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Open Question: Should i end the relationship and if so when? and more... Open Question: Should i end the relationship and if so when?Ok I've been dating my guy for close to 3 years. We're in our senior year of high school, are going overseas together at the end of the year. We have so many plans together, and we almost never fight. We're really happy. The problem is we're at the stage where we talk about moving in together. We both really want to live with each other but we can't. He will never move out of his house, and i will never move in with his. They aren't mean to me or anything, but i don't speak the language they all speak and I want to have my own place to control my life. I fall more in love with him everyday, and I know it can never last. Also since its our senior year, the break up could be a massive distraction and the results of this year affect out uni degrees which affect out whole lives. And i'd love to go overseas with him. We have a lot of future plans. We're so happy. But we have that one problem that neither or us will cave on. What do i do? Open Question: Hmm, is it wrong of me to want to spend more time with my busy boyfriend?(I've asked this before but just wanted more opinions! :)) My boyfriend is an overachiever - student council president, straight A student, star of the track team, popular, lots of community service, etc etc etc. We're both seniors in high school. I'm not as busy as him, but still very busy. He's a super organised and focused person, whereas I'm the sort who'll put the people I love in front of everything else, no questions asked. I'll spend the whole night on the phone to comfort someone or a whole day before an exam planning a party if I have to - I'll make sacrifices and deal with the other stuff later (and I do). I guess this is why it's hard for me sometimes to deal with my boyfriend being so busy that we barely get to spend quality time together and go out on proper dates. It especially hurts when I find out he's been out with other friends - not that I don't want him to have fun with his friends, but if he can spend time with them, why not me? I feel like I'm being taken for granted because I'm so understanding, but I don't know if I'm just being selfish. I know he loves me and all and when we do meet up or talk on the phone, we both have a super great time. But I hate feeling needy because although I know he cares, it just seems like I care more than him. I hate being the one asking if we can spend time together. When I do, he has no problems declining to spend time on his schoolwork or something, whereas he found it totally surprising that I once declined a date to do work. Is it wrong for me to feel this way? And I want to talk to my boyfriend about it, but how do I go about doing it without being accusatory and seeming too needy? Open Question: Can my girlfriend move in with me without any problems when she is 18?Here's my situation. I was a senior in high school in 07-08 and an old friend of mine had a little sister who just became a freshman. My friend was Joanna and her little sister was Cassandra. Joanna introduced me to her little sister over the summer and we started talking a little bit. Then when school started I would spend time sitting with them and talking with Cassandra. Little by little Cassandra and I began to attract to each other but I didn't want to try anything because at the time she was 15 and I 17. Besides that, I didn't want people to look at me as the senior who goes fishing for the young freshman. I respect women to much to lead them on so I really really didn't try to. But as time passed she would start to hold my hand and kiss me on the cheek and walk to classes together. You know, typical nice things like that. All those things are hard to ignore. My heart was falling for this girl. So one day she comes out and tells me the apparent in that she really likes me. Oh and another thing, she was dating a guy already and was currently in a relationship. So the age thing and her relationship status made me tell her I couldn't feel anything for her (when obviously I did). So I guess that upset her and she stopped talking to me for like a week. But then she came around and started to conversate with me. She said she couldn't stay mad at me and she respects my decision. But still with that being said, the flirting didn't stop. And keep in mind i've never had a woman pursue me in my life. It has always been the other way around. So i really had a ton of amount of respect for her putting herself out there like that. As time went on she started hanging out with me and my senior friends. She was practically the only freshman surrounded by seniors. And all of my friends could tell the infatuation between the two of us. And also even told me to go for it and that we would make such a great couple. So one day she asked me the question again, why wouldn't I go out with her. And I told her that it was because she already had a boyfriend. So she said is that the only thing stopping us from being with each other and I told her yeah. So the next day she has a huge smile on her face like none other I have ever seen on her. So I asked her why the excitement? And she told me that she was all mine and that she had broken up with her boyfriend for me. I was so shocked that she would do something like that so fast. But I had to live up to my word, so then we started dating. Now as time went by she seemed a bit down. So one day I asked her was she not happy with me or if I was doing anything wrong to not keep her content. And she told me that nothing was wrong with me, that I was perfect. But that her grandma has never liked any of her boyfriends and that she was scared because she didn't want to lose me because of her grandma. Now I know what you're thinking. Why is her grandma's opinion so important? Well she lives with her grandma because her mother passed away when she was 13 due to cancer. So to her dismay, her grandma didn't like me just like her other boyfriends. But I wasn't going to let her stop us from being happy. So we still were seeing each other, I guess u can say "secretly". And everything was going ok. But then I graduated and she stayed in school. So she tried to reason with her grandma about dating me but her grandma wouldn't budge. As a matter of fact she changed my girlfriend's number hoping that would stop us from communicating. But we still overcame that and started to secretly date. It was hard at first seeing her but we eventually got use to it and began to meet up places like restaraunts, movies, etc. And we've been going strong now for a little bit over 2 years. Our love is stronger than ever and in 7 months when she turns 18 she plans on moving in with me. I know you probably think we're too young and don't know what love is but everything we've been through. I think i can call that love. Now like i said we have been planning for a while now that she would move in with me at 18 because my family loves her and treat her like family. But that's not the case with her side of the family. And I just wanted to know can she legally move out without being stopped by her grandma because I think her grandma would try everything in her power not to let her out the door even though she's 18. I just want a answer with some proof to back it up. Sorry I told you my life story but I felt you would only know what we've been goin through all this time if you knew the whole thing. (Oh, and I live in Dallas, TX.) Open Question: Embarassing question for ladies (in the bed room)?I am 20 yrs old and have problems getting an erection. The other week i was at a party and took a girl home to find out as usual i was unable to get hard i ended up just using my hand on her. It was extremly embarassing. she told me it was fine and that stuff happens yet the next morning she left rather quickly after we both woke up. My question is how would you feel if you were about to do it with a guy and he was un able to get hard? Would you ever be willing to see the guy again? Would you be willing to date a guy with this problem happening every once and a while? Open Question: Why does my Sims 3 crash?Hi, I have installed The Sims 3 onto my computer (Dell Vostro 220s Series, Mircosoft Windows XP Professional). I have checked the system requirements to run the game and my computer is more than compatible. My game version is the most up-to-date version avaible at the moment, including all patches. The problem is that whilst playing the game it will crash and return to my home desktop screen. It has done this numerous times. I was advised to lower the graphic quality, this seemed to help but the visual aspect of the game was very poor, therefore I tried a different approach, that is I downloaded and installed the software, DiretX End-User Runtime from the Mircosoft Download Centre; this seemed to make the game run a little longer but eventually it crashed...again. I have almost tried everthing, I am completely confused to why my game dosen't work efficiently, my computer is new, as is the game. My sister installed it on her Dell Studio Laptop before I installed it on mine, the game works very well on hers, woithout any crahes; her laptop runs on Windows Vista - could this be the difference? If anyone could help me in any way possible, it would much appreciated. Thanks! Note: My computer runs with Norton Internet Security. More Recent Articles
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