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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Open Question: need help with a dating problem? and more...

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Open Question: need help with a dating problem? and more...

Open Question: need help with a dating problem?

ok theres this girl and i met her at church thru her cuz thats my friend. well we became better frends started hanging out more and i started to like her. welll i got her number and we would talk once in a while. well one day i wasnt thinking and i told her i LUV her and that shes gorgeous . now shes pissed of at me and doesnt want to be frends. i dont understand this cuz wen we wer frends i never showed that i liked i just held it and now i dont know y shes mad and she wont tell me and never talks to me. did i offend her? and if i did how? plz help this is going craziieeee

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Open Question: Should I stay with my boyfriend after he cheated on me?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while, and he has a major drinking problem. So we are trying to get through it but a couple months ago he cheated on me with my EX best friend they kissed, i haven't and can not trust him anymore. I know it has been a while and everything but i just cant get over it. and then in revenge i cheated on him! i feel like a total slut after i did it and i regret it because that is not any way to deal with anything like that. All i'm asking is what do i do? every time he goes to hang out with his friends i'm so paranoid and i think of the worst this is a really hard situation for me... also after that a couple weeks later he texted a girl and said "you are the hottest girl I have ever seen" AND the trust just went down the hill AGAIN! he is such a nice loving boyfriend i just have problems with trust. what should i do? i would like if you don't respond with "break up with him" that's not what I'm looking for i'm really in love with him and that's not an option for me... i just need some advice.

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Open Question: GUYS (and GIRLS), is it wrong of me to want to spend more time with my busy boyfriend?

My boyfriend is an overachiever - student council president, straight A student, star of the track team, popular, lots of community service, etc etc etc. We're both seniors in high school. I'm not as busy as him, but still very busy. He's a super organised and focused person, whereas I'm the sort who'll put the people I love in front of everything else, no questions asked. I'll spend the whole night on the phone to comfort someone or a whole day before an exam planning a party if I have to - I'll make sacrifices and deal with the other stuff later (and I do). I guess this is why it's hard for me sometimes to deal with my boyfriend being so busy that we barely get to spend quality time together and go out on proper dates. It especially hurts when I find out he's been out with other friends - not that I don't want him to have fun with his friends, but if he can spend time with them, why not me? I feel like I'm being taken for granted because I'm so understanding, but I don't know if I'm just being selfish. I know he loves me and all and when we do meet up or talk on the phone, we both have a super great time. But I hate feeling needy because although I know he cares, it just seems like I care more than him. I hate being the one asking if we can spend time together. When I do, he has no problems declining to spend time on his schoolwork or something, whereas he found it totally surprising that I once declined a date to do work. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? And I want to talk to my boyfriend about it, but how do I go about doing it without being accusatory and seeming too needy?

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