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Open Question: Please help! What to do about a teen daughters emotionally abusive relationship? and more...

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Open Question: Please help! What to do about a teen daughters emotionally abusive relationship? and more...

Open Question: Please help! What to do about a teen daughters emotionally abusive relationship?

My daughter is involved with a boy who shows all the signs of being emotionally abusive. She is unhappy in her relationship but will not end it because she is afraid he will turn on her and take all their friends with him. They dated previously and although I tried to point out all the problems they had before she insisted on dating him again. When she broke up with him before he behaved very immaturely and frighteningly, ruined a relationship she had following the breakup and, with a group of his friends tormented her until she was about ready to have a nervous breakdown. She took him back because he said he had "changed" and that he loved her. Now he only uses her for arm candy when it suits him. I know all the research says that parents should let their children make their own decisions and that she will leave him when she is ready but does this really happen? I am so afraid she is going to set herself up for unhealthy relationships in the future if she stays with this boy much longer. I would like to hear from other parents who have had similar experiences and hear how they handled it. Thank you.

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Open Question: Do I have to right to be angry at him?

There's a boy I dated a while ago that is still interested in me. We stopped seeing each other because I was busy with other commitments. He wants us to catch up so we can talk things through. For a while he's been 'waiting' to see if we can start seeing each other again. But the problem is, the BIG reason why I don't want to even give us a go is because my BEST FRIEND really likes him. So I wouldn't feel comfortable dating a guy she likes. PROBLEM is, she tells me she's over him. I know she's not. And I'm REALLY ANNOYED at him, because he knows she likes him, and he's even discussed this with her and told her that he doesn't share her feelings. However, he CONSTANTLY is encouraging her by texting, calling & chatting with her. They only talk as friends, but I think if he was serious about me, he should be giving her space, allowing her to get over her feelings for him. Do I have a right to be annoyed? My best friend knows she's the main reason why I'm not giving him a second chance. But it's HIM I'm annoyed at, because I think it's irrisponsible to encourage my best friend by talking to her ALL THE TIME?!?! But at the same time, I really want him & I to be friends, so I don't want to end everything on a bad note. So the BIG QUESTION is: Do I tell him that I'm annoyed at him for talking to my best friend all the time? Or do I pretend like that's not an issue for me just to make things nicer for him? Or something else? PLEASE HELP!! I'm so worried I'll make the wrong decision :(

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Open Question: reocurring relationship problem PLease HELP?

Me and my boyfriend are coming up to our 9 year anniversary which we should be celebrating but I don't know if I'm in love with him anymore. I do love him but I'm scared I only love him as a friend. We have two kids together and a mortgage etc. But I asked him the Yesterday if I was the love of his life and he said he didn't know cos he was only 27. And he had the rest of his life to live so I asked him if I was the love of his life up until this point and he couldn't answer it. We both have been working hard recently and havnt spent much time together but the time we do have you would be thinking that we'd spend it together we dont He always falls asleep downstairs cos he is alway tired after work. I know it sounds triviual but I hate going to bed on my own, he makes me feel lonely, like he is not there but obviousley he is. Everything that I do is never good enough he can always do it better. He is my first ever boyfriend, and some times I find myself on dating websites looking for men who can make me feel appreciated (not sexually) but just to listen to me and make me feel special like I'm doing a good job of things. Sometimes I find myself wishing that I had a boyfriend like my friends (when their boyfriends do something romantic or nice). I just don't know what to do cos my partner is a decent man he works hard to support his family but as far as I'm concerned that's it, he doesn't support me or tell me he loves me anymore.

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Open Question: Why is it so hard to wake up? and what can i do to fix it?

No matter how long i sleep it's always SO hard to wake up to the point that my body feels as if i have no control of it and I have to struggle as hard as I possibly can to get out of bed. Anyone know why this is? and/or know how I can fix this problem? and please no answers such as "Just get up!". This is a serious issue, I'm always showing up for for things such as work, or lunch dates late because of this, or else i just end up sleeping through them completely. I dread going to sleep because I hate waking up. Please help me. Added note: I usually end up sleeping around 12-15 hours if i have no reason to force myself to wake up.

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