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Open Question: Strip club to work at in Boston? Also, good places to live? etc? and more... Open Question: Strip club to work at in Boston? Also, good places to live? etc?I was raised in New Haven, CT and have been to Boston before but am not familiar enough with it in order to know things. I currently live in Virginia and I HATE this state and HATE the south (so much more segregated and laws are ridiculous. I also miss the snow. The strip clubs aren't that great either because I guess this is referred to as "The Bible Belt" or something). So I'm trying to go back up north. 5 Questions: #1) Where are some cool, nice and upscale areas to live? Price isn't exactly a problem with me. But I'd prefer to spend like $1000-$1800 a month on rent. I just refuse to live in any areas that are dirty, unsafe, and have high crime. #2) Are the laws as strict in Massachusetts like it is in VA due to the commonwealth aspect? (and no, I'm not a law breaker, I'm a good girl ) #3) How prominent are interracial couples? (I'm African American and Native American (and other stuff) and only date outside my race, personal preference and attraction) #4) Where are some nice upscale gentleman's clubs in Boston? Also, where are some decent strip clubs? (I don't want to work at a dirty place) I am taking pole dance classes and have a very nice figure and pretty face so I think auditioning will not be a problem. #5) By being an exotic dancer, will landlords be reluctant to rent to me? (I'm very well spoken and pleasant person. I also do attend college online. But will my occupation discourage my chances of being somewhere nice and will it bring up the typical stereotypes of strippers? or will they not care when I flash them cash equaling up to two months of rent or something) Any other info helps too. Thank you!! <3 Open Question: what do you do when your not sure who you love?this is long and complicated, but here it goes... I have been seeing this guy, Cody, for about a month & a half. He says he loves me, but he still spends a lot of time with his ex. Sometimes, I'm not sure about him.. like, he's a totally different person now that we're dating.. But there's also this guy, Dakota. He's like my favorite person in the whole world. He's my beeeeessssssstttt friend. I can talk to him and tell him anything. Last night, we were talking, and a while back, i told him that i liked him, but then, he didn't like me. Well, last night, we were talking and we somehow got back on that topic.. and he said "people change." and now, he likes me.. and to be honest, i do think sometimes that I'm in love with him. but he said that he doesn't want to be the one to cause problems between me and my boyfriend. whether or not i'm IN LOVE with my boyfriend, i don't know. but he says he loves me, and i don't want to hurt him if that's true. but i think i'm in love with Dakota. and i'm not sure what to do. i dont want to hurt either of them, or myself, if that's possible. advice please? [thanks in advance] Open Question: im really falling for him but i cant and also is he being honest with me?i really need some advice. i dont understand why i feel like this-its silly. a guy i work with who only started a month ago im sure im developing feelings for-why ? well when we work together we get on really really well-it feels like we're flirting rather than working. everytime i work with him i dont want the day to end. i go home and get really excited about working with him again. ive helped him loads being new and stuff. heres the problem. his ex wife left him 6 months ago-he took it really badly but is already casually dating someone he met 3 weeks ago. he has 4 kids 2 from first wife-teenagers-two from second-little toddlers. ive been alone for 8 months-the guy i was with used me and left me in loads of debt-so i dont want any problems. can you please help me here though-what should i do ? i catch him looking at me and then when i turn my head he looks away-he calls me nearly everyday for help and work advice and we have a LOT in common and like i said when we work together we get on amazingly well . im not a troublemaker and sure need a quiet life and dont want to get hurt but is he rebounding with this other girl ? when we talk he seems quite fragile and this is crazy but i always worry about him -whats going to happen i didnt ask for or expect these feelings-will they go away-does he like me-is he dodgy help please also he said something weird the other night-he owns 3 houses-one hes selling from his current wife but is living with a friend in her house-says he 'rents'the other properties out. i dont want to doubt him but that seemed weird.aswell please give me advice Open Question: Which guy should I date?Okay so I am torn between two guys. First guy: I recieve love physically. And the first guy gives me this physical love that I need. He also gives me lot of compliments, which I like. I love this guy A LOT. Also he is really hot. Further more he makes me smile. --The bad thing is tht he doesn't respect me and he's really clingy and he won't date me. And he gets super jealous. He also calls me names and has anger issues. Second guy: We have been friends for a really long time. I have had major crush on him for about a year and a half now. This guy is really understanding. He makes me forget about my problems when I'm with him. He treats me well. He knows how to console me as well. He knows how to have fun. He makes me laugh and my parents like him. He is just