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Open Question: my computer shutdown on its own ?? :S? and more... Open Question: my computer shutdown on its own ?? :S?my desktop computer shut down when i am playing some games :( .......and after a10sec when it shutdown it open again . my computer is : Intel core i7 2.66 Sapphire ATI 4870X2 800watt power supply 4GB RAM windows 7 ultimate 32 bits sumo case 500GB hard disk and of these software are up to date ! so what is the problem ? could it be the BIOS or a virus or what ? Open Question: My boyfriend thinks he is not good enough for me?First let's just clear things up, he is NOT trying to break up with me. He really likes me and that is obvious. I think the problem derives from me dating boys from Penn State and Drexel university and he's been out of school for a year now with a low end job. But he's been applying to a lot of places and applying at some smaller colleges, nothing to flashy, but I like him anyway. Also, he's just kind of average looking. I don't care about that though at all. I like him for other reasons. He always says stuff like "What do I have that those great college boys don't have?" Or "I really don't feel like I'm good enough for you." It's really really annoying, and he always mopes about it no matter what I say. What can I do or say to make him feel better. Or is there a reason he's saying this to get attention or something? I don't know, I'm really frustrated. Comments or suggestions? Thanks! P.S. Please do not say he is trying to breakup with me, I assure you that this is not the case. Open Question: How long will it take to get over him? What is going on with him?So, our situation is a little weird i guess you could say. We were together for a year, and while we were together we were so happy with each other. We had our problems, i hated everything about him before we started dating. He would always brag about cheating on girls, and the awesome party he went to the night before. i just hated listenin to what he said. Well, against my better judgement, i started gettin really close to him, and i ended up falling hard for him. He promised me everything and that he would change and he loved me more than anything. He made me feel better than anyone ever had. My parents hated him, he played the guitar, he was disrespectful, he broke the windsheild of my car (long story, it wasnt on purpose) he didnt really want anything for his life other than music. And it seemed like he just wanted me to be his groupie. He always flirted with other girls, and i saw it. And i was afraid that he was going to cheat on me , because thats what he did with every other girl he was with. So when i would see him flirting, or find a note from a girl, i would get really upset and we would fight about it. Sometimes it seemed like he was a little emotionally abusive, screaming at me the way he did, or saying the things he did, or by ignoring me. But me, being as head over heels as i was would always apologize, and try to make it up to him. A long time ago, we promised each other that we would never get a facebook or a myspace because everyone we needed to talk to was already here. I went to a vacation with my family, my family that now lives in texas, and they would always talk about facebook, and it was the only way to be able to talk to them because of the long distance. so when i got home, i made one and i didnt tell him about it. i had only had it for a day when he found out that i got one, but i didnt tell him, i was going to, but i guess i didnt see it as a big deal since i just got it to communicate with my family. He called me, and said i lied to him so we were going to go on a break, for two weeks and i couldnt call him, or talk to him or anything, I was devestated, i couldnt do anything without crying. it hurt so bad i could feel it in my cheast. I loved him more than anything. I deleted my facebook , and apologized like crazy about it. The sunday before the day we were supposed to get back together (thursday) we went to carowinds together. And at first he was so angry with me, when i was as nice as i could be. he wanted nothing to do with me, not until closer to the end, he started warming up to me, and loving on me and being happy, and i thought everything was going to be ok from that point on. The day before we got back together he called and said that he was glad we were back together and to still not to call him cuz he wanted to do it. But i called him on the actual day we were supposed to be together and i freaked out, then his dad answered and i asked him not to tell him i called, but he did. and then he called me back saying i lied to him again and that we couldnt be together ever again and he hated me and he was never happy with me. I loved him so much and i still do. It was over six months ago. It still hurts so bad. i did everything i could for him. he wont talk to me, or look at me and its like a stab in the heart everytime i see him. His mom still calls me and tells me she misses me and that i always deserved better than him. He went back to his old self, with the drinking, drugs and trying to hook up with girls. i must be crazy but i cant get him out of my head. Pleas tell me how long this is going to take and why the hell he wont even look at me or talk to me. I know this is long, but i just wanted to give you the facts i guess thank you =] Open Question: how can i stop hating my future sister in law!!?right heres my problem.... seems pritty petty but its really getting me down!! my future sister in law always seems to compete with me. she always boasting about what she has like shes trying to do one better the me and my partner. every time we do something she as to do something else so all the attention is on her. we are getting married next august and just around the time we told her that we had set a date i told my partner i bet she has to go and get pregnant so that all the attention is on her, and what do you know she has gone and one it!! not only that she has addmitted that it was planned and she will be 8months pregnant at our wedding!! im so angry with her and that she will look like a fat whale at our wedding. i couldnt stand her to begin with but this has really annoyed me!! someone please give me some advice!! every time i tell somone this i feel really stupid! it is on my mind how much i cant stand her all the time and has caused huge rows with the h2b. please help me i dont want to feel this way all the time but i cant stop!! Open Question: i need some first date ideas for the love of my life!!!?Okay me and this guy that i really really ReAlLy like wana go out on a date but the problem is that it has to be somewhere or something where we wont be seen. Don't ask why but if we got caught things wouldnt be good (no its not like either of us are cheating on someone or anything like that). if anyone could give me some good ideas PLEASSEE be a life saver and possibly a perfect relationship helper (: <3 Open Question: I NEED FIRST DATE IDEAS?Okay me and this guy that i really really ReAlLy like wana go out on a date but the problem is that it has to be somewhere or something where we wont be seen. Don't ask why but if we got caught things wouldnt be good (no its not like either of us are cheating on someone or anything like that). if anyone could give me some good ideas PLEASSEE be a life saver and possibly a perfect relationship helper (: <3 Open Question: Im in love with my best friend what should i do?me and this guy have been friends for 7 years. hes always been my best friend. he is the one i run to for everything, he knows absolutely everything about me. for the past three years ive been brushing off this feeling ive