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Open Question: Problems with my GF. HELP??!? and more... Open Question: Problems with my GF. HELP??!?Me and my gf met on the internet and that's how we hooked up. We lived in different countries. We fell in love and agreed to have a relationship. Although we did use to fight at times (as does happen in many relationships), we still loved each other more than anything and couldn't wait to get married. We were together for 2 years and i was done with my education and was going to move to her country very soon so we could be together. But one day, she came and told me that there's this one guy at her gym who she likes. We were VERY open about everything and very understanding too about things so it did not jolt me. She knew i would understand her need to go out with some guy as she had NEVER done so in the 2 years we were together. I asked her details about him and everything and she told me she really liked this guy and had a crush on him. I asked her if she wanted to date him, she did not want to tell me that because she did not want to make me feel bad, but she ended up telling me that she did. As i always asked her to tell me everything no matter what it is and that i will be very understanding, she did. I was not the controlling bf, rather i was comfortable with guys making a pass, trying their luck, checking her out and everything because it did not affect me as i knew my gf loved me. So you might say we had a really open relationship there. When i asked my gf if she wanted to break up with me, she said no i don't know. I'm confused. And then after me telling her she can be honest, i came to the conclusion that she wanted to be in an open relationship where she could date the guy and me as well to see who she likes more as we had some issues between us and we lived far away too. She found out that the guy was a junior at her school as well. By the time i knew it, one of her friend told him that she likes him so the guy came up to her at the gym and started talking to her. They became friends and he would talk to her everyday in school during their breaks and even go and sit next to her in the library to talk to her. She broke up with me and told me she could not stop dreaming about him. Then she had completely cut me off, started blaming me for everything that went wrong between us and started ignoring me everywhere. I found out that they had also hugged and that they danced at the prom together and even took pictures. Although they did not go together to the prom, one of her friends came and told her that he wanted to dance with her so after some time, she went up to him and asked him for a dance. Needless to say it constitutes as a prom date because obviously he would have had his arms around her and hands on her stomach and hips dancing together. They did not work as the guy was from a different religion and also he was immature about a relationship. But she could not get over him and just went boy crazy because of him. She started being friendly with every guy who talked to her. She started going out a lot with her girls and guys would hit on her and she would flirt back with them. A few guys asked for her number and she gave it to them. She was flirting with them on texting and on the phone as well. Though, i am sure she kept the flirting to just going out on a date clubbing and dancing together, and kissing at most. Although she talked to and flirted with loads of guys, she went out on a date with just 4-5 (I know that one of her dates was a blind date as well set up by her girls) of them and only hugged them. Although, one of her dates was her ex-bf before me and they made out. They were in his car and she was putting on lip gloss and he went like that looks hot let me taste it and just started kissing her. He had her pressed against her seat and she kept trying to resist for a few minutes until she gave in to the temptation and started kissing him back. She pushed him on his seat, climbed on top of him and started kissing him. They kept kissing for a while when suddenly he started feeling up her chest. They kept kissing and he kept rubbing and pressing her boobs for a minute before she told him that's enough. She was joining university so she had her frosh week where she made more guy friends. Many asked her out though she told them she wasn't interested in a relationship. Some asked for her number as well but instead she took their numbers and told them she would call them herself. Three drunk guys came up to her as well and she didn't mind that and let them sit next to her at the movies. The university students also went to a pub and dance night where she danced with guys who came up to her. At most she would have let them hold her hips and dance with her. But this one guy who she was flirting with since before sneaked in from behind her, grabbed her tightly around her waist and stared grinding on her. Since she was wearing a thong and these really really tight sweatpants, she felt his thing rub on her ***. Her friends pulled her away from his grip. She stopped talking to him and her ex later The word limit ran out. She stopped talking to him and her ex later on. Now she has completely changed and doesn't talk to much