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Open Question: my brain is a little tweaked.? and more... Open Question: my brain is a little tweaked.?okay just for your info, this is kinda long. anyways im dating my best friend and i really love him, we've been together for like 5 months(sadly my longest relationship) anyways we are going on a trip to cali supposedly in january and we are planning to have sex. thats not really the problem. the problem is that the trip is for our team and im staying with my best friend who has a older brother who i used to be really into, we flirt like non-stop but he has a girlfriend and i a boyfriend but i dunno something about him keeps me atracted to him, he is really sexy and much more attractive then my boyfriend. anyways the other night i had a dream that on our trip to cali since me and him are staying in the same room had sex. incredible sex. but it felt super rong yet right. i kinda need help. ive been having dreams about him all the time lately and its driving me crazy. what should i do? Open Question: Did he ever love me? or was it all a lie? =(?We dated for about 5-6 months. He was my best friend before we became a couple. i told him everything, and he helped me through a lot of emotional problems. I eventually fell for him, and he said he had feelings for me for some time but feared I only saw him as a friend. The first few months of the relationship was great. He was very sweet and told me he loved me all the time. He told people how in love he was with me and that he couldn't help himself because I was so easy to fall in love with. I assumed he really cared about me. Toward the end of the relationship, it seemed like he was pushing me away. He stopped being sweet...and chose his friends over me a lot. He still told me he loved me, but his actions proved otherwise. I broke up with him a few times, but he always came crawling back, crying and saying that he made a mistake. I gave him many chances. While we were trying to work it out, he started seeing another girl ( I didnt know it back then) and pretty much left me behind for her. I was heartbroken because I thought I was always a good girlfriend to him. I helped with a lot of things and never cheated on him. I told him I loved him everyday, and made a point to show it too. Did he ever truly love me? If he did, how could he do something that cold to me? Open Question: Why do I keep breaking up with my boyfriend?My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 months now. How we got together was weird: I met him through a friend and we just started talking. We never went out on a date and we both didn't want a boyfriend/girlfriend. But after a while, we realized that an open relationship wasn't right for us and I didn't want to not have a relationship at all. So we became official. I've broken up with him about 5 times now. I've broken up with him because he was changing colleges in 2 years; because I wasn't sure I was ready for a relationship (he is the first guy I've had real feelings about); because I was scared; because he didn't show me enough attention...you get the picture. Every time we've "broken up", it's lasted about a day or less. We love each other and he keeps fixing whatever my problem is and reassuring me that he really cares for me. He's obviously a great guy; handsome, smart, funny, and he doesn't care that I want to stay abstinent from sex until I'm married. He's exactly what I've been wanting. And yet I have Terrible Girlfriend Syndrome. What's my problem? Open Question: Could the fact that I grew up in an all-women house be the reason why girls have put me in the friends zone?I didn't have a father growing up (I had a stepfather but he came into my life when I was a teenager) and I stayed with my grandmother and my mother. I am really comfortable talking to women and when I was in high school, girls use to vent to me about their problems. The problem has always been that when I want to make that friendship with a girl into a relationship, it seems like they have always just want to be friends with me. This has always been the case I guess because I am not aggressive enough with women or I don't try to kiss all on them. Part of it is because I am shy and part of it is because I respect women so much because I grew up with them. I had a girl tell me that I was too nice and that was the reason that she wouldn't date me even though we are talking as I type this again. Do I need to date older women (I'm 27) or is this something that is my curse? Open Question: Should I get back with him?? I need help!!?Ok, so I was dating this one boy. He is 21, im 19 and he is amazing. He is a very sweet, funny, loyal, caring, Gorgeous guy!! The problem is ... I broke up with him a month ago..the reason is that he is a bit needy. I always wanted a guy with the qualities he has, but he doesn't make me feel secure for some reason. He is super sensitive, which i find amazing, but I feel like I'm the one with the pants...that's not it....he lives an hour away from me, so I only saw him once a week! which sucks..and we couldn't see each other more since we both work and study. Another thing that influenced me, was my mother. She doesn't really like him because she see's he is a bit childish, Which he can be, sometimes. He also made me feel scared cuz he tells me that I'm the love of his life and stuff, he says that he cant live without me and things like that,that make me want to get away despite the fact that I do love him... I don't understand why that happens. Any ways, He has been calling me sooo much and asking me to go back with him. I don't know what to do..Can anyone give me advice and has anyone been through this? Just so u know ...I'm Mexican and he is a white boy...if it makes a difference.. Open Question: Problems 2 days before closing date?I am freaking out! closing is in 2 days and now my mortgage underwriters are asking for repairs to be made on the AS IS property that I am buying! they asked for repairs 2 weeks ago and it was done... if the closing is set for a day already can it be changed? they