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Open Question: Nice way to ask parents if i can go across the U.S for a guy? and more...

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Open Question: Nice way to ask parents if i can go across the U.S for a guy? and more...

Open Question: Nice way to ask parents if i can go across the U.S for a guy?

ok ok, so im 18 years old. i recently graduated from high school, and now i am a fulltime college student. Well ive been knowing this guy for over 6 years now. He is so sweet and i've always know he was the one for me but there was always one problem. DISTANCE, i live in California and he lives in Florida. I video chat with him all the time and we even got a videophone to talk and see eachother, i trust him with my life, but now we found ourselves in a turning point , were both single! & we both always have loved eachother but since we have distance between us i guess we would kind of just iggnore our love and date pepole. I really want to go see him, and i passed all my college courses this semester with A's and B's, all my finals are done and i have a month of freetime now. The only reason im not asking him to come here is because he has a job and plus i live with my parents. I really want to go, i just dont know how to break it down to my parents. i mean i am 18 and i feel like ive been a "good" girl so they should let me go right? or am i asking too much? It would be great to fine a mothers opinion on my question. Thanks in advanced.

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Open Question: How to get a one night stand / put out air of sexual energy (or something like that) in college?

Alright, never asked a question here before but I wanted some objective advice. I'm a Junior at a big party university, just turned 21, etc. My number's at 9 girls and I've had 3 GFs in college so far. I don't think I'm bad looking at all, I'm in decent shape. My one caveat is that I look young (think 17 or 18) , but I think I act/dress my age. My problem is that I can't seem to get a 1 night hookup. It's really starting to bother me. I go to 1 or 2 parties every weekend, talk to a lot of girls, but they all seem to get bored. I can get numbers, but I don't really want to date anyone right now. I don't know how to get the conversation past the basics and somewhere that makes them start to think about casual sex, even just making out would good. Girls? What does a guy do that makes you want to sleep with him after only recently meeting him? Am I alone here? All my friends seem to be able to hook up with some chick at every party we go to! I've had big parties at my own house and didn't get laid! It's seriously fucked up! Anyway, any advice is appreciated... P.S. don't give me some bull about sex is for relationships...I'm way past that.

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Open Question: what should i do ? should i still believe in him?

ok so this guy has been keeping in contact with me for 7 years now ... he was 5 years older than me so when i was younger we could never have gotten into a relationship. he called and texted me a lot when he was in college to let me know if he was or wasnt going to be intown or to take me out to dinner.. now years later im in college and we were still doing the same dance untill one day he told me over the phone how he felt. the problem is im in north carolina and hes in florida. so when i come home for the summer we start to hook up- he gets mad at me for little things like being too busy or ( i hooked up with one of his friends 4 years ago) . i then tell him that i cant go through with hooking up unless we are going to date cause i like him too much... he then tells me how he feels always likeing me but im in NC and hes you cant start a relationship long distance. he says you have to be with that person for a while first. so we decided to be friends and for me to live my life dating other guys up here. but he wants me to call him whenever i am in town. now when i got back up to nc he kept in contact and before i went home for thanksgiving break he called schedule hanging out. when i got down to fl i had to cancel i cept trying to reschedule but he wouldnt answer. then i started to get mad cause he wasnt returning my phone calls. when i talked to my friend she said he never wanted to date me (i was thinking than what was all this bullshit) i defriend him on facebook... realize i overreacted without talking to him. when we talked he was an *** he was like i thought we were just friends and when i asked if he ever cared he was silent and then he asked why i defriended him i told him cause hes been sending me mixed signals for a long time. his answer : i disagree. i hang up the phone furious at him ... later he texts " hey sorry i wasnt very articulate when we spoke at the beginning of the week. i like you. i think you're cute but you're in college. you need to do your own thing. i will always be there for you:)" my question is what does he want from me. should i forget him and see him just as a friend? does he just want to hookup? or does he really like me and want a relationship after college if were in the same place? lasted 7 years cause i only had a crush on him then ... i never made a move and neither did he till last year - hes my bros friend hes older hes in my group of friends hes one of my best friends. all the reasons why i didnt make any moves. i just went with other guys oh i forgot to add not that it really make any difference but im a D1 athleate i only get 4 days off durring thanksginving and only 8 days for xmass break then i have the summers. thos are the only times i come home - not to mention xmas i travel with the fam.