an overall sweetheart. --But he doesn't give me the physical love I need. And it kind feels awkward since we've been friends so long. Which guy should I pick? Open Question: my bf and i need help on this tough situation(s)?Here is my story: my bf and I broke up during the summer in June(him with me) while I was taking summer classes,I faliled my Spanish class b/c the teacher was going to fast and I did not get it and felt like an idiot even with tutoring.My ex and I still talked on the cell,in August we saw each other as I started my fall semester and he was visiting me(he is doing his Master in Digital Forensics at the same school where I am doing my BA in History).We started to date,then our relationship started going down the hill,I started to feel tired all the time,ate for two people,put on like 2 lbs.,craved carbs but no protein as in meat which when I saw I threw up and ate it with my friends and family for Thanksgiving,a pre-Thanksgiving with friends,with my family on the week ends as well as with my siblings when going to Whataburger(had to make myself eat meat).I started to throw up,had to run out of the classes in the middle of the lecture and throw up for a couple of good minutes more than once and teachers were wondering what was going on with me.I told them that I had some sushi with a friend so I had the stomach bug,On Nov. the 30th I found out that I was 6 weeks pregnant with my bf''s child but the problem is that I am epileptic so I am taking anti seizure meds twice a day which can cause birth defects in this stage.Then a couple of days later I had a miscariage which the doctor n campus thought was due to the antibiotic she prescribed for my stomach pains when I came in 2 weeks earlier and hinted at a pregnancy test yet had none done. My bf and I had an ultrasound when the fetus was forming and then a couple of days later when we realized that something was really wrong with me and that I had a miscariage.We went to a doctor downtown or close to downtown Houston who gave us a pill to have an abortion so that it would come out of my system and that was last week.This Saturday my bf and I went for a follow up which turned out to be well not such good news:I had the majority of the tissue gone yet some of it was still left in which if left in could cause infection.So we had to take it out and I had the option of the pill again or to be vacumed.I chose the vacumed option since I did not want to come again in a week and could not afford due in part to the hectic schedule my parents have planned when one of their friend is coming to visit us from Austria for a couple of days.I am supposed to get over the whole ordeal but not sure how as of now since all this pregnancy and being sick thru out the semester made me get behind in my 2 Geography classes which I now somehow have to drop or get an I in because this semester I dealt with insomnia,panic attacks,the ifluenza,the flu,the cold,abdominal pains,then a pregnancy,a miscariage,an abortion,at the beginning of the semester for 2 weeks dealing with swapping online classes to in-class-classes and so I honestly missed a lot of class.My parents know that I did well this semester.If I drop the classes it is still my loan and grant that is paying for my education but that means that my last semester which is next semester,Spring 2010 I would have to take 9 hrs. and to work 30 hours a week too.I am not sure how I can now deal emotionally with not telling my parents about the abortion,miscarriage,pregnancy and how the 2 geography classes might really have to be dropped.I might have to tell them that I did not do good on the final or something and that I did not want my GPA to be affected and that I can take them next semester.I am in a sticky situation and I am tired of being where I am now in my life so what do I do?I cannot the change the things I have done so how can I get over the wholr pregnancy/miscariage/abortion deal?I mean now I am trying to tell myself that it never happened...My bf is having his own problems:finding out that I was pregnant,dealing with me being in pain and taking care of me as long as he could which made him get behind in school.He has a 4.0 GPA in Grad School meaning A's and works 40 hours a week so I admire that.He does not know about my problems with having to drop classes or dealing with deans or how much I had to miss class due to being sick because I never made him worry.Recently,on wednesday, he somehow was riding his motorcycle and has a small accident with it as in how it dropped to the ground.Then his boss puts a contract in front of him and tells him to sign it.The catch is that if he does sign it his boss has complete control over his knowledge and him for the next couple of years but he put the contract in front of my bf first before anyone.My bf called up his uncle who told him about this lawyer he uses when ever he needs one (am not sure what his uncled does) but he, the lawyer, charges a hefty $200 and up per hour to help my bf.He read over my bf's contract,they think that the boss is bluffing,my bf does not want to sign the contract and if the boss is not bluffing then my bf is losing his job.Here is the twist:he loses his job Open Question: I need someones help...?This may seem effed up, but please don't leave hurful comments. I really need someones helpful advice. I went out with this guy, and we were off and on for about 3 or 4 months. We broke up for good last week. Recently, I came to discover that I like his best friend...I know that I can't help the