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Open Question: My gf broke my heart and I want her back!? and more... Open Question: My gf broke my heart and I want her back!?I dated this girl for 2.5 yrs and she broke up with me about a month and a half ago. It started as an LDR but I moved out to be with her about a yr and half after we started dating. We were best friends before we started dating and all the way through the relationship. But one day we got into a fight and she left and said she started thinking about us. She said she felt as though she has to take care of me because I get sick a lot, which I do get sick a lot but she doesn't take care of me anymore than I do her, she has RA. She also said she felt like we were just friends living together because she felt like we couldn't be intimate because of my health problems. I tried to be romantic and intimate with her but she mostly just shrugged me off. The other main problem she had was that she lost trust in me because I lied to her about some of my health problems and other personal problems. I told her several times if I could take it back I would, and that there is nothing else to lie about. She knows everything now, but she still doesn't trust me....which is understandable. We were planning marriage and all that so this isn't just another girl. Is there any way to get her trust back and get her back? Or did I just ruin the best thing I ever had? Open Question: Am I just completely overreacting here? What do I do next?This girl is a very good friend of mine. These past 2 months she's been flirting heavily with me (for her), to the point where she occasionally changes clothes while in plain sight of me and while drunk holds my hand/tries to sit on my lap (which she does for nobody else). Problem is, this week I've been trying to ask her out. In the process I've probably texted her more often then I normally have, and she's been ridiculously busy this week. Monday and tuesday when I tried she had long standing plans with her sister (I forgot about them) and tuesday she had a work party (which I vaguely remember her mentioning a while back). Yesterday she took 4 hours to respond to 1 text, and didn't answer when I asked if she'd be up for hanging out on friday. I tried IM'ing her again today asking the same thing... no response. She could be really busy. 2 of her roommates are moving out today I know, and she's gotta pack for saturday when she leaves on break. Or her roommate could tell her that I was considering dating her (which I drunkenly asked her like a month ago), freaking her out. Am I just overreacting what could be just a busy week? Do I still ask her out if she DOES suddenly respond? Her phone also is only held together with duct tape, wouldn't be surprised if it was broken... but seriously, I'm kinda freaking out. I wanted to get this over and done with this week but it doesn't seem like it's gonna happen :/ Open Question: UTI and being pregnant?ok, ladies...i recently stopped taking my bc pills due to wanting to ttc. i decided to get on bc after i miscarried because at first i was so hurt that i just didnt want to go through the pain of losing another child, but now i have gotten past the hurting process so im trying to get back into the baby making flow. anyway, i had sex with my bf on the 6th, 8th, 11th and 12th. yesterday i started my period but it is VERY light and i am not even flowing at the moment. so when i was pregnant the first time, i had a bladder infection before i realized i was pregnant and i had a mild pain in my bladder right before i got to emptying. this is the only time i feel the pain. but eventually the pain stopped. im now having the same EXACT problem. its been going on for maybe a week. could this be another sign that i could become pregnant or just a UTI or the fact that i stopped my bc pills? or is it even too soon to become pregnant with the given dates above? thanks. Open Question: My gf broke my heart and I want to get her back!?I dated this girl for 2.5 yrs and we broke up about a month and a half ago. It started as an LDR but I moved out to be with her after about a yr and a half. We lived together for about 6 months before she broke it off. We were like best friends right up to the very end. She told me that because I get sick so much she feels like shes taking care of me, which I do get sick a lot but I don't feel like she's taking care of me anymore than I do her, she has RA. She also said that she feels like were just friends living together because she doesn't feel like we can be intimate since I have so many health problems. I tried for a while to be romantic and intimate but she always just shrugged me off. She also lost trust in me after finding out a few personal problems about me that I lied to her about. I told her if I could redo that and tell her the truth I would and that I have nothing else to lie to her about but the trust is gone. Is there anything I can do to get her to trust me again and maybe get her wanting to come back? I'm in so much pain and I don't know what else