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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

Open Question: Relationship Advice Needed... Long Time Crush Taken...? and more...

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Open Question: Relationship Advice Needed... Long Time Crush Taken...? and more...

Open Question: Relationship Advice Needed... Long Time Crush Taken...?

I need advice so badly that I'm losing my mind. I can't talk to any of my friends about this so I made this account just for this question. There is a boy that I have been mad since I was in grade 9 (years ago) but I had a really hard time showing it. Many people around me were convinced he liked me and I had a slight feeling. Problem was kept losing touch as we moved up in years and stopped having classes together and every time we would meet up one of us would be in a relationship. Regardless of this, we still always flirted and always got along better than I ever have with anyone. In my last year of high school he was in the second year of a relationship and I started hanging out with a boy who turned out to be a close friend of his. His friend and I chilled everyday and I did have a crush on him but it passed quickly and we became just god friends (we never did anything but we did argue about what we were). Anyways, I couldn't help but love the time I was getting to spend with the guy I had always liked but he was taken. His relationship started to get very bumpy and they broke up dramatically and he was completely crushed. We partied after that and he said how glad he was I was there and everything, and I had the best nights of my life but never mad a move.His friend was also there and I think he thinks I like him. For whatever reason, no one acted and I gave him space because of the breakup and one night when I couldn't come out they chilled with a girlfriend of mine. On that night she made out with the friend drunkenly and told the man I like that he should go for me. She wouldn't really tell me what he said, but she did say that I could get him easily but he didn't want to ruin our friendship. However, she said he was also talking about a girl that I had heard his friend mention a few times before. I didn't talk to him again for a while. The next time we all chilled she came and I backed off and soon they were dating. All less than a month after his world shattering break up. She looks like his ex, acts like his ex and they do the exact same things. I didn't see him or his friend for a few months for obvious reasons. Then we chilled again with his girlfriend there randomly. The first time I managed to get him alone a few times and it was like old times, however when she was around he stopped joking with me. The next time we all chilled I didn't say much and he still went out of his way to cheer me up and laugh like we once had. I've come to the point where I just want to admit all my feelings for him and let him work it out for himself, but I know this will make a future friendship awkward and piss off his girlfriend to the point where I will never be near him again. To make things worse, I'm going far away in a month for school and will be back in four months. At that time I will be able to come back and attend school here or stay out there. It all depends on him. Should I say how I feel before I leave? Or should I wait out the four months and see if they break up? I just can't keep thinking about it. It's ruining my life. I don't want to hear that there are other people out there. I've never met anyone that makes me feel the way he does, though I have been in two long term relationships. Help!

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Open Question: Should I deport my mom who is illegal and how long to have her back?

ok i came here when i was like 7 cause my mom and i are from Brazil and she married my dad who is from here (USA). Last week i had a problem in school , they called my mom and told them i didn't show up. I was grounded by my mom for 2 months. Yes! 2 months, that is just insane. Its been a week and i am sick of this, tired of so much homework. i finally had my laptop thanks to my awesome step dad who convinced her to give it to me. My plan is this one. She is a teacher from Brazil and she came to teach BUT i know my daddy said her attorney missed a date and her green card expired making her illegal and he said he will fix it but it will take couple of months or more. i was thinking on calling immigration so they can deport her and i gain my freedom. I mean, i know she will be back right away but with all that distraction then they will forget about making me stay in this boring room. I think is my freedom and i need to spend time on the beach, i live in san diego and all my friends are out skateboarding.....that is my plan. How long will my dad take to have her back??? i mean, i don't want her gone forever just a week or two no, i am not a d*ck, i love her but i can't spend the rest of my life here in this stupid room , i still have 7 weeks left what? whats the big deal? don''t they just put her in a bus? then my dad will pick her up and problem solved, i just want to know how many days she will be gone.

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Open Question: I know this is long, but what am I supposed to do here?

This girl is a close friend of mine. We've been friends since freshman year of college, and while we kind of dated (neither of us called it that) that came to an abrupt end after a friend of mine drunkenly suggested to her that she make my night and I guess just completely freaked her out. After that we really didn't hang out a whole lot up again for about half a year. 3 years later now she's giving me all kinds of signs towards something. She's gotten ridiculously comfortable around me, which seems weird when you put it in context of her being one of the shyest people I've ever met. She'll change clothes around me even if I'm having a conversation with her in a position with a clear view of her changing. I've never even seen her hold hands with anyone except me, when drunk. Problem is, I asked one of her roommates her opinion a little while back (a mutual friend of both of ours) who said I probably shouldn't and I had probably waited too long. Yet my friend still continues to give me signs that make me want to try to legit ask her out. She still lets me stay nearly every weekend at her place and trusts me more than almost anyone else. What do you do here? Ignore advice and ask her out anyway? I want to just hug her and tell her I want to take her out on a date but knowing her she might get weirded out with even just a hug if she's sober. Get her a little bit of alcohol first before I ask her out even though that seems horribly wrong?

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Open Question: A metal tag for Christmas ornament that has year on it?

Hello, my best friend had complications with her baby last year so she couldnt do any Xmas shopping with all that went on. I bought the following Baby 1st Xmas ornament for her, but the problem is, it has this year's date on it "2009" and I wanted to see if anyone knew of where I can get a tag that says "2008" that I can just unclasp the "2009" one and replace them. She would be sooo happy as she's upset she missed out on all the ornaments. http://www.hallmark.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product%7C10001%7C10051%7C937330%7C215589;221069;272072%7Cnull%7CP1R4SO%7Cstores

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