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Open Question: please help me idk whats happening? im 19? and more... Open Question: please help me idk whats happening? im 19?hello im 19 and have been with my girlfriend bout 3 months and when we first started dating we were having sex like 4 times a day and now i dont know whats happening, lately i been getting an errection fine but when it comes to go have sex i cant get hard.. its really wierd idk why?? is it me or her?? idk she feels bad when i cant but if its like a real risky place i dont have any problems i just want it to go back to the way it was can you help????? PLEASE ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Open Question: I'm dating a girl and i dont know how to..?well im 18 years old and shes 19 but the age isnt the problem even thought it causes me to be a little insecure. iv had girlfriends in the past and i know about relationships but she said she doesnt want a relationship and she just wants to date since shes moving out of new york next year and doesnt want anything serious. im perfectly fine with this and i dont mind it since wer both focused on college and such. but im new to the whole "just dating" concept like is it okay to make moves on her?, shes told me that she likes me and that im an amazing guy. but we have gone on out 3 dates and i dont know if i should go for a kiss. Open Question: Am i right for being upset at my best friend over this incident? 20 points for best answer?Me and my so called "best friend" have been friends for a few years and i always confided in her about everything and have tried really hard to be a good friend to her. Although we've had a lot of good times together and everything and she's been there to listen to me through my problems she's the type of friend who wont stick up for me and defend me in situations where if the roles were switched i would be there defending her. Ive always looked past it but this past year there have been two situations that really hurt me. firstly, we had our prom this year and i wasnt planning on going because i was supossed to go on a trip with my boyfriend who i hadnt seen in a few months but because my friend really wanted me to go i felt guilty and went because of her. my boyfriend was mad and decided to go away without me and just take his friend so i went to prom without a date for my friend and she knew that. when it came to dealing with limos i was put in a really awkward situation because there was a guy i had a lot of history with who was veryyyy mean to me who ended up in our limo and my friend knows how bad the situation is between us. i was upset that my friend wouldnt do anything to make the situation more comfortable for me. she said she couldnt because she made a commitment to her date (who she isnt friends with... friendly at most) and couldnt leave the limo or do anything to change it. but if it were me and i knew that my friend wasnt comfortable and was going to prom for me specifically i would have done anything to make the experience better for her, especially because a best friend is there for you after prom whereas her date she rarely ever sees. i ended up sucking it up and going in that limo and putting it behind me but it still bothers me. recently we had another issue where she kept something from me for a long time because she knew it would upset me if i found out (has to do with hooking up with a guy) which i eventually did in the worst way possible. everyone else knew about this including people who she cried to me about hurting her and "making her lose faith in humanity." its a stab in the back to me that she expects me to tell her things and be there for her when she confides in everyone besides me. but she doesnt seem to think she has done anything wrong ever and she always makes herself the victim. Am i right to feel this way or am i being too demanding or expecting too much of my friends? Open Question: Can anyone help me with this "boy"problem im not understanding?I sit next to a boy and he talk to this girl.The girl acts like she hates him but then they pass a note the boy wrote "U broke up with me" the girl said "I got back with u! U jerk!" Wats going on?Are they dating cuz that girl acts like she hates him. P.S They are popular in my school. Open Question: NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND 19 (at times suicidal thoughts)?SO i'm turnin 19 now, and i can't help but wonder if theirs somethin wrong with me, i admitt , i'm the most insecure guy and for some reason i have high expectations when it comes to girls. I look bakck at my life and theirs been at least 10 girls that have been interested in me but most of them i didn't find attractive. Me personally i'm not that difficult wit girls its just that i feel i will be judged if i have a girl thats unattractive. I 'm not tryin to be conceited but this is really becoming a problem for me and it gets me really depressed... I go out to clubs a lot and for some reason I'm able to hookup wit girls that i'm interested in their. Am i right to be so picky or should i just date the next girl that comes around. i'm insecure on the inside but i don't really tell anybody but i am friendly and quite social Open Question: Why is it that all the good guys won't tell me they like me?The bad guys have no problem pretending to be nice and asking me out on dates then trying to make a move. Why can't the good guys just come out and tell me they like me? I'd be so glad if one decent guy gave me the time of day. I'm not a bad person. I'm a virgin and a christian, so