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Open Question: Relationship problems. Someone please read.? and more... Open Question: Relationship problems. Someone please read.?I've been dating this guy names Josh for about 2 years now, it's pretty much been a good relationship until lately. We've been arguing a lot, and its been months since we've actually had a conversation without it ending in a huge argument. Up until about a year ago we lived next door to his grandfather until he passed away, and we moved several hundreds of miles away to my hometown. We got a house, settled in, and everything was going pretty swell, but lately we don't even talk anymore, and when we do it just ends with me being hurt. I love Josh with all my heart, but I can't stand living like this, I've never been so miserable. I have a friend, named Alex, we've known each other since preschool, he's gay, not like drag queen gay(no offense to anyone), you wouldn't know he was unless you knew him, I normally talk to him about my problems. I've spent many nights on the phone nearly in tears talking to Alex, wondering what I'd done to make Josh act this way. Last night, Alex, a couple of my girlfriends, and I were over at my house, and Josh was at work. The girls were complaining about their boyfriends, so I complained about mine as well, no one really likes Josh, because he's rude to all of my friends, he doesn't like any of them. They all started talking about how I could have better, and I don't deserve to be treated that way, and I agree, I've never done anything to Josh, I cook for him, clean up after him, do his laundry, PLUS I work, he works too, but that's all he does. Josh has tried sleeping with one of my cousins, I just let it go, because I really cared about him, I may have been dumb for it, I probably was, but oh well, whats done is done. After it got late, the girls left and it was just Alex and I... After about 5 minutes of sitting in silence, he blurted out that he hated Josh so bad, and he wished I would just get rid of him so I could be happy, before I could say anything he continued to say that he was in love with me, and that he had been since we were in school, and that the only girl he's ever wanted was me. I was speechless, my jaw was probably hanging, honestly... I was flattered, aren't you supposed to be when an alleged gay man is attratched to you, and you're a female? He grabbed me, and kissed me, I must admit, I kissed him back... It was the most amazing first kiss, I've ever shared with anyone. We made out for awhile, then he said he'd better go before Josh got home, and he left. He came to visit me again today when Josh left for work, he said he wanted to tell me that he knows I'm not going to leave Josh for him, but he wants me to know he's willing to wait for me for the rest of his life, he kissed me again and left to go to work... I've been thinking, a lot about Josh and I and Alex and I... What does everyone think out there? Since Alex kissed me like that, I feel like I've been missing something my entire life, and I feel like I might have feelings for him, and Josh is still a freakin' jerk.... I don't know what to do.. Open Question: A Bi-Curious question(story)?I dont even know what im asking here... um. Well, freshman year of my high school I turned down every request at going out with a man. I was confused. I didnt understand why I did so, and all the while I was started to have strange feelings towards girls that I didnt understand at the time. Not at all how desperate I would become, how much I would crave girls rather than boys. Now its my junior year and my boyfriends in the past were just "to go with the flow" of a normal high school girl. I thought I liked them, but in the end I just felt friendship, nothing more intimate. Becoming more intimate with them as in sex made me want to vomit thinking about it. So I would break it off before then and just stay friends. There are though a couple of girls I would love more than anything, to go out with. (crushes, the usual stuff) Yet with guys, I just love to hang out with them. There fun. With girls I dont feel as comfortable in friendship wise. But the trouble is for guys I cant get past friends with benefits. Relationships. no thanks. My problem currently. Not really a problem. Just letting off whats in my head that i can't discuss with anyone at all in my life. There's a current girl who's a known Bi-sexual at the school and we've been trading flirts sence I told her im curious about girls. Yet, She's so experienced with girls that it scares me. I dated but when thinking of going out with a girl, it feels like if it's my first relationship ever. Also sence she's a natural flirt and flirts with lots of other people. I haven't really taken her flirts all that serious, just playful. Currently there's also one of my best guy pals who is desperate to date me. We've been on two dates yet I cant bring myself to kiss him. No way can I. I dont feel it. Yet im selfishly and purposely doing things to keep him there incase I need him to heal my emotional problems by making out with me or at the very least go out with me on a date. That's why I keep him guessing and dont just tell him I dont have those kinds of feelings for him. Also I keep him there incase the girl is not serious about me with the flirting. So I have something to bounce back on. Im confused. Idk. I like this guy yet when It comes to anything about boyfriend. No. No. This girl also. I like her and if it comes down to girlfriend. its not yes. yes. its not No. No. its more like "I Dont Know" this isnt even a question. But advice is welcome. I tried to stop being curious about girls. I cant. Im losing it. Especially hiding it. I come to a conclusion that I should fool around witha girl to let the steam out and then if it was a phase then it will pass if I fool around a little. Then maybe I can become what is "normal" to my family. Please, I want to be Bi-Sexual, Not lesbian. I dont want to be lesbian. I dont. So the worst I wish to be is Bi. Open Question: Why isy boyfriend all the sudden not talking to me?I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years now and he only texts me once a day or calls me once a day now. He says hes busy and hes doing stuff with his family which he is (hes a family guy) but my gut is telling me he is somehow avoiding me. He says i love you when we get off the phone, but im senseing something is wrong. I've tried to talk to him about it but he just says hes busy and he doesnt need to text me once a hour, i dont want a text once a hour, i just dont want to just talk to him once a day. if this helps, we've been having issues with how he cheated last year, but other than that im the one that has no problem, he does. :-( More Recent Articles
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