guys. Although still, she does not say anything to show that she realizes her mistake and she wants to be back. I mean i put up with everything and i think since a girl loves with all her heart and never forgets her first love, she should come running back. But she just says things can't work out and she keeps giving the previous reasons when in fact everything has changed and we're both perfect for each other now as well. I don't get why she doesn't do that. I know she realizes her mistake to some extent but still she doesn't come say that. If a girl is put into such a situation, she would come running back like crazy saying how huge a mistake she made. But i don't get why she isn't doing the same when i actually put up with everything throughout this. P.s. don't tell me she has done more than that because i am sure she hasn't. i know her limits very well. Open Question: Help me out with some geography.. Please?1) what is the best model/map of the earth? 2) where on the map is the mileage ratio displayed? 3) what is the biggest problem of map projections? 4) the shortest distance between two places on the earth follows the...... 5) give the latitude of a) equator b) tropic of cancer c) tropic of Capricorn make sure to be specific on the latitude and longitude (n,e,s,w) d) artic circle e) Antarctic circle f) north pole g) south pole give the longitude of a) prime meridian b) international date line if you know the answers to any of these please help me out!! Open Question: Help me out with some geography questions.. Please?1) what is the best model/map of the earth? 2) where on the map is the mileage ratio displayed? 3) what is the biggest problem of map projections? 4) the shortest distance between two places on the earth follows the...... 5) give the latitude of a) equator b) tropic of cancer c) tropic of Capricorn make sure to be specific on the latitude and longitude (n,e,s,w) d) artic circle e) Antarctic circle f) north pole g) south pole give the longitude of a) prime meridian b) international date line if you know the answers to any of these please help me out!! Open Question: Help! Boy problems :(?Ok so i am in the 7th grade and have been dating this kid kevin off and on for 4 years. Right now i am dating another guy named jesse, and i love him to death cant stop thinking about him or anything. But i don't know whenever kevin broke up with me i kinda just hid my emotions and didn't think anything of it and now well i am kinda thinking about it and im not sure what to do whenever i think about him i cry because i think he hates me. what should i do? call kevin and tell him i still have feelings or stay with jesse? help me!!! Open Question: Help with going from just friends to dating!?!?So I've known this guy (he's 19, I'm 21) for around 7 years we've been hanging out alot recently on the weekends just as friends. And I started to like him a couple weeks ago. Well he must have started liking me too because after we hung out saturday night he texted me and asked if I ever thought about us dating. I said yes, so we decided we would just take things slow. Tomorrow were supposed to hang out the problem is...I don't know what to do! We have never hung out during the weekdays, all we ever did was hang out on the weekends, party, and get drunk. I really want this to work out but I don't know how to go from being party buddys to something more. We live in a small town where there's not much to do so I don't know. Any advise would be very helpful. Thank You. Open Question: moving in with my boyfriend?(i promise its not too long to read!)?Me and my boyfriend are dating, were serious, etc... well its time for me to move out of my parents house. what we want to do is split the cost of rent of a house with 6 people. my bestfriend and her boyfriend, me and my boyfriend, and my other bestfriend and her boyfriend. one problem. my boyfriend tells me that he has this aprentice job working, and since he has no job and needs to get one im not gonna stand in his way, i support that completely. but the plan was he would move in with everyone, but if he does this job, it lasts for a year, and he wants me to move to his town with him...insted of moving here right away. this worries me for 3 reasons. 1) if i go there, i lose my job, and if his job doesn't pay, ill be stuck there. cause there will be no way to go anywhere. 2) he wanted to move to oregon, and i told him no, but i know if i give into this, he will try to make me go anywhere cause i wont have a choice. 