fact that I like him. He even likes me too. We have deep feelings for eachother. Well, my ex read his best friend's text messages and saw the ones me and him were texting to eachother. They weren't anything bad, just "I love you bby" type of stuff. He flipped out and started cussing me out and said that if me and his best friend ever dated then he wouldn't be friends with him anymore. So me and his best friend decided that maybe we should wait until my ex got over me until we decided to date. But the problem is, my ex still tells me he loves me and all this crap and said that I have to promise never to date his best friend. Me and his best friend love eachother, and we really want to date. But my ex is standing in the way of that. Any help is greatly appreciated. Open Question: My parents have a problem with boyfriend?Well I'm 14yr old girl and my friend is a 16 yr old guy. we have a thing for each other and we both know it, we're both thinking about dating and I think it will eventually happen....but my mother and father has a problem with him.... he really is a good kid, I'm not one of those naive teenagers who always wants to be right..but I do know he's changed a lot in the past year.. my mother told things about him to my dad before I was even friends with him because she works with his grandmother and hears stories about him and his problems. he has AD-HD and takes medication for it now but before, he used to get in a lottt of fights when he was 15 and at one point got into drinking, which he doesnt do anymore.. but because of the fights he got kicked out of school (until next year) and I feel so bad for him because people deffinetly judge him on his past, anyways... so my mom told my father all of this before me and him ever even knew each other but my father knows who his is and what he did. my dad knows we r friends now but he said "I've heard things from his grandmother and I know he's a problem child" but my mom and dad dooo both know that being kicked out of school straightened him up and the meds are helping him, and he's better off now.. a cool calm collected character lol he's getting better and better but my parents tend to judge people of their past (and always have, not just people I am involved with) and I can see why at times, im their daughter, that makes perfect sense to me.. but what should I do? and if we dooo end up dating, what should I say to my parents? he really is a good kid, and they know he has changed, but once they have an oppinon of someone, they tend to stick to it.. help please?? Open Question: this keep guy blowing hot and cold with me and now his avoiding me again?one minute I'm the only girl for him next he can't stand me and i'm trying to tell him how i feel but he's avoid me again he added me on face book than deleted me and added again like on msn he log when when I'm on line when i do that to him he get piss off he ask me a few time to came to his like 1 am i away decline so i know that this part of the problem i know it just sex but i don't drive i say lets go out and I'll stay at yours but a bit early and i can't travel at like 1am to 2am in morning and he just get piss off and refuses to give me his number so when we go out i got to msn him and i'm not the type to call him night and day i'm on msn once or twice a week for him we haven't had sex yet because we keep avoid each other when we are annoyed rather than fight i feel we lost a spike in our dating and i don't what to do Open Question: Virgo guy blowing hot and cold with Aries girl and now his avoiding me again?this Virgo one minute I'm the only girl for him next he can't stand me and i'm trying to tell him how i feel but he's avoid me again he added me on face book than deleted me and added again like on msn he log when when I'm on line when i do that to him he get piss off he ask me a few time to came to his like 1 am i away decline so i know that this part of the problem i know it just sex but i dont drive i say lets go out and i'll stay at yours but a bit early and i can't travel at like 1am to 2am in morning and he just get piss off and refuses to give me his number so when we go out i got to msn him and i'm not the type to call him night and day i'm on msn once or twice a week for him we haven't sex yet because we keep avoid each other when we are annoyed rather than fight i feel we lost a spike in our dating and i don't what to do Open Question: How would you handle this? Am I selfish?I'm 9 mos pregnant with 2 weeks until my due date. I'm not sure if it's hormones but I really don't have the energy or time to hear friends' bulls*t. My sister called me insensitive which I felt was a nice word for b* BUT i didn't care. I have some draining friends, and it's gotten to the point where I feel a need to say something but I don't think it will come out so nice. One friend of mine calls me with all of her drama, part of me wants to actually say " All of this drama you call me with is way too much for me to hear or be absorbed in or listen to right now, you're a little too old to be going through the type of drama that you go through and if you have drama in every area of your life, work, home, personal etc with everyone, as your friend I'm going to be real with you and say that maybe it's YOU and you might want to take this time to re-evaluate what you are doing to attract all of this drama and negative energy, I'd love to be there as a friend but I can't right now and I feel that it's insensitive with me being 9 mos pregnant that you call me with all