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Open Question: my Gf says she is confused, what do i do? and more... Open Question: my Gf says she is confused, what do i do?last saturday i had a date with a girl i known for 4 years,i met her online and she claims she has liked me alot for 3 years and we had an on and off friendship for ages, only met her first time eva on saturday and we started off quite arkward as i was very nervous (and she was shocked about how shy and nervous i was) but we went cinema, i gained the nerve and we cuddled, when we left and i bought her a lil teddy and kissed her (it was done quite nervously but i did it non the less), and i asked her to be my gf at the end of the day, and she said yes now since yesterday she has gone very wierd and funny with me, saying she is confused if she wants to be with me or not, saying she dont know how she feels about me anymore and its not me thats the problem its her and that she aint feeling any emotions right now, she dont feel herself caring about anything at the momment, and so i asked if she wanted to see me agn this weekend, and she said no because she needs to clear her head, and i asked if another guy was involved in this decision and she said she can promise me that there is no guy involved i have also noticed on her facebook she has changed her relationship status to complicated, so i dont know what this means im good friends with her sister and i text her about it and she replyed "oh my sister is always doing that, she does that with every guy and they ussaully get fed up and leave" what do i do? i do really like this girl, and she claims she likes me and she says she wouldnt of kissed me if she didnt like me but she is getting so distant that its hard to believe she does... Open Question: Indian passport renewal - tatkal?I have plans to travel to India on December 18th. My wife and kids have left already and my tickets are done. Yesterday I noticed that my passport expired about 10 months back – serious problem! I think it is too late for the regular passport renewal process and that tatkal is the only option left. I have heard that if a passport is originally issued in India, getting it renewed in the US using tatkal will renew the passport only for 1 year. My question are: 1) Is the 1 year calculated from the current date or from the date the passport expired? 2) I plan to get a supporting document (medical certificate of serious health condition of a close blood relative) to build my tatkal case. Is that certificate required in original or would a copy be sufficient? Please share similar experiences. I will be going to the Washington, DC consulate. Thanks. Open Question: i really need help with my "relationship"?ok, i am 16 and this girl is 16 also, we go to two different schools that are close to eachother, we live about 10 minutes from eachother. heres my story - me and this girl meet at a friends party where there was alcohol but me and her didnt have anything to drink except soda, and we had just meet and we talked, danced, and while every1 was watching a movie they all decided to go jump on the trampoline and me and her stayed inside and ended up making out on the couch and after a lil bit me and her went upstairs to a bedroom and had sex, this was my first time but not hers, we hung out the next couple days and then i asked her out thinking it would work, and it did for about a month then i found out she was going to a party and she never told me till the day of and i was kinda mad and i asked her friend why she didnt tell me and her friend said it was because she didnt want me there but i talked to my gf about it and she was like well u shoud come too so i went and the whole not she was ignoring me and playing beer pong and stuff and hanging on this other guy. the next morning i talked to her about it and she apologized and said it was very inmature of her and i forgave her, then a week later we had homecoming for my school and we went to dinner and picture and all that then when we pulled into the parking to go in she said her stomach was hurting and all night she had pushed my hand off her and stuff and was saying lets just get this over with. so i took her home and i broke up with her because i was fed up of it. then the next day she tells me she has a cyst in her ovaries but she never told me, and she said she has been on constant PMS without telling me and i felt bad so i tried to get back with her because i would be considerate of the situation now. and she said no because she didnt want to get hurt again and i was like take some time to think about it and i came back in a week and we started talking again and we still talk and we have had other problems and stuff but for the past 2 months we havent been a couple but a few times we have had sex and i asked her out last night and she said no because she is still thinking and i asked her how much longer and she said about 3 more weeks and im tired of waiting, she still talks to her ex and she has alot of guy friends who she is always talking too and she swears they are just friends but while we were dating she had 2 of them try and grab her butt and she still talks to them, and she asked me to her homecoming while we were dating but and then we broke up and she got asked by some varsity football player and i told her to say no but after a couple days she said yes and she ended up going with him and leaving me in the dust. i just dont know what to do... PLEASE HELP ME THIS IS HURTING ME SO BAD, i dont want to move on but i dont want to get hurt anymore Open Question: How should I announce the news of my unplanned pregnancy?I began dating a really great guy about 4 months ago, the relationship is still new but I haveknown him for about 4 years. I moved out of state for college and my whole family is far away so I don't see them as much as I'd like and they have never met my boyfriend. About a 2 months after we started dating, I found out I am pregnant. So the problem is breaking the news to grandparents aunts and uncles etc. (I told my parents and siblings as soon as I found out). I want everyone to understand that although this was an accident and the situation is far from the ideal, that I am very excited and happy to be having this baby and my boyfriend and I are dedicated to making a stable family life and home for him or her. We both already love this baby and eachother very much. I will be going home for Christmas and I'm starting to show so I will see everyone and need to tell them then or before then. Just want some fun ideas on how to break the news in a happy positive way. Open Question: What should I do about this guy?I want to get over this guy I believe i'm in love with. I'm 15 9th grade. And when I was in 6th grade I met this guy and we went out on and off from 6th to 8th grade. Well in 8th grade when we were not dating i had made out with him for the first time, then after we moved up to doing more together..not