to do. Open Question: My Best Friend Cuts Herself For Guys, Where Do I Stand?my best friend is a girl that is constantly going out with guys,one of them even had the nerve to touch her inapproperiately in front of her mother, there was this one guy she went out with from June-Agust That was both of our friend and we both liked him and promised eachother neither would go out with him, She broke that promise. I forgave her eventally only because she's a family friend and otherwise I'd be glad to be rid of our friendship. During The summer after school went out they were really busy and i saw him more then she did,eventally he cheated on her (not with me, tho he did ask me out, and i thought morally it would be wrong so i declined) and I found out he was cheating and told him to break up with her, which he did. The phone rings at 2 in the morning I hear her crying saying over and over again "He doesn't love me," and threating suicide. monday at school when i saw he again (it was the night before) and she had control of herself she showed me cuts on her arm and said "i woulda killed myself if you didn't pick up the phone" and the day went on as usual.a little while later, boy2 the one she broke up with for ryan and he started dating again, boy2 and i use to be best buds but now hate eachother becuz she lied to me saying that he was cheating on her when it was really the other way around, more cuts on her arm to prove it. boy3 (in the since july that she wouldn't shut up bout) was really messed up in the head and nothing like she described, i truly hated him. they kissed and touched in front of me which i found completely and utterally disguisting and more then once i did get up and leave. he ended up breaking up with her after they...did it. and now he's going out with one of the druggies at our school and she threatened her and then after school threatened me, i punched her and she was out cold so i called an ambulance etc.. boy 4 , my boy friend since gr 3 started going out with her and i broke up with him for it, once again i forgave her because our lives are so closely interwined that if i didn't, everyone around me would make me more miserable then i already am. She cuts everyday at school in front of everyone obviously for attention. Constantly being around her I feel neglected because of her perfect image around my parents and beginning to around my peers. it's obvious that she only cuts for attention and i know this is a little problem compared to more of mine and many others but it's really aggrivating me. How do I deal with her? Where Do I Stand? Open Question: Can I get a girl's insight here? Does this actually mean anything or am I overreacting?This girl is a very good friend of mine. These past 2 months she's been flirting heavily with me (for her), to the point where she occasionally changes clothes while in plain sight of me and while drunk holds my hand/tries to sit on my lap (which she does for nobody else). Problem is, this week I've been trying to ask her out. In the process I've probably texted her more often then I normally have, and she's been ridiculously busy this week. Monday and tuesday when I tried she had long standing plans with her sister (I forgot about them) and tuesday she had a work party (which I vaguely remember her mentioning a while back). Yesterday she took 4 hours to respond to 1 text, and didn't answer when I asked if she'd be up for hanging out on friday. I tried IM'ing her again today asking the same thing... no response. She could be really busy. 2 of her roommates are moving out today I know, and she's gotta pack for saturday when she leaves on break. Or her roommate could tell her that I was considering dating her (which I drunkenly asked her like a month ago), freaking her out. Am I just overreacting what could be just a busy week? Do I still ask her out if she DOES suddenly respond? Her phone also is only held together with duct tape, wouldn't be surprised if it was broken... but seriously, I'm kinda freaking out. I wanted to get this over and done with this week but it doesn't seem like it's gonna happen :/ Open Question: what should i do???!! IM CONFUSED!!!!!?well, first of all im sixth grade, and im a girl, and im 12 years old. so theres this twin in eigth grade that is 13 years old that i really like. he knows me and he knows that i like him, but we dont really talk. so theres a girl in his class that shes my friend, and she told him, but she said that he said that im pretty and stuff, but that im too short for him. the problem is that i have a problem with my size, and im like the third smallest sixth grader in my school. the boy that i like the name is andrew. andrew isnt sure about dating me cuz of my size. hes not a bad person, hes nice and everything, but i dont know what to do. please help me, i really like andrew a girl in my class asked him she said that he said that he kinda likes me a little but i dont know what to do!!!! please help!!! Open Question: Guy Trouble.....HELP!!!!!!?Here's the scoop. My boyfriend has a hard time making friends (guy