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Open Question: very confused... any relationship advise for me? and more... Open Question: very confused... any relationship advise for me?i have been dating this guy for a month..and things where doing really good..met his family...his mom really liked me...then one day he calls me saying that his ex had called and says shes pregnant...shes only 21 years old ok my boyfriend is 36...im in shock but nicely asked him what is he going to do! he says he doesn't know he tells me hes going to meet her to see how things are..after that day i don't hear from him in 5 days..im confused and upset....called him and no response..at the day six i go over his place and wait for him to talk(then i received a txt from him that says sorry for everything i just have a lot on ,my plate right now and don't really know what to do yet)...at this point im like if he doesn't want me anymore he better tell me...we finally talk and all he says is that hes life is all screwed up he doesn't want to have a baby with this girl...and he doesn't know what to do..im like what going to happen to us...he says he doesn't know...until he fixes his problem..im all confused still and asked him if he wants me to move on and look for someone else he says he cant tell me to do that because he doesn't feel it,but he cant ask me to stop my life for him...because he doesn't know when this is going to be fixed.,im like do you care for me ,do you have feeling he says yes i do have feelings..that night i stayed with him...and in the morning before he goes to work he gives me a quick kiss and im like is that how are you going to say goodbye..he looks at me and says no this is not a good bye ...he leaves ...and i haven't talked to him ever since..its been 8 days and don't know anything about him i have text him once to say good morning..no response..im so confused...im thinking if this man has gone back with this girl why hes not telling me good bye..could this be a lie to get rid of me...if it is i think is not necessary he could tell me that things are not working out...and that's it..im so confused..help please! i really like this guy ..hes very nice to me,but this situation is so confusing...i cant understant why hes so distant from me?any advise would be apreciated it! its been 15 days since this problem started..and i have seen him only twice..he doesnt call me or looks for me..im like if he doesnt want me why he doesnt tell me the truth! i dont want to push him but if he at least could tell me something! Open Question: Single for the first time in 5yrs..need some advice.?Okay so Im 17, I'll be 18 in march. I got my first bf whn I was 12 it lasted 1yr 1 mth 1 week and 3days haha It was my first relationship and I liked to keep up with how long we had been together. Me and they guy didnt have anything in common and I broke up with him. Two days after the break up I went out with my guy best friend. We lasted bout 3yrs and a half. We fought A LOT, seriously every single day, he cheated on me for 2 1/2 yrs with someone in my family. My mom saw the two together and my whole family exploded with anger..it was horrible.. I broke up with him. okay bout this time I was 16 and looking forward to getting out there. I was having so much fun and just randomly likeing guys and whn they stopped it was no big deal and I was okay. Then I met him..I just walked in and fell all over myself in love with the new guy at work. I was okay with just being his friend because he was soo awesome, even tho I really wanted to go out with him..he asked me out bout a month after we met and I excitedly said yes. We lasted 10mths. Still not too sure why he broke up with me, I think he thought I was cheating on him, but I DONOT cheat. I know what it feels lke to be cheated on and I wouldnt do tht to anyone. Okay but heres the problem... Im single for the first time in 5yrs. I dont like being alone,but i have no idead how to get out there and meet people to go on dates with. I want to meet someone and be friend-like and then maybe go on a date but the only way I can go on dates lately is just by being set up by my friends. Any advice on other ways I can get dates without having to be set up? Im 17, blue eyes, long brown hair, not a stick but not at all overweight. Im currenently attending college, majoring in computer sciencebut wanting to switch to Elementary education. I work, goto school and hang with my friends but at school im kinda quiet, and shy but i'll tlk to someone if they tlk to me=/ I just need some advice. I still work with my x at Wendys haha. me and him r friends but i have worked at the same place for over a year and theres no one there to meet. Sorry this was so long. I just really want some advice.. Open Question: Why does a guys body type matter so much to girls?I am 15 years old and I have a problem. I have something called Marfan Syndrome, a disorder in the connective tissue in the muscles. From this, it makes me really thin, tall and with long limbs. I am 5`9 and a half tall and I'm 110 pounds. I am one of the skinniest people at my school, skinner than females too. I've heard that girls "don't date guys thinner than them" and being this thin is a complete turn off. I am very intelligent(4.2 GPA), I have a great personality, and I'm willing to give anyone the respect that they deserve. But since I am this thin, what do I do? And Marfan Syndrome blocks about 95% weight changes(gain or loss). Heres a picture of me. How do I go about without girls thinking "ew" or "gross" when they first see me? Cause girls usually only care about looks nowadays... http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=490877905&albumID=487352&imageID=10348189 http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=490877905&albumID=487352&imageID=9876063 Open Question: is this good about my relationship?so i have been dating this guy for a year and we are really good together. we were friends in the beginning and i did no think i would fall for him he was so different from who i would normally date but his personality got me. the problem with our relationship once we started dating was that we fought. well recently we decided to take a break to try to fix things. well this break has been on for about 2 months now and we have been talking on and off about us. and he has decided to let me go cause he thinks that having the relationship now just isn't right. he wantes to be friends but i told him no cause if i want to be happy and try to move on i can't be in contact. so i told him that when im ready to be friends i will call. he told me that he hope we can try this relationship later, and we can be more mature and grow up. he said he wants to be friends and then if our love comes back we will try. jsut right now isn't meant to be. he loves me so much and so do i. but i wasn't giving him his space it's my fault it's like this but this is how is supposed to be happening. so i was wondering if this makes sense. and is this a good thing that he says later we can try it again just not right now it's not meant to be? i beleive that it is good what he said. i jsut would like other interpretations on this. Open Question: I'm definitely over him, so what is my problem here exactly?When I was in middle school I liked this one guy (I've known I'm since I was little) and then I liked him for the first two years of high school. After that I got over him. I don't ever accept when guys ask me out because I feel unworthy, and I never wanted to date him. He's never dated anyone either, and since everyone assumed I'd want to go out with a guy I liked they'd always try to convince me to let them set me up with him (long story, he's a bit older than me and the girls in his grade thought it was sweet- so embarrassing). Anyways, it's been a couple of years and I haven't liked anyone since 10th grade (my eating disorder has been getting a lot worse and trying to help my dad out has been failing so horribly that I just haven't thought of guys in awhile). I still see this guy and talk to him sometimes, and it's weird but I just always think how nice he is. I love guys who are sweet, my friends always make fun of me for that, but I just think that it is such an important quality to have. I'm not into him at all anymore, but I can't get over how sweet he is. I feel like it's messed-up but I sort of love him (I don't mean I'm in-love with him). Is this weird? I've liked other guys in the past and when I stop liking them that was it, so I don't see what my problem is here. Also, I would never date him, no matter what, so it's confusing. Thank you. More Recent Articles
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