sex. Now in 9th grade were still not dating haven't been for a while and we hang out every so often and do stuff together, i guess were friends with benefits but i like him way more than that. But I want to do stuff with him its better than nothing at all. (every once in a while he'll stop talking to me for about a month) but then he talks to me again and wants to hang out. And he never talks to me at school he only texts me and occasionally calls. But not even a month ago we finally had sex and now he hasnt really been talking to me again but idk if its bc he always kind of stops talking to me for a while or bc he got what he finally wanted which was sex. Idk. but im trying my hardest to act like it doesnt bother me even though IT DOES. And i IMed him today and asked why he cant talk to me anymore and he said been busy and then i said ok ill leave you alone and he didnt reply. I dont know whats his problem. But i just want to get over him finally. But then i also just want him to come back to me and want me, idk what to do help? ADVICE would be GREAT(: and i know im stupid for wanting him so badly bc he probably just uses me but i want him, and i cant say no. this whole thing is COMPLICATED. but pleaseee im BEGGING HELP? sorry this was so long.. Oh and he tells me he likes me ALOT to but he said when we used to go out it wouldnt last long so he said theres no point in dating... but just for your info he says he likes me too. Open Question: broken engagement- what to do(be prepared its long) but I really need advice?I am 22 years old, i started dating this guy when I was 15 years old, and everything was new and magical and it was my first real real boyfriend, a couple months into the relationship, I went over to this guy's house from my school and played strip poker( dont ask im not sure why lol) but nothing happened my shirt came off and my bra stayed on and we watched a movie, so weird I know.. nyhow I told my boyfriend and he was so mad and then we got through it. After dating for about 5 months we ended up having sex (both each others firsts) so it was special and then a few weeks later we ended up breaking up a week before my birthday because he was still so hurt over the situation that happened earlier when we had started dating ..and i got all crazy ex girlfriend style (like any normal 15 year old girl) and totally pushed him away... so we broke up and i was distraught for like a year and a half- i dated other boys but nothing ever felt the same. I was crazy I even ended up switching to his closer because I thought if he saw me all the time we would get back together... (but he ended up like hating me and never talked to me ) but then about a year later my friend lived in the same buidling as him and she was like oh come over he doesnt care.. so I went and him and I talked all night and that was 5 years ago, so in that time we fell back in love very quickly,we have lived together for the past 3 and a half years, I have also moved out like 3 times and moved back in during those times and over the past few years we have broken up lotsssssssss and always gotten back together ( the same fight was always over the fact that he didnt think i payed enough attention to him.. like I would never show enough affection or that we would barely ever have sex and that made him feel neglected and that I didnt care about him.. But this past year everything was great we had gone away last summer for the month and travelled the states and it was amazing.. the best time of our whole relationship.. everything was amazing we were having sex everyday and ya it was just amazing.. but then we got back and everything switched for some reason i got mad as soon as were back that we werent engaged or anything and it just got crazy and I stirred up so much drama, but then we solved it, and then this gebruary I just realized this year wasnt as amazing as I thought it was, we were at my best friends valentines party and him and my best friend were both in the same room talking and apparently he tried to kiss her, now there is two sides to this story, he admits to trying to kiss her, but I forgave him.. (because during the times when we broke up, there is things that happened that i never told him) which were way worse than him kissing my friend.. but i never told him, so I forgave because I didnt want to be with anybody else.. so then everything was fine and dandy and then this summer we moved to a place we have always wanted to live and we got engaged and the proposal was AMAZING, I couldnt have asked for anything better, but then two and a half months went by and our relationship fizzled like crazy, we stopped having sex , stopped talking about our problems and everything just went crappy and we broke up.... and it was sooo hard..this is only a month ago.. and then he went to Europe for a month because he has always wanted to and he figured then would be a good opportunity, but I found out I was pregnant.. and he is super excited........... we havnt talked about getting back together.... he seems very excited to have a baby... but im just so confused.. because I love him more than anything else in the world and I just dont understand why I treat him so badly when im in the relationship and then once we break up I would do anything to get him back, and thats always whats happend and then once were back together it goes all crappy again... but I do know I want to be with him soooooooooooooo bad.. He gets back next week? any suggestions of what I should do? Open Question: Is this just friendship or does she want to be more?This girl and I have been hanging out since April. Right before we started hanging out, she broke up with her BF of 3 years and we went to the prom together but at that time she wasn't ready for a new relationship and confused so we stuck as friends. Now, it's December and we suddenly have gotten pretty close. She texts me everyday now, we hangout almost every night and she knows that I like her but she always manages to bring up that she's hanging out with other guys (even though I know for a fact she isn't -- I'm pretty sure she's trying to make me jealous). The only problem is she's starting to call me her best friend and she's even buying me a Christmas present, almost like a couple without the physical aspect. I tried hinting at being more than friends, but she kinda avoided the topic. Every time I mention that I might date a girl she always says "don't do that to yourself or etc (usually something negative) My question is, are there any signs that she wants to be more than friends? Is she just looking to be friends first, then have a relationship work? Or does she consider me a best friend and that's all? Can you offer any advice? also she always asks me to come over her house when her family is there. She introduced me to her whole family which I thought was more than just being friends. More Recent Articles
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