leave me. well good if thats what you think but it is not helpful, only hurtful so please keep your opinions to yourself. Open Question: I am in love with a nurse who is much older than me?I am 16 years old and last year July I went to children's hospital because I was getting recurring headaches, but it wasn't too serious so I just an appointment with a nurse practioner. She was probably the sweetest person I ever met and we even talked about unrelated stuff. This past Friday I went back for a follow up appointment and she was still as awesome. I don't know what to do here. She's probably around 30 and I'm 16. She's the sweetest human being ever. The headaches weren't a problem anymore but she said I could back even if I just wanted to talk. What do I do? Also, I realize it would be illegal to date her. More Recent Articles |
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