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Open Question: Please help! What should i do or think? and more... Open Question: Please help! What should i do or think?okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half and we just recently broke up. two days later..his friend tells me that he is already interested in another girl and hes thinking about dating her. i dont know what to do. he says its over forever and hes moved on and he just doesnt ever want to be with me. and i have been trying to move on too! like im not gonna talk to him for awhile and i have tryed telling him i still love him and wanting him back..he just doesnt want it. its so hard to move on and i have been pretty okay with it. i just want him back. Do you ever think it will happen? and what should i be doing? should i give him space or talk to himm..? idk. please help. if you have had similar problems please tell me how they worked out. Open Question: Is there anything wrong with being a 'cute' girl?So I'm 17 and so far, my only two relationships have stemmed off from hook-ups (yes, pathetic). This time I actually met a guy who was interested in me for who I am... and is taking me on a first date skating tonight. The problem is, I'm scared he wont like me as much this time around. I'm not hot, or sexy or flirty, I'm just known for being cute, friendly and sweet...Is that a turn off? (I know it's not like a bad personality, but like maybe guys just want slutty?) I'm very nervous and am contemplating bringing him some Christmas cookies I made. I don't want to seem too immature, but I guess that's how I am. I need advice! I'm freaking out lol Open Question: Do you think Society as a whole is going down, and what can we do to stop it?Im 17 years old and can remember since I was 4. I think at the rate things are going, america is going to collapse by 2018. There are a number of problems with the country that nothing is being done about. 1. Single Moms 2. unplanned pregancys 3. Emo people/ self cutting 4. Autism/ADD/Aspergers becoming more rampant 5. Drug and Alcahol abuse among teens. 6. Higher Dropout rates 7. Gang Violence 8. School shootings 9. Divorced parents 10. Teens having no respect 11. Rap Music Influence giving the idea that women should have sex whenever they bend over. 12. TV Shows/Movies with no plots 13. Celebrites becoming infamous 14. Parents givng teens no disclipine 15. STD rate increase 16. Unempoyment 17. Economic Problems 18. Horrible Customer Service with companies 19. Stuff being cheaply made in China/ Falling apart in 3 days. 20. Suicidal Rate Increase 21. Iraq, Iran, etc war. 22. High gas prices 23. Rape 24. High Divorce rate 25. Abusive relationships 26. Girls dating guys for looks/money 27. No respect towards other people/ thinking they are all that 28. School Fighting I could make a list up to 1000 if I wanted to, but my point is society is falling apart in one hell of a hurry. Open Question: my girlfreind has problems i think?HI. My girlfriend and i were dating for 3 and a half years all through highschool. During the realationship there were problems with me in the way i treated her. it was because of her past, she had slept with 4 other guys then at 14, that botherd me. i felt like i couldn't respect her so i was verbally abusive and very controlling of her and twice physically abusive. I was afraid of her cheating so i wouldn't let her have friends. Then she met other freinds one guy i paticular who was paying alot of attention to her when i wasn't. Then we broke up and three hours later she had sex with this guy and didn't want me anymore and continued to see this guy and had sex with him 4 other times while we were broken up, and bought him things and snuggled with him but after a month she told him she wasn't ready for this so she left him. THen we got back together and been together for 5 years and had a baby and having another now. She says today that she never wanted him like that she was just wanting a friend and she felt like she was stuck with him because she thought i Wouldn't forgive her and was afraid of me locking her up and not beeing able to have a life becasue i acted like i didn't want her before, i defenetley wouldn't after that. and she says she ahd very low self esteem and felt like she was nothing when we were together and then even worse after she slept with him. Then when she had other friends she felt like she didn't need him anymore so she left him because she didn't want that in the first place just a friend.She says she would never do it again and she knows she made a huge mistake and hated herself for it DO you think she wanted him? and left me for him? or was the first night cheatng because she still wanted me after but was to scared to comeback to me cause thats what she says, but says she didn't cheat.And none of it wouldn't of happened if i would of treated her like a person and not a peice of shit SHOULD I TRUST HER AND BELEIVE HER THAT SHE LOVES ME AND WOULD NOT DO THAT AGAIN aslo HOW dO PEOPLE SLEEP WITH OTHER PEOPLE WHILE STILL IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE. HOW DO THEY LOOK AT AND TOUCH ANTOHER FACE SO EASILY LIKE THE OTHER PERSON WAS NOTHING TO THEM AFTER BEING WITH SOMEONE AND TOUCHING SOMEONE FOR THAT LONG Open Question: What am i supposed to think or do? please help!?okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half and we just recently broke up. two days later..his friend tells me that he is already interested in another girl and hes thinking about dating her. i dont know what to do. he says its over forever and hes moved on and he just doesnt ever want to be with me. and i have been trying to move on too! like im not gonna talk to him for awhile and i have tryed telling him i still love him and wanting him back..he just doesnt want it. its so hard to move on and i have been pretty okay with it. i just want him back. Do you ever think it will happen? and what should i be doing? should i give him space or talk to himm..? idk. please help. if you have had similar problems please tell me how they worked out. Open Question: What would you do if you were in my relationship-situation?brief history of us: I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years, since i was 13 and he was 15.. now I'm 18 and he's 20. We broke up once when I was 14 for about 6 months or so because he made stupid lies and we argued a lot so i cheated on him (not sexually) until we were broken up and then i had sex with a guy i knew for about 2 weeks, it was stupid. but whatever. i was a dumb 14 year old. So he had a problem with me being with guys, even talking to guys. whatever i understood after what happened... then it became 'our thing'. He doesn't get close