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Open Question: What are your opinions' on the following subjects? and more... Open Question: What are your opinions' on the following subjects?religion? politics? homosexuality? abortion? racism/bigotry? how the world began? december 21, 2012? capital punishment? religion -- i personally think it's just.. stupid. i don't bash anybody else for having a religion, because i'm not that way. it's just another way to divide people. it's, in my opinion, the most controversial issue. i'm more a man of science, rather than religion. i also don't appreciate people who constantly preach to other people, cramming their religion down peoples' throats. politics -- i used to be intrigued with politics. but i've decided recently that it just bores me. i'll avoid any conversation when it comes to politics, because i just don't care about it anymore. homosexuality -- no problem with gays/bisexuals/lesbians whatsoever. they're just as normal as anybody else (but then again, who is normal). they're just trying to live their life. abortion -- nope. it's basically murder in my eyes. and most of the time, it's people who won't take responsibility for their actions. abortion is an easy way out for people. racism/bigotry -- SO stupid. i don't see the point of it. skin color/gender/sexuality/cultural background will not affect my opinion on anybody. how the world began -- i think the world began how science tells us. december 21, 2012 -- i'm not too worried when this specific date comes to us. remember Y2J? when everybody thought the computers were going to go out when year 2000 hit. but they didn't. i think it's just a stupid theory. capital punishment -- it's a love/hate thing. of course, i think somebody should be punished for committing a horrific crime. but who are we to play such a powerful part in some body's life. it's kind of hypocritical in a way. Open Question: bf problems and future and?i graduated a 3 years ago and i cant find a job in pa.. well in cali there is alot of job opportunities. and i really want to go .. i ask my bf to go with me but he doesn't want to.. he is happy here... and i am not. also we been dating for 9 years and have a 3 yr old daughter.. so it hard for me to just get up and go .. since i don't know any one in cali. my bf been working with the same company for 8 yrs. he not go any where. if i leave everything in my house belongs to me even the cars. so it would leave him with nothing. also to mention we cant get along anymore to we fight ever time where alone together which is not cool. and i don't want to deal with this any more. and i feel like the only reason i am with him is my daughter .. and now i am just confused on what to do . and i feel like i went to school for nothing and wasting alot of money for nothing.. i have filed out appl;ication for yrs now and no one responds back.so i don't have a job or a place lined up for me in cali .. errr i am so frustrated and i don't know what to do. Open Question: dream interpretation: party with people from my past?I had a very weird dream last night. Several people from my past like high school and college were at a party at my apartment. I was going around closing doors to make sure that noone went into the rooms and then I was just mingling. There were no problems. The weird thing was that most of these are people that I knew but weren't incredibly good friends with and we just went seperate ways. Then I came across my ex and his fiancee. Across the room was his best friend (wearing all black), who wanted to date me but then we decided not to in order to keep things from getting crazy. When my ex and his fiancee were leaving, I walked them to the door, opened it and said thanks for coming and the three of us had a plesant convo, at the end of which we shook hands. When they left, I went back to the party and my ex's best friend was waiting for me and we started chatting. In reality, I don't talk to any of these people. My ex and I don't speak, much less his fiancee and myself. My ex's best friend and I haven't spoken in a while either. Thoughts? BTW, me and my ex broke up 7 years ago and I have dated other people since and I really don't feel anything toward him and/or his fiancee. Open Question: Is it possible to feel even more left out?Oh god 2 of my best friends have like a group outside of school which doesn't include me =( Friend 1 has been in this like "group" for a while now (maybe 2 years) so when friend 2 comes last year they became really close. I was already close with 1 so I got close with 2. 2 did and still does a bunch of stuff outta school with 1 (I'm invited sometimes now but it's mostly spur of the moment stuff that I don't even hear about after) And so 2 called and chatted with all the outta school group of 1 and they all knew her. The thing is 2 lives really close to their "group" and so she started hanging with them and now she's dating one of them and so is 1. I feel so left I never understand what they're talking bout and I can't go to them bout anything and they can't come to me =( Oh and btw I have an other bestfriend so I'm not like lifeless but she doesn't have anything to do with this problem don't mention her lol. What should I do??? Open Question: Want to know why Tiger cheated on Elin?I think they had a very boring sex life because Swedish women are great when it comes to loving and supporting their husband and not nagging. But they are boring when it comes to sex and having real fun in the bedroom. American women are more interesting in bed than Swedes. I know this from experience having dated several Swedish and American women. I also know people who have dated both Swedish and American girls. Just listen to how much fun Tiger had with that cocktail waitress mistress. I doubt he ever as much fun in the bedroom with his boring but supportive wife. I am not saying that all Swedish women are boring and all American women are fun in bed, but if you