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Open Question: What do I do about my best guy friend that I happen to like? and more... Open Question: What do I do about my best guy friend that I happen to like?Okay, so one of my two best friends is this guy. I've never met such an amazing guy in my life. I think I love him too. He knows how I feel because I told him and he says it doesn't bother him that I do but he tells me he doesn't feel the same way. We talk all the time. Practically 24/7. Almost two weeks ago we got into a fight. I was on the phone with my friend and she told me to say things I shouldn't and I got mad and then we were mean and I cried harder then ever because of what he said. And when I say that to people they think he's a terrible person. But it was me. I started it. But anyway, I felt bad, so I'm on the phone with my friend crying my eyes out saying that I can't live with out him and I need to say sorry but she says I shouldnt because he made me cry and he's not worth it (but believe me he is) but I said sorry anyway. He said sorry too and that he wanted space, but I mean that lasted for a day because we got to talking again and I was being all happy and he said he like me better that way and so we were back to normal. But everyone keeps telling me I need to get over him because he doesn't feel the same way and if he made me cry I shouldn't love him. But I don't want to because its not that simple and if I love him then if I let him go I'll never know what I could miss if he ever feels the same way. I'd do anything for him. He's always there for me when I need him. And I tell him practically everyday that I'm here for him also. The other day my grandma went into the hospital and I came home from school.....I texted him and he's right there saying its will be okay and I should pray and guess what? She's home now. And later that night, way later, I was telling his best friend about how much it meant to me him being there so I texted him and I said that it really meant a lot to me and it shows he's always there for me. Today we talked about it and he said he feels the same way. He really liked what I said and it made him happy. That's all I want is him happy. Now, see he likes so many different girls it's hard to keep up. He did kinda like me once but I asked him out and he said no. I thought I would get over him but instead I like him more. We are really close. He wants what's best for me too. He tells me I need to leave our group of friends because of how that treat me. I'm not going to go into detail but they hate me pretty much, there's maybe four of them that don't. Our group is huge too. But I'm still there because I can't leave him or my other best friend. So I guess my question is, do I stay with him or do I move on? I love him, just remember that. I can't leave my best friend. So if I was to move on, I would be so mad if he liked me one day. I would wait forever for him. I've never met such an amazing, wonderful, and caring person. He's a great friend. I don't want to have to talk to him any less, I don't want to cry anymore. I don't think there's anything better out there. If there was.....I still don't think I would want them. He knows everything almost. I tell him everything. In fact, he's the reason I sing again. He says I'm amazing. I don't think so. I think his singing is way better. I love his voice. He took my childhood dream and brought it back to life. Sorry this is so long, but to be honest, I could go one for hours, it could be a book! So do I move on or stick it out? And also does he possibly like me? All my friends think so but some have tried to get him to date me and he says no. He's your basic christian boy with problems like everyone else. He talks to me about somethings that go wrong sometimes. He has some bad luck sometimes. :( What do you think? And one other thing, I'm not popular so I don't really have many guy friends, and I'm not all that pretty. So saying to find someone else.....I can't really do that anyway because I can't seem to get a boyfriend......:( Open Question: Should we stay together?Ok, so me and my girlfriend have been dating for 5 months now and I swear we never talk about anything fun or interesting! When shes with her friends I always see them laugh and joke and when I am with mine it's the same except when we are together its like ("...how was your 6th period?" "Oh you know I was just there doing my homework...") Then that's about it. I don't even get why we are in this relationship if we dont even have the same interests or mindsets. She tells me she likes me because I am the nicest guy she has ever met, but in all honesty I would never want to date me because I am such a boring guy who does boringly fun things with his friends if that makes sense and she is a spontaneous, outgoing type girl who has her version of fun with her friends which is opposite of mine! Is it really ok just to date someone for just these three reasons? (1)Someone you only talk about your problems with (ur shoulder) (2)They make you happy just sitting with them in what I think is comfortable silence because you know they are a nice person and not a rapist and (3)Because youre physically attrected to them. I am satisfied with these conditions but sometimes I feel like she isn't which is not comforting at all even though she says that she likes it the way it is too. Is this anyway a couple should be? Thanks for your answer. PS: I hope all this made sense. Open Question: SERIOUS PROBLEM: I BADLY NEED ADVICES NOW?here's my story: please bear with my long story. i need to narrate the whole story for you to understand it. about 4 months before, i met this guy through facebook. We were tagged on the same picture. He added me, so accepted it. After that, we started chatting. I'm a 2nd year college student taking up BS HRM. I'm 18 years old. The guy i've been chatting with is a 1st year BS HRM student shiftee. He's already 21 years old or 23 *i forgot*. When i was chatting with him on facebook, my sister was looking at the screen. Being familiarized with the name, she told me that, he got one of my sister's classmate, pregnant