tell me they might have to close next week now, anyone has gone thru this? should I get a lawyer? I really really dont want to loose this house, time and money I've put in so far.... thanks in advance for any helpful information Open Question: I miss my boyfriend too much, I don't want to do anything, what can I do?I go to college in Florida but my family lives in Connecticut. I started dating a guy earlier this year and we are very close and have a great relationship. Problem is, now that I'm home for 3 weeks for Christmas break, I feel like I cant bear it. I know that sounds selfish and stupid, but we are REALLY close and I just feel sad not being with him. We call and text each other but I feel like I cant make it 3 more weeks. We were apart for 5 weeks when I went home for summer but that was when we first started dating, so it wasn't as hard. I don't want to go out anywhere, see any old friends or do anything, I just want to be back with him. What can I do to make it easier? He really is my best friend, boyfriend, etc. Open Question: I miss my boyfriend too much, what can I do?I go to college in Florida but my family lives in Connecticut. I started dating a guy earlier this year and we are very close and have a great relationship. Problem is, now that I'm home for 3 weeks for Christmas break, I feel like I cant bear it. I know that sounds selfish and stupid, but we are REALLY close and I just feel sad not being with him. We call and text each other but I feel like I cant make it 3 more weeks. We were apart for 5 weeks when I went home for summer but that was when we first started dating, so it wasn't as hard. I don't want to go out anywhere, see any old friends or do anything, I just want to be back with him. What can I do to make it easier? He really is my best friend, boyfriend, etc. Open Question: Women say nice guys should change?so your saying a we should stop doing what a real man does and start acting like the fools you love,That is the biggest bunch of bull ever.If you want to stupidly go after the so called bad boy then fine but don't act like being a good man is wrong,Then you say crap like well if you are really nice then you would accept that the girl made a mistake,No you run after the so called bad boy over and over knowing full well what the outcome will be,that's not a mistake that's stupidity.I get so sick of people underestimating the nice guy,people always come on here with that nice guys are weak bs,If you think we are so weak tell you so called bad boy to try us!!!funny how idiots love to talk **** about nice guys over a keyboard knowing they would never do it to a nice guys face.soon bad boy lovin women will find that out the hard way,like I said before you have no idea what's about to happen,good men are sick of all this bs they put us thru.Stop telling good men that they need to change because they are not the one's with the problem, you are.you are the one's that make the stupid bad boy choice.there is no such thing as too nice,any woman that says the a man is too nice is just making an excuse to run after the so called bad boy and don't give me that bs about nice guys not talking to you and asking you out because you know it's bs..It's amazing how the media is making billions off this new aged dating world. Open Question: GUYS (and GIRLS), is it wrong of me to want to spend more time with my busy boyfriend?My boyfriend is an overachiever - student council president, straight A student, star of the track team, popular, lots of community service, etc etc etc. We're both seniors in high school. I'm not as busy as him, but still very busy. He's a super organised and focused person, whereas I'm the sort who'll put the people I love in front of everything else, no questions asked. I'll spend the whole night on the phone to comfort someone or a whole day before an exam planning a party if I have to - I'll make sacrifices and deal with the other stuff later (and I do). I guess this is why it's hard for me sometimes to deal with my boyfriend being so busy that we barely get to spend quality time together and go out on proper dates. It especially hurts when I find out he's been out with other friends - not that I don't want him to have fun with his friends, but if he can spend time with them, why not me? I feel like I'm being taken for granted because I'm so understanding, but I don't know if I'm just being selfish. I know he loves me and all and when we do meet up or talk on the phone, we both have a super great time. But I hate feeling needy because although I know he cares, it just seems like I care more than him. I hate being the one asking if we can spend time together. When I do, he has no problems declining to spend time on his schoolwork or something, whereas he found it totally surprising that I once declined a date to do work. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? And I want to talk to my boyfriend about it, but how do I go about doing it without being accusatory and seeming too needy? Open Question: I need help and have guy problems....?ok so i like this guy but hes dating this girl but they don't even act like they r dating and i dnt wanna b a who're and come in and say i want him go away but he doesn't even like her but he wont break up with her bcuz her friends are going to yell at him and im almost positive that he likes me bcuz we talk all the time but idk... wat do i do???? Open Question: She said she just wanted to be friends? need help plz?Well ive known this girl for about 2 years............we are both in college we dated for 2 1/2 months she said I could call her my gf, .........we where cuddling in a bed at a friends house and the words I love you slipped out of my mouth, and she said it back........later that day she texted me back saying that she doesn't really know me and she cant say that she really loves me....I was like I understand, if it makes you that uncomfortable I wont say it till you are ready, and that im sorry that I pressured you into saying it if I did. She said that she still liked me and still wanted to keep seeing me.....she