pick a random hot American girl and take a random hot Swedish girl, you'll have a better sex life with the American chick, but you will get more love and support from the Swedish girl. It just depends on what you want. I think Tiger isn't the type who needs love. He is a red blooded male, and personal satisfaction is more important to him than being loved. Problem is Tiger should have known this about himself before he married the Swede. Open Question: How to choose between to girls you both like?I am stuck between two girls that I both like. I met both girls o nthe internet around the same time. Girl 1 is lives here i nthe state that I am in. Gilr one is smart,caring,honest and has alot going for herslef in life.We talk and go out to movies and dinner and so forth. She does alot for me and is there when I need her. The problem with her is that she sort of have her funny ways. Small things bother her and she tends to think she is alwys right and is smarter than everyone else in ways. Also, she is muslim. Her parents wants her to date and marry a muslim guy. I have yet to meet her parents or anything. I sort of dont like that idea of that. I think if me and her got married it will be alot of drama. Another thing that bothers me is that she broke up with me once for no reason at all. She said she was scared was why she did it. I feel she might do something again like that. Girl 1 also seems to let me go very fast if we get into arguments. We have gotten into fights and conflicts and the first thing she wanna do is breakup. Girl 2 lives in another state. She is cool, fun, sexy, and very agressive when it comes to us being together. She throws herself on me and puts adventure into things. We both have alot in common. I like playing video games and looking at cartoons and movies. She also likes it. We get along pretty good. With her being in another state she calls me everyday and we talk alot. She has visited me twice since we been talking. Girl 2 has a pretty good job and is in school just like gilr 2. Girl 2 is around the same religion and beliefs as me and I have met her parents and they are very nice to me. With girl 1 I couldnt meet her parents because they wouldnt approve of me. Me and girl 2 broke up due to distance affecting us. We had our fights and stuff but she never left me or gaveup, I did. Girl 2 isnt so serious about smal lthings as girl 1 is. She can joke more and be more fun. I just found out girl 2 is locating to my city soon. The thing is that me and girl 1 are together but girl 2 and I have been talking and thinking about getting back together and making things work since she coming here. I and girl 1 have been fighting alot and breaking up and getting back together. Another thing girl 2 is bisexual. I dont go to good with that type of stuff. I just would liek to know which girl would you choose if u was in my shoes? Open Question: Boyfriend troubles! My boyfriend worried about us becoming friends again?I started to go out with a boy in the same college as me. I really like him and we been dating for 6 weeks now. Lately though there been some little problems... I start from the beginning...I broke up with my long distance relationship as basically I just couldn't take it. Then after that I went out with my boyfriend in the college. Before we used to be very close friends. It was amazing the first few weeks, we would cuddle, kiss etc and try and spend much time together while in college. I would come in college to see him and do work even if I didn't have to come in and tried my best not to be too clingy and told him if I ever was to tell me. Finally this week it all changed...when he would normally seem glad to see me and we would cuddle he would either start a play argument or move away playfully etc. At first I thought it was a joke and I went along with it, but after a while I started to get tired so today I didn't play along with this 'game' and tried to have a normal talk with him and give a hug but the same thing happened. So I asked him what was the matter as he been acting differently. He told me he was worried that as we was spending so much time together that we would go back to being friends rather than a couple. Also he wanted me to spend time to myself. I understand that he wanted some space etc but what upsetted me is he didn't tell me for a week and been acting so strange. I would be so worried I done something to upset him. Now I'm also worried of other things... like if he kept this a secret, what else is he hiding and is it even bigger? Would me spending time with him, push us apart? I been so confused as everything was going great till this week and today. What should I do? Thank you P.S sorry if anything isn't clear, it a very long story. O yea we don't see each other much after college due to we live quite far away so only time we see each other is in college or Saturday in town. Open Question: 16 and never had a bf?Im 16 years old 17 in June, Ive never had a boyfriend kissed or dated yet You might think its young but aaaah :( I've always wondered if im ever going to get one. Im 5''10 and tall And i think that boys are intimidated by my height, I'm quite shy at first and find it difficult to talk to cute boys because I always think that they look down on me. Im not desperate for a boyfriend but I've always felt left out and pressured. I'm confident and I smile alot, & if someone talks to me Ill talk back and be nice, But boys seem to not be attracted to me, why is this? :( I know that if i go out and socialise and meet new people then ill become more confident and comfortable, I want to wait for the right one, I've never been interested in Fling relationships, I've always wanted someone to love me for who I am on the inside & out. But I can't find no one. I get so upset when my friends talk about boys & their boyfriends :( I get compliments that I'm pretty but i don't care about those compliments. my personality isnt bad and i have a good sense of