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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Open Question: what can i do? this boy is...? and more...

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Open Question: what can i do? this boy is...? and more...

Open Question: what can i do? this boy is...?

Okay so I am friends with a boy Keith and he is my very best guy friend! So las tuesday in skills he was like "hey can I ask you something?" so I go "yeah?" and he goes "will you be my girlfriend for a day?" so I kind of just looked at him at he was like "no, because max (his brother) bet that I couldn't get a girlfriend." So I go "oh, okay" and smiled. So now we're "dating" I guess. But I think he was using that as an excuse to date me, and Denise (our friend) was like "you guys WOULD be a cute couple!" and laughed. But I had a feeling he kind of liked me before, but that's not a problem because I have a tiny crush on him. Help?? and now we're still dating, because i asked him yesterday if we were still dating and he was like 'yeah, i uh, forgot to tell my bro' whats up with him????

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Open Question: Some Ex Issues! Please Help!!!!!!!!!!!?

My fiancee and I have a 8 month old son together. When I was 2 months pregnant with him his ex (Becki) started harassing me and she stll does on myspace to this day. Well he has another ex named Jess (the one before Becki) who is pretty cool and nice, I just don't know her that well. Basically we have been e-mailing eachother back in forth for the past week about his ex Becki and just my fiancee period. I think that she might still have some strong feelings about him and it seems that she is not listening to me when I tell her that I know my fiancee just as well as she does. Please tell me what you think. Here are the e-mails To:Kelly From:Jess no, according to becki, i caused all the problems. you have to remember Dan and i knew each other before becki was part of the picture, so according to her i was trying to interfere. the only thing i can tell you is she seemed to love mind games. hope that helps. To:Jess From:Kelly Oh yes it does, it just proves my point thats why she does it is because she loves mind games. Yeah I know he said that he has known you for quite sometime and I know you guys were together before him and becki were together. Yeah thats what she says to about me I'm the one causing probelms even though I haven't done anything to her. I just really don't understand why she won't leave me alone and won't stop making snarky comments about Thadeus! To:Kelly From:Jess she has always come across as a bit jealous and incredible insecure. not like she was a very good girlfriend when they were together either. i know more than i would ever tell dan, even though he doesn't care, he does. ya know? i never saw it as my place to interfere with his relationships. the last thing someone needs is an ex butting in. i'm not saying i was great by any means, i was a complete bitch at the end, and i will always have to live with that. anywho, yes, she loves mind games, and she has this need to be in control of everything. granted, i could see how she might have been concerned for a while when i started coming back around, but i NEVER interfered, it's not my style. dan needed someone to vent to and that was me. i will always be there for dan, that's just who i am, but i am not going to be in his face about it. if he needs someone to talk to, i'm here if he chooses. i ended up inflicting my own mind games on him unintentionally, and i will never be able to forget that. i'm not by anymeans meaning i'd BE there for dan, it's not like that, but i understand some of where he's coming from. as usual, not sure if any of this helps, but i'm just being honest. btw, is there a date set for the wedding yet, or did we miss it? sorry, i have a tendency to ramble.... To:Jess From:Kelly Oh trust me thats what I get from her to. Because Dan told me she is badgering me probably because " She thought I was going to be miserable without her and she see's me happy with someone and having another kid." She didn't start bothering me until I was 2 months pregnant for Thadeus and Dan and I had already been together for 2 years at that point so I thought it was pretty funny that she hadn't bothered me until then. Yeah she even stares me down when I go into Meijer's (thats where she works) and I just ignore it because seriously I can't make her stop from making stupid comments and saying things to try and make me mad at Dan. She has even tried breaking us up. She'll get whats coming to her sooner or later. Right, he has told me everything that had happened in their relationship and what she had done and what she had said from the beginning to middle to the ending of their relationship and she was just unbelieveably cruel and coldhearted (in my opinion). But like I told him I completely understand about staying friends with your ex's, because I'm the same way I'm still friends with one of my ex's and he's a good buddy to talk to when I need someone to talk to or vent to or just hang out lol. Hahahah it's quite alright I have the tendency to ramble on to lol. A date????? Um I gotta ask Dan about that one hahaha. To:Kelly From:Jess i know, and it's hard. i actually ran into Blake one night at the bar. if dan's told you everything about him and becki, then i'm sure you've heard about blake. anyways, long sotry short, i found out a bit, and i made him pay for it - literally. i got him to put down more than $500 at the bar - buying rounds, doing shot specials - then when he thought he was coming home with me, i smiled at him and walked out of the bar, no good bye, no phone number, nothing, i just turned and left. i was a regular at the bar, and i got special drink prices for a week. he never even saw it coming. it was the greatest feeling ever. all i can tell you is dan's heart is in the right place. he can be an ass, he can be a jerk, but he can be the greatest guy too. things just weren't meant to be between us, and we both get that. i really do hope things work out with you two, he deserve

