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Open Question: Should i go out with him? and more... Open Question: Should i go out with him?well this guy really likes me and i like him he asked me out for the second time and the problem is if i say yes to him then i would have been lying to the guys that i said no to i told these guys i would not be dating for a year because i cant stand another hard brake up but i really like the guy that is asking me out and he likes me i don't know what to say Open Question: You think she likes me or not?I work with this girl and she gives me signs that shes interested but she confuses me. she laughs at pretty much every thing I say even when it's not so funny, she smiles at me every time we meet eyes, she'll look at me when I'm trying to avoid her, I can see her starring at me from the corner of my eye. Not too long ago, I asked her for a ride and she wanted me too drive her car? She ended up giving me a ride and I live pretty far from where I work. All in all, it seems like shes really interested in my education, because she's going for her masters. Really smart girl, nice, and pretty, seems like shes helpful too my needs too. But one thing? she has a boyfriend? Also fortunately, she never brings him up, and I've heard that they were going through relationship problems. Do you gals and guys think she likes me, should I maybe ask her out on a date? Open Question: What do I do about this guy?I met him in September and I thought he was the sweetest guy. He gave my butterflies and I was positive it could go somewhere. And it did. We went out a bunch and now he considers us to be in a "relationship". Lately though, after we had sex for the first time I've been noticing a change in him. He's less talkative with me and I feel like he's acting colder to me. He still wants to see me, but he always tries to lay the moves on me when we do, even when I don't feel like it or not in the mood. He is unemployed, which is a turn off for me, and he doesn't seem motivated enough to get another job. He quit school and all he seems to want to do is get high and see his buddies. Not once has he taken me out on a date or done anything remotely romantic. He even makes me buy the condoms. A few weeks ago he told me that he's not buying anyone a Christmas gift because he's too broke, (I guess that was his way of informing me I wasn't going to be getting anything from him), but just today he told me that he bought a new jersey and was all excited about it. I know jerseys aren't cheap, and it makes me mad that he obviously does have money; he just wants to spend it selfishly. I really like him, he has even said that he loves me but it's so hard to believe it, and there are so many problems with him. I'm still young, a student in college, and I'm starting to feel like I can do better. What do you suggest? Thanks for reading my freaking long problem btw Open Question: Does this girl like me? This is just very confusing?met this girl online, we went and had drinks together. It went well and I didn't kiss her but just gave her a hug. She said she had a great time. She has called me and also texted me many times since our date. She texts me all the time. She called me today to tell me about her going out last night. The problem is that she never asks me anything about myself. She always talks about her or what is happening currently. But never or very rarely about me, my family, interests, etc. I take this as she is not interested or she is selfish. Am I wrong here? Do girls not ask a guy they are getting to know questions? She even sends me pics of her over my phone. It's weird. She keeps constant contact but never really asks me anything. I have no idea what her agenda is. Open Question: How can we get our neighbors to be quiet in an apartment complex?We have a couple above us that is either fighting (wrestling), jumping around or throwing furniture and laughing, screaming ALL hours of the day and night. There is only one person above us, no one next door on one side, and one older single quiet lady on the other. So we KNOW It's them. We stopped by their apt. a couple of times and there was no answer. We made clips of the noise and went to the apt. manager (we have only been here 3 mos) and told them about it. The manager gave them a written warning. Nothing stopped. The mngmt told us they would not to tell them it's us and told us not to go talk to the neighbors, to just tell the office and call the night time security when we hear it again so a 3rd party can witness it .Don't know why the clips of the screaming weren't good enough. But we have called security and they can't hear anything from the parking lot (most noise is the banging on our ceiling and the screams through our walls) We complained one more time to the office and the neighbor came down to our apt. to find out if it was us. My roommate told him we have heard them make noise, but haven't said anything. He asked us to come up and tell them if it happens again and they shook hands. The last 3 weeks, they have been throwing cig butts and gum on our patio. Now, we have had it. We are going to talk to them ourselves instead of this going through the office crap. Everytime we get up (woken up at 3, 4 5am) to call security again, they quiet down. We can hear them having sex, the bed banging, the screaming. It is so disturbing and NOT peaceful at all. If they are not home when we go talk to them, I have written a polite letter just asking them to make sure their trash doesn't get thrown on our balcony. I have everything logged, all the dates/times of the noise and pics of the stuff they threw, etc. It is just that they are lying to the office and without this 3rd party, the office can't do anything. Should we call the police if it doesn't get better? We don't want any problems- but can't live like this either. I am crossing my fingers that we can just talk to them and this ends. Suggestions? Open Question: Dating a Black Guy,Any Clues?Ok i have known this guy for almost 5 months. and he is my good friend. im starting to like him allot and he's feeling the same, well we have considered going out but the problem is,,My Aunt!! well she's not racist or anything that i know of she just doesn't want me dating balck guys. and i mean its whatever but i need some ideas to know what to do?? Open Question: How do I get my boyfriend to see it from my POV?My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half And for that entire year he has had problems with two of my best guy friends They run in different crowds, and don't particularly like each other, but my guys friends are at least civil to my boyfriend when I'm around. My boyfriend hates that I hang around them. He thinks that they are a bad influence, but they have been my friends forever. My two best guy friends are kinda druggies, but they are fun to hang around, and it's not like they ever push me to do it with them. My boyfriend is an athlete. He drinks, but he doesn't do drugs, and he only pays attention to my guy friends' reputation, not what they are really like. Open Question: world of warcraft is unable to start up 3D acceleration problems Please help me?the error that comes up is this...