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Open Question: my guy friend who is SUPER close has anger problems!!! help!!! 10 points? and more... Open Question: my guy friend who is SUPER close has anger problems!!! help!!! 10 points?ok well me and my friend r rly close. we tlk on the phone every night. like we should date and all. anyways. he is rly sweet and i would never leave him <3 BUT HE FREAKIN HAS ANGER ISSUES!!! ugh i would be playin and he would get mad as hell!! like tonight. he was being rly loud on the comp and i told him to get off so we could tlk. so he did and we were tlkn .awww. anyways. i was checkin my mail and all and he heard the comp make a noise. he tld me to turn it off, but i never did, and he found out. HE FLIPPED!! he hung up on me and IMed me cussing me out. he did this a while back because i asked him about him and another girl. he didnt tlk to me for a flippin month. this litle fight he is in with me will pass and we will be rly close again,but then itll happen again~~WHAT TO DO Open Question: HELP!! Coffee Date!!?HELP! Coffee date!!!? A friend of mine wants to take this girl out for coffee in melbourne city. Only problem is we are not sure of many good cafes that are nice for a first date situation and that have a good brew in house. HELP! Open Question: Boyfriends family won't acknowledge his depression, I bear the brunt of his emotional breakdowns. Mad at them!?URGENT!! THIS IS LONG BUT READ IF YOU CAN GIVE ME ADVICE: HOW TO DEAL WITH DEPRESSION AND BOYFRIENDS PARENTS WHO WONT ACKNOWLEDGE IT... My boyfriend and I have dated for the last four year, He is 25 now and I am 24. We bought a house in Massachusetts together and have lived together for about 2 1/2 years now. We have 2 dogs and are planning on getting married. We are extremely healthy and practical young adults and we are doing out best to make it independently in this world without having to fail or move back in with our parents. The stress is heavy but our bills are still getting paid and food is always on our table. After over a year of being efficient in living on our own, The past four months my boyfriend has dropped into a stage of being overwhelmed and depressed. He has begun going to see a therapist because he started to lash out on me personally and have these breakdowns where he got really angry and unreasonable. With winter coming he has gotten to the lowest point I have ever seen him. His attitudes are unpredictable and he says some pretty rotten things to me I never thought he'd say. Very manic, very uneven. His mother is very depressed, his parents have been wanting to divorce for years but his siblings are still teenagers and so they stay together. His family are in no way emotionally efficient. They don't talk about problems, they bottle them all up. He has been going home after work to do odd jobs for his parents every day after work and not coming straight home from work like he used to. He always "stops in" to check on them or to pick something up or drop something off. I understand his need for seeing his family regularly but they don't help him with his serious depression. He has expressed to me he has suicidal thoughts and they pretend everything is just the same. His dad won't even acknowledge he is in therapy. HIS FAMILY DOES NOTHING TO HELP HIM. I have to deal with the manic attitudes, and the depression, and the complaining about the shadows cast over life, while his family gets to not have to face it. I have to bear the brunt of his depression. This has caused a divide divide between his family and I. I feel they aren't trying to help him out of this rough period. They pretend he isn't sad and depressed and everything is okay, they pretend not to hear when he comments about therapy or depression. How do I act around his family. Can I express to his parents how disappointed I am with them at their lack of support for their suffering son, what do I do about being so angry and resentful that I am the only one who has to deal with this depressed man? Where are the boundaries? Since his family tends to clam up when faced with real issues of importance or of heavy emotion how should I approach this. Is writing a letter to them rude And cold or is is appropriate and discrete? I don't want to cause more stree for bf by creating and argument between me and them. I want to make a big note that I lived with his family, in his families inlaw apt. with him for one year so we are close to them. Also, he has not tried suicide, he has not told me directly wants to kill himself, he just speaks about it like it's a feeling of hopelessness and sadness that he has and he feels close to the line of just depression and suicidal... thank god. But then again look at what he comes from, he could be withholding from me a lot. Open Question: What should I do if my friend's boyfriend still likes me?So my best friend is dating my "ex" (we barely dated, he asked me out, but I realized I didn't actually like him as much as I thought I did, I just wanted him because I didn't have him). The only problem is that her boyfriend's still likes me. Whenever we go on double-dates, he talks to me all the time, always smiles at me, laughs at my unfunny jokes, and tries to impress me. I've confronted him and told him that if he hurts my best friend I'm never going to talk to him again and he told me he was over me and would be good to my friend. But it's so obvious that he still likes me and other people can see it. My best friend really likes him so I don't want her to be hurt~ What do I do? I'm dating someone right now and I really like the guy I'm dating so much! I've made it clear I don't like my "ex" (if you can even call him that..) Open Question: What do most Black women/Latinas think of White men?Just out of curiosity, in today's world, what do most Black women think of White men? Do they find some White men attractive? Would they consider dating a White man? You see it happening more in movies now like Guess Who and Lakeview Terrace which I think is good. I also like how Halle Berry has worked with White men in movies a lot too (specifically with Hugh Jackman in Swordfish and X Men) and she married a White guy and had a baby with him. I'm a White guy and I find some Black women attractive. I would date a Black girl because in my eyes there wouldn't be anything wrong with it. But then on the other hand, I don't know how well I would deal with my mom. It's not that I care what she thinks but she makes such a pest out of herself when it comes to stuff she doesn't approve of. I'd probably get tired of her crap after a while. Although my dad might step in and tell her to back off, he doesn't see a problem with it like my mom does. My dad just told me that if I were to date a Black girl to be careful because there's still people out there who resent Black women dating White men which I think is true too. Also, what do most Latinas think of White men? Open Question: am i in the wrong here? please help?Well hers the deal i plan to go shopping on the 19th and 20th and the 21st my boyfriend said he wanted to see me that day. Well my friends called and want me to go to a gift exchange party. I asked him if i could move my leaving date a day later and he said no because that would be selfish and my parents might not want to leave on that day. The thing is i haven't asked yet and i don't think it would be a problem( there is not hurt in asking) and i want to see everyone before i leave especially my friends because i don't see them all that often but i see him everyday. Hes upset now. Also another thing my friend is a guy and i don't like him as anything more than that, and he wants me to go to prom with him. My boyfriend says he trust me but he doesn't want me going because he cant see me with another guy. I want to go because it will be fun and my best friends are only going to that one and i want to go with them and do the whole prom thing, makeup, hair, all that and they are begging me to go. But i don't want my boyfriend to get upset and break up with me..My friends will also be upset at him and at me if i don't go because they know it will be because of him. so im stuck and upset. Open Question: Why do a lot of people think it's wrong to date a guy and a girl at the same time?I'm a Bi guy and i want to do that. But the problem is, I'd most likely have to cheat. More Recent Articles
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