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Open Question: My GF's poop problem.? and more... Open Question: My GF's poop problem.?My Gf and I were 69ing and during she proceeded to poop all over my chest. I am now uncomfortable around her, but we been dating for 3 years. What should I do? Open Question: Why don't I get asked out?I have a question. I have been single for about 6 months (I broke off an abusive relationship of 3 years) and I am definitely not looking to date but I want to know why I don't get asked out. I'm talking about I NEVER get asked out. I am very friendly but sometimes I'm a bit shy around people I do not know. I work at a chain restaurant bar and guys will make rude remarks or stare but they will never ask me out. Guys will seem interested yet nothing ever comes from it. They will also leave their numbers but they will never just come up and say hi. It seems like every other girl gets asked out and goes on so many dates and I am just so frustrated because I don't. I don't know if I am just not used to being single so I set off some sort of vibe or what. Even the rudest, not-so attractive bitchiest girls get asked out however I do admit they are very aggressive. I am not aggressive and I couldn't ever fathom asking a guy out, I would just die! I am 21 and I am almost finished with school and I'm self-conscious because all of my friends are getting married and starting families and I do not even have any prospects! From what I have witnessed, it seems that all the guys prefer the aggressive, willing to jump into bed on the first date kind of women. I am not like that and I'm not willing to be like that just to get asked out! What is my problem?! I'm tired of people saying "oh you are so nice and beautiful, you will make one man so lucky to have you." It can't be true because no men even ask me out! :D Open Question: HELP ME??? How can I solve this problem with my ex and be friends!?!?Ok so my ex and I dated for two years, then we had an ugly breakup a year and a half ago, there was no contact for a few months and then all of a sudden we friends again. I live about 300 miles from her so it's not like we saw each other often or anything, we didn't even hook up again....just friends Anyways, she's been with someone for 8 or 9 months and I have a girlfriend of a 7 months. Long story short, my gf is pregnant and I just proposed to her 2 days ago. My ex texts me from time to time to see how life is and I told her Im engaged and my my fiancee is pregnant and BOOM!!! She gets mad at me and repeatedly insists she doesnt care anymore and our friendship should just be over all together and let me just say about a month ago we were joking all the time about her coming to visit me and she was going to. I truly don't think she's happy with her current bf he's the dreamer type still chasing his music career and he's 27 while I run my own business and have my own home/cars. Anyways my gf gets pregnant, and this is a girl I dated 5 years ago, we split, got back together years later and when she got pregnant I proposed......suddenly the ex hates my guts? I mean I know I shouldn't care, but Im not like that, we were friends even after a break up and I want to be friends still I've known her for 10 years but is she just upset because I got away? Or is she upset that I'm getting married and her relationship isnt going as planned? I dont know but how can I be friends with this person who has been part of my life for nearly a decade Open Question: Why do I not get asked out?I have a question. I have been single for about 6 months (I broke off an abusive relationship of 3 years) and I am definitely not looking to date but I want to know why I don't get asked out. I'm talking about I NEVER get asked out. I am very friendly but sometimes I'm a bit shy around people I do not know. I work at a chain restaurant bar and guys will make rude remarks or stare but they will never ask me out. Guys will seem interested yet nothing ever comes from it. They will also leave their numbers but they will never just come up and say hi. It seems like every other girl gets asked out and goes on so many dates and I am just so frustrated because I don't. I don't know if I am just not used to being single so I set off some sort of vibe or what. Even the rudest, not-so attractive bitchiest girls get asked out however I do admit they are very aggressive. I am not aggressive and I couldn't ever fathom asking a guy out, I would just die! I am 21 and I am almost finished with school and I'm self-conscious because all of my friends are getting married and starting families and I do not even have any prospects! From what I have witnessed, it seems that all the guys prefer the aggressive, willing to jump into bed on the first date kind of women. I am not like that and I'm not willing to be like that just to get asked out! What is my problem?! I'm tired of people saying "oh you are so nice and beautiful, you will make one man so lucky to have you." It can't be true because no men even ask me out! :D Open Question: Just a little problem as to why it isn't progressing?So I used to work with this girl now the instant i met her i fell head over heel in love with her i didn't let her know then for obvious reasons why. However its been almost two years later and we've talked constantly and hung out on several occasions. about a year into knowing her i told her that i thought we should date she had