of this stuff. It's too heavy and right now the only thing I want to concentrate on is the baby" Background info: She's a teacher. She's been teaching for almost 10 years and she has never gotten tenure anywhere she's taught. Every school she gets hired at she has some drama. At first it was a principal who told her that her skirts were too short. My friend is busty and hippy she's shaped like Serena Williams. The principal was retiring that year. My suggestion was she won't be there that long suck it where pants if you have to especially if she thinks your dress is inappropriate to teach kindergartners. Then she taught spanish at some school in CT, problems there. Now she's at another school, and she can't even have a conversation with her superiors without a union rep present. To me, she's like a total train wreck. Now in addition to me hearing these boring dramatic stories about where she works, she has issues with her past bosses/coworkers. She sends a crazy text to everyone which had so much profanity etc in it threatening to beat up someone who smashed her windshield. I text her back asking why she sent it to me. Then she says, sorry and says she was pissed. Come to find out, it's the ex asst principal or principal's gf who smashed her windows. This woman called her and asked her to stop calling her bf. My friend obviously didn't and said it wasn't her problem she was insecure. The woman called from the principal's phone. Next thing you know, the principal takes the text to the police says my friend has threatened him. His gf calls my friend from his phone and admits to smashing her windshield. So I tell my friend, well that couldn't have been a friend of yours if he's calling the cops, why don't you just leave them alone, if a woman calls you who cares about her insecurity simply stop calling. My friend claims the guy is gay, but he's obviously not that gay if he has a gf, and for the life of me there seems like there is more to the story because no one just goes about smashing windshields. I feel sorry for my friend and at times want to be like Mother Teresa and save her, but she's 32. At 32 I think she should know better and as her revenge this nut subscribes the principal to Out magazine. I think that's a little overboard, as soon as I begin to tell her how wrong she was she quickly got me off the phone. I was hesistant to answer her call, then I said maybe she's checking on me and the baby. I got 10 seconds of how are you feeling? Then a whole mouthful of her drama with work and this guy that she claims she was just "friends" with...but mind u she questions his sexuality. If you don't like him or had nothing with him, why does it matter? I have a feeling that one of these days I'm going to go off on her and what I have to say may not be nice so I'm searching for the right words to tell her to eff off with the drama because it's pure madness and to tell her to get it together because she's a total train wreck. As her revenge, I guess against the guy she decides to go on a date with a custodian that cleans her classroom. As soon as she finished telling story, she says "it's okay because I have a date with the custodian" ....my 1st thought is who cares? I actually talked to her yesterday, because I felt bad and didn't want to seem like a b*. I simply told her that she has too much drama in her life and that she's too old to be doing the stuff she was doing. I told her to leave the couple alone and if she thinks he's gay why is she bothering him and his gf? She felt I was taking sides and quickly got off the phone. I really think my friend is crazy and I know she wants to be happy in every area of her life but I think she needs professional help. Although I spoke to her I'm still venting because now all of her stress has me stressed out, it's stuff I really didn't need to hear. Open Question: which one would you date for real?boy # 1- tall boy about 5'11, nice smart ,vary dark skin ed. has had problems with his grades and has been branded a outcast. he gets made fun of because he avoids fighting and is slightly overweight (247 pounds) , is unique and does not act like a regular teen. has never had a girlfriend and is kind of desperate. some kids thanks he is gay because of the way he talks. sometimes curses and is thought to be a freak. hangs out with a strange group of outcasts. OR boy # 2-Black Boy about 5'10, skinny, known to fight allot, is thought to be friends with kids who are deals and gang bangers. has had may girlfriends and is a player. curses a lot and will smack your ass in public. is jerks you around and belittles you. Open Question: I want to know what is with my brother?My brother was lifting with his owner father when he was 16 and at that time he was vary popular; ower father went to jail and now my brother is 25. For the past 9 years he has been different. I want to know what kind of mental problems he might have The friend that he das have, he does not do much with them most of the time he do not want to do anything other than just stay home Here is what he will not do: Meeting new people Being the center of attention Let people watched him while doing something Making small talk Public speaking / Speaking up Being teased or criticized Being called on in class Going on a date Making phone calls Using public bathrooms Eating or drinking in public Attending parties or other social gatherings Will not go throw a day with a little bit of dirt on his hands More Recent Articles
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