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Open Question: Was it a date or just a favor? and more... Open Question: Was it a date or just a favor?A guy I crushed on in junior high and then basically forgot about turned up in a few of my classes this year. We still had each others numbers in our phones so we would text/talk on the phone, but it's always about school work and such. Recently, I was sick and out of school for about three weeks and when I came back he was quick to talk to me again, joking about how I wasn't allowed to miss anymore school and then later in class he took to throwing little paper balls at my head all period. I tend to like guys with a fun (and admittedly sometimes immature) sense of humor, so it brought back the feelings from seventh grade (we're now sophomores). So last week we texted for about twenty minutes about our history assignment, joking about how neither of us wanted to do it and such, but the conversation ended pretty shortly because he went to take a nap. Anyways, since I only just turned sixteen I don't have my driver's license yet so my brother picks me up from school, but on this past thursday my mom had to pick me up. Only problem was she couldn't get there until four, and school ends at two thirty. So I gathered up my courage and asked him to come wait at the Dairy Queen across from the school with me until my mom got there. His response was "I really would, but I need a ride and Amberly (his best friend) is my ride home" so I responded with "if having a ride is the problem then my mom can take you home" and so he agreed. Then, when it came down to it, my best friend needed a ride as well so she tagged along for part of the time. I wasn't too happy about that, but it's nothing I could help. A few key things that happened that I was wondering about whether or not it was a friendly or flirty comment/action: -on our walk to Dairy Queen, he said he was going to go running for a bit after school but "I didn't want to keep Amber(me) waiting". -he was really tired (he thinks he's getting sick) but it seemed like he put forth an effort to keep conversation going. -we joked and laughed a lot. -we sat in a booth across from each other, and our feet brushed a couple times but i put it off as accidental. Then our knees touched and we both jerked away at the same time. About a minute later, his left knee brushed against my right and neither of us moved for about thirty seconds to a minute when he pulled away and put his feet up on the chair next to me. -on our way home, my mom accidentally drove past his house, thinking she needed to take my friend home first. But after we told her that my friend was coming home with me, she turned around and asked my crush for directions to his place. After telling her, he made a comment about thinking Taylor (my friend) would be dropped off first. I thought nothing of it, but my mom said it made her think that he understood that it was really meant as just a 'you and me' type thing. I can't think of anything else that stood out in my mind, but if I do I'll add details. -And I know I tend to over analyze things like this, so please help me back to reality. So I suppose the question out of all of this (sorry this is so lengthy, by the way) would be does he like me, or think that we have potential, or am I just a friend that he was helping out? And, in either case, what should I do next? Open Question: Long distance relationships?Hey everyone :] I put this in the Adolescent section because the Singles and Dating section is always flooding with questions, I never get any answers. Anyways, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while, and it's been going pretty well... but I live in Canada, and he's from California. I only get to visit him once in a while (im planning on flying out there sometime during the winter break) But we're both having problems with the long distance between us... and how we only see eachother once in a while. The distance never bugged me so much before, but it's starting to really pick at me... I hate not being able to see him as much as I'd like to. We really care about eachother, but it's almost painful, you know? Does anybody have any advice on things we can do to keep our minds off the distance? Is there anybody who's been in a situation like my own? I'd love to be able to move out there, but I'm too young to make that descision right now. So I'm stuck taking short little trips once every few months, Thanks in advance :] I forgot to add, that yes we're constantly on Skype, and I have unlimited long distance with my phone plan. We're always in touch constantly. I think I'm just longing for that physical contact as well. Open Question: Should I run away from here?I am 15 year's of age. Me & my mother are having horribe problem's. All my life she was never strict & I alway's got good grade's & stayed out of trouble, IM STILL LIKE THAT. She use to let me live a life,Then she got this new bf & she's changing completley I dont even know who she is anymore, She treat's me like **** & she say's the most hurtful things. Yesterday my bf was 5 min late on leveing she told me GIVE ME YOUR PHONE YOU WONT BE SEEING HIM FOR 1 MONTH. Okay, then her bf steps in and says well she shouldnt date until she is 17, I said I am 15, a virgin, havent even made out yet, I respect my body & I'm mature enough to have a boyfriend. then I got hit, for just speaking up on what I think, & I said it respectfully. & this bf of mine is amazing he's only my 3rd bf & he treats me good. & I'm afraid that if he cant see me then thing's will change :( I tell myself if he's worthit he'll stick around but 1 month is a bit crazy I wouldnt be surprised if she made it longer. & it's honestly for the most pitiful reasons. I dont understand why she's doing this to me. I just think it's wrong to raise a child one way for 15 years then in a blink of an eye raise her different. & I know that what is happining in my life, isn't the end of the world but I'll tell you this, it sure as hell feel's like it. long story made short, I am selfish but I do believe that I deserve a little more room to breath and all the stuff she put me threw as a child I am too mature for this age that I am. I'm sick of being hit, I'm sick of the thing's she say's to me. Should I run away with my friend? To idk where ; last resort feel's great. Or should I stay suck it up & deal with it, I don't think I'm capable of that. Open Question: I am curious, is it considered un-masculine in East Europe and Russia if a man cooks food or does dishes ?hi guys, ok, well I dated two woman from Eastern Europe separate times. Both are stunning beautifulthin, like real women. The first was half Polish and half Russian, from Poland, about 24, I dated her for for six months, before she returned to Poland. One time her older sister was over in the house, and saw me doing the dishes, and she snapped, and said "that her sister will or her will do it" I was like "huh" ? "it's no problem, I can do it". She said in "east europe, woman commands the kitchen". Now I date this girl about 21 year old from Romania. Now this was in my apartment, and I was cooking food, She brought her younger brother over too like 19 I think. and he said. "man, what the f-ck, cooking is woman's job, you are man, let us watch the game"(soccer or football as you say in europe). And it is not like cooking is a hobby, I do other activities like ski, scuba, fishing, and hunting. But this is normal for me. I am of East Indian origin , but American born/raised, so when I was younger, my mom showed me how to do stuff in the ktichen. Both my ex and the current girl liked what I made, and they made good food too. Anyway, so can anyone answer my question ? I am just curious. Open Question: What should I write to her?I am 15 year's of age. Me & my mother are having horribe problem's. All my life she was never strict & I alway's got good grade's & stayed out of trouble. She use to let me live a life, she never grounded me over stupid petty thing's. Then she got this new bf & she's changing completley I dont even know who she is anymore, She treat's me like shit & she say's the most hurtful things. Yesterday my bf was 5 min late on leveing she told me GIVE ME YOUR PHONE YOU WONT BE SEEING HIM FOR 1 MONTH. Okay, then her bf steps in and says well she shouldnt date until she is 17, I said I am 15, a virgin, havent even made out yet, I respect my body & I'm mature enough to have a boyfriend. then I got hit, for just speaking up on what I think, & I said it respectfully. & this bf of mine is amazing he's only my 3rd bf & he treats me good. & I'm afraid that if he cant see me then thing's will change :( I tell myself if he's worthit he'll stick around but 1 month is a bit crazy I wouldnt be surprised if she made it longer. & it's honestly for the most pitiful reasons. I dont understand why she's doing this to me. So what can I write in the letter to her? I just think it's wrong to raise a child one way for 15 years then in a blink of an eye raise her different. & I know that what is happining in my life, isn't the end of the world but I'll tell you this, it sure as hell feel's like it. thanks' so much for your help More Recent Articles
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