friends). He keeps trying to get guys from work to hang out, and they'll say yes, then last minute bail on him. Happens all the time. I feel bad for him, cos he is a cool guy (he can be loud and a little too outgoing so I think some people are thrown off by that). However, he has no problems making friends who are girls. It doesnt happen a lot (maybe 2x's a month), he'll decide to hang out with a friend who's a girl (whether or not it be from work or someone he dated long ago, who it just didnt work and now theyre just friends...some are new friends, some are old). When we first met, he did this a lot more frequently (hanging out with them), but it didnt bother me, cos we werent serious, or exclusive, and I was hanging out with other guys. Its been a year now, and we're very serious, and yet occassionally he'll want to hang out with a friend, who just so happens to be a girl. He always tells me who he is going with, where they are going, and there is always other people there (sometimes other girls, or sometimes a mix crowd). I have a problem with this. It bothers me a lot. Cos some of these girls he asked out way before he met me, and they turned him down, then they'd casually talk, now hes in a serious reltationship, they seemed to come back into the picture. He keeps saying "dont you trust me" and quite frankly its not him i dont trust, its the girls, cos i know how girls can be, if they want something theyll do whatever it takes to get it, even if it hurts someone else. for our anniversary he bought me a pre-egagement diamond ring, he said he wants to be with me forever, but isnt ready for marriage, cos he's still finishing up his maters degree and still lives at home. (he said he wants a real job and his own place before he makes that jump), but gave me the ring to show he is serious. Am I overreacting with him hanging out with other girls? Should I be worried? Should I not care? Im crazy in love with this guy, which is why this tears me apart, cos the idea of him out with another girl sickens me to death. Please Help. I want both guys and girls opinions on this one....what would you do? I want him to go out and have a life other than me, but with GUYS. HELP!!!!!!!!!!! PS.....he was at work when he discussed this, on dinner-hour break...that was 3 hours ago....he just went on his 15 minute break as I was sending this, and called me, just to say I love you.....like he's trying to butter me up cos he knows Im mad. i told him i would feel more comfortable if i were there, but he always does it after work, and he works over a half hour away. i have a severe injury to my right foot, nerve damage, and am still trying to get better, so driving far, scares him....he said he doesnt want me to drive, even tho i can....he says he'd never live it down if something happened to me, he'd feel responsible. i dont know any of his girl friends, and its just weird to me, that after a year, i barely know any of his friends. Open Question: how to forget girlfriends past?so ive been dating this girl for 8 months now and i love her more than anything in the world and she is by far the best thing that has ever happened to me. but the problem is i had done nothing before her and she had sex with two guys both i was friends with (one my best friend). i see them everyday and i think about her past and i just wanna forget it, it bothers me sooo much. what do i do? i really dont wanna break-up. please help Open Question: Is my boyfriend a guy worth staying with or building a future with?IM SORRY IT'S SO LONG BUT PLEASE HELP!!! :( Me and my boyfriend (im 17 he's 16) have been dating for 10 months now. But we've been involved with each other for a year now. We've had our break ups (2) that only lasted about 1-3 weeks but we always get back together. The last break up was the most emotional because he kept telling me that he didn't think the relationship would work out. of course i cried and such and he gave the relationship another chance cause he said he was still in love with me as i ever was with him. So hee tells me that he loves me and he ask es me sometimes if he sees us together in years to come and he always says he wants to marry me, he has no problem waiting until im ready for sex (even though he really wants it). He always pays for the dates and never want to go out if he doesn't have money cause he doesn't want me to pay for anything. He has just recently moved closer to my neighborhood so sometimes he'd go outta his way to see me, he's even waled to my house this one time after i came home from a very log day and i was sweaty cause it was really hot and he was like, i love you no matter how you look. He's called me in the morning to say glamoring and talk before i head out and for my birthday he stayed up with me all night on the phone just to be the first to say happy birthday, he wants to take me to prom ETC.... Now the bad things about him. in his early days he was considered a player. he claims that he's no longer like that and he's in love with me and wants a future. sometimes i feel like hes with me right