humor. Help me please and thankyou :) i've posted it on yahoo answers, because i don't know who to talk to about it and I kinda feel ashamed of talking about this problem with anyone else who i know in real life. Open Question: dream interpretation: party with people from past?I had a very weird dream last night. Several people from my past like high school and college were at a party at my apartment. I was going around closing doors to make sure that noone went into the rooms and then I was just mingling. There were no problems. The weird thing was that most of these are people that I knew but weren't incredibly good friends with and we just went seperate ways. Then I came across my ex and his fiancee. Across the room was his best friend (wearing all black), who wanted to date me but then we decided not to in order to keep things from getting crazy. When my ex and his fiancee were leaving, I walked them to the door, opened it and said thanks for coming and the three of us had a plesant convo, at the end of which we shook hands. When they left, I went back to the party and my ex's best friend was waiting for me and we started chatting. In reality, I don't talk to any of these people. My ex and I don't speak, much less his fiancee and myself. My ex's best friend and I haven't spoken in a while either. Thoughts? btw, me and my ex broke up 7 years ago and I have dated other people since and I really don't feel anything toward him and/or his fiancee. Open Question: please read this!! i dont kno if u call it cheating?You dont go sticking your tongue down someone elses throat when you already have a girlfriend do you? Two months ago i noticed my boyfriend commented on this girls picture on fb calling her his beautiful girl. He told me they just mess around. He swore they were just friends and she was in one of his college class. He would go to college at 3 and finish at 430. He used to text me when he left but he stopped all that and he wouldnt bother texting me or meeting up with me until around 6. I dont know where he goes inbetween these times because he isnt at home. He told me he was at football training and all these lies. I told him what i thought and he was all like "so what if i am meeting her after college? who cares? its not asif im having sex with her". wtf he mean who cares? Since then all we did was argue and he finished with me and told me i should forget that he ever existed. I tried for weeks to get him back. He told me a week later i should be grateful that he ended it because would i of rathered him be with me and lied about liking me. What pisses me off the most is that he kept asking me back out every week saying he made a mistake. But days later he would end it again and i kept saying yes to him because i wanted him back so much. I still do. After ending it again he said its the end for us. He means it this time he will never get back with me and he told me he hates me. He said we should stop speaking because its pointless. He deleted me off fb and blocked me. I tried so hard to leave him alone and i went 2days without talking to him but i hadto text him saying what i thought of him. He ignored my texts.. When he told me that we should stop speaking, which was 3weeks ago. He asked me back out 2days before that and told me that he will never end it again, this girl from his college found out we are back together and he ended it with me through the phone, he denied asking me back out to her saying he never did i just miss understood the question when i never. This girl sent me mail on fb saying she is sorry but she never new about me. She swore they were just friends but she said i shouldnt go back to him because he was kissing her and stuff after college. So he was with her. She was like "forget him and move on, you will get over him and you will find a better guy in the future" WTF?! Who the **** gives her the right to tell me all this when she hasnt the slightest clue what im going through. :'( just because she wants him.. I was so determined to never bother him again and i went 3 weeks without talking. 3nights ago i asked my friend to send him mail on fb asking him to add me back. He did and he sent me an email saying "happy now? dont talk to me iv only added you to stop you moaning". I emailed him last night and asked him does he like anyone or is he with anyone now and he said you dont need to know. I just want to send him an email telling him how i feel but he doesnt even read them, he says its not his problem. He doesnt care. He doesnt care if we speak again. I am moving soon, not because of him we were moving anyway and he knew this but lastnight i told him what date i am moving, next month, and he wrote on fb "yess i love this life now". I think because im moving away from him or because hes happy cos hes met a new girl. I will be about 3hrs away from him:( he has been saying on fb she is amazing, i think she is wow and stuff. Upsets me so much. I want to try and be friends but inside i am so hurt its like something is eating me away. He only comes on fb in the morning before going to college and he doesnt come on til the next morning. He doesnt text me anymore. So i never speak to him. ugh he is happy without me and has moved on and i wish i could do the same but i cant. its not getting easier because iv been like this for 2months and still feel like crying all the time. when i stay away from him he doesnt come running after me, he leaves me alone because he doesnt wana talk to me so that means never talking again and i cant lose him! :( what would u do? he is prob with her right now -_- Open Question: In a relationship but in love with another person?First off, I wanna make it clear that i'm not a player or anything. I respect wemon and thier feelings....and this is really tearing me apart. Ok so i was in a 2 year relationship with a nice girl...i moved to where she lived and we lived together for 2 years quite happily. Suddenly, she decides that i only bring her