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Open Question: Tell me what you think of this.? and more... Open Question: Tell me what you think of this.?I am 13 years old now. In 7th grade. I am going through my first heartbreak and I want opinions and advice. I am going to say his name is Bob. Bob and I dated for 3 months 3 weeks and 1 day over last school year. He was everything to me. We both cried on the last day of school because we both knew it would be hard to see each other over the Summer. We promised to try. Near the end of the Summer, we stop talking for a week and I get upset becasue he isnt really rude like that. I thought something was up so I caught him on myspace.com. We started chatting and I knew something was up. He was acting odd so I confronted him. He told me that his mom did not like me and she said I was the typical white american grl (racist I know,, and wrong) and she was going to send him to Cali if he didnt break up with me. Of course, I cried and I was definitely HeartBroken. Becasue he was my 1st true love and my 1st kiss, makeout, date, all that, his name was on everything I owned and I was constantly thinking about him. \ This was also a shock. We promised to be friends and still talk and stuff. We didnt talk for a couple weeks then, one day he randomly calls me and we talk. It was really awkward then I end with saying i <3 you. He says i <3 you, too. and we hang up. That was a terribly good/bad day because i was happy he loved me and sad becasue that was the day I left home becasue I was being put in foster care. Thats another story. But, he heard about the foster care thing and we ddint talk after that. I moved back home 2 months later, and I started school with him. On MY first day, he looked at my schedule and was HAPPY he didnt have any classes with me. When I message him on myspace, he reads them and doesnt answer. I am on his 'heroes' list but, as of yesterday he deleted me. I dont know why. When I call him, no answer. Basically he cut me off. But, when I got another bf, he came up to me and said "YOU ARE GOING OUT WITH ******??!!" I didnt answer and walked away. Karma. He doesnt talk about me with his friends. By the way, hes asian. thats y his mom dont like me. Heres the terrible heartbreaking part, as of 2 weeks ago, he has a new gf, yeah that hurts, abut the real pain is that she is White. Like me. I dont understand. Now, THAT hurts. Anyway, I want him to talk to me, what can I do/say that doesnt involve walking up to him? No matter what I cant get over him. My friends dont unerstand either. Its been like, 4-5 months. Help? Heres pics of me, I dont THINK I am the problem... http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=401899185&albumID=1768533&imageID=28563215 http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=401899185&albumID=1768533&imageID=28563215#a=1768533&i=28757432 Older Pic (last year) http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=401899185&albumID=1636469&imageID=23895524 What do you think of me, tell me if you want. Just curious.. Also, ever sine we broke up, I dont ever get attached to them and they get upset bcuz they feel as if I dont like them personally. I try to explain but, they nevrer listen... Opinionz? Thanks Open Question: Am I depressed? I don't want to go tell me parents at all. I want to avoid the awkwardness?I am a junior in high school and I have become good buds with one of my 9th grade teachers. He had a daughter that I met a couple years ago. She is in 9th grade and her and I have gotten to know each other well over the past few months. Well, I have started to really like her. There is something about her that just keeps me going. I told her that I liked her, so she knows. But she is dating someone right now. So I am not going to ask her out. Well, it hurts so much when I am not around her. Like I know that her and I will never be more than friends. But I can't stop thinking about her. The reason I think I am depressed is that I have been so tired lately. I come home from school. I turn the lights off turn the tv on for a bit and fall asleep. Or I just turn everything off and fall asleep. I have been sad lately, I have been yelling at my parents, I even pushed my mom. I was on a "new life style change" and I had lost a lot of weight, but just started to gain it all back. Like I said before, her dad is a teacher, I respect this guy. His brother teaches at my school too. I respect both of these guys. Getting to talk to these guys are the only reason why I haven't given up. They are like my best friends. I have no idea what to do or what I will do when I graduate. I will have no one. I have no friends that I can trust to talk to besides those two. And obviously I am not going to go to them with this problem. I am a guy, I hide my feelings a lot. Open Question: MAJOR guy problem? Kinda lengthy.?Alright so here it goes.. This semester in college i sat by this guy in biology and we started talking to each other. At first we would just converse about random things, but then we started texting a little bit. About 2 weeks ago I went to his apartment to study. Unfortunately, it was the week before christmas break so I didn't get to see him much more. We still texted and everything and we really started liking each other. Here's the kicker... He told me that he was 23. He had some tattoos on his arms and they were names that he said were his nieces and nephews. I have been suspicious of him though just because I don't trust anybody. Well, about 2 days ago I got online and looked him on the the court records for our state, and found 2 marriages, 2 divorces, and 2 protective orders. I was like OMG What the h*ll!!!!! And in that information it said that the guy was 30 years old.. I am absolutely stunned. Now I know that there can be more than one person with the same name so I had to do some more research. So yesterday I text him and ask him about it and he denys it, and says that his birthday was today(yesterday) and that he was born in 1985. I know good and well that one of the protective orders was him, but it didn't show a birth date. I called the county courthouse where one of the marriage, divorces, and prot. orders took place and the court clerk said the lady said that all of them was the same guy and that he was turning 30 today(yesterday). When I text him and told him i knew he was 30 and had been married he just said that i was wrong and that i shouldn't have checked up on him like that. He said that the court records were incorrect which is a complete lie!!! I really just can't believe this has happened. It turns out this guy is 30, been married and divorced twice, and has children(which happens to be the names on his arm). While i'm sitting here 20 years old. Did he think I wouldn't ever find out? I just don't know what to do cause I haven't talked to him anymore since yesterday and the situation is still just there and open. Nothing has been resolved. I wish he would have just been honest with me in the first place. I hope I haven't terribly confused you, but im just hoping for some opinions on what to do or what you think. Thanks!! More Recent Articles
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