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Open Question: a problem-he is very far and shy!? and more... Open Question: a problem-he is very far and shy!?we are friends for some months, but he lives in another country. we just friends,but sometimes our mutual friends realise that he likes me sooo much! besides i feel and see it too.. if we had more time to communicate, i think we could be lovers..i would like to be his gf, but i dont think its real. its very hard to meet again, he lives so far! ... i want, but i cant forget him! every day i think about him..its a big pain! i like other guys, but i want to date with hin only.. Open Question: How do i get rid of an annoying ex?My ex boyfriend is actually starting to annoy me now. The more i avoid him, or ignore him, the more determined he is to speak to me. He's very manipulative as well, he knows how to pull the sad boy eyes, and give the hurt tone. The bottom line is when i used to date my ex he'd treat me like crap. He would do things like trick me with warm conversation and empathy into believing he had real feelings for me. Once he got sex no matter what he was like an ice cube. He was too ashamed to introduce me to his family, and in the whole year on and off i was seeing him, he took me out twice and never offered me food in his home at all. Everytime i break up with him first it was the begging. Then the more i realised how much of a jerk he was, the longer i'd cut him out. Last time i cut him out for months, i was ridiculously happy pretending like he didn't exist. He lives opposite me, so if i saw him on the street i wouldn't even say hi, i'd just cross the road. Last week he cornered me in front of my house and started giving me this sob story about how he thought we had a great time he didn't know why i stopped taking his calls. I remember that the time he was talking about, he was a total arse wipe. Called one of his friends to get weed of him when i wanted us to share a private time, wouldn't drop me off home and shortened our time together. When i used to try and make conversation with him he'd turn up the volume of his music, or tell me that he wasn't an intelligent person. Everytime he tries to worm his way back into my life, he pretends to be genuinely interested in how i'm doing what i've been up to? It's all such crap. He's the nicest person on the phone, real friendly and charismatic, but also extremely good at playing the hurt party. How do i cut him out for good. I'm never really happy with him, the only problem is i'm such a sucker for a sob story...he's always got one. How do i cut out the idea of a relationship with him, and get him to accept a distant friendship? I think he'd make a jokes friend but is a crap boyfriend? Any tips? Open Question: Will she forgive me if I give her this letter?To my beautiful and intelligent girlfriend: I know we haven't talked in a while, and you have the right to be upset. Please, don't listen to my friends, they're jerks sometimes. I like you for more than your looks. I love your smile and laugh. It makes me feel warm inside. You're very intelligent, and sometimes I'm shocked by your level of knowledge. I love how you hug me and kiss me. Your lips are soft, and warm, and your arms around my neck give me a feeling I've never experienced before. Our daily conversations make me forget about all the problems, and tough times I've gone through with, and without you. Now that we aren't talking, and you're upset with me, I don't know what to do with myself. I'm not going to tell you that I love you, because I honestly don't know what love is this early in a relationship. But, we were friends before we started dating, and dating you has given me the chance to get to know you even better. I am truly sorry. I won't take another day with you for granted again. You've taught me how quickly good things can change, and I wish things were back to normal. This is why I like you so much. You are also beautiful, but without your wonderful personality, we wouldn't have lasted for more than a month. You're a kind person, and I hope that you can find it in your heart, to forgive me. Yours Truly, Chris Open Question: Why does my ex contact me?I've been on this roller coaster since we broke up last August. The relationship had it's ups and downs, but even after the break up, we still continued to act like a couple. It all can to a head this past halloween. I became crazy obsessive with her. Got jealous, constantly asked her if she was dating anyone else, etc. It was none of my business, and she said I became too obsessive, and that she didn't want to ever talk to me again. I realized I had some problems of my own to deal with, so I began seeking therapy. I learned a lot about my low self esteem problem. After 19 days of no contact, my ex started texting me like crazy, and even called me that she wanted to see me. I was weary because I had finally started healing, but met her anyway. She had some problems she was going through, and said realized I was a great guy. Part of the reason she wanted to see me is because she missed and enjoyed our intimacy, so we have sex. And a lot of it. This was a month ago, and slowly, things are going back to the roller coaster ride. I will admit, I don't do any of the things that made her break up with me (passive aggressive, obsessive, constantly asked her where she was., etc.) and still give her space. In fact, she initiates 90% of the conversation, and when we do hang out, I'm constantly trying to be the man that she wants me to be. I try to be romantic, etc. Just doesn't seem good enough. She tells me she has feelings for me, etc. But, for example, our last form of communication was her calling me actin all weird. I ask her if she's back in the mode where she doesn't want to talk to me, she replies "kinda" then gives this whole speech about how we've been broken up for 4 months, but still continueing like we're doing. I respond, we'', you know what I want. She wanted me to repeat it, so i told her I want her back, saw a future with her, etc. She said sometimes she doesn't see the same thing. So I let her go. Half hour later, she asks if I have plans, asks if I want to do dinner, then asks if we can hang out and watch a movie at my house. When her movie ends, she says she's tired. I get up to take her home, but then she's already halfway to my room, strips down to her underwear and sleeps in my bed, asking me to hurry up. Nothing too intimate happend. The next day, I try to suprprise her with breakfast in bed, she doesn't seem appreciative. Then she gets all quiet, won't communicate with me, and wants to be taken home. And I haven't heard from her in a few days. I did ask her if she was only hanging out with me until she found something better. She said no, she's not on the market to find someone new. Open Question: iTunes 'Recovering Lost Song' Issue.?This question may be a lost cause but hopefully their's a solution! It all started when my hard drive was accidentally unplugged. Suddenly half of my iTunes music files were reported missing ("The Song (TITLE) could not be used because the original file could not be found. Would you like to locate it?"). I knew the location of all these files, the only problem is relocating them on a mass scale instead of 1-by-1. So I thought to automatically upload files by folder, which only ended up creating duplicates: the original "missing" file and it's new copy. I wouldn't mind having to delete these original missing files except for the fact that they all have play counts on them, which I'd like to keep. The new files are all reset, and some are also missing their album artwork. Is there a way to essentially "locate" these files as iTunes wishes on a massive scale, or do I have to do it song-by-song? I have over 3,000 songs to locate, and another 3,000 duplicates to erase! Also, does anyone know if iTunes 9 has erased the "Date Added" category in the library panel? Artist, Album, Play Count, all of these options are still there but I can't seem to find "Date Added", which would help sort things when I need to delete all these files. Open Question: If I give her this letter, do you think she'll forgive me?To my beautiful and intelligent girlfriend: I know we haven't talked in a while, and you have the right to be upset. Please, don't listen to my friends, they're jerks sometimes. I like you for more than your looks. I love your smile and laugh. It makes me feel warm inside. You're very intelligent, and sometimes I'm shocked by your level of knowledge. I love how you hug me and kiss me. Your lips are soft, and warm, and your arms around my neck give me a feeling I've never experienced before. Our daily conversations make me forget about all the problems, and tough times I've gone through with, and without you. Now that we aren't talking, and you're upset with me, I don't know what to do with myself. I'm not going to tell you that I love you, because I honestly don't know what love is this early in a relationship. But, we were friends before we started dating, and dating you has given me the chance to get to know you even better. I am truly sorry. I won't take another day with you for granted again. You've taught me how quickly good things can change, and I wish things were back to normal. This is why I like you so much. You are also beautiful, but without your wonderful personality, we wouldn't have lasted for more than a month. You're a kind person, and I hope that you can find it in your heart, to forgive me. Yours Truly, Chris More Recent Articles
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