why can't good guys ask me out? BTW I'm a sucky judge of character. The bad guys pretend to be good guys so I don't even know who to like, or I like the good guys and they never like me back.... What gives? Open Question: What's wrong with me?I'm 18 and in my second year of college. I am afraid of all things social. I've always been shy but had really started to come out of my shell and was really social upon completing my second year of high school. I had lots of friends, loved meeting new people(and felt very comfortable doing it), and attended parties and other social gatherings. However soonafter beginning my third year of high school, my family moved to another state. This was a little over 3 years ago. Like any new student on their first day of school, i remember being very nervous at my new school. However, my nervousness did not ease very much as the school year wore on. I felt anxious and somewhat panicked when near a group of people i didnt know. This happened in the lunch room a lot until I met one or two people that I spent lunch with(before this i spent my lunch in the school library hiding in a corner busying myself with books that i never really read) until i graduated a year later. I never ventured outside this comfort zone, I felt as though I couldn't. I panicked at the mere thought of it. Needless to say I graduated with very few people that I talked to. I never really talked to them outside of school except for one, we ended up going to the same college. This person and I still talk. I was invited to many parties and outings during my last year in high school however i never went to any. I couldnt bring myself to. In college, things didnt get any easier. I wanted to join clubs and become really involved in school, date, and make lots of friends, maybe go to a couple clubs, you know, get the real college experience. I havent done any of this. I've gotten many opportunities but i panic when i think of joining a group of people who i do not know, who have no problem socializing, and who are all familiar with each other. When I think of going to a club, I have to sit down, I cant breathe right. I think of all the people, dancing(i cant imagine dancing in front of anyone), and girls talking to guys and guys possibly talking to me, everyone mingling and having a great time except for me. not suprisingly, i've never dated anyone or had any guy friends. I can't stand this anymore! what's wrong with me? im tired of missing out on life. I feel like such a loser, please help Open Question: Why Doesn't She Wanna Be My Girlfriend?There is this girl who I've had a huge crush on for 2 years. We're both 17 and I think about her all the time, every second of my life and I swear she's reminds of an angel, that's how sweet she is. The problem is that she is pretty antisocial, she doesn't like going on dates, going to the movies, dances or crowds. She's never dated or had a boyfriend even though she's so beautiful and has been asked out at least 30 times. I was scared to ask her out but I couldn't keep everything bottled and I told her everything and how I felt about her and she agreed to date me. We've been spending like 2 hours together and talking to each other over the phone for another hour everyday for the 2 months we've been going out. Basically we're like boyfriend and girlfriend but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend. I don't get it, we hold hands, hug, kiss in public and in front of her friends so its not like shes trying to hide that we're together. She still a virgin so its not like she wants sex. She's never shown interest in other guys (you can look at her rejection list) and she says that I'm the only guy for her. I'm like her boyfriend but she doesn't want to officially call me that, anyone have any idea whats going on? Open Question: I'm having trouble knowing what's real and what I imagine. What's wrong with me?I know the difference between my reality and my daydreams but with each passing day it becomes harder and harder to tell. I can blank out for minutes at a time. (The longest I've ever blanked out for was an hour.) When I blank out, I don't just stare into space. I have these moments where it feels like I crawl out of my skin and do something I want to do. These are like daydreams and these daydreams are like movies. I usually end up just hanging out with my friends. A conflict emerges. I settle the conflict. There is a falling action. It feels so real. Then I snap back to reality. Afterwards I realize I was daydreaming and it doesn't feel real anymore. The problem comes the next day when the daydream feels like it actually happened. I will actually say things like, "I can't believe I nearly killed that guy," or "I can't believe that I went on that date with Emily." (Emily is this girl that I have a crush on.) In these daydreams I have been mugged, shot, beaten, kissed, loved, victorious, a lover, a gentlemen, etc. I realize it never happened after I think about it for a few minutes, but with each passing day the dreams feel more real. Up to this point, I have not died in these dreams. On that note. I would also like to mention that I always end up alive and happy by the end. Sometimes, I'll blank out and have these daydreams, and I'll wake up in strange places without any idea of how I got there. What's wrong with me? Open Question: Girls...is this a definite sign that this girl likes me and is interested in me?We are both 18. I have known this girl for a month and a half. We have been on "two dates" and have hung out once. Our last date was 15 days