now cause i begged him to give the relationship another chance. Moving closer to me he's also moved closer to his friends so most of the time he's out with them now and doesn't call until it's late or he really has nothing to do for the day... as for today he has yet to call.. it's 8:23.. (the longest we go without him calling is 3 days and i don't call him at all..) I just wanna know should i really put my heart into this relationship? sometimes i feel like were to young to be thinking stuff like this but even though i hate saying it im in love with him. like what re signs that he really would mean all the stuff he says and hes not leading me on or just staying with me cause i begged... he spends most of his time with his guys and im scared because there all single he might be tempted to do something or leave.. he's considering going to the same college with me cause he wants to see me more. but still im really confused.. i don't want to get my heart broken, i want to let him have it but right now i don't trust it. if you guys want me to give anymore information on it i'd be glad to :) Open Question: Are they more than best friends?So this is whats going on, my bestfriend, of almost 4 years now, is a total flirt. she plays around with guys, & flirts, yet shes going out with the love of her life. I constantly tell her how wrong it is of her to be sneaking on her bf that way, but he does it to her too. my boyfriend, of almost 4 months, he WAS a flirt too, supossebly, until we started dating. He has that reputation of playing with girls, however, if we've made it as far as months, im sure he's not doing the same thing to me. Here's the problem, theyre always together. My bestfriend & boyfriend. Most of their classes are the same, so theyre constantly hanging out, in && out of school. It didnt bother me before, but recently it began annoying me. Specially today when i found out he had given her a hickey. Constantly, people come up to me, telling me how they look so loving & caring for each other, but ive disregarded any signs, for i trust them both & dont really think theyre doing anything bad. Seriously, what do i do? is it time for me to cross the line between them too? && if i do such thing, will i lose either of them? Help? Open Question: Guy trouble....PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?Here's the scoop. My boyfriend has a hard time making friends (guy friends). He keeps trying to get guys from work to hang out, and they'll say yes, then last minute bail on him. Happens all the time. I feel bad for him, cos he is a cool guy (he can be loud and a little too outgoing so I think some people are thrown off by that). However, he has no problems making friends who are girls. It doesnt happen a lot (maybe 2x's a month), he'll decide to hang out with a friend who's a girl (whether or not it be from work or someone he dated long ago, who it just didnt work and now theyre just friends...some are new friends, some are old). When we first met, he did this a lot more frequently (hanging out with them), but it didnt bother me, cos we werent serious, or exclusive, and I was hanging out with other guys. Its been a year now, and we're very serious, and yet occassionally he'll want to hang out with a friend, who just so happens to be a girl. He always tells me who he is going with, where they are going, and there is always other people there (sometimes other girls, or sometimes a mix crowd). I have a problem with this. It bothers me a lot. Cos some of these girls he asked out way before he met me, and they turned him down, then they'd casually talk, now hes in a serious reltationship, they seemed to come back into the picture. He keeps saying "dont you trust me" and quite frankly its not him i dont trust, its the girls, cos i know how girls can be, if they want something theyll do whatever it takes to get it, even if it hurts someone else. for our anniversary he bought me a pre-egagement diamond ring, he said he wants to be with me forever, but isnt ready for marriage, cos he's still finishing up his maters degree and still lives at home. (he said he wants a real job and his own place before he makes that jump), but gave me the ring to show he is serious. Am I overreacting with him hanging out with other girls? Should I be worried? Should I not care? Im crazy in love with this guy, which is why this tears me apart, cos the idea of him out with another girl sickens me to death. Please Help. I want both guys and girls opinions on this one....what would you do? I want him to go out and have a life other than me, but with GUYS. HELP!!!!!!!!!!! PS.....he was at work when he discussed this, on dinner-hour break...that was 3 hours ago....he just went on his 15 minute break as I was sending this, and called me, just to say I love you.....like he's trying to butter me up cos he knows Im mad. Open Question: Girly problem, need some advice.?How much age difference would you date or committ in a serious relationship with someone? If a guy was 5, 10 or 20 years older, would still go out with him? I meet a