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Open Question: oracle 10 g / 11g: Some advise needed please !!? and more... Open Question: oracle 10 g / 11g: Some advise needed please !!?I started to learn oracle a month ago in 10 g edition and I found no problems working with it, besides, I really loved the sqlplusw.exe that came with that edition.. Afterwards I tried to upgrade to 11g edition to keep up to date, but after I installed 11g I didn't find isqlplus and found that sqlplus is run on DOS mode.. So I'm sure that 11g includes new features, but since it misses those 2 important components which can improve a beginner's command line skills, is it advised for a newbie like me to migrate to 11g or is it better that I stick with 10g until I gain more coding skills? Open Question: Have you ever lost a friendship by confessing romantic feelings, and was it worth it?One of my best friends and I have become very close. He has opened up to me in ways he never has with anyone else. He trusts me implicitly, and he's not a person who lets a lot of people in. I feel like a fraud in this friendship, however. I have romantic feelings for him (we're both gay, so that's not the problem) and once asked him out on a date, early in our friendship (over a year ago.) He did not share my feelings. Our friendship has steadily grown over the last year, and he has been very supportive of me, and I have always made sure he knows that I accepted what he said and have moved on. But, that is a lie. I am so uncomfortable lying to a friend who I always promised to be straight-up with. I know that if I tel him, it could well mean the end of our friendship. I am certain he does not now, nor will he ever, share my feelings. However, I find it increasingly hard to be around him. The constant dissecting of our conversations, and everything he says and does is driving me crazy. I find it hard to be around him sometimes, and we see each other a lot. When he shows interest in other guys, it's like his initial rejection of my feelings is happening all over again, but amplified. Has anyone else taken the chance of losing a friendship this way? Was it worth it? Did unburdening your pain help you move on, even if you lost a good friend in the process? My main motivation is not hoping he'll say he loves me too. It's wanting to rid myself of the feeling that I'm lying to someone I care very deeply for. The friendship brings me so much pain - for whatever reason I've just not been able to move on. Losing the friendship would also mean not seeing other friends as often (our social group all worships in the same place.) A place where I once found so much comfort has become a prison. He cares about me. I've no doubt. But this cannot go on. Is this a chance worth taking? Thank you for your time. More Recent Articles |
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