just gotten out of a relationship so she said give her time. i did just that and waited and just recently she decided to tell me that she often thinks about what it would be like to date me? i told her i was still waiting on her answer from when i asked a year earlier she didn't know what to say to the fact that i waited without so much as a glance at others still she wont answer how do i approach the subject without seeming like an a**hole? i mean i have tried my heart out to be prince charming in every thing i do in life so as to set a bar for the males of our species and im just becoming impatient please if you have any advice let me know Open Question: Is this something a friend should do?Ok so... I'm friends with this person right? We're best friends (or at least we were), and have been for several years. A while ago I confessed to this friend that I loved them in the romantic sense, and though they turned me down we've tried to still be friends. That's not really my question. My friend is dating someone else right now, and she keeps feeling the need to talk about this other person, how much she likes them, how she hopes this is really love, everything this other person dies that's soooooo funny, how worried she is cause this person seems upset. Basically she talks a whole damn lot about this person to me, someone who came right out and told her I was in love with her a few months ago. I get that the other person is important in her life now, and want to like them and help her out with her problems but... it still hurts a lot to hear about her relationship with someone else. Is it really likely that she's just not thinking about how this might be making me feel? Open Question: Why do guys not ask me out?!?I have a question. I have been single for about 6 months (I broke off an abusive relationship of 3 years) and I am definitely not looking to date but I want to know why I don't get asked out. I'm talking about I NEVER get asked out. I am very friendly but sometimes I'm a bit shy around people I do not know. I work at a chain restaurant bar and guys will make rude remarks or stare but they will never ask me out. Guys will seem interested yet nothing ever comes from it. They will also leave their numbers but they will never just come up and say hi. It seems like every other girl gets asked out and goes on so many dates and I am just so frustrated because I don't. I don't know if I am just not used to being single so I set off some sort of vibe or what. Even the rudest, not-so attractive bitchiest girls get asked out however I do admit they are very aggressive. I am not aggressive and I couldn't ever fathom asking a guy out, I would just die! I am 21 and I am almost finished with school and I'm self-conscious because all of my friends are getting married and starting families and I do not even have any prospects! From what I have witnessed, it seems that all the guys prefer the aggressive, willing to jump into bed on the first date kind of women. I am not like that and I'm not willing to be like that just to get asked out! What is my problem?! I'm tired of people saying "oh you are so nice and beautiful, you will make one man so lucky to have you." It can't be true because no men even ask me out! :D Open Question: Marriage? My parents are against it right now?Here's the deal, I'm 18 (will be 19 in May) and my boyfriend is 20 (will be 21 in June). We have been dating for a little over 2 1/2 years now and we love each other very much. He's my best friend. A little before our 2nd year, he asked my parents if he could marry me. They said I should wait until college is over, which is another 2-3 years. I do want to marry him now, but I will wait. the problem I have is that they won't let us live together unless we're married. I live about 3 hours away from my parents, for college, and my boyfriend is planning on moving here in June-July. If I'm not allowed to live with him because I'm not married, how am I suppose to live with him when I graduate? I won't be married when I graduate, so where will I live? I plan on moving to Texas. Is my boyfriend suppose to move there in a different apartment? My parents got married 2 days after my Mom turned 18. She already had me, and my dad was in the air force. My mom was working in a beauty salon. But they won't let us marry each other? Or even let us live together? What difference is it from them? they lived together before they got married. I just don't understand it, if someone could tell me what their side is, that would be great. Thank you. Well, I already pay for things myself, my parents don't help me. I want to sit down and have a talk with them, but they're very firm on the moving-in part. I know, and I'm being honest, that when he moves up here, I'll practically be living there anyway, I don't see the problem with it. Hanging out with someone and living with them is completely different, and I think one must live with another before getting married to see how things work out. we've taken a trip before, we took a weekend trip to California, a few weeks before he asked my parents to marry me (we went for our 2 year). For 1) You don't have to be rude. For 2) Just because we're adults doesn't mean I don't respect my parents decision. Obviously I want to live with him and I am an adult and can do what I want, but that does not mean I'm going to disregard what they say. They're my parents for gosh sakes. Obviously you don't love