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Open Question: ok heres the deal pleeeeeze answer (b nd gs plz)!!!? and more... Open Question: ok heres the deal pleeeeeze answer (b nd gs plz)!!!?ok i have been dating my boyfreind for like two months and i still haveny kissed him??pleeze tell me a way to go in for the first kiss>>>i need help i have lots of dating problems:( Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: Should I stay with someone who was very promiscuous in college?I have been dating my boyfriend for about a year and a half now. I knew what I was getting into when i started dating him, in terms of his old reputation. He had a loooottt of sex in college ... and apparently many threesomes. I know of many women that he has been with .. etc etc. Heres the problem, when I meet old friends of his or even people we both know I am mortified to think that they know a looooottt about my boyfriend. So I understand that everyone makes their own unique choices in terms of sexual discretion - I personally haven't been with many people, but I've always had the policy who am I to judge someone elses choices. Recently however hes spent time with "Friends" who its a known fact hes had a lot of sex with. They hung out alone. I am NOT worried about infedility as he comes home every night and he is very committed to me.. etc. I just am not comfortable .. just on principle I guess ... that hes interested in keeping friendships with all these people. I dunno its just wierd to me - like I don't go out alone with ex-boyfriends much less people i solely hooked up with in college. I just see that as my young life and although I have kept in touch with people from college ... its just time to be grown and sexy haha .. enough of this college deal. So heres my question: Should I give him an ultimatum (which if i did i don't think he would agree to) ... i don't really think ultimatums are fair anyway ... or should I break up with him. I'm not willing to sit around and be like "ok hunny you're spending the day with Xgirl who you used to hook up with" or hang out with them as I've actually done before ... (before I knew hed hooked up with them before). Has anyone experiences this before? He's a really really good guy who will be the perfect man for someone/me ... but I'm really not willing to hang out with/be ok with him hanging out with women hes had sexual encounters with who he now considers friends. Am i being unreasonable??? ps: I'm Hot so insecurity is not an issue Open Question: I haven't kissed my serious boyfriend yet...?My boyfriend (22) and I (20) have been dating for 6 months and are *very* happy together, very much in love, and have even talked about possibly marrying in a few years. We are very affectionate with each other- hugging, kisses on the lips, cuddling, saying how much we love each other, etc. We even make love almost every day- true I'm not comfortable with "taking over" or being "the active one" during sex but I definitely participate and he knows I love it. And besides he lasts literally 20 seconds so he knows he has no right to really complain about my performance. But, all in all, even with the sex, we are both really happy and I don't think we mind our little probelms regarding that. But, the main thing is, we haven't french kissed. Mainly because, to me, it is way more intimate than sex and I'm just too uncomfortable/nervous to do it, but also because I just think it's sort of gross. I've kissed several guys many times in the past, but I haven't been in love like I am now and this nervous to do it. And, nowadays, when I think about it I just think it's gross. He doesn't mind, and we're still happy together. Is this wrong? Do we have to french kiss and make out like normal couples to grow closer? Especially if I don't want to to it, and he doesn't mind? We do a ton of other romantic, very affectionate sexy things, but still I'm concerned this is a problem. Every relationship has its quirks and problems, right? Open Question: I Love Him.. but i've come to realize things: Should i break up our two year relationship?First of all, i feel like a completely terrible person. I started dating this guy who was my best friend in grade 12. i 'liked' someone else at that time and my guy 'liked' me. It was all very dramatic then, high school, and the guy i liked totally fucked me over. and then my guy now made a move, and we hooked up and since on have had a two year relationship. Now i think at that point i would have considered him a bit of a rebound but i mistook that i love him as a friend, and that he was an excellent boyfriend, for actually loving him. I met his family and enjoyed spending time with him all the time and such. His life in his mind consists of three things: Music, His Guitars and Amps, Me. So i went to follow my dreams and moved 45 minutes away from my little town to go to Acting school. I've lived here for two months and would always see him 2-3 nights a week. but we've been fighting lately and it's shown me the huge differences in our maturity. One day i was extremly tired at 6a.mdidn't didnt want to have sex and he was all upset and randomly threw my phone at the wall and broke it, so i left to upstairs and heard him punching some things and then came up stairs like nothing happened and hugged me and when i tried to move awawouldn'touldnt let go so i got mad and he started sending me angry texts. anywaysnwyays back to the history... Most of the things he does annoys the crap out of me.. like for example, he sings all the time, in his car at home, and i really cant stand his singing. he cant sing. and one of his favorite things to do is brag to people and be really cocky all the time and most people agree with me when i bring up the "is he a good singer do you think?" question. all he ever wants to do is play the guitar.. unless i force him to do something fun with me.... like snow mansowmans or go to a park or something :P THEN! we we are finally alone together with no public we know, and no guitars, we have the most fun evvvver! its so confusing. that's just some of the problem: He doesn't have life goals because "the only thing he cares about is me", and He acts like a jerk randomldoesn'tdoesnt realize it, SOis soo forgetful and always ignores me when we are not alone. I just dont know anymore. I feel like i could be sort of happy in a marriage with him and i become terribly sad when i think of breaking up with him, i would miss everything, i even love his family. but i wonder if all these things that keep happening and get worse. I feel like all the chemistry on my end has fizzled out and i only enjoy him as my best friend with benefits.... but how am i supposed to even tell him that he really annoys me? :( the sex is not at all bad either. :P More Recent Articles |
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