started acting really weird...not being flirty anymore and kinda ignoring me. She texted me about a week later saying that she just wanted to be friends and that she could only see us having a friendship..........I was like why.........where did this come from?, ruined my day, ignored her for the rest of the day, called her later and said that ya we should just be friends....and that i didn't mean to hurt you if I did, But the problem is I really do love her and I could never just be her friend, is there ever a change that I could be with her again? if so like how should I go about it? never been in this situation before im 19 Open Question: is my relationship with my sister worth saving?understand you guys don't know our backround so let me fill you in on a bit. throughout highschool i have been verbally abused by my older sister. she'd tell me things so horrible that i swear i've heard every little insult from her. stuff like, " you're so ugly, i wish you weren't my sister, go fucking die, if you died tomorrow i'd be so happy, from now on you're not my sister, i hate you, i hope you die, everybody in hte family can't stand you, " and even more. through out highschool i'd cry myself to sleep literally 4-5 nights a weeks. my parents knew but they never did anything about it. finally my senior year i was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder. i was having panic attacks literally everyday. i was so self conscious due to what my sister used to tell me. i'd always think i was ugly and not worth anybody's time and attention. but the thing is i don't think i'm ugly. i'm actually decent looking and i get hit on alot. but when i feel pretty or happy i always think about what my sister said and think i don't deserve to be happy or pretty. i've turned down every single date i've been asked. i'm in my second year of college adn teh problems are persisting. when i had my anxiety disorder my sister claimed it was for attention. earlier this year i tried to commit suicide. i ended up hurting my mum in the process. mentally i am exhausted, broken down adn dead i cannot take another day. but she is my sister and i love her regardless. but i have just been through too much with her..i don't know if our relationship is worth saving. she's never uttered the word sorry to me, ever. everyday she walks by me she'll give me a death glare or say i hate you..but i still love her, should i be the better person and forgive her, or is this too much? Open Question: Verizon Wireless - Replacing a broken phone?I have to go soon, so like, let me just give you a few (a few?) facts (: -Env2 will not charge (it's not the charger or the battery) -Warranty is over -I've had the phone for more than a year -I'm up to date with my bills -I'm not eligible for an upgrade until April 2010 (I'm on a 2 year contract) -I'm on a FamilyPlan with 3 other people -The last thing I want to do is buy a phone from eBay - I've had problems with buying phones from eBay before (& I don't think my parents are going to let me(:) -I don't want to spend a bazillion thousand dollars -I want a decent phone (maybe the env2 again?(:) My question is: is there any way I can get a new cell phone for a discounted price from Verizon Wireless, by like, extending my contract? Or something? Paha, thanks(: and I'm almost positive I'm not paying for insurance, but somebody told me I could be but I don't know about it? I'm confused. But yeah, thanks:) Open Question: I need a fling for the holidays SOS!!!!!!?I haven't dated after my breakup. I Feel ready now HERE'S THE PROBLEM: Even though there's always herds of guys at the club, college and when Im out with friends, all they do is check me out, They don't approach me. WHY is that? What can i do to fix this? Open Question: Where should I start? Mortgage partner disappeared, I'm pregnant and cant afford anything.?Well, 2 months ago my ex partner (from 3 years ago) did a runner while I was at work. I was none the wiser until the next day when a friend text me and said she had heard through work that he had left. At this point I burst into his room only to find everything was gone, clothes, TV, his precious X box...everything!! (The one and only reason we still had the house together was that neither one of us could afford anywhere else to live nor to buy the other out.) For months beforehand I had scrapped by to pay bills worth more than my half as he didn't give me the correct amount of money for his share, and I'm proud to say I managed to keep everything up to date. Though each month it came out of my pocket, resulting in him being nearly 1,000 in debt to me. I have a new partner who I love dearly and we have been together for 2 years now and we are expecting our 1st baby April 2010. To add to our problem of the ex doing a runner, my partner has been made redundant and now we are relying solely on my wage of about 12,500 a year to pay all the bills and survive on. There is no way what so ever I can find out where the ex did a runner to, straight away I went to the mortgage company for advice and they said "if you cant find him, how can we find him? Due to the data protection act we can only go by whats on our computer screens"....PATHETIC!! I also went to the citizens advice and spoke to a very old but sweet man that couldn't even work the computer that told me nothing I didn't know already. I left crying on both occasions. I have now not been able to afford to pay the mortgage, my only option I can see is bankruptcy though its no fault of my own. The problem being with this is where will I live? Do I do it now, or when the baby is born? Will the council help me? I feel bad, I have always worked and I don't know where to start with asking for help. I have no family within a 2hours drive and love my job so intend to return after my maternity leave. I just don't know where I stand, or where to start.....can anyone please help?? I live in the UK and the house is in negative equity as we were silly and bought it just before the recession hit!! :-( More Recent Articles
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