ago and at the end of the night I kissed her on the cheek and she said "awww thats sweet" and kissed me back on the cheek. I texted her on sunday after not textin her for 4 days and I said.. Me: how u been...how was ur thanksgiving?? Her: Ooo look who it isss ive been goood. thanksgiving was great. how bout uu Then I texted her on Monday and this is how our convo went..does it sound like she is interested in me from reading this? Me: Hiiiiii :) Her: Heyyyy therre. sup Me: nothinn much jus chillin. hbu how was ur dayy?? Her: Good it was a busyyy day. how was urss Me: Yea watt made it so busyy? Mine was alrite jus had hella hw to catch up on u kno Her: Yea not muchh jus school and projects n all that stuffff Me: I see I see..soo there's this big problem that me n u gotta solvee u wanna take a guess wat it iss? Her: umm no i want u to just tell me lol Me: ur no funn..the big problem is that I havent seen u for a longg time n the last time we spent time together was 2 weekss agoo..thats the big problemm we gotta solve Her: I mussst agreeee. that's a pretty big problemm Me: I kno ritee. so u agree this problem needs to be fixed immediatelyyy? Her: Most defff Me: alrite u think u'll be free anytime between fri-sun?? Gotta start plannin ahead a lil early sometimess haha Her: maybe saturday Me: alrite i can work wit thatt I was thinking about calling her on friday to confirm plans for saturday does that sound like a good idea? We used to text every other day but I think that is getting played out. I think waiting till Friday is a good idea especially since this is the week before finals. Open Question: Bond interest expense question?I really need help with this question. I am not sure how to figure out this problem. A company issues 200,000 of 20-year, 6 percent bonds at 95. If interest is paid semiannually, what is the amount of bond interest expense recorded (assuming straight-line method is used) on any interest date? a.$6000 b.$5750 c.$6500 d.$6250 e.$12250 what does 6 percent at 95 mean? Please show me how to figure out the answer. to the person who sent the link: what does jobs in pakistan have to do with my question exactly...spammer. Open Question: Should I forgive and forget after 2 yrs of lies?Sry its so long but.....:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I met him when I was 16 but he thought I was older. He told me that he was 22, and it bothered me a little, but I still agreed to let him call me. I think he was as freaked out by my age as I was of his, but there was a connection. The age difference ended up being less than a problem as far as we were concerned. We ended up dating a few months after and things were great. We have been through a lot during the last two years. I finally got my family to accept him after they saw we were serious. He was my first in a lot of ways, including sexually. I believe in only being with one man, my husband, and even though I jumped the gun a little, I am finding comfort in the fact that we are planning to get married soon. The problem was that I recently found out that he is was not 22 when we met, he was 27. I found out after we celebrated his 29th birthday which I thought was his 24th. He didn't tell me, I was snoopin in his house b/c he had given me a key a while back and I thought he was hiding something. He said that it's the only thing he has ever kept from me and I think I believe him, but the truth is that he has lied to me since day one. My friends and family were already uncomfortable enough to begin with, but I got them to accept and trust him. The age difference isn't that big a deal after all the time we have spent together, but I can't be with a man that I cant trust. And i haven't forgiven him yet, because apparently I wont let him hold me any more in my sleep. He says I constantly move away from him and mumble obscenities. I'm in college and I've always been responsible and mature beyond my years. I love him, but I don't want to be stupid about this and let love blind me. HELP! Open Question: My contact form successfully sends email, but with nothing in it?!?After a lot of frustration with internal server errors, I have finally gotten my website's contact form to work. BUT it sends me email like this: name2: testing123 email: testing123@hotmail.com submit: Send REMOTE_ADDR: 202.134.236.11 HTTP_USER_AGENT: Mozilla/5.0 (Macintosh; U; Intel Mac OS X 10_5_8; en-us) AppleWebKit/531.9 (KHTML, like Gecko) Version/4.0.3 Safari/531.9 DATE: 13:34:44 2009-12-2 Even though my contact form has a text area for a message (I'd typed a short message in the test email), the text area content did not send. As you see, I only get the senders name and email details but not what they actually say! So it's kind-of a big deal, lol. Where do I start to fix this? Could the problem lie within my perl form handler script, or in the form itself? Should I make the comment field compulsory? (name and email fields are compulsory) Open Question: Best places to meet people?Alright, guys - here's one for you: It's time for me to get back in the game. Problem is, between college, work, and ROTC (can't date within ROTC and all my coworkers have boyfriends... drat!), it's getting tough to meet dateing material. Besides clubs, frat houses, dances, parties, etc., where and how can I meet a girl my age (I'm 20) who actually wants a relationship and not a quick hook-up? Also, for an added bonus, I've been out of the game for two years, so any quick tips would also be appreciated. 10 points! More Recent Articles
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