with other girls and i don't get close with other guys. Talking to them, whatever, but getting REALLY close is like taboo, what girl would want their boyfriend to be bff's with a ho? which i'll get to now... My boyfriend is in a dance group, and there is this new girl who joined in september, so he has known her for 3 months. She send him flirty text messages like "lol you're too cute!" which is obviously flirty right? Well my boyfriend says "thats just the way she is." and they went out for coffee, this is what my boyfriend told me... they went out for coffee and i texted him n she was like 'whos that' n he said it was me his gf. n she was like 'oh do u think that this is okay with me hanging out with you?" he said no, but before he wouldn't want to to be freidns with a guy. But since he met this chick he changed his mind about that he apparently doesn't care anymore... i'll add that his dad and grandfather both passed away in a matter of 2 months in march and beginning of june and his counsiler told him that he needs to rely on someone else than me, like a close friend. so apparently this girl has supposibly gone through the same thing with death like him... which i bet isn't even close, but she 'understands him'. This girl is known to be a slut, and my boyfriend told me if she tried to do anything with him he'd tell her to **** off. I talked to friends about this and they called her a slut because they know her, and that if it happened to them they'd be pissed. My boyfriend and i got into a huge fight over this where i threatened to break up with him if he hangs out with just her alone, he was pissed, apparently he wants to, but they're nothing more than close friends. So she's known to be slutty, and she's hanging out with my boyfriend, my boyfriend clearly doesn't care how i feel about this. Please help! What should I tell him or what should I do? (ps. i want to show my boyfriend this after to show him that it's not okay to do this when u have a long term relationship) remember, i've been with him for 5 years and i have never been close friends with guys because 1, i have girl friends, and 2- i respect him. Open Question: Is it possible to get back together?My boyfriend and I dated for almost a year - we were in a long distance relationship. We never argued and we traveled and just enjoyed each other. We were in love and he told everyone about me, sent roses and even went to church with me. I traveled a lot to see him and also did nice things for him as well. We even had our baby name picked out and things were going great. In february, roughly six months after we started dating, I lost my job which I loved. Because we wanted to be in the same city we started talking about my moving. I started going to his city and looking for a job, we were fixing up the house for me to come and things were going great. NOW FOR THE PROBLEMS: I was having trouble finding a job (still don't have one) and I was stressed. He's a musician (pretty famous) and so he was on the road a lot and those same groupies who were showing up to shows before and calling, you know the ones that never bothered me before, stated to suddenly make me feel very insecure. He was friends with a couple whose sexuality is in question and I begin to think he was sleeping with them. I finally told him that even though I'd never met this couple, I never wanted anything to do with them or their lifestyle of drugs and suspected swinging. (He's the one who told me all the horror stories about them). Anyway the bottom line is that I'd lost everything from my job to my swanky apartment and was feeling insecure. Finally we go out one night and he sees the infamous couple. They do not see us but he calls them over even though I had told him that I wanted NOTHING to do with them. I WAS LIVID. Anyway, it started a big argument and I ended up yelling and screaming and embarassed him at the place where he works. The fight escalated and we ended up fighting for hours and subsequently, I went to a hotel. Fast forward one month and we decided to try the move anyway. I moved in (still looking for a job) and all we did was fight. He asked me to leave after three days. He tried to contact me several times and we even saw each other in August but he didn't want us to jump right back into a relationship. I let him know that I'm not willing to be anything less than a girlfriend and instructed him to never call again in life. Fast forward to December. I now realize my huge part in the breakup and he wants us to spend some time together. I'm seeing him out of town for four days starting Sunday but he says that he still doesn't know if we can work this out. Right now he says he's enjoying not having the pressure of a relationship - that I scared him from that. He also says that he is afraid to trust me, afraid that it will happen again. What should I do Yahooligans? Is there any hope. I really love him and he still loves me. How should I handle this meeting? Open Question: McAfee Virus Scan Isn't Working: Help! (.DAT Files/McAfee Framework Service/Common Updater)?Hello everyone. So I am almost certain there must be a virus on my laptop. I have 7.5GB free on my C: drive and 25GB free on my D:, yet my laptop is always whirring away and over working itself to the point where it shuts itself down (either by lack of Virtual Memory, or overheating), but I have a hunch this is due to virus(es) on my laptop. I have wanted to run a virus check for at least 1.5 years, but nothing is ever found (which I find hard to believe not even one file is picked up!) and I think it's due to this problem: When I run McAfee, I open VirusScan console > Full Scan > Play/Start Then an "On-Demand Scan Progress" window comes up, and as it's starting the error message "Old DAT Files" appears saying: "The McAfee DAT files that you are using are 13 months old . DAT files should be kept up to date to ensure that you are protected from all known threats." So I can either click on 'ok' or 'update'. If I click on 'ok', the virus scan starts but there are never any viruses caught. If I click update, this error message displays: "Failed to initialise Common Updater subsystem. Make sure the McAfee Framework Service is running. McAfee Common Framework returned error fffff95b @ 2" And then the virus scanning cancels itself. What can I do? I suppose I need these .dat files but how? If anyone can fix the problem I'll give them 10 points and praise coz i need to fix this asap!!!!! Thanks in advance Extra details: I don't want to buy another programme as I plan on getting rid of this laptop soon so I need something that works without me having to buy more virus stuff!!! More Recent Articles
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