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Open Question: My mom won't let me date this boy. What should I do? and more...

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Open Question: My mom won't let me date this boy. What should I do? and more...

Open Question: My mom won't let me date this boy. What should I do?

It's really long, but please read it anyway. I really appreciate it. Okay, so I'm 13 (I know, young right?) and this boy name Everett really loves me. And I am insanely in love with him. He is awesome and gorgeous and sweet and funny and kind and loving. Anyway, Everett and me are just perfect for each other and everyone knows it! Even his parents. And we would be great together! We are really close friends right now and I mean CLOSE. We act all lovey-ish and stuff, but we never ever kiss or hug or anything, just like.. saying really sweet stuff to each other and complimenting looks and personality. There's just one problem in our way-- My mother. I don't live with my dad, cause he died when I was really little. But my mom is sooooooo protective and won't leave me alone. She questions everything I do. She practically controls my entire life! Sometimes she even tries to make me wear certain things- and sometimes she succeeds but I sneak extra clothes to school so I can change there cause she dresses me like a 5 year old! I have a curfew of 5:00pm when I go out to basketball games or movies with my friends and Everett (never alone with him.)! So like 6 months ago (when I was in love with him for about 2 years!) I told her about Everett, and told her I might start dating him, she stood up and slapped me really really hard!!!! I was like "What was that for!?" and she said exactly this: "No daughter of mine will be dating ANY boy until she is the age of 20! I want no boys to touch my daughter or come around my house!!!! If I EVER hear tell of you EVER dating ANY boy, so help me god Amy you will be one sorry girl!!!! Do you understand me young lady!?" I nodded my head and went to my bedroom and bawled my eyes out. I am so frustrated because I LOVE him sooo much its not even funny!!!!!! Sometimes I cry myself to sleep thinking about the fact that we may never be together! I hate my mom, and I wish my dad was here and my mom would die. A few days after I told my mom about Everett he asked me to be his girlfriend. I told him no, and why I couldn't. I started crying. And he held me in his arms. It was so sweet. But I love him to death!! And its not like I'd be having sex with him or anything!!! He is all I want right now. I wish my mom would disappear!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I can't stand not being with him. My heart literally hurts, I will die from heartbreak if I can't be with him. At a school dance a few weeks back, (which my mom only let me stay at for an hour, and it was 3 hours long!!!) Everett and me dance to Beside You by Marianas Trench. It became our song. Somebody, please help me. Tell me what to do about my mom, and how to deal with this! You have no idea how I feel- nobody does, nobody can. Just help me. I will die- I swear to god, If I can't be with him. What do I tell my mom? What happens if she finds out, and does the unthinkable? Help. Our song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uhatoMzyjU4 Hmm. Thanks. But no, I would be happy if my mom was gone. I hate her. She controls my life. Well, actually.. with her around, I have no life!

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Open Question: can you help me find some really tight skinny jeans?!?!?

hey...so im 15 and i am really small (like 5'2 and 85lbs). the problem is that i cant find jeans that are long enough but still tight (as far as stays on me without falling off or looking baggy). im techinically a 14slim (in kids sizes=[) but they are just wayy to short. i might be able to pull off a 0 if they are like super tight, so any ideas? PLEASE HELP!!! i have a date next week and i want to wear a really cute pair of jeans. thank you!!! (o and i dont care bout price)

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Open Question: where is the largest forum that has to do with relationships and dating?

I'm just looking for online forums about relationships and dating where people can post their questions and problems with their own relationships. Does anybody know where the largest one is like which URL address?

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Open Question: omg HELP i am so freaking confused?

ok so there was this really amazing guy who i was totally in love with last year but i never told him how i felt. he graduated and we stayed in touch for a while but eventually we both got wrapped up in our lives and lost touch. well one nite not too long ago i txt him for the first time in forever and he wound up telling me that he really liked me and he should have gotten with me when he had the chance. when i asked why he decided to tell me this now he says "sorry i really drunk" so then last night i txt him and asked if he meant it or was just saying that because he was drunk but he never txtd me back i dont know how to take this or what to do about it. but one of my friends is dating one of his friends and she says that he is not in a relationship but he has been drinking a lot lately and he is drunk almost every weekend and sometimes during the week. i am really worried about him but i dont know wat to do about the situation between us or the drinking problem.

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Open Question: Me and my best friend fighting over her boyfriend?

Me and my best friend have been best friends ever since preschool. A guy has never came between us, until now. She's been dating for boyfriend for about a month now, and their happy together and things, but the problem is, me and her boyfriend hate each other. He gets on my nervous because he's cocky, and extremely immature. He flirts with other girls when she's not around, and when I tell her, she's like, "Oh, I'll talk to him about it" and she never does. She wants me and the guy I'm talking to, to hang out with her and him all the time, but I told her I can't stand to be around him. Plus she blows me off for hanging out with him all the time. Last night we got into a argument about it at a party, but I told her not to worry about it anymore that I was done trying to convince her to believe me, and she said she felt like I was making her choose, and I told her I'm not making her, but she has chosen. - I'd like to know, am I right in this agrument, or is she? - What can I do to make it better?

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