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Open Question: My ex is with someone and I want to wait...? and more... Open Question: My ex is with someone and I want to wait...?My boyfriend and I have been together since jan 2006 we had broken up a few times in between... Without going into detail I was probably dealing with some sexual issues dealing with attraction and we argued about stupid shit ... he started dating this person in June of this year ... It was fine in the beginning because again I felt like I could be intimate with whomever with no strings attached..... Deep down I wanted my ex back but I think it also relieved my stress being without him maybe because if I was sleeping around than I'd know for sure he wouldn't want me back... Anyway in September he ended things... I told him over msn how I felt but that I wanted to get my sexual issues sorted out (to find out why I have this compulsive sexual problem) .... he said no guarantees but to ge thru it than see where we were... But a day after my session I flew out to Vancouver to see my sister and part way into the trip he and that guy got back together..... I wanna keep waiting though even though it's killing me, I hope I can get him back in du time.... Any success stories ??? Open Question: What not to talk about to a guy?So this guy and I have been dating. I would really like to take the next step and start a relationship. However, I don't know if he likes me that way or not. We've kissed, hung-out, cuddled, and he always seems to stare. He says he can't help it. One problem is we live about 45 minutes away from each other. When I text him, he never texts back. When I call, he doesn't usually answer. Online, he never really seems to be in the conversation. I feel like I'm missing something or misreading him. But when we're together in person, we always have a great time. Is it possible I could have driven him away by telling him I was a virgin, by talking about my family, or past experiences with guys? He said he didn't have a problem talking about this kinda stuff. Confused! Please help... Do you think it would be a bad idea to ask him about starting a relationship? Open Question: Help? Document retrieval question?I am currently in the process of looking for a new job but I have a problem in that my CV is stored on a 3 1/2 floppy disc! I have given the disc to someone who still has a floppy disc drive and he can't open it. Is there any other way I can retrieve the document as I can't find a photocopy of my CV. I was going to rewrite the CV, but I can't remember all the dates of my previous jobs, so I'm starting to panic a little. If I can get the CV off the floppy disc I will store it on CD! The last time I used the floppy was in 2006 and it hasn't been used since. Open Question: I'm having trouble getting over my past. How do I move on?I was picked on a lot. Didn't date until after HS. I was what you would call a loser. However, none of these things are true anymore. I'm very successful and have had a very fulfilling life since then. The problem is that I have this nagging feeling of wanting to prove to those exact people from school that I'm successful. I probably shouldn't care what they think or remember. Sometimes the nervousness in new social situations comes back, as if I think these new people would treat me like classmates did. How do I move on and not feel like I have to get the approval of my classmates or prove something to them these 20 years later? Thanks, TC Open Question: lately its getting harder to be married?I have been married a little over 3 years. I do not want to get a divorce. But sometimes I feel like it is the only way I can be happy. To be ALONE. I love my husband, but sometimes I dread when he comes home. I am unhappy about 75% of the time, im usually the happiest when Im alone at home...watching tv or something. Im 22 and he is 40. I have no friends anymore..b4 we got married I had friends out the wazoo. Somehow he ran them off one by one... He would always find something wrong with them, and make it a point to be hateful and disrespectful to them, and no one wants to deal with that, so I can understand that they dont want to come around. I dont work...I worked the first part of our marriage and he didnt..I saved enough money, while I was working, to get his license for the work he does now. So he works now. I have currently enrolled in college, and am starting in January..I am trying to better myself. He has already had the college years behind him. But for now I dont go anywhere or do anything...except go to the grocery store. I know if I ever did divorce him I would NEVER remarry or date again. I know that seems unreal but its how I feel. He was married b4 for 10 years, and after I married him we found out that his exwife had given him an std.