been having for him. ive realized that im in love with him. ive tried to deny it, to forget it, and to fall out of love with him. nothing works. honestly id rather stay in love with him. this past thanksgiving he kissed me for the first time. he likes me too and has known all along that ive liked him. the only problem is he has decided not to date anymore. now i don't know what to do. i am so in love with him he makes me so completely happy. ive never been this happy before. even though i know this wont go anywhere i am still completely in love with him. i want to tell him all this but i don't know if i should. he told me that our relationship would never go backwards but it also wont go forwards because of the fact that he doesn't date. so now i don't know what to do. Open Question: Should I tell him that I miss him? I seriously need help?To make a long story short I got to know this guy this semester because we had a class together and would walk home (he parked in my apartment complex). We both eventually found out we had crushes on each other and started dating. He was so different from guys I normally liked, because he didn't drink and made me feel like I could really open up (I've always been quite guarded). The only problem was that he told me he thought he would ruin it with me because he always did, but I just figured he was being paranoid, and since we both had the same fears (the opposite sex screwing us over) Things were going great then one week randomly he was acting so moody and distant, and after a extremely long week of me trying to figure things out I confronted him. He cowardly told me that he thought there wasn't any connection with me and they he predicted this happening. I was so angry and we argued about what was happening because to me it seemed out of the blue. Well now, a month later, we have just gone on with our lives being friends in the class but I can't just get over him. I really do miss him, even though there are many flaws I see in him but it was sorta like I lost my best friend.The thing that makes it worse is that he has been flirting with me in my class and that just makes me so confused. I may be just hung up on him because I don't have anyone else to think about and all my friends have bfs but I dunno. After all that Im just wondering, should I tell him how I feel? I mean I understand the fact that if a guy likes your he pursues you but he sends me such mixed feelings. What should I do? Open Question: Why do some of the black community think or assume that black men who only date white women?hate their own women? Could it be that some (not all) are truly attracted to white women and not black women although they don't have any problems with black women personally? There are some white guys that only date Asian women but you don't hear white women complaining about this. Why do some black people have to defend themselves all the time when they aren't being personally attacked? For the longest time, some black women felt the need to prove they are just as good as any other race of women. Why do you need to do this in the first place? At the same time, they brag (not all) about how black is better. How can you truly feel this way when every time you see a black man with a white woman, you feel the need to complain and feel bitter about the situation. If you truly felt that black women were indeed beautiful just as any other race of women, then you would let it speak for itself, and won't have to shout that black is beautiful all the time. I just feel if black people have all this confidence, you wouldn't have to get upset over a few black men who want to date white women. Everyone is free to date whoever they want. There are black women that only date white men. There are white men who only date black women. There are white women who only date black men. There are men who prefer blondes. There are men who prefer big boodie women. I am a black woman and I don't care if I see a hundred black men with hundreds of white women. If that is who they prefer, then it won't change the fact how I feel about myself as a black woman. Heck, my sister at one point only was attracted to men outside the black race. My sister didn't have a problem with black men, she just wasn't that attracted to them. But of course she has black male friends. My mom, on the other hand, would always turn down dates with white men (who looked damn good). White men weren't her preference although she finds some attractive. I have black male friends who aren't attracted to white women, and I have some who are. I'm just upset because the black community is making a big fuss over Tiger Woods and his choice of white females. Why does he have to date black women? It doesn't mean he hates them or doesn't find them attractive. Why assume he thinks white women are better. They said the same thing about OJ Simpson. I just don't want anyone to assume just because I am a black woman that I have a problem with black men dating outside their race. To me it just shows a lack of self-esteem. This doesn't pertain to all black women or men. I am just fed up with this being an issue only with some black people. Black people acting stupid as usual. You never want to be told when you are wrong. Open Question: so me and my friend like the same guy but the problem is...?she has dated him before and now she is dating his best friend....she told me she would be upset if i go out with him but now she keeps saying "go" and i don't know weather that means she doesn't like him anymore or weather she just doesn't want me to get upset cuz i cant date him.......i know she likes him because she is always talking bout him and i try not to bring it up cuz i don't want to hurt her feelings ........ i think he likes me back but im more worried about my friendship with her and i don't know wat to do... if anyone has any ideas pls help (this is a continuation to me and my friend like the same guy) Open Question: He doesn't like me cause im not that experienced. I wanna get more experience but i don't wanna be a hoe.?He always is wanting to sleep by me and do things together( like sexual). Im not sure if he likes me, like wants to date. I havent told him i liked him but i think its obvious. But then he tells my friends that im not that experienced but im not bad. So it seems like he doesnt like me. And i have been with a couple people but i wanna get more experienced. The only problem is that i dont want to be known as a hoe. What should i do? Open Question: What is she trying to show me if anything?This girl I like, N, seems to like me when I talk to her. I'll text her once in awhile and she'll answer back and keep the conversation going with questions and telling stories and using a good bit of ":)" in her conversations. The only problem is that she usually ends the conversation with her having to go to sleep, which is understandable, but sometimes she just says she has to go. I know its not much info to base an assumption of if she's interested or not, but when I am talking to her in person she seems pretty interested and laughs at most if not all of my jokes. I also asked her to lunch one day and she said "Yeah but I'll have to convince my parents if you know what I mean." Well that sounds to me like she said yes, but unfortunately her parents said no. Any idea? I need help on what I should do to figure out whether she's interested. I don't have any classes with her but I'll see her in the halls most days. So please lend me some advice and suggestions, I just want to get to the point where I can ask her on a real date without having too much doubt of a bad answer. More Recent Articles |
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