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Open Question: How do I make my 2 1/2 year relationship with my boyfriend more fun?

We've been dating for a little over 2 1/2 years and lately, I feel like he's just a good friend that happens to know a lot about my life, that I happen to say "I love you" to, and that I have sex with. I know that there's no way of completely having all of that original 'spark' of a new relationship back, but I need something. Any suggestions/ideas? And I'm not looking for answers like "Go on a picnic!" By the way, I am 19 years old and he will be 21 in April. So you can see my frustration with the fact that I feel like I'm having the same problem that 30-year-olds have.

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Open Question: boysssssssssssssssss...?

ok so this guy has been keeping in contact with me for 7 years now ... he was 5 years older than me so when i was younger we could never have gotten into a relationship. he called and texted me a lot when he was in college to let me know if he was or wasnt going to be intown or to take me out to dinner.. now years later im in college and we were still doing the same dance untill one day he told me over the phone how he felt. the problem is im in north carolina and hes in florida. so when i come home for the summer we start to hook up- he gets mad at me for little things like being too busy or ( i hooked up with one of his friends 4 years ago) . i then tell him that i cant go through with hooking up unless we are going to date cause i like him too much... he then tells me how he feels always likeing me but im in NC and hes you cant start a relationship long distance. he says you have to be with that person for a while first. so we decided to be friends and for me to live my life dating other guys up here. but he wants me to call him whenever i am in town. now when i got back up to nc he kept in contact and before i went home for thanksgiving break he called schedule hanging out. when i got down to fl i had to cancel i cept trying to reschedule but he wouldnt answer. then i started to get mad cause he wasnt returning my phone calls. when i talked to my friend she said he never wanted to date me (i was thinking than what was all this bullshit) i defriend him on facebook... realize i overreacted without talking to him. when we talked he was an *** he was like i thought we were just friends and when i asked if he ever cared he was silent and then he asked why i defriended him i told him cause hes been sending me mixed signals for a long time. his answer : i disagree. i hang up the phone furious at him ... later he texts " hey sorry i wasnt very articulate when we spoke at the beginning of the week. i like you. i think you're cute but you're in college. you need to do your own thing. i will always be there for you:)" my question is what does he want from me. should i forget him and see him just as a friend? does he just want to hookup? or does he really like me and want a relationship after college if were in the same place? oh i forgot to add not that it really make any difference but im a D1 athleate i only get 4 days off durring thanksginving and only 8 days for xmass break then i have the summers. thos are the only times i come home - not to mention xmas i travel with the fam.

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Open Question: uggg.... help... please?

ok so this guy has been keeping in contact with me for 7 years now ... he was 5 years older than me so when i was younger we could never have gotten into a relationship. he called and texted me a lot when he was in college to let me know if he was or wasnt going to be intown or to take me out to dinner.. now years later im in college and we were still doing the same dance untill one day he told me over the phone how he felt. the problem is im in north carolina and hes in florida. so when i come home for the summer we start to hook up- he gets mad at me for little things like being too busy or ( i hooked up with one of his friends 4 years ago) . i then tell him that i cant go through with hooking up unless we are going to date cause i like him too much... he then tells me how he feels always likeing me but im in NC and hes you cant start a relationship long distance. he says you have to be with that person for a while first. so we decided to be friends and for me to live my life dating other guys up here. but he wants me to call him whenever i am in town. now when i got back up to nc he kept in contact and before i went home for thanksgiving break he called schedule hanging out. when i got down to fl i had to cancel i cept trying to reschedule but he wouldnt answer. then i started to get mad cause he wasnt returning my phone calls. when i talked to my friend she said he never wanted to date me (i was thinking than what was all this bullshit) i defriend him on facebook... realize i overreacted without talking to him. when we talked he was an *** he was like i thought we were just friends and when i asked if he ever cared he was silent and then he asked why i defriended him i told him cause hes been sending me mixed signals for a long time. his answer : i disagree. i hang up the phone furious at him ... later he texts " hey sorry i wasnt very articulate when we spoke at the beginning of the week. i like you. i think you're cute but you're in college. you need to do your own thing. i will always be there for you:)" my question is what does he want from me. should i forget him and see him just as a friend? does he just want to hookup? or does he really like me and want a relationship after college if were in the same place? oh i forgot to add not that it really make any difference but im a D1 athleate i only get 4 days off durring thanksginving and only 8 days for xmass break then i have the summers. thos are the only times i come home - not to mention xmas i travel with the fam.

