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Open Question: Relationship Problems!!! please help!!!? and more... Open Question: Relationship Problems!!! please help!!!?So my girlfriend and i have been together for a month now. 2 nights ago we got in a big fight and we broke up. We are back to dating... don't ask me how, but she said she wanted to forget everything and start over. so we are dating but she still calls me her boyfriend and i call her my girlfriend. She said she needs to trust me again before we can go further with the relationship. She said i lied to her because i was talking to other girls and didnt tell her about it and that i asked her friends about her and another guy instead of asking her. Things got way out of hand and now she said i need to earn her trust back. She told me to stop appoligising, but she is still mad. I dont know what to do. After the fight, we started to talk about what the next step would be for us and it was kissing and holding hands publicly. but that slowly jumped into sex (with a little push from me). She told me she doesnt understand too much about sex. she asked me how guys jack off and if girls could... yeah i know. sad. but she said she would be willing to try sex with me. Please tell me what i can do to help win her trust back and second, how do i teach her sex things when im not very experienced myself? because i want to do stuff with her but if she doesnt know what were doing, that is going to be a problem... please help! Open Question: how can I induce labor without castor oil?My OB refuses to induce my labor at 39 and a half weeks! The baby is well over 8 lbs according to the sono. He states inducement is not reccomended by the amer.college of gyn and ob. If I was asking at 37 weeks,I could understand but 4 days from my due date?I am so scared of c section for this big baby. I have 2 kids the last one induced with no problems. both natural. What can I to get him out!!!!! Open Question: help!!!! social anxiety disorder problem?So ill make this short.Have dated a guy off and on for 4 years.He has made me feel stupid,inadequate and hurt over the years.Maybe that was just his projections of himself onto me idk .Never wanting to go in public much at all.If we did go to dinner it would be the same place and when many people werent around.Started to give me a complex.He would never really say why.He always pushes me away.Communication like pulling teeth. I was never around his friends ect......Well I lived a hour away from him I moved closer 6 months ago and started going out in his home town for the first time.He was extremely uncomfortable with both but would never give me a reason why.First time I walked into a bar and he saw me he ran out and I mean ran.Panic attack?Weird right? So it turns out he has social anxiety disorder.He was trying to hide it from me but his friends told me.It all made sense thats when everything clicked together.Im mad he hide it always let me believe it was me and his unexplanation of some of his actions caused great pain and friction ect... So I tried confronting him about it in a supporting way.Now he wants nothing to do with me wouldnt talk about it. wont confirm or deny ect.....Its like as soon as I moved closer he got more freaked out and defensive.I dont understand why he never could confide in me.I would never judge him.What is he so afraid of?What should i do? I know I am the only girl that has stayed around and by his side.He hasnt had many girlfriends at all!!!!!! Its been a month.Should I just leave it be? I fear he hates me.Im so so hurt and confused.I truely just want to be there for him. Open Question: help me with this girl):?hi so I have a problem and I think it's about time for some advice. I had this great girl as my bestfriend almost like brother and sister but one year ago we admitted that we both liked each other, so for about 5 months we dated but her friend was jealous and brainwashed me to not like her anymore. so I blew it. she was upset with me BUT before we oficially ended iti found out she was with her on off boyfriend again. so I was hurt and we stopped talking, and her bf forbids her from talking to me. and now I've started missing her like crazy and I think I'm in love with her, but when we talk it's awkward and she just stops before her bf finds out. i don't know what to do. I keep finding my mind drifting off to our memories all the time help?? I hope it all made sense somewhat. Open Question: My mother's almost-12yo Korean Jindo Dog has been "gagging" for a few days now. There has been no vomiting.?To the untrained eye he seems normal in every other way, but we notice he seems a bit depressed. He's never had a single health problem in his life and he's always been up to date on vaccinations/parasite treatments/etc... There hasn't been any change in his diet or activities either. Does anyone have any thoughts or even a "gut feeling" about this? Thanks SO much... Open Question: Where to proceed from here?!?!?I have been on two dates with a girl, both of the dates went really well and we have a great time with each other. My problem is I don't know where to proceed from here. Our first two dates were within two days of each other, which is kind of fast. Do I start in with the texts? See what she is upto this weekend maybe do something else? I don't wanna push to hard to fast and my instinct is telling me to give her sometime and space and not crowd her. But my instinct has been wrong as of late as well. Where to go from here? Open Question: I feel horrible and i don't know how to get over this, please help?I'm 24, and been off and on with this guy who's 22 for 3 years. I was always the girl to never let anyone in. I was a virgin and wanted to make sure the guy i lost my virginity was going to stick around and not break my heart. After a year of talking, he always had the same problem, he "couldn't have a relationship without sex" and it was very important to him. So after watching everyone else do things the opposite way and find happiness, i figured, i know i love him and i really want a relationship with him and it's bound to happen, so why not just do it. I had dated guys before him and they all said the same things, and i figured the guy who was going to wait didn't exsist anymore. This was the biggest mistake ever and trust me, i feel dumb enough for letting it happen. So he pretty much disappeared after about a month, and no relationship ever came from it. From that point on, it was an emotional rollar coaster. He would disappear and come back time after time. Tel me i'm the best thing that ever happened to him and he's such a fool to let me get away. He said he loved me and opened up to me, and i understood him better than anyone else because his bad past with his family is just like mine, so i knew where he was coming from. Only thing was, he wasn't there for me like i was there for him. He was also very jealous, HE would disappear and i would talk to new guys, then he would get jealous and threaten them, etc. Recently he just wasn't making any time for me, once a month was all i got. Yes he called almost daily but his plans didn't include me, ever. I started questioning him about other girls. Told him it seems like he's keeping his options open and looking for better. By the way, i've questioned him and told him exactly how i felt from day one. I kept nothing in the dark. Most of the time it just pissed him off though because i wasn't "just letting things happen" or i was "thinking too much." He would say i can never just be happy and relax, i always gotta know where i stand, which he never told me, it was always "i don't know" or "i love you and i know i wanna be with you but something always ruins a good thing and i have trust issues." I got those lines all the time!! So anyway, i was with him 2 weeks ago and then didn't hear from him for 5 days. I texted "thanks for calling" and he started snapping on me. Said he always stops talking to me because i'm always trippin over other girls when there are no other girls. So i asked what he does for the other 29 days a month and he said "i do me, that's what i do." So that night after the phone call, i was texting him and appologizing for bringing up other girls, and some girl texts and "warns" me to leave her man alone! Then she goes on and on about she's gonna find me and beat my a$$ and he doesn't want me anymore, and she fu*ks him right and he's not going anywhere. She said she respects herself more than i do and that's what he wants. She said to just admit that i've been played and i'm played out and too old and now he's moved on to bigger and better. Said she knows how to please him and now that he got a taste he aint goin anywhere. I texted him and he has nothing to say, wont call me, wont talk to me. I feel like they just stomped on my heart! Her words keep replaying in my head and i don't know how to get over this. I feel ike such a sl*t and what she said is right! Please help! Open Question: Men: Would you pursue a relationship with a woman who suffered with bipolar disorder?I am 28 and have suffered with what I thought was depression off and on for the last 10 years. Due to some recent experiences, I am realizing I may be bipolar and need to seek help and treatment. My moods have caused problems in relationships before, but I am hoping that if I am able to get treatment maybe I can lead a more normal and stable life. My question is - would you as a guy be hesitant to date a woman knowing she had bipolar disorder, or would you not want to date her altogether? Thanks in advance for your thoughts and feedback! More Recent Articles
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