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Open Question: problems with thsi girl; please help please please? and more...

Open Question: problems with thsi girl; please help please please?

ok, wow. So there is this girl, were ok friends, and i really like her; but she seems perfectly fine without a boy. the popular kids all try going for her and she rejects them all; were pretty good friends. i don't want to tell her i like her until my chance seems at least possible; she seems perfectly fine without a boy but i feel empty without her; what do i do? what can i do to get her to like me when not even the popular kids can. i went on a date with her this saturday, and she came over my house this friday to chill along with some other friends and we had a lot of fun; please help.

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Open Question: In Love with someone but when's its enough to say goodbye??? Please help?

Im in love with his guy n hes perfect in every way n i dont wanna be with anyone esle but him. My problem is this ive known him for 2 years now n we are great friends n i no relationships start out as friends but hes always giving me mixed emotions n seems like hes holding something back from y we arent dating. he always tells me im different from every1 esle n in my heart i believe that he just dont wanna hurt me cause we all no where relationships lead to. i brought up about the future n i told him how do u no we will still talk n see each other once im moved out n everyhing, he goes y would that change? i told him i will be movin on starting my life n everything he gets all defensive like pretty hes acting like ill be in his life for a life time n maybe i will be but whats he waiting on? This is my thing how long do u hold on to someone that u love? seems like im pushing everyother guy away cause i only want him but i cant keep playin the waiting game those. I no some say walk away n see what he does next but thats hard "/ please give me advice

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Open Question: My husband "served" me yesterday buy I don't want a Divorce. Pls HELP!!!!?

We've been married for 8 yrs. Have a 4 y/o son. We've been through a lot and we already saw a Marriage Counselor 6 months ago. It went great. But he caught me cheating (not exactly cheating) online dating only. I never met or went out with the guy I met. But I only did it because he had cheated on 3x before and I got tempted to sign-up and exchanged emails and pictures to some guys. I was not looking for a relationship, but of course he won't believe me no matter what I say. So, now he wanted a divorce and sent me the paper works. I was so surprised with what he did to me! I had a chance to divorce him when he cheated on me before but I didn't because I love him and I still forgave him because I believe in marriage. I still believe that Divorce is not a solution to any marital problems. I know he's mad right now that's why he decided to file for a Divorce. We have a court schedule on June 2010. But my problem is, I still LOVE my husband despite of all what happened to us and our son doesn't deserve to be in mess. He's innocent and it's not fait to him. I want to know what I should do to make him reconsider the divorce and make him change his mind. I know we're not over till its over and we are still married... I will do ANYTHING just to make our marriage work again for the last time. I feel so down and depressed and I need some help and serious advise. This is serious and I would appreciate it if people would leave me positive comment instead of negative. I don't know what to do, I am confused! I don't want to go through all this..this is the last thing I would want to happen on our marriage. My husband and my son means the world to me and all I do is pray and hope things will work out before our court date. I believe in marriage, but we're only humans and we all make mistakes but we all deserve a 2nd chance. My wish this X'mas is for me and my husband and my son to be a Family again. I don't know what I would do without them in my life. I have the paperworks but I don't want to read it and go through it because it hurts me so bad, I cannot accept how my husband can just throw away everything we've had. I LOVE my husband so much and I still believe that we can make this together. Please help me and tell me what ways I can convince him not to stop and not continue the divorce??? I know we're both hurt on this, but our son is the one that is most affected and it's not fair to him. I promised my son that he will not be one of those kids that have divorce parents. I love my son so much and I am willing to do anything what it takes to give him a complete family. Please help.... I need good advise...thank you.. U will not know how it feels if you're not in my shoes. Like I said, I'm looking for a good marital advise not a nonsense advise.... don't waste your time reading this qtion if u don't have anything good to say. THANK YOU "MESSYKAT" for your advise, I will definitely talk to him about that. We all make mistakes and I am willing to do anything to make our marriage work again. I know there is a better solution on this than getting a Divorce. I will make this happen. Thanks so much..God Bless.. The papers have been served, but our marriage is NOT YET OVER! Get the facts before U comment. He can still stop the petition and just call his lawyer. I've done my research!

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Open Question: Do you think Asian women don't date Black men?

I am myself anyone from those groups, (I am white boy), but I have many Asian friends (females), and yet have seen some comments about Asian women being not willing to date Black boy, But after looking at some data, Asian women in USA if marry foreigners marry 90% White and 10% Black boys, yes, Whites are more frequent, but it is also the truth that Black people comprise 10 % of population of USA (I am not from USA, as you can see by my English). Well, and among my friends some women like to date a Balck boy, althogh it's hard to find one in Asia... so.... Except for some Scandinavian (troll) Asian women on yahoo answers, I think Asian don't have problems with Black people, althoguht it may be sometimes hard for Asian parents to accept a foreigner (White or Black). Anyway, I think Asian people are just like any other people. Some like one think and some the other. Just like the other races, what do you think?

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Open Question: I would like to find a boyfriend...but?

I do not want to have sex. I have asked a similar question(s) a few months back, but decided to hold off on dating for a while longer. I'm graduating college, I'm 34 years old, and moving to a new city. I'll be moving right before X-Mas, and plan to start dating after the first of the year. I want a monogamous relationship, and I haven't dated for almost 4 years, with the exception of one date I went on in May of this year. My past experiences with cheaters and abusers led me to stop dating and to work on myself education wise in order to attract a better quality of man. I just am not interested in what most gay men want in the bedroom. I'm interested in non-invasive sexual activities. Will that be a problem? Can you be in a monogamous relationship without anal sex? I just won't participate in that activity. I just need to know whether I should bother dating ever again if guys are not going to want to date someone who will not have anal sex with them.

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Open Question: HELP! What should I do?

This boy and I dated for about half a year and we broke up three months ago. I thought that I would have moved on by now but I still think about him everyday. Moving on isn't really the problem though - I know how to do it. It's just that I don't want to. He was my first love and eventhough my logic tells me that nothing lasts forever, I keep wishing for him to be the one. I can't bear to think about being with anyone else. I feel like I've opened up so much to him that it feels wrong to even think about opening up to someone else. I get sadder and sadder everyday. I know it's bad for me but I feel like if there is even the slightest bit of chance that we might get back together, then I'll never let go of how I feel for him. I want him to be the one so much. I'm only 16. I know my mind is too naive to comprehend the nature of relationships, but he is just so special to me. I have an important exam next year that I need to focus on. He keeps disrupting my thoughts. What should I do? Letting go seems so painful.

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Open Question: What should I do about him?

This boy and I dated for about half a year and we broke up three months ago. I thought that I would have moved on by now but I still think about him everyday. Moving on isn't really the problem though - I know how to do it. It's just that I don't want to. He was my first love and eventhough my logic tells me that nothing lasts forever, I keep wishing for him to be the one. I can't bear to think about being with anyone else. I feel like I've opened up so much to him that it feels wrong to even think about opening up to someone else. I get sadder and sadder everyday. I know it's bad for me but I feel like if there is even the slightest bit of chance that we might get back together, then I'll never let go of how I feel for him. I want him to be the one so much. I'm only 16. I know my mind is too naive to comprehend the nature of relationships, but he is just so special to me. I have an important exam next year that I need to focus on. He keeps disrupting my thoughts. What should I do? Letting go seems so painful.

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