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Open Question: So sick and tired of being sick and tired?(rant)? and more... Open Question: So sick and tired of being sick and tired?(rant)?I'm a 21 year old young, black, handsome, somewhat shy, educated guy. I'm in college, working and I'm a really nice guy =) My problem is it's hard find to find a decent girl to date. I always hear that since I'm in college I shouldn't date but just try and get girls into bed and what not. That's fine and all but I'm tired of girls that get ran through by everybody. I'm more of the relationship type anyway, not necessarily a long term, but just a shared special connection with somebody. I'm about to cut one girl off because she just sends me one word texts, doesn't really answer the phone, but lets me take her out n flirts with me n its annoying me because I feel toyed with. It's hard for me to meet people because it takes a lot for me to approach anybody. It also irritates me that the girls I do encounter aren't what I like physically, or their personalities suck to me, some are too clingy, and some don't show me ANY attention. Maybe in the end I'm just being too picky. I should just concentrate on my school work but sometimes I just get lonely and want someone of the opposite sex to unwind with. I know that I'm definitely a great guy and I deserve an all around good girl, and it makes me upset when I get less than that. I know nobody is perfect, hell I'm far from perfect, but I'm not asking for perfection. I've been too nice in the past and started working on it to achieve a balance of nice, bu know when to speak up. Sometimes I think if I was a thug, a dopeboy, or just an a-hole, maybe then I'd be able to get somebody and keep them interested, but at the end of the day I know if they don't like me for me then they can hit the road. Like my title says this is a rant... But any comments are welcome Open Question: Why does this happen to me? What have I done? please take the time to help me, please?A year ago,I met a boy at College used to talk a lot, and we were meant to go for a date, he kept asking me for ages, but I was too shy and I also went traveling so the date never happened. I got back from Africa and found out he had a Girlfriend,at the time I wasn't bothered as I sort of got over him whilst on my travels. Two months ago I received a text message from him. I found this very on because A) I haven't spoke to him over a year and a half B) He still had my number after all this time We hit it of again and went on a few dates and the feeling for him started to come back. Now, my problem is that he only split up with his ex in October and txted me a few days after the break up, Was I just his back up plan? I saw that on Facebook he still kept in contact with his ex which is fine, I mean who am I to judge? Yesterday I logged on to Facebook to see that he had commented on one of her Pictures, she was kissing some other gent in said picture and he wasn't pleased to say the least as he expressed in his comment. Other actions of his have had me wondering but I will not go in to that. I have now realized that he was stringing me along and using me as a rebound, because he still has feeling for his ex. Why, after me having fun with my life will one person come out of nowhere and treat me this bad? It's like, trouble just comes to me or something.. The just appeared. I didn't ask for any of this. Did he save my number just so he could do this to me? I just don;t understand :( The whole things just really upset me. And may I add, what should I do about the whole situation, I have grown to have feeling for this man which makes it all the more confusing Well, he did slag her off to me when they are supposed to be civil with one another. Then a few days later I see him in a picture with her? I just don't get it Open Question: Mixed guy looking for Indian girl (India)?I'm a mixed guy, 22 yrs old, (1/2 Italian and 1/2 Black) and I am tired of dating the same people in my area (Buffalo NY) (usually White, Asian and Latina) I know I'm a good looking guy that's not the problem, I have always thought Indian girls were very attractive and loved the fact that most are classy and conservative but there are none where I'm from! The crazy part is I actually look Indian/Middle Eastern and whenever I go out out of town to visit my friends like NY, LA or TO I ALWAYS get looks from Indian girls or end up meeting one when I'm out and actually met one who just happened to sit next to me on my flight to NYC.....It was crazy, she was sooo gorgeous and she kept looking at me but I didn't know what to say!!(I'm very outgoing so this was weird) towards the end of the flight she leaned over and asked me where I was from and where I was going (like you know when some is trying to find out more about you) and I just gave her short answers because I didn't want to mess anything up but I did anyways because I remember she was like waiting for me to ask more about her but all I could do was sit there in shock not knowing what to ask lol ( I know she must of thought I wasn't interested) ....she ended up walking like 2 people of ahead of me and I had to catch a diff flight so I didn't get a chance to say anything else to her and I have regretted not saying anything for like the past week!! so mad at myself like what are the chances of that and why couldn't I think of anything to say!?!? lol anyways If there are any Indian girls that are single and appreciate an attractive, loyal and romantic guy I would luv to hear from you! O yeah and This was on a connecting flight from Boston to NYC so if your out there!lol Open Question: I'm having girl trouble, what should I do?I'm 13 years old right now, will be turning 14 in approximately 4 days. Anyway, that doesn't matter. I'm having some problems with my girlfriend. I just started 'going out', 'dating', 'going steady', whatever you want to call it with this girl about 3 weeks ago. I have some good friends who are also dating, but they seem to be more physical to each other (the boy especially, the girl just flat out doesn't seem to mind) than I am with my girlfriend. Either way, I learned that apparently my girlfriend wanted me to be um... More physical with her. She wants me to do seemingly little things such as hugging her more often, hug her from behind, tickling her (what? :O), and just try and hangout with her more (I have a busy schedule, gosh!). As I was saying, I don't want to do something wrong and make her think I'm a pig, resulting in me becoming single. I really like this girl. Help? More Recent Articles
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