3) my friend tells me those jobs are for working there, so he would be wasting his time to apretice and move. dont get the wrong idea about him hes a nice careing sweet guy, just a bit lazy... i told him i may move... but im not sure. what should i do? Open Question: I like the same guy as my best friend!?Theres this really nice guy that I know and all my friends like him 2 of my friends dated him and one likes him. But the problem is that I like that guy too, And he likes me back. But i dont want to ruin my friendship with my friend that I've know since kindergarden!! But I REALLY REALLY like this Guy.... Any advice?? Open Question: what do about my ex boyfriend?me and my ex boyfriend, jaydee broke up in june. we started dating in december of 08. i guess you can say we had a pretty close relationship, he helped me thru alot of family problems. the reason we really broke up is because my family and his family got involved in our relationship which became into a he said she said type of mess. it took me a long while to get over him i still think about him alot. ive been on several dates since the breakup. but at the end it will last a month at the most and ill start to compare them to him. when school started. i had to face seeing him every day...the last time me and him actually really talked was the first week of school when we decided to go to lunch. he still says he loves me but he cant handle it anymore. lately he started dating my ex best friend. i guess im okay with it. shes a good match for him but not the best. are mutual friends are always telling me how much he still cares. and they even start to see him comparing me to her. example: my friend ashlee & her boyfriend, kegan went on a double date with them. and she started complaining about how she didnt like how he was acting, hes a goof ball. and she doesnt like his jokes. and when she went to the bathroom. he said kassie would never act like this...and ashlee told me about this. idk what to think or do. we are just so awarkward around eachother. i still do care about him. i just want the best for him. i wish he could get over the past and leave it there. i wish there was some way i could just talk to him... maybe its just me trying to hold on to him... what to do...what to do... Open Question: whats wrong with him?Me and him where friends for about 4 months, and he was truly sweet to me and we spent many days together, and he really made me smile, but we never admitted to each other that we had feelings, tho after some time, we kind of made it obvious by holding hands extreme flirting cuddling and spending so much time together, there was a negative side when it came down that he wanted to do more sexual stuff and i would try to avoid it. because i didn't feel comfortable or ready to. over the summer he had to go away with his parents on a trip and when he came back 4 weeks after being away he changed and became cold didn't want to hang out for about 2 days, but before he had to leave again he became him normal self, tho we did get in an argument about how he changed and he said he didn't. after being back for about 5 days he had to leave again and everything was back to normal the day he had to leave, and he called me every weekend for the 4 weeks that he was gone again, but when he got back he didn't want anything to do with me again, and this time it was the end, he didn't explain anything, he promised to talk and we never did talk it out, he only be came cold and doesn't want to be friends or date, he said he had too much drama even tho its not true, now he flirts with my close friend and doesn't care about me. please help me out, if you have a solution of how I can get him back, either by making him jealous or something or a way how i can just get over him and forget him. Its been 4 months since we stopped being friends, we still see each other sometimes usually on the weekends when we hang out with the same friends, and it hurts me to act like nothing happened. And he didn't meet another girl, and I don't exactly have a problem either. so what do i do? Open Question: Can't get up in the morning anymore for school, can't focus on homework, I need help!...?Today was the breaking point for me. After my first hour class, I went to the office and went home sick. I suffer from anxiety and depression and I'm on prozac for it. Well, my mom has had some difficulties with relationships all through my life and this past summer she got divorced a second time. I'm wondering if its all catching up to me at this point. She started dating this guy and he was a total ass to her and now I help look up my friends single dad (she's interested in him) on facebook with her. I always feel lame when we do that. My mom has been depressed too and I don't know how she lives so positively everyday. she's a much stronger person than me because she's gone through a TON!!! (Within the last 5 years she's lost both her parents.) Anyways, then my friend has guy problems. This guy doesn't even know she exists. He's a super cool kind of guy with charisma and all that and he hung out with us a few times over the summer. She met him through a guy I know, (his friend likes me.) Anyways, now she has me creep at his facebook stuff and freaks out when any girl posts stuff on his page. Last night she freaked out because a girl wrote a really good poem on his facebook page and we think they like each other. My friend kept freaking out about it and i talked her through it. Then I felt sick myself, and I don't know why. On the spur of the moment, I deleted my facebook account and then couldn't fall asleep all night. If that guy rejected my friend, then I would probably not be up to his standards as well. I'm kind of average looks, nothing special, and I always worry a ton and I am insecure. This cool guy wouldn't want that. I guess I worry about becoming my mom. ANYWAYS, I went to class today and felt majorly sad/tired so I went home. That same friend called me a p***** for going home sick because I've missed