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Open Question: Could anyone explain these computer failures to me?

After installing Star Wars Knights of the Old Republic (computer game) a window popped up detailing which requirements passed and failed. My game would not play correctly and it lists these as the problems: Video: ATI Radeon 9550/ X1050 Series 256MB Your current video card drivers are out of date NVidia cards require Detonator 45.23 drivers or better OpenGL: Not Detected Required: Non-Windows Generic OpenGL 1.4.0 drivers Any help is appreciated.

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Open Question: I have major boy problems!?

Okay here is what is going on. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a little more than 4 months. We both really care about each other very much and i love him. yes I am only 15 and he is 16 and love means nothing well anyways latley we have been fighting more and dont really ever hang out, oh and we both go to a different school but both live on the north side. so i guess its a little easier to hang out but anyways. this past weekend he partied alot and yeah i trust him for the most part but I still dont really like it when he goes out , but what ever to get it off my mind I started talking to a different guy who is REALLY nice to me and ever since that night we started talking we haven't put down the phone. Last night he drove to my house in the freazing cold and brought me his ipod charger to keep cause i dont have one, he also drove from his school to mine to bring me a lunch because i forgot mine, and the kinds of things he says to me are sooo cute and sweet. he always makes me smile and feel better, but my boyfriend doens't know any of this. problem is i still really care about my boyfriend and im not just going to leave for this other boy which happens to kind of be his friend. i reallly dont know what to dooo!?!?

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Open Question: I am desperate for ideas! What should I do for my boyfriend?

So this Saturday is our 4 month anniversary. Yes, I know, me and my boyfriend have been dating for only 4 months. But I still want to do something really special for him. He is my first boyfriend, and we both love each other so much, so I don't see anything wrong with celebrating 4 months. Anyway, here are the details: We are both 18 years old. We live in Michigan so the weather is freezing and snowy. My plan was to blindfold him and take him out to Lexington, MI which is an hour from where he lives. Its a small town by the water and it's really scenic there. I was going to take him out to eat at a place called Wimpy's. They have really good burgers there, it's a casual place to eat, and he has never been there before. The problem is, he gets out of work at 6pm that day, and Wimpy's closes at 7pm. After drive time, we wouldn't have time to eat there before it closes. So now I am back at square one. I have NO idea what to do for our 4 month. And I really want to do something special. Any ideas are welcome. And please don't suggest anything that is free. I want to do something that costs money. Thanks!

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Open Question: Ladies, how do I fix this problems?

Im in college. There's this girl that I met about 3 months ago but we've only been talking for about the last month and a half. Over that time we've become pretty good friends and I've developed a crush on her. Her birthday was last Sunday, so last Friday I gave her a present and I think it was a bit too much. I gave her chocolates and flowers, and I think that I may have freaked her out slightly. Later that day she set me a thank you text and I sent her one back pretty asking her on a date. I know that I should have asked I. I know that I should have asked her in person but I just wasn't thinking. She never responded so over the weekend ingot really worried that I had ruined my chance at a relationship and maybe even affected our friendship. I guess that she could have not seen my text for a stupid reason like her phone might have died-but I'm not sure. However on Monday she still talked to me and we walked together after class. Everything seemed pretty normal except that inclass she didn't sit next to me-which she does about 80% of the time. So I don't know-maybe I'm the one freaking out. Anyways, shouldbi talk to her about this? When would be a good time? Should I wait till she comes to me? Any additional advice would be appreciated. Thanks!

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