yours enough to realize that what they want/say for/to you is important. I can get pregnant without being married..just saying. I said I understand their point on marriage, it's the living together part. Apparently my religious grandpa will have a big problem with it, when he doesn't know about my life. Open Question: Am i in a destructive relationship? need help. kinda long but plz respnd?Ok well first off im 21 and my bf is 28. Im 5 months pregnant with his baby. I got pregnant soon after we started dating..I thought i was in love with him (did not try to get pregnant,just throwing that out there). We spent every night together,we drank almost everynight together but i didnt think it was a problem bc we would just get like 1 daquiri,we had alot of fun...the first 2 months felt like weve been together for 6 months. He takes valiums and klonopin for his nerves and i didnt know he was abusing them,well i kinda new he would take more sometimes just for fun but i didnt see it as a problem. I was prescribed klonopin as well and even though ive been through addiction i never abused my meds( I took them so that i wouldnt get panic attacks) anyway one day i noticed 10 of them were missing. I blamed it on my roomate. ANywayy one night he was a nervous wreck for some reason so he took 3 valiums...we went to our friends house and drank. Well he started freaking out (i have it on vid but i dont think i should put that on here without his permission) so yeah he was rapping in the video camera(cuz he's a wannabe gangster) but i didnt really pay attention to what he was rapping about..He was just acting crazyy...like telling me he wanted to die and wanted to die since he was 8 and that he wwould die behind his own mom...Stuff like that. Our friends thought it would be better to stay at their house but he wanted to go home so i drove his car home (he was really fucked up bc he wont let anyone drive his car ever) once we got to his house he started threatning his grandfather..being so loud that the neighbor left. He was acting so crazy i was actually getting scared,he took a knife out the drawr and was standing in front his granpaw with the knife naked. I called my friend to pick me up bc i didnt want to be there obviously. Once she got there he spit in my freinds face and started threatning her...i got in the car and he spit at my window for leaving him. I was going to break up with him but i thought he just drank too much...my freind called the cops and he went to a phyc ward for like 2 weeks. The whole time he was there he was calling me and telling me how much he wants to change and how much he loved me and doesnt think he should drink anymore...I believed him(stupid me). I found out I was pregnant while he was there. I was in such shock that I quit my job...i didnt know what to do. my roomate was there with me and i called my mom and told her then i called my bf. He was happy,he said he wants to raise the child with me and he wants to be a good sober dad. I stayed with him but once he got out the hospital things just got worse, When we got to his house he took my phone and called my ex's and started threatning them. I was so embarassed. WE were arguing alot but after an arguement we always make up and act all lovey dovey. He didnt stop drinking...Once i was sober bc of the pregnancy i started noticing how much he drank. Its been very hard watching him drink while i cant yet he still does it right in front my face. ONe night we went out to eat sushi,he got 2 large sakes....and a big meal that I didnt know i was gunna have to pay for. Well that sake made him crazy..i wanted to break up with him and when i tried to drop him off at his house he wouldnt let me go. He took my purse out the car and went inside so i followed him,he was acting really weird..like telling me what to do and stuff. He was calling me a bitch and a whore and pulled a knife out the drawer,i was scared so i called the cops...he put the knife down(actually he took his anger out by chopping a banana) I called back and he freaked out and basically made me drive him down the street to his friends house. i drove back to his house and watied for the cops and he went to jail.. They arrested him with kindof a harsh charge (false imprisonment with a deadly weapon). He Tried to make it look like I was the crazy one for calling the cops bc all he did was "chop a bananna" well how the fuck did i know what he was gunna do with that knife?? I broke up with him over the phone while he was in jail. ONce he got out I didnt get a restraining order bc he never threatned me or anything...we were broken up for about 2 months. I met up with him so he could get closure and i realized that i missed him alot,i actually started crying//he said he was sober and diong good..well we got back togethher. IT was going really good for about a week. The sex was amazing..and we barely ever argued. Welll then he started drinking alitlle bit again like for the game...im not gunna tell him he cant drink with his friends on game day bc i dont want to sound physco. Well anywayy lately evrything has been pregressing..He's started to drink and take pills behind my back. His money dissapears. He waked up in the middle of the night to take pills. Lastnight i got to his house and he said he had nothing to drink and he was just tired and that he would never lie to me. Well I found More Recent Articles
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