( she cheated, was the reason for their divorce) HPV so now I have it also. ( he is the only person I have ever had sex with)That is how I know I will never remarry or date again. I couldnt stand knowing that someone else had to live with this because of me. We do not have any kids, and we cant ...he is sterile. I really do love him and would miss him terribly if we did divorce...but I just think that somehow it is possible over. We fight a great deal of the time. We dont like the same movies or music. The only think we really have going is the sex is great together....but that alone cannot hold a relationship together. I understand how important it is to try and try to work things out in a marriage. Divorce is the easy way out. Im very unhappy...but he is the best person I know. I also would feel bad for him if we got divorced because the house that we live in is mine...it was sort of an inheritance. And it is in the town where my family lives so he wouldnt want it anyways. And the only car we have is in my name, and I payed for it. So that would basically have him living with his parent or a friend for a while. He has a good job, and money wouldnt be a problem for him. I wouldnt ask for any alimony or anything, not sure if i could get it anyway. I know he wouldnt have a problem finding someone else. He is very hansome, smart, and very funny, and just an all around good person. His only flaw would be that he doesnt handle money very well. Well there are many flaws I see because we are not very compatible anymore? What are your views? Thanks. Open Question: So confused. Does he like me or this other girl?Okay so this kid is driving me crazy lol. He's a good friend of mine, and I'm falling very quickly for him. We are so alike and get along so well it's pretty crazy. So many people have told me "you guys would be perfect for each other!" and I began to believe that. And I feel like he sees it to, but I also feel like he doesn't. The big problem is this other girl. She's a friend of mine. And he talks about her a lot (but not to me, to our other friend). When we came back from break he didnt't talk about her any, until yesterday, when I knew for a fact that she likes him. And I kind of think he does too, considering he has a picture of the two of them on his phone. And I had one of those "you think he's smiling and walking to say hi to you only to walk right pass and give the other girl a hug" moments lol. But see the thing is we have this strong mind connection, and he knows we do. He'll text me and we'll talked until really early in the morning. He'll always tease and mess around with me, and we're planning on hanging out tomorrow, getting our pictures taken with santa and baking cookies. We have so much fun together. he was even sad I didn't formally introduce him to my parents lol. So I don't know, I'm so confused right now. Right now it kind of seems like it's between the mental connection we have, and the physical attraction they have (because they're both gorgeous lol). I have no dating experience at all, help! Open Question: What Kind of Relationship is This?When I started dating my fiance over three years ago, I met all his friends. There was one friend in particular, let's say "Bob," that I got really close to. Like super close. Everytime I had a problem in my relationship, I would go to Bob and talk to him. He would either agree with me and back me up or tell me I was being stupid and I should just shut up...it was great to have someone like that since my fiance is my first relationship (and no we are not getting married anytime soon...just engaged). Bob even told me once that he was more of a father to me than my own father because he had seen more stuff than my own father had (which I thought was a pretty accurate statement). Bob also told me he would never date another girl unless I hung out with her first to see if she was okay. Needless to say, Bob went out, dated a girl for 3 months and got engaged. At the beginning of this year, my fiance and I were going through a few rough months (all better though!) and all of my fiance's friends randomly told him to not come over any more unless I wasn't there (we were both shocked since they had never said anything but wonderful things about me before). I pretty much knew Bob's fiancee was saying nasty things about me that people were starting to believe. I didn't really care all that much (my fiance has found out who his true friends are), but I have this weird feeling about Bob. I feel kind of heartbroken in a way. I'm not romantically in love with Bob, but I do love him. I know he had similar brother-sister feelings about me. We were really close. He even asks my fiance about me whenever they hang out (like how I'm doing, how is school), while my fiance doesn't ask about Bob's now wife because nobody likes her. I have a feeling that Bob is just pretending to hate me. Does this even make sense? I feel like I lost a best friend with a brother-sister bond as well. I feel like if I tell Bob I miss him he knows he misses me too...but I don't know if he would acknowledge that since he is pretending so hard. Even Bob's best friend hangs out with me and my fiance now because he is sick of Bob and his wife's bull. I'm soooo confused and it's really bothering me. I don't know who to talk to about it. I really wish I could talk to Bob but I don't know if he will respond back. Any advice is welcome. I'm lost Open Question: How can i get this girl to like me back?Ok here is my exact situation: She is my best friends sister but he doesn't mind. Just so you know we have never gone out. So back in may of 09 I went on vacation with them and this guy leaned out of his car window and honked his horn at her and i got really mad and then a week later i realized i loved her since that i never reacted like that about anything not even people disrespecting girls