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Open Question: Theres a girl i really like but her mom wont let her date till shes a junior i dont know what to do help! Plz? and more... Open Question: Theres a girl i really like but her mom wont let her date till shes a junior i dont know what to do help! Plz?OH AND THIS ISNT SEXUAL! just so u know This is the most beautiful girl ive ever met shes so sweet to she perfect shes like angel to me so amaizing i love her and i want to be with her for long time. But theres one problem her mom won let her date till shes a junior were feshman right now. I cant be with out her wat do i do? And It hurts me because i feel as though i cantbe with out her and have her in pe so have to ne around her so its like torture to me. Open Question: im going on my first date with this 32 year old engineer, im 26,?Aim a vegetarian, and i think he eats meat, not really a problem to me, but if we end up going to a place to eat , should i suggest him a vegetarian place? they food is great its taste like meat, so what should i do, he sounds very inerested in me so far. thank you in advance for the good advise. Open Question: If anyone has a moment, please help me. I really have no other place to turn. Some advice, anything. ?My name is Andrea. I am 19 yrs old and a high school graduate. I have a problem that has become more and more serious during the past year or so. I really have no clue where to begin, but let me first thank you for taking the time to read this. I guess I should begin with a little background to my issue. Well, I grew up in a really tiny town and in an even smaller home. It was just my mother and myself. The only word to describe my life growing up and my surroundings I guess would have to be 'poverty'. My mom worked as a farmhand to provide for us the best she could, but we were still always very very low on money, as well as other needs. She brought me up very well, and I have never felt sorry for myself or been ashamed of my life. I did very well in school growing up. I always had perfect attendance, A's, and clean clothes on my back. Although it was just my mother and I in a one bedroom house, we always dreamed of bigger things. We had no furniture or luxuries. When I was about 8 yrs old we could finally afford a refrigerator that actually worked and a used stove that had a working oven and not just top burners. She worked very hard in the fields all day and would return home at night practically dead with sore...well everything. Well jumping ahead a bit, soon came time for my graduation. I was very excited and already had prepared years ahead for college. I graduated top og my class and was accepted to a private college about an hr away from home. Soon came time for me to move out, and to no suprise my mother was very excited for me as well as sad, for I would be moving out soon. My mother was pround, not only because I had turned out so well, but because she had only completed 6th grade and had gotten married at around 14. my mother was born in 1953, and not into a very good household. My grandmother, who I never got a chance to meet was married to a problemed man. This relationship in turn caused my aunt and mother to go through many horrible things. At the first oppurtunity, my mother took a chance and got out. She ended up running right into another abusive relationship with a 20 yr old husband. She became a mother at 14 and has had a rough life since. She was wonderful, and would not do anything less than walk through fire for her children. About a month after my graduation, I had already settled into my dorms and begain my smester at college. I graduated highschool a year early, so I was the youngest in my classes. Although I have everything ahead of me that I can imagine, I worry so much about my mother. My small child support check have ended. It's been about two years now that she had not been able to work her usual hard labor due to her age. She refuses to give up though. I can't help but admire how strong she is. Her bills are no more than $200 a month because she owns our small house. Her Chevy cavalier is also paid for. But now it has become even harder for her to live with the $50 she makes weekly for cleaning two houses in the small town of pop.775. She's trying, but without an education and hardly any record financially at all, all I can think about is what she will do for food or gas. Where's the money for the increasing water costs, or electric coming from. With classes I am unable to pick up many hours at my current job at Walmart. I do not own a vehicle yet and do not have any family members to turn to. My family has broken apart sadly and I am all my mother has. I need help. I try to send as much as I can to help her, but I wish so much that I could do more. There is still no furniture in the house besides a bed and a tv, her dreams of a nice home are far out of reach. We can't even get past the $53 car insurance bill. I've looked all over, asked all over. I'm short of begging for help. My heart is breaking as I helplessly watch my mother's worries seep through her walls and travel right over to me. I can't concentrate and I'm finding it harder and harder to sleep now. The last thing on my mind is going out with my friends or eating out on a date. I always stare down at my plate in the dorm cafeteria and wonder if she's at home eating too. And then my hunger suddenly dissapears. I don't know what to do, where to turn. Advice, comforting words. Anything will help. And thank you to who ever is staring at your screen right now reading this. It helps just getting it out in words. -Andee More Recent Articles
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