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Open Question: Horribly confused lesbian in need of help!!?

I'm a lesbian new in the dating scene. I've noticed that people often want a rough estimate of what you are (femme, butch, etc.). The problem is I thought I knew what femme was but now I'm a bit confused. I've read a few people who said that almost no one on The L Word was all that feminine when I thought almost all (except for Shane and Max of course) were. That leaves me confused as to what I am. It would be great if someone could give me examples of different qualifications of what exactly femme and butch (and anywhere in the middle) would be considered. You can use any famous people. No need to stick just to the ones on The L Word. Thanks in advance.

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Open Question: Is bad breath innevitable in a romantic relationship,?

I don't have too much experience in dating, I've had only 2 gf's. My last one I must say her bad breath was a problem and turn off, I always had to give her gum. I know all humans have bad breath but I like too think that a beautiful cute girl won't ever have it, at least regularly. But I guess it's a part of life and something to get used too, has anyone ever met the girl or man of their dreams, was this easy to accept or ignore, did you ever think who would have thought my dream girl/boy had the worst morning breath, or did you know this from the get go and still married or stayed?

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Open Question: i like this kid help :/ messes with my mind?

ok so this guy has been keeping in contact with me for 7 years now ... he was 5 years older than me so when i was younger we could never have gotten into a relationship. he called and texted me a lot when he was in college to let me know if he was or wasnt going to be intown or to take me out to dinner.. now years later im in college and we were still doing the same dance untill one day he told me over the phone how he felt. the problem is im in north carolina and hes in florida. so when i come home for the summer we start to hook up- he gets mad at me for little things like being too busy or ( i hooked up with one of his friends 4 years ago) . i then tell him that i cant go through with hooking up unless we are going to date cause i like him too much... he then tells me how he feels always likeing me but im in NC and hes you cant start a relationship long distance. he says you have to be with that person for a while first. so we decided to be friends and for me to live my life dating other guys up here. but he wants me to call him whenever i am in town. now when i got back up to nc he kept in contact and before i went home for thanksgiving break he called schedule hanging out. when i got down to fl i had to cancel i cept trying to reschedule but he wouldnt answer. then i started to get mad cause he wasnt returning my phone calls. when i talked to my friend she said he never wanted to date me (i was thinking than what was all this bullshit) i defriend him on facebook... realize i overreacted without talking to him. when we talked he was an *** he was like i thought we were just friends and when i asked if he ever cared he was silent and then he asked why i defriended him i told him cause hes been sending me mixed signals for a long time. his answer : i disagree. i hang up the phone furious at him ... later he texts " hey sorry i wasnt very articulate when we spoke at the beginning of the week. i like you. i think you're cute but you're in college. you need to do your own thing. i will always be there for you:)" my question is what does he want from me. should i forget him and see him just as a friend? does he just want to hookup? or does he really like me and want a relationship after college if were in the same place? oh i forgot to add not that it really make any difference but im a D1 athleate i only get 4 days off durring thanksginving and only 8 days for xmass break then i have the summers. thos are the only times i come home - not to mention xmas i travel with the fam.

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Open Question: Asthenospermia PRoblem?

sir, I got married since last two years but till date i have no child , i had visited at hospital or others , my report was Asthenospermia Defect. sir how can I be a Father,others Doctors has suggested to me for Testube but I dont want such like this, now I m planning to go abroad alone & I will come after two years so before i want a child so how it can be possible please sir suggest be I m in deep pressure.

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