a lot this year from exhaustion. I'm just tired of living this lifestyle. ANY ADVICE OR OPINION? I REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO! Thanks! Open Question: Buying a house, when should I switch the bills to my name?I am closing on a house next week. When should I contact the companies to switch the bills to my name? The owner has moved her stuff out completely and has the heat on only high enough to keep the pipes from freezing. I do not want to switch the utilities to my name too soon, in case we encounter a problem prior to closing, but I don't want the seller to have to pay for my heat, water, etc.. Should I get in contact with the companies now and ask them to switch the bills to my name as of the date of closing, give them a heads up that there is a potential that the bills will go in my name and after closing call and say, "change them now please", or wait until closing and then call the company? I am first time home buyer and I have no experience in this area! Thank you so much for any help you can provide! Open Question: Girls: Why Is My "Girlfriend" Acting Like This?There is this girl who I've had a huge crush on for 2 years. We're both 17 and I think about her all the time, every second of my life and I swear she's reminds of an angel, that's how sweet she is. The problem is that she is pretty antisocial, she doesn't like going on dates, to the movies or dances. She's never dated or had a boyfriend even though she's so beautiful and has been asked out at least 30 times. I was scared to ask her out but I couldn't keep everything bottled and I told her everything and how I felt about her and she agreed to date me. We've been spending like 2 hours together and talking to each other over the phone for another hour everyday for the 2 months we've been going out. Basically we're like boyfriend and girlfriend but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend. We hold hands, hug, kiss in public and in front of her friends so its not like shes trying to hide we're together. She still a virgin so its not like she wants sex. She's never shown interest in other guys (you can look at her rejection list) and she says that I'm the only guy for her. I don't get it, I'm like her boyfriend but she doesn't want to officially call me that, anyone have any idea why? Open Question: I'm engaged, 46, fiance 67, & trying to get him to set a date, waiting on his 34 yr son to finish house?We've been engaged, and he treats me like a queen, and I'm trying to set a date for a small family wedding which by the way, he says his family will probably not come, at least his 34 yr old son and 45 yr old daughter, not that they don't want too, but they are busy with work, which is bull, but never mind that. He says we can't marry till his 34 yr. old son finishes building his house which he bought this old house and is tearing it down and starting over and taking his sweet time about it. I asked his son during thanksgiving when he was going to be finished and he said not for a long time, and I thought "yeah, right, just to prolong us being married". Here's the deal. My fiancee was married 30 something years and his wife died of cancer 5 yrs ago, and then we've been dating 2 yrs, and he's older, retired, but still working, doesn't make a lot of money, so, no, I'm not in it for the money, I make more than he does, and I have two daughters, almost 21,twins, seniors in college about to go into grad school. Which I raised all by myself, I'm very independent, never had any help from their dad, and we have gotten along just fine. I asked him yesterday, for us to get married Christmas day, so it would mean his Children would be there, yes, they like me, so he says, they have never been rude or anything, I know his daughter loves me, his son, is really quiet, can't really tell what he thinks. My fiance adores my daughters, and he said, well, that's too soon, I want ....his son, to get everything out of the house for his house before we get married so it wouldn't have to be moved twice, because it was his mother's. We are planning on getting our own house, I have plenty of furniture, so that's not a problem, so because I can't live in that house he has, or rather don't want too, not a good neighborhood, plus his son wants that house so he is going to rent it out. I run a storage house, so he could put all of it in storage, rent it out, or we could live there and live at my place till we found a house, told him I would go for that, but he says also, he wants to pay off my ring. Which it wasn't but 1500, I picked it out, and didn't go overboard,, because I knew he didn't have the money and I love it. Also, a year before his wife died he had another son, whom got killed in a motorcycle wreck which still hurts him deeply and I know the house has memories, and I understand that, but want a fresh start, and want us to have our own house together, not one that has memories of his wife that died there, and I feel like we are old enough to go on and get married and not wait. I'm thinking, he wants to go on and buy the house before we get married so it will be in his name, because he did make a comment one time saying that anything we acquire while married I'm entitled too, but anything before will