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Open Question: My Friend need to diss this kid badly? and more... Open Question: My Friend need to diss this kid badly?Ok my friend has a problem with this kid And the kid thinks hes the **** and all strong and say hes like a wanna be gangster but hes white he like dose not dress like a gangster. He says he masturbates and he dates a girl that every says is a Slut(not) and he cant say anything just calls him gay and stupid. and talks to someone and say hey dude hes gay or he masturbates . He has Carpal tunnel and He says he masturbated to hard. He asked me for help and said ill see Open Question: Why do i feel this way? How can i stop it?? ( please answer)?So me and this guy are basically together. He told me that he was going to ask me out tomorrow, and that we are going to be official. We have had a problem before in the past, he liked me and this other girl at the same time. I messed up, he dated her, they broke up and now he is back to me He's proven to me that hes truely sorry and he tells me every day he made a mistake dating her. I belive him. And i really really like him so obviously i'm going to say yes, but I feel like if we officially become boyfriend girlfriend, a problem is going to come up really soon. Why do i feel like this? I feel like everything is great now, but once we date something wrong is going to happen thats going to hurt us Open Question: Building Back Lost Trust?I posted this in the Singles and Dating section, but I never got any answers. So wonderful people of the Teen Section, here's my question ;] This guy and I have been kind of all over the place for the past several months. We've been "together" since June and he was a friend long before that, but we had been up and down constantly between September and November. We had some trust problems, and in the end it ended with me getting extremely hurt. I really care about him and wanted him to be happy without a doubt, but some of the events that happened (and I won't go into details) have scarred me. Recently, we've worked out the kinks, trying to get our relationship back on track. Usually, I should be really happy that we've got our trust and friendship back.. but I'm a pessimist, and I'm constantly thinking that something's going to happen again.. like it will be a re-enactment of what happened before, and once again I'm going to be left face down on the floor. I feel like I can trust him, but I've still got that unsettled feeling as if taking him back was a bad idea, and I'm scared it's all going to backfire in my face. I'm definatley happy and appreaciative to have him. Does anybody have any idea on how I can learn to fully trust him again, and let go of the past? I want to be able to trust him, because that's a key point in a relationship. But I'm almost scared to trust him. Sorry for not being too clear, the story's a tough one, and way too long for Y!A Thanks in advance :] Open Question: im really devastated and at rock bottom my heart is so broken...really long ? can i please ave your advice?i met this guy when i was 19 and fell in love he was 19 as well. i was very good to him always supported him despite the fact that he was passive agressive and not affectionate at all. he was crushed because this snobby rich girl he was madly in love with led him on and rejected his attempts at dating. its like he took it out on me and i was his doormat and his distraction from her. its as if i got punished for the fact that she broke his heart because he didnt have it in him to get mad at her since he puts her on a pedastal. he blew me off on my birthday telling me that he couldnt get a pass to leave the military academy. the truth was the girl who rejected him was on a school trip in nyc where the military academy is and he snuck out of school without a pass to take her out to eat at a chef ramsey restaurant, bring her ice skating and give her a single red rose. i know this because he posted the pictures on facebook!! and he wrote under her comment kendall id blow post and risk getting kicked out of school in a heartbeat to see you smile and take you out...of course she rejected him after and just used him for the dinner so he came back to me playing the suicide card.........he ended up getting me pregnant when we were 21 he turned of his phone and had his grandma send me a check for an abortion. as he was actively having sex with some blonde sorority girl and making her homemade cards....he was so devastated when she broke up with him that he called me and again pulled the suicide card and sent a picture mail and all that he claimed he was devastated that we lost a child i had only had the abortion 4 month before he called so i was very weak and vulnerable at the time.....he convinced me with a lot of work that i should come to NC where he was living from boston where i live to talk about the abortion and vent my feelings...he called me on the plane and i told him id booked myself a hotel with 2 beds and he could stay in the other and he said no thats stupid and that he wasnt going to pick me up at the airport....i spent the weekend in a hotel room alone with no food since id used 720 for the flight and hotel he was supposed to bring food or provide food....turns out the reason he blew me off is because he wanted me to stay in his dorm reason being is so he could have sex with me and flaunt me in front of the blond sorority girls face who lived in the same dorm building....i was just his pawn...his grandma ended up driving to the hotel i was at and i cried for hours about the abortion she called him and he said grandma you should have left that bitch with no food... id done everything for this person and then some. i supported him through thick and thin. finally this summer we started getting along like when we had first met and falling in love again it was like hed done a 180. iand then in september i got an email from a 30 yr old woman hed met from california who was emailing me from his email address ...she forwarded me emails that hed sent her promising her marriage and children...pictures and a record of all the yahoo messenger chats they'd had about starting a family....i confronted him and he said whatever i do dont respond to her....less than a week later i was getting emails and calls at my house phone from craigslist sex people