i had gone out with. So in October I vacationed with them again and I knew i should have tried to do something to get her to like me but their parents were there the whole time so it would been awkward and etc. So now Christmas is coming up and i was planning on maybe getting her a gift but I recently discovered that she is dating someone. I can't really give her a gift while she is dating another guy unless i want to cause problems and we have known each other for a long time and I don't think she likes me. How can I get her to like me? Any advice? Open Question: How am I suppose to get past this?I have Aspergers Syndrome( a certain form of mild autism). I am in 8th grade and am 13 and will be 14 on January 2nd. A lot of the time I have anxiety over schoolwork and me making friends, etc. I started taking pills, though. Those pills have SOMEWHAT helped my anxiety. It seems like ever since I turned 13 me and my family members have been getting into on and off fights about serious subjects. Those usually have to do with me wanting to act like my brother and sister, though. My sister is 16 and in 11th grade and my brother is 18 and about to start college. For my sister, she dates and the problem is that the people in my school date and I don't know if I want to start dating to. I also don't know whether or not I want to have sex yet, just to try it out. My aunt says that it's immature of me to want to have sex at this age and that I should wait until a few years after college when I'm actually in love. My mom tells me to masturbate in the shower, but it doesn't seem to work and it's not the same. I haven't even kissed for the first time yet. As for my brother, it's just as serious. He thinks that I should already know what I want to do with the rest of my life. He also thinks that I rely to much on others. I also think that it seems like he's a young man and I'm just a boy. I also have problems with my understanding of the world in general. I am a Christian. I go to this thing called C-groups that my church has. But still, the things of the world that I don't understand is that their is so much gratutious sex, rape, slavery, starvation, etc. Sometimes I think that if I was God I would make the world end because the world doesn't deserve to exist if the world would let itself come to this. Another subject is with my parents. I don't know whether or not they still have sex and I think that I have a RIGHT to know whether or not they have sex. Also, I'm worried that my mom could lose her job. The second to last subject is maturity. I have no idea what that word really means because everyone else has a different opinion. I think that making sex jokes and drug jokes are immature, so I don't make jokes about them. But people keep saying to me, including the counselors I go to, that it's immature that I "obsess and stress out" about sex. The last subject is my self worth. I'm pretty good at playing my violin and I get mostly A's and maybe a B here and there in school. I just don't know what to do with my life. And I have no idea whether or not I am growing up too fast. How am I suppose to get and see past all of this? I know that this question might have a lot of rambling in it, but I couldn't find a way to organize it anymore. I have no priest because I go to a normal Christian church and I live in California. Also, I do have attractions to people. There are a couple people at the school I go to that have a crush on me, and I'm flattered by that. I just am not sure if I want to date them. Open Question: i don't want to be in this relationship!?okay so i started talking to this boy 3 days ago,he has become completely obsessed already!calling me by his last name,wanting me to come over his house,saying he think he loves me,i have been the girl he has wanted forever,and much more and were not even dating yet!he also said he doesn't want to get hurt because he's benn hurt so many times,! the problem is he makes me feel uncomfortable and he don't have anything in common,how do i tell him we need to just be friends without hurting his feelings Open Question: Can someone write me a song? or help me find a song that's like this? thanks (:?In 7th grade a boy came. he was in my la class and i liked him like all year. And near the end of the year he said he was leaving i went into a deep depression. Well like over the summer i kept having these dreams that he would come back and i had those dreams all summer and all of 8th grade. And like i would wake up crying in the middle of the night. Then i saw him on the first day of School and he came up to me in the hallway and hugged me and like we hugged for a minute and i was so happy i cried. Then i saw that he was in my biology class and I was even happier And so like we sit together now and he tells me all of his problems. Anyway, now im starting to have these dreams where like he says he likes me but is still dating the girl he is dating and then he moves away again.. I still wake up crying in the middle of the night thinking im going to lose him but forever this time. I love him. I really do. Anyway.. is there a song that is kinda like this? Where a girl likes a guy for such a long time and he doesn't realize it. Or maybe someone could write me a song? Thank you so much <3 More Recent Articles
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