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Open Question: Need some advice on the Apple touch i pod? and more... Open Question: Need some advice on the Apple touch i pod?My name is Julie and I recently bought the 8gb apple touch i pod. I have no complaints on it but there are just a couple things that i can't figure out, and i was wondering if someone did. my first question is I have one of those small acer lap tops with windows xp. If i plug my apple touch i pod to my computer. My computer doesn't recognize that it's a i pod. It thinks that it's a camera for some reason. And i think it's because maybe windows having a part of this but i'm not really sure. and yes my windows is up to date. what can i do? and why does it think that it's a camera? My second question is i bought a" application card" from best buy. So, i went to i tunes and bought some applications and then synce them to my i pod touch. But, a problem occured... when i did this it synced every game ect.. and it downloaded on the i pod but when i went to play a game, the game popped up and then a second later it closed. And that happend with everything i bought. So, i don't know if i loaded it wrong or something. And i did it on another computer not mine.. So, Can anyone help me? :) please.. and thanks for your time! Open Question: Freshman Dance Help.?Alright here's the problem. A few weeks ago, I asked a sophomore to go with me to our school's freshman dance in March. Now, the only class I have with this girl is gym. And I'm not really good at sports despite the fact I'm 6 feet tall. But the problem I've been having is talking to her. I don't know what to talk about. I would've asked her out on a date or something but she already has a boyfriend. And in gym there's this other sophomore who's always around her. And this sophomore thinks that's he's the coolest kid and that he's amazing at everything. Plus he's not exactly the nicest person. He makes fun of most of the kids in our gym class and just flirts with her most of the time. Gym ends for my class towards the end of January. So any ideas about stuff to talk about would help. And maybe some other ways to actually be with her would be good too. By the way I am a freshman. Open Question: I might kill myself over this... should I and if not what should i do?.. (Part 1 of 3)?READ ALL PARTS!!! I was a loner for 13 years. Never once had anyone ever appealed to me. Then one day after a soccer game in my gym class in 7th grade this girl approached me and said that I played hard out there in a flirt-like way. I was confused I didn't think she knew who she was dealing with because I've been known as a guy with anger problems and a loner. We talked a lot after that and became friends. We'd flirt in the back of the science class because we had already understood the material and we were just having fun. Although it took me 4 months to figure out I liked her, but by then it was too late. She was already dating someone else who I wouldn't know until over a year later that he cut her while they were dating. They dated for a year while I was just messing around cracking jokes having fun and all. We even played poker on the last day of school and I pulled a Royal Flush on her. We laughed said bye and we hoped that we had more classes together the next year. Over the summer something happened to me but I became not the happy go lucky I don't give a shit guy I used to be. I became a demon from hell. Listening to Death Metal was something I started to do a lot. I guess it corrupted me. The next year she didn't hang around me as much anymore. It was as if she was partially avoiding me. I started to feel internal suffering. A suffering so great it brought tears to my eyes for the first time in 8 years. The last time was when I tripped and cracked my head open on a metal scooter. I started to realize something when I ran everything through my head. The pain ceased when the thought of that I was in love with her crossed my mind. But after a while it wasn't enough. I really knew that this was the girl for me. After years of confusion and wonder, this was the one. Later that day I spilled everything to her. What confused the hell out of me was that she said that she has already known. I asked for how long. She said for an entire year. Almost three times a week afterwards I would tell her I love you. I'm not sure but after two months of this is when she started to back off a little. We shared lunch that year and she was always concerned that I no longer ate lunch. She would always blame the fact that she's Italian, but that doesn't seem right to me. What always was paining me was that she basically talked about her ex-boyfriends or her current one. That annoyed me. She knew I loved her but she didn't seem to care. Soon after, I spiraled into a depression that would last about a year. I would ask her every now and then if she loved me. I made it clear that it would be fine if she didn't because I wouldn't kill myself, I'd just back off. I said this because I got the feeling that I may have gotten over-attached to her for not being her bf. She wouldn't tell me. She also does the weirdest shit ever and still watches shows that I have never watched but I knew they were for four year olds. Her favorite TV show is Little Bill, ok. Other than over little things, she's indecisive. Occasionally she will argue with herself over something that the answer is obvious to but she does it anyway. I've wondered if she loves me every single day since I knew that I was in love with her. Soon after a few weeks of the only topic she talked about was her bf and at the same time every now and then when I was noticeably depressed she would "tease" me in a way that messes with me, I went suicidal. She even does that to this day, messes with me that there's still hope for me. I have no idea whether or not she would even date me, although judging by the fact that she has to have a bf every second practically, I think that she would. I'm still unsure. I told her that was unsure of my will to live and she got pissed off as hell. She said, "FUCKING HELL NO YOU DON'T! You're not killing yourself I'm not letting you I'll find you a reason to live." Open Question: Is it crazy to feel weird about having a newborn soon?Again, I think what annoys me the most is people are making assumptions. I remember my mom telling me one of my aunts told her, "Well, _____ (me) is having you a baby" as if I'll need her to take care of my child for me. I think part of the problem is I was single for so