because she had posted an AD with my information on the erotic section of craigslist...as payback for having been on his email account list...i confronted him and told him to tell her to take the posts down since i didnt know where the post originated...he said it wasnt his problem so i called the police...they told him to knock it off...we are almost 23 now and this was in september of 09......he hasnt said a word to me since....not an apology for all the hell he's put me through.....nothing.......ive emailed him 3x because im an absolute wreck over this its like my life turned upside down....and he ignores me as if im the bad guy and hes the victim...when in reality he should be happy that im a decent person who tries to make peace even after hes abused me because i am really torn up....he just completely blows off an attempt at contacting him after 3 years of all this he cant even write me an email and say sorry........i dont understand why im the one getting ignored and avoided as if i did something wrong and hes the one hiding out from me and blowing me off it should be the other way around and it makes my blood boil i am so angry Open Question: absolutely devastated and heartbroken can i please have you advice?i met this guy when i was 19 and fell in love he was 19 as well. i was very good to him always supported him despite the fact that he was passive agressive and not affectionate at all. he was crushed because this snobby rich girl he was madly in love with led him on and rejected his attempts at dating. its like he took it out on me and i was his doormat and his distraction from her. its as if i got punished for the fact that she broke his heart because he didnt have it in him to get mad at her since he puts her on a pedastal. he blew me off on my birthday telling me that he couldnt get a pass to leave the military academy. the truth was the girl who rejected him was on a school trip in nyc where the military academy is and he snuck out of school without a pass to take her out to eat at a chef ramsey restaurant, bring her ice skating and give her a single red rose. i know this because he posted the pictures on facebook!! and he wrote under her comment kendall id blow post and risk getting kicked out of school in a heartbeat to see you smile and take you out...of course she rejected him after and just used him for the dinner so he came back to me playing the suicide card.........he ended up getting me pregnant when we were 21 he turned of his phone and had his grandma send me a check for an abortion. as he was actively having sex with some blonde sorority girl and making her homemade cards....he was so devastated when she broke up with him that he called me and again pulled the suicide card and sent a picture mail and all that he claimed he was devastated that we lost a child i had only had the abortion 4 month before he called so i was very weak and vulnerable at the time.....he convinced me with a lot of work that i should come to NC where he was living from boston where i live to talk about the abortion and vent my feelings...he called me on the plane and i told him id booked myself a hotel with 2 beds and he could stay in the other and he said no thats stupid and that he wasnt going to pick me up at the airport....i spent the weekend in a hotel room alone with no food since id used 720 for the flight and hotel he was supposed to bring food or provide food....turns out the reason he blew me off is because he wanted me to stay in his dorm reason being is so he could have sex with me and flaunt me in front of the blond sorority girls face who lived in the same dorm building....i was just his pawn...his grandma ended up driving to the hotel i was at and i cried for hours about the abortion she called him and he said grandma you should have left that bitch with no food... id done everything for this person and then some. i supported him through thick and thin. finally this summer we started getting along like when we had first met and falling in love again it was like hed done a 180. iand then in september i got an email from a 30 yr old woman hed met from california who was emailing me from his email address ...she forwarded me emails that hed sent her promising her marriage and children...pictures and a record of all the yahoo messenger chats they'd had about starting a family....i confronted him and he said whatever i do dont respond to her....less than a week later i was getting emails and calls at my house phone from craigslist sex people because she had posted an AD with my information on the erotic section of craigslist...as payback for having been on his email account list...i confronted him and told him to tell her to take the posts down since i didnt know where the post originated...he said it wasnt his problem so i called the police...they told him to knock it off...we are almost 23 now and this was in september of 09......he hasnt said a word to me since....not an apology for all the hell he's put me through.....nothing.......ive emailed him 3x because im an absolute wreck over this its like my life turned upside down....and he ignores me as if im the bad guy and hes the victim...when in reality he should be happy that im a decent person who tries to make peace even after hes abused me because i am really torn up....he just completely blows off an attempt at contacting him after 3 years of all this he cant even write me an email and say sorry........i dont understand why im the one getting ignored and avoided as if i did something wrong and hes the one hiding out from me and blowing me off it should be the other way around and it makes my blood boil i am so angry Open Question: Asking about the male race again....?I had this guy friend coming over or so we had planned. He was going to come and visit me ..the only problem my mother was going to be home. Soon as I said that he backed out completely and i havent spoken to him. He was very happy to come and see me even asking what i was doing that day. Since the mother comment.... We arent dating at all. So its not like that but there is alot of interest. I did not mean for him to meet my mother at all!! Some boys are scared of mothers?? Did he think I was trying to move the rship too fast?? Do you think he will speak again:( More Recent Articles |
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