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Open Question: realationship problems, help? and more... Open Question: realationship problems, help?i hve been married for almost a year, but i have been with my husband for about six, i used to dress up very much before our dates, i used to do my hair and makeup perfectly and wear nice clothes and everything and i always felt i looked really good, but since we got married i just dont really care anymore, i hardly wear makeup and just wear t shirts all the time and my hair in a pony tail,but ive noticed lately that he kinda looks at me less, there could be a attractive woman on tv and i could be trying to get him to look at me and most of the time his eyes stay glued to the tv, im thin and also curvy, i can get down to nothing but underwear and he just doesent look as much as we used to, i mean, we have sex alot, but i just feel less attractive to him, am i just being paranoid, should i keep the same routing i have, or dress up more, should i feel bad about this and insecure? Open Question: Why do black women have to get told such BS from white guys all the time?I had some white guy friends a while back who used to ask me questions about why black women did certain (stereoytpical) things, and I didnt really understand why they cared but I ignored them. ut its even more online, on every website I go on there are white guys talking about black women in some bad way. On HERE, on Youtube, on some forum place I was just at. Like, some of them just love to go on and on about things they dislike about black women, but why do they think their opinion matters to us? MOST black women dont think/care/desire white guys. Its well known that as a whole black women date IR less than nearly every other group of people, so I can't get into my head why these white guys think black women are trying to impress them or even get their attention. I was on an African American forum & these white guys were posting questions about black women just like they do on here! I think there are actually some creepy white guys who cant figure black women out or something & their best friend is the internet. I'd like to think it was the same guys but thats unlikely. Why do white men act like black women are here for them or something? If they dont like us, they can go away & leave us alone. Most bw will have no problem with that. Its ANNOYING to always hear something negative about black women and seeing that it comes from white guys when most dont care abt white men. Thats understandable, some people can twist it but its true. I personally dont want to care, but after a while iys just w e i r d Open Question: I fell in the extremely sweet category?There is this girl at work that i like. She has been on and off on a "complicated" relationship. A week ago i asked her if she was still with her boyfriend, she said no so i asked her out (dinner and movie,and perhaps a walk on the beach) and she gladly said yes. We worked throughout the week and she was friendly and we flirted and all that good stuff but when the day of the date came up she seemed a bit upset/sad. One of her best friends (whom she also works with us) approached me and told me that i should not date her because she has a boyfriend. I was like "no, she told me she didn't have one." Then she went on to tell me that they got back together during that week but he broke up with her because she was going to dinner with me. So i asked my date to explain to me what was going on (she knows i like her) and she said that she did not know. She doesn't know if she wants to continue to date him (she said he was mean to her and that he blamed her on a lot of their relationship problems) or if she actually wanted to go and continue with our planned date. So i told her that i did not want to get her in trouble and if she wanted to cancel it was fine (it did not feel fine to me since i was really looking forward to it) and she told me she was going to talk to him and she would let me know later. So i get a text from her saying that it was probably not the best time to hang out with me because it would just be more drama than fun and that she was going to think about what she should do. Then i told her that it was ok but that she should definitely think about everything, meaning how he makes her feel (both good and bad) how i feel for her etc... then i sent her this message: "just make sure you make your decision on what you think will make YOU happy. Don't worry about somebody else, you are the one who has to chose and if that means that you and i only get to be friends then let that be it and lets be friends." Thats when i received this text from her: "i will definitely think about everything. You are an extremely sweet guy and honestly i don't know why you are still single. I will take a raincheck on that date though :) " What does that mean???????? Open Question: [18+] ladies pls. Help, I made a mistake and I want him back.?Thanks! Im 22 and he's 25. We are students. Ive had problems with my ex for some time. We keep on breaking up. Since the summer I dated a boy and he was really nice and all. I wasnt sure about my feelings so I didnt go further. We tried again 2 months later and saw each other a few times. But my ex was trying to get back with me and I decided to try again. So I stopped seeing him again and I must had hurt him because I slipped in that I had a bf. He asked to see me but I didnt reply to him. He's not spoken to me since. He walked past me once but he didnt speak to me. Now I realise that I made a mistake and Id like him back. I realised that i should never had went back to my ex. It never could have worked out. So I sent the guy I hurt a msg on his birthday and then apologised that I never replied to him. 2 days later he replied saying that hes now back home and that hes looking forward to the coming year. That his heart tell him to embrace it and he hoped the same for me. And ended with Lots of Love. Thats his normal style, v romantic, warm. But he didnt ask me any questions. I dont know where he stands at the moment. Is this neutral or good news? What should I do if I want to see him? thanks, and pls dont flame at me for being confused. I never meant to hurt anyone. Just constructive advice on where he stands right now. thanks. Open Question: Which man should I choose?I met this guy about 2 months ago and we started going out couple of weeks ago, he treats me really well and we like each other very much, the problem is he is from a different country so he is on a visa here, he said he most likely will stay here but it's not definite. Everything was going well until I heard from my ex. We briefly dated for 3 months then we broke up because we kinda felt we weren't right for each other, then we got back together a month after but ended up breaking up again over a stupid fight, 4 months later, which is 2 weeks ago, I received a phone call from him saying he missed me too much that he had to let me know n hoped to give it another shot. Deep down I always had feelings for him but this is the third time now, I'm really confused, he is a really nice guy too but we do have different views about things some time, which i guess is normal? and the other guy i dont even know him for long, i've been seeing them both and i feel really guilty about it , like when I'm with either one i have to put my phone on silence so the other doesnt find out, I hate doing this! I don't want to hurt either one but it's really difficult i don't want to make a mistake. HELP! P.s. we are on our late 20s and I have to be honest I have stronger feelings for my ex. My ex is older and more stable, probably a better choice in terms of the future, then again I don't know this overseas guy for long enough maybe he is better, and we don't have bad history. He said he wants to stay here but things are just unpredictable, all of his family is overseas after all, and I for sure don't see myself moving there if he decides to go back. More Recent Articles
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