be his children's, but he promises that I will have the home we get and it will be paid for even if something happens to him, saying he'll get insurance and it will be paid off if something happened. Also, I think, he is scared he will end up having to pay for my children, which they work, get scholarships, grants, loans ETC. pretty much pay everything on their own, because he also made the comment too one day awhile back about let's wait till they graduate. He said, I don't want to take anything away from my son's inheritance , and I said what about your daughters, and she is from another marriage, and he said, her mother can take care of her. .I said that's not fair. What do you think. Is he playing games with me, being sly, or being careful, just watching out for his Son, not thinking about me, or what. I'm beginning now to question it. I'm tired of everyone asking when's the date, why haven't you two married, and me say, we're waiting on his grown son. They just look at me like I'm an idiot. It's like too, all of a sudden, he doesn't have money to go out, and before he had plenty, now that I have this ring on my finger. I love him, and I know there is a big age difference between us, but that doesn't matter, the money doesn't matter I just want to go on with our lives and not be controlled by a grown son. I think, it also has to do with his wife and son are buried two blocks up the street from his house also, and he won't be able to go there every day when we move also, and I've told him, I will not have her picture up everywhere in the house, I'm sorry, he still has pictures all over the house, her things and such, he says for his son, who only comes Thanksgiving and Christmas, I finally got him to take some of them down as I told him I would never go back if he didn't that he wasn't moving on with his life and therefore wasn't ready for me in it. I'm younger looking than 46, could pass for late 30's, and not being vain, but I'm very pretty, my girls and his family vouch for that, so why wouldn't he want me, but I'm also a good Christian woman, good inside too and he knows that and he's wonderful too Open Question: Contacting A Girl Who Has Asked For Some Space?There's a girl who I've gotten very close with recently, but she has asked for some space while she sorts her head out. We'd got really close over the past month and a bit as I have helped her through some problems she's been having at uni. We've spent a lot of time together, watched films and cooked for each other, I've held her as she's cried, we've stayed up all night talking, walked around the city in the evening with my arm round her etc. Because of the problems she's had she not going to sit exams this semester and has gone home early. We were texting as she was being driven home and I asked how she had explained me to her parents (I helped to load up the car after staying up all night with her). She said "a very good friend who's been helping sort things out". Even though we had a big hug in front of her mum as we said goodbye she said sorry for not being able to say goodbye properly, and that she would owe me an extra long hug when she got back. Later that night she was at some sort of party (and from the texts she was obviously feeling quite fragile), and she said she felt it was getting really intense and that she needed space to sort her head out. So I agreed, and haven't contacted her since Saturday. She knows how I feel about her, as a few weeks ago when I asked if she wanted to go out for a meal after going ice-skating with friends. She said yes, but only as friends she said she wasn't ready for a relationship as she was in a bad place at that point. I told her it was ok and that I would wait for her to be ready. She has some issues; her confidence has taken a big knock, and there's pressure from a friend who is confiding something in her (and I'm helping this girl cope with it). Also she's talked about, but refused to go into detail, about some guy who broke her heart, even though they never dated (she's not had a boyfriend before). I have given her a present for Christmas, so I'm sure she'll contact me then, but I'm really missing talking to her, and I really want to know that she is doing ok. Given we last talked on Saturday, when is it ok to send her a message and what should it say? Open Question: Why Doesn't She Want Me To Be Her Boyfriend?There is this girl who I've had a huge crush on for 2 years. We're both 17 and I think about her all the time, every second of my life and I swear she's reminds of an angel, that's how sweet she is. The problem is that she is pretty antisocial, she doesn't like going on dates, to the movies or dances. She's never dated or had a boyfriend even though she's so beautiful and has been asked out at least 30 times. I was scared to ask her out but I couldn't keep everything bottled and I told her everything and how I felt about her and she agreed to date me. We've been spending like 2 hours together and talking to each other over the phone for another hour everyday for the 2 months we've been going out. Basically we're like boyfriend and girlfriend but she says she doesn't want a boyfriend. We hold hands, hug, kiss in public and in front of her friends so its not like shes trying