down because we're so different and dumps me and kicks me out. So i moved back to my home town quite depressed and feeling rejected. One night i'm at a party and my buddy introduces me to a girl who seemed very nice. We didn't have too much in common, and she didn't really seem like my type but we got along great and she invited me to live with her at her place until i could get back on my feet. After about 2 weeks it was established that we were dating because we were feeling a good connection with one another. I eventually got a job and now i help to support us. We've been together now for about 6 months. But just 2 weeks ago, a girl i used to go to school with just started at my workplace. I never really talked to her much when i was in school but i did have a crush on her. She's the same age as me, i'm 21 and my current gf is 25. So I'm training her for the job and i work at a gas bar that doesn't get much business so there's lots of room for conversation. We talk usually 5 hours a day and talking to her i found out to my surprise, we have a lot in common! We both like the same bands, have the same talents, like the same video games....And that differs with my current gf because she thinks i'm immature playing video games and she's into classical music and doesn't really support me in my interests. Iv'e also come to realise i'm not really physically attracted to her. So here lies the problem...the girl i work with also just got out of a long term relationship about 4 weeks before starting the job and the guy who i also know and went to school with(he is a complete jerk and hasn't changed a bit over 6 years) is trying to win her back and she apparently still has feelings for him(i don't know why) but she is accepting the fact that she is moving on and ready to start over. I feel like he took her for granted and he refuses to change while trying to change her, so he doesn't really deserve her. She's drop dead gorgeous and her personality is great, which makes it that much harder for me to fight the thoughts of being with her. I rarely see my current GF because she works nights and sleeps during the day mostly so iv'e been hanging out with this other girl a bit more often now(going for coffee, lunch, hanging out with a group of old school pals) and talking to her more and more just makes me realise that i'm falling in love with her. I haven't been eating or sleeping much lately because all these options and variables keep going through my head...I sometimes think she's fighting the urge to connect more with me and be honest because she knows i have a gf and if she acted on those feelings, she would be considdered a homewrecker or something....She flirts with me a lot, whenever our eyes meet, she smiles and she's always happy to see me and gives me compliments and is generally more affectionate to me then anyone else. But because of the fact i have a gf i think she's fighting those feelings and restraining herself like i am. She could also just be leading me on because she likes me as a good friend, but if i were to tell her how i feel, she might be disgusted that i would even considder betraying my gf like that. And now adays, her jerk ex is trying harder and harder then ever(acting all nice when she's around and being an idiot when she's not around) to get back with her, and i feel if by some chance he succeeds than i'll have lost her to a complete moron, and extinguished any possibillity of a chance with her, and still having to work with her every day with those feelings. I think however she is very close to telling me how she feels. We are being more open with each other now and it feels like the right time to find out for sure. But if it turns out that she feels the same way and i have a chance, then i'll have to break it off with my girlfriend and she has had horrible luck with guys and she tells me how i'm different and special to her. So i've felt really bad for her. So if it turns out this girl feels the same way, i'm having a hard time deciding what to do...i know someone is going to get hurt but it's driving me crazy, the guilt and indecision. What would you do in my shoes? Is it better to be honest with yourself and others even if it brings on a world of potential heartbreak? Just because this is a difficult scenario with so many things to take into considderation i can't really see any "right" or "wrong" thing to do. Whatever i do, there will be a different outcome, it won't nessecarilly make me a bad guy or a good guy. I'd just like some input, because i can't discuss this with anyone else really. Thanks, and sorry it went on so long lol, all t Open Question: Trouble talking to girls?Yes I know half of you will probably say shut up kid get a life, but really I would appreciate advice. Ok, so I kind of have a problem which is that whenever I'm talking to girls like at school or whatever, especially to the really hot ones, I clam up and just mumble, making me look like a complete idiot! For example, there's this really hot girl who I have known since we were about 7 in primary school but then last week I was at something after school (secondary school-i'm 16) and she was there. At the school gates when she was waiting and I walked past she went 'Bye' in a really friendly voice but then I just clammed up hunched up couldn't even look her in the eye and mumbled 'bye'. I could have just said something like 'see you later', and smiled but instead I looked like a complete and utter lamo. How can I be more confident around girls it's not specifically that I want to like date them, just that I want to speak to them normally? Open Question: help me with mw2 sound problem?i cant hear any one talk in game i can see the icon that they are talking but i hear nothing....the all mute is off my sound stuff is all up to date my internet connection is fine but i dont know what the problem is some one please help me. More Recent Articles
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