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Open Question: Should I trust my boyfriend? and more... Open Question: Should I trust my boyfriend?So I've been with this guy for about a year and a half now. We talk about a future together (marriage, children, etc) and he is my first love. For the last few months things have been pretty rocky between us, mostly due unrelated personal problems (financial, family issues, etc), but he tells me all the time that he wants to be with me forever and is willing to work on things. Sooo... the other day while he was checking his email I noticed a bunch dating sites (adultfriendfinder, flings.com) in his inbox, and checked it later when he wasn't around. I found out that he's subscribed to at least 5 of these sites over the last few months, where he has full profiles with photos, personal info, etc - and in all of them he lists himself as SINGLE. I logged into these accounts and while he signs into them regularly has no correspondence with anybody... but the fact that they exist still upsets me very much. When I confronted him about it he told me that he was just "bored and wanted to see if anybody would reply." He also said that he has low self-esteem because I get stared at and hit on all the time and it doesn't happen to him. He's never been unfaithful in any way, doesn't even look at other girls when I'm around, constantly tells me I'm beautiful etc, so this is very unlike him. I stayed calm and explained to him that it's really out of line. He admitted that he shouldn't be on these sites, but pretty much acted like it was no big deal and didn't really even apologize. And a few days after our convo he's STILL logging into these accounts! On top of all this, his ex-girlfriend started calling his house about a week ago! She's been calling every other day or so, leaving messages that she's been "having bad dreams about him" and "just wants to make sure he's OK". He claims he hasn't seen or spoken to her since the day we got together, and that she's kind of mental and he doesn't know why she'd be calling out of the blue. Before we got together he was constantly talking about how he thought she was The One and how hurt he was that she cheated and left him, so it's a really touchy subject for me to begin with... but now that she's trying to contact him again (he swears he never picks up the phone or calls her back, doesn't want anything to do with her), it's really hard for me to believe that this all is just happening coincidentally out of nowhere. Am I being naive to trust him and believe what he says? I'm just really confused and hurt about all of this. Should I be trusting him at this point? Any advice or similar stories would be really appreciated. :( Open Question: Is this normal to feel this way about my boyfriend?hi i was just wondering if anyone one had any opinons or advise on what i should do about my problem i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years know and just recently we had split i had found some e-mails in his inbox to other guys asking for sexual favors from men in the same city and so in return i started talking to this guy i was playing a card game with he lives in a diffrent country i was very upset with my boyfriend and was thinking of leaving him he said the only reson he did it was because i never wanted to give him blow jobs so i let his e-mail relationships go and never fought with him about it or anything and one week later he found me talking to this guy online and got very mad at me and we had a big fight and he left about 2 days later he finally called me saying he loved me and could not be with out me and that he was sorry and would do anything to make it up to me. so i took him back but know things are still not going to good 2 days ago a friend of mine messaged me saying my boyfriend was hitting on her and asked her out on a date o kinda laughed at it but then i asked him about it and he said i ment to say for all of us to go out so i just pushed it off and dropped it even though i was still very very upset about well then tonight my best friend came to me and told me that he asked to take her and her son out she said he made her promise she would not tell me but her being my bestfriend she told me and i have not said anything to him about it i think he knowes i am upset i have not really said much to him... on top of all of this i am a little bit of a bigger girl sence i was diagnosed with a condition that makes u gain alot of weight and im trying so hard to get it off but know he calls me a train and says hes just joking about it and i laugh and make it seem like it does not bug me but deep down i am crying it hurts alot i call him names back to make it seem like we are kidding because we are out in public and i just laugh but it hurts so much deep down tonight i finally went into my basement and just cried i need some advise on what i should do about this or if i should just keep putting a happy face on i want to be with him i do love him but how can i make this all change how can i make him stop calling me names and want to be faithful to me PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!! 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