to hide we're together. She still a virgin so its not like she wants sex. She's never shown interest in other guys (you can look at her rejection list) and she says that I'm the only guy for her. I don't get it, I'm like her boyfriend but she doesn't want to officially call me that, anyone have any idea why? Open Question: What are some romantic things to do at dances?I'm bringing my girlfriend to our schools Winter Formal. She's a hopeless romantic, so I have a lot to live up to. So I was hoping some people had some ideas about things I could do to make it a great night for her. Also, this isn't a super-formal dance (nothing like prom) so this should be appropriate for the kind of dance it is. Any ideas are appreciated. Potentially useful information: Been dating for 3 months. Have said we love each other (we've known each other for about a year now). She's a hopeless romantic who loves Disney movies. Money is not a problem. I'll be driving her to the dance. Open Question: Girl interested in me as more than a friend or not?PLEASE READ THE WHOLE THING BEFORE ANSWERING. We are both 18. I have known this girl for a month and a half. We have been on "two dates" and have hung out once. Our last date was 15 days ago. I called her on friday to see if I could see her and she said that she would be busy on saturday studying but that she would text me if she was available. She ENDED UP textin me sayin "watcha doin" and then after I asked her if she was doing anything she said no but that she wanted to go to the hookah bar. So I met up with her there. At the end of the night I kissed her on the cheek and she said "awww thats sweet" and kissed me back on the cheek. After that for an entire week we texted each other everyday but then it stopped suddenly. I should probably mention that on Halloween she texted me and asked what I was doing and wanted to come to the party that i was going to even though she was invited to 6 other parties. She knew no one at the party I was going to but she still came with her and her girlfriend, I guess for me? I texted her on Monday and this is how our convo went..does it sound like she is interested in me from reading this? Me: Hiiiiii :) Her: Heyyyy therre. sup Me: nothinn much jus chillin. hbu how was ur dayy?? Her: Good it was a busyyy day. how was urss Me: Yea watt made it so busyy? Mine was alrite jus had hella hw to catch up on u kno Her: Yea not muchh jus school and projects n all that stuffff Me: I see I see..soo there's this big problem that me n u gotta solvee u wanna take a guess wat it iss? Her: umm no i want u to just tell me lol Me: ur no funn..the big problem is that I havent seen u for a longg time n the last time we spent time together was 2 weekss agoo..thats the big problemm we gotta solve Her: I mussst agreeee. that's a pretty big problemm Me: I kno ritee. so u agree this problem needs to be fixed immediatelyyy? Her: Most defff Me: alrite u think u'll be free anytime between fri-sun?? Gotta start plannin ahead a lil early sometimess haha Her: maybe saturday Me: alrite i can work wit thatt Its kinda weird though because she almost never texts me first, but we have been out together. We used to text for like 5-6 hours but that was in the first few weeks of gettin to know her. The last time she texted me was last Saturday and last Tuesday when she asked about how my soccer games went. But thats it. I heard from two girls in her dance class that she is a laid back girl and doesnt go out of her way too much for things..maybe she really is waiting for me to come to her. Thing is though that ever since I took her out on the first date she has become real close to my girl cousin, who is in the same dance class as her. So i dont think this girl would be playing me, she either interested or not. I was thinking about playing it cool and just calling her on friday to confirm plans for saturday does that sound like a good idea? Open Question: Is it wrong to tell your bf to give up a friend?Is it wrong to tell your other to give up a friend? we been dating for almost a year and he had gotten a text from this gurl and at the geko he had been shady not teling me how 2 yrs ago they fooled around lying to me about her telling her how he likes her texting him but not me taking this gurls word over mind im a jealous person but he was being untrust worthy i think. and i was trying to stay strong and not interfere the first time i was bluffen i asked him to give her up only cause he'd just said hed do anything for us i asked him to give her up and he siad no. and he told her our problems and how were not married and how hes a man. i just got so hurt and fed up with it i said either me or her i felt guilt but i felt i had too no matter how many times he said he wants me and me only sings were there singing a different tune now they don't talk from what i know and im still hurt and still wanna talk about it cause i didn't find out till after he stopped talking to her that they messed around and he said he didnt tell me from the beging cause he new i wouldn't want him talking to her. and he hates it and gets angry everytime i bring it up he still doesnt see how he hurt me. except for lying. did i have a right or no. 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