( world of warcraft is unable to start up 3D acceleration please make sure DirectX 9.0c is installed and your video drivers are up-to-date ) i need some help with this...our graphics card is the ATI Radeon X700 and so i would think we would have a good enough grahpics card...so can anyone please tell me how to resolve this...because i can play for about 40 min....then the game will freeze, the screen with go black, but the it will go back to normal..and that would repeat 3 to 4 times then it will finally completely freeze making me hit the windows button and right clicking the game to close it...then id have to restart my computer and it will work until the 40min is up...so can anyone please help me? =( Open Question: Will you help me correct the grammar in my essay?The Spoken Word Everything changes with the spoken word. In the novel Speak, written by Laurie Halse Anderson, Melinda (the main character) tried to come to terms with being assaulted and it wasn't until she confided in someone other than herself that change actually happened. Due to the assault, Melinda had no longer felt that she could confide in or trust those whom were surrounding her. She had lost confidence in herself and it wasn't until her ex-best friend, Rachel, was in evident danger that Melinda gained the confidence to confide in her, to try to protect her. Melinda finally spoke her mind and when she did, people were surprised at what she had to say. But they were not the only ones who were surprised, Melinda was shocked at how different things seemed once she talked about them and amazed at how much people did care, at how she had never really been alone. Incontrovertibly, Laurie Halse Anderson wrote Speak to show that talking helps. As the school year began, Melinda found herself feeling alone and afraid to share about what had happened and how she had felt. She was distancing herself from others, she was depressed and she was constantly distracted. Melinda blamed herself for what had happened and she lived in constant fear of it happening again. For example, when she was trying to determine whether or not she should just talk, let it all out, Melinda recalled that "It is easier not to say anything... nobody really wants to hear what you have to say." Because Melinda had become so introverted, she no longer had any friends or adults [teachers, parents, etc.] that she felt cared about her and she thought that if she did try to talk, there would be nobody there to listen. This example shows how much the pain that Melinda had been hiding was affecting her, that by not talking she had succeeded in pushing people away and convinced herself that her thoughts and opinions didn't matter, which eventually led to depression and self harm. Melinda lacked confidence in herself, but when Rachel, her "used to be" best friend, was in trouble she confided in her to try to protect her from "IT" (Andy Evans, Melinda's assaulter). Rachel and Andy had started dating and Melinda feared that he would hurt Rachel the way that that he had hurt her. Melinda felt that she needed to warn Rachel, which gave her the strength and audacity to release some of her pent up emotion and buried thoughts by telling Rachel what had actually happened on the night of the party. Melinda and Rachel had been communicating quietly by writing back and forth on a piece of paper and Rachel had mentioned Melinda calling the cops, to which Melinda had replied, "I called... them because some guy raped me. Under the trees." The conversation continued, "[Rachel] WHO DID IT???" Melinda hesitated, only for a moment, and responded, "Andy Evans." The boldness with which Melinda communicated with Rachel showed that she as a character had grown and as her conversation with Rachel reached the confession point, it took a lot of courage for Melinda to say as much as she did. And, even though Rachel took this offensively, it was a turning point in Melinda's life. It may have hurt Melinda, knowing that Rachel did not believe her, but a lot changed after they spoke. The conversation had shown her that she could talk and that talking about what had happened made her feel better. She didn't feel like she was alone, there weren't secrets that she dwelt upon, that she felt as though she had to keep, and after she spoke with Rachel she began to become less introverted and more comfortable around people, including some of her old friends, her parents and her teachers at school. And finally, it could be seen that Melinda was ready to move on when at the end of the year she was ready and willing to continue to talk. After everything that she had been through, when she had her first conversation with Rachel, the first time she had confronted her problems, she realized that things had changed for her. On the final day of school as Melinda readied herself to leave, Mr. Freeman questioned her about how much she had been through and Melinda replied by saying "Let me tell you about it." This quote illustrates how much Melinda had changed over the course of the year and how much more confidence she had. Until Melinda began to confront and talk about her problems, she would push people away for fear of being hurt, but at the end of the year Melinda was ready to move on, which she expressed by trusting other people to not make judgments by what had happened to her and by trusting them to listen. She no longer felt like she was carrying the weight of the world on her shoulders, she was no longer afraid to talk and she had managed to express and understand herself in ways that she had never thought possible. Incontestably, Laurie Halse Anderson wrote Speak to prove that talking does help and that with talki THE END SHOULD BE: Incontestably, Laurie Halse Anderson wrote Speak to prove that talking does help and that with talking people and situations can change. After she was assaulted, Melinda couldn't find it in herself to trust those around her, so at first she felt as though she couldn't tell anyone about what had happened to her, or how she had felt about it. She had lost confidence in herself, but when she felt the need to protect Rachel from "IT," she proved to herself that she could talk about it. And, when Melinda finally spoke about what had been on her mind, people were shocked by what she had to say. But they were not the only ones who had been surprised, Melinda was amazed at how different she felt and how much things had changed for her. She realized that people did care about her and that she had never been alone. (continued) Speak, written by Laurie Halse Anderson, is an inspiring book about a young girl who struggled to discover herself while she learned to speak up and realized how much talking can help and that any situation can change with a different frame of mind. When you accept things as they are, the whole world can be taken from a different, better perspective. The last two posts were all one paragraph. PLEASE HELP ME CORRECT! I think that I fixed it all, but I'd really like it if you could tell me if there are any extra commas, missing commas, mixed tenses, etc. More Recent Articles
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