long prior to getting married. I dated but wasn't involved with anyone on a serious level. It's always just been me. I've always been very independent. But I can't, for the life of me, figure out why I am being singled out and treated as if I'm some special case when it comes to having a baby. I work and have always worked. We have our own home. I'm not on drugs. What's the problem? I am 32 and will be a first time mother in about 6-7 weeks (having c-section around 36 to 37 weeks as long as the lungs are developed). I am really starting to get nervous about becoming a mother. The primary reason is because I have never been a kid person. I like kids. I think they're cute. But I'm not one of those type of people who melt everytime they see a newborn or a baby in general. I think I've become more in tune with that since becoming pregnant, but I'm still not one of those people who drool when they see kids. I am rarely around kids. Rarely ... with the exception of my husband's eldest niece. I have always wanted to have a child and didn't think I would be able to do so at one point. But the Lord saw it fit and here I am 30 weeks and 1 day pregnant with a little boy. This has truly been a shocker to both my husband and I and we feel extremely blessed. My husband, on the other hand, has always loved kids. He has a 10 year and 8 month old niece whom he absolutely adores. When we're out in public he smiles at babies, and anytime we're around kids (whether it be friends or family) he plays with them non-stop. I was so glad once I got pregnant because I know that was something he really wanted to happen (and we've been married for almost 6 years). I just feel so worried. I have confidence in myself but I don't think others think I can do it. My mom and my aunts keep making comments like, "This is going to be a huge change. You're not going to be able to do this or that or this or that." I'm thinking, how is my experience going to be different than any other first time mother? They also keep making comments such as, "_____ (my husband) is going to deal with that baby. You're not going to be bothered with him." It's almost like because they know I am rarely around kids, they expect that I won't want to have anything to do with my own child. I don't think any of them can picture me with a child. At times, I can't picture myself with one just because it's been a long time coming. But I know he will be mine so I will do what is necessary. I guess my personality plays a huge factor in what others think, but it bugs me that people just make general assumptions and automatically rule me about as being a parent. I tend to be on the more conservative/serious side. If babies or kids are in my presence, I'll say they're cute and talk to them if they're old enough to talk but I'm not one to do the "goo goo, gah gah" and all that other baby talk to babies. I guess I really don't feel comfortable, but I plan to communicate with my baby. Open Question: What kind of ring should I for my girlfriend this Christmas?I am 15 and my girlfriend is 14. We have been dating for about a year and a half. I know she wants a ring, but the problem is, what kind, what brand, how big, how much? I do not come from a very rich family and I only have $32 right now. Im expecting to work and make some more money. Please help. Open Question: my then girlfriend moved in with me this year. we mutually broke up, and get along fine. we are seniors?away at college. i live in a house with roommates, she moved in to save us both money. her problem is that she doesn't know how to be happy without a boyfriend. she dated someone for 6 years. in between their breaks, she would date other guys until they got back together. he broke up with her (for good, he moved 10 hours away for a job) last winter and she started dating another guy a few weeks later, and then i came into the picture about half a year ago. we broke up on good terms about a month ago and now she is dating another guy. when i say dating, i mean going out 4,5,6 times a week, sleeping over his place any time she's not working her night shift. basically, she is depressed when she doesn't have a man there for her. when i mention this to her, and suggest she should not date anyone for a while, she says "he makes me happy, you want me to give up my happiness?". i take that as she is dependent on him (whichever him that may be) to be happy. she doesn't have many friends. she's a sociable girl, she is just use to befriending her boyfriends friends and not having to go out and make her own. once they break up, she looses them, which compounds her unhappiness. she "solves" her depression by finding another guy to date. how can i get through to her about this? I've tried to talked to her about this many times but she is always attracted to the quick, easy solution of finding another boyfriend. her father past away 5 years ago, if i were a psychiatrist, i think the obvious thing is to say is that she is replacing that father figure with boyfriends. Open Question: Do you believe in love at first sight or do you think that comes with time?For the last year I've been on and off with a wonderful guy. Yes a wonderful guy, the problem is that he's not my type. He's good looking, but no my type. However, in this on and off he finally told me that he was done and that he couldn't continue doing this because he is in love with me and this was killing him. I decided to give it one more try because I KNOW he's an amazing man and the odds of finding someone so perfect are very small. He adores me to death, he even accepted the fact that I have GH, pretty much the guy worships the ground I walk on.The last month has been wonderful and I'm starting to feel things that I never thought I'd feel, but will I ever fall madly in love with him vs. someone who fell in love at first sight? We have an awesome chemistry in the room that I've never had, not even in my 8 yr relationship while in high school/college, we enjoy each others company, he's just the perfect guy. And when I mean perfect I mean perfect; almost flawless. I'm just afraid to never be madly crazy in love with him. Sometimes I get so upset at myself for not feeling crazy about him. Please share any stories if you dated someone who you didn't really like much and then you ended up falling madly in love with them. I need some inspirational stories. And please don't judge me I've been nothing but good to him just so confused. Thanks in advance :) More Recent Articles |
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