lady who is 21 yrs younger and she said age is only a number. She is very very inteligent and beautiful. She is close with her parents and all is a happy home life. I do like her and her desire to help people is awesome. She and I talked about kids in a general conversation but she has told me what she wants and only one child. She wants to wait but said if the right man comes along she would take a chance as long as he was able to provide stable and security and not financially but emotionally, That is a big thing to her. She works and makes a good living. I make 3+ times as much. She knows I have a good security nests but.. she doesn't look at it like and blows that off. My question is this. If she is calling me Honey and we lightly will hold hands and wants to talk in person (sent via txt). do you think i should pursue it? Also she has been when we meet talk kind of prevocatively in a playful way. (I asked her did she know what a Chip and Dale set was - dinnette set)? She no, but said she knows Chip and Dales in Vegas and laugh. She talked about her biological clock is screaming. Is this just playing around or is this more than that going on and i am being to kind not pursuing it? Please answer the other questions given. Thanks, Open Question: Guy trouble??? Please Help?Here's the scoop. My boyfriend has a hard time making friends (guy friends). He keeps trying to get guys from work to hang out, and they'll say yes, then last minute bail on him. Happens all the time. I feel bad for him, cos he is a cool guy (he can be loud and a little too outgoing so I think some people are thrown off by that). However, he has no problems making friends who are girls. It doesnt happen a lot (maybe 2x's a month), he'll decide to hang out with a friend who's a girl (whether or not it be from work or someone he dated long ago, who it just didnt work and now theyre just friends...some are new friends, some are old). When we first met, he did this a lot more frequently (hanging out with them), but it didnt bother me, cos we werent serious, or exclusive, and I was hanging out with other guys. Its been a year now, and we're very serious, and yet occassionally he'll want to hang out with a friend, who just so happens to be a girl. He always tells me who he is going with, where they are going, and there is always other people there (sometimes other girls, or sometimes a mix crowd). I have a problem with this. It bothers me a lot. Cos some of these girls he asked out way before he met me, and they turned him down, then they'd casually talk, now hes in a serious reltationship, they seemed to come back into the picture. He keeps saying "dont you trust me" and quite frankly its not him i dont trust, its the girls, cos i know how girls can be, if they want something theyll do whatever it takes to get it, even if it hurts someone else. for our anniversary he bought me a pre-egagement diamond ring, he said he wants to be with me forever, but isnt ready for marriage, cos he's still finishing up his maters degree and still lives at home. (he said he wants a real job and his own place before he makes that jump), but gave me the ring to show he is serious. Am I overreacting with him hanging out with other girls? Should I be worried? Should I not care? Im crazy in love with this guy, which is why this tears me apart, cos the idea of him out with another girl sickens me to death. Please Help. I want both guys and girls opinions on this one....what would you do? I want him to go out and have a life other than me, but with GUYS. HELP!!!!!!!!!!! PS.....he was at work when he discussed this, on dinner-hour break...that was 3 hours ago....he just went on his 15 minute break as I was sending this, and called me, just to say I love you.....like he's trying to butter me up cos he knows Im mad. Jess- not quite sure what youre saying there.. hardknocks- i see your girl cheated on you, when you gave her the ring... im sorry.......however i would never cheat on him....if you gave a girl that ring, would you cheat on her is the question. i love him and want to be with him for the rest of my life. darkstar- whats a barrell roll good guy- ive talked to him....he wants to do what he wants to do, we've had the talk many times, and if i get mad, he thinks im trying to make him feel guilty, and he says i feel guilty, so i turn to him and say "well feeling guility is only a result of you knowing you are making the wrong choice" if there was no wrong choice, then guilt would not arise. he didnt like that answer. i told him i would feel more comfortable if i were there, but he always does it after work, and he works over a half hour away. i have a severe injury to my right foot, nerve damage, and am still trying to get better, so driving far, scares him....he said he doesnt want me to drive, even tho i can....he says he'd never live it down if something happened to me, he'd feel responsible. i dont know any of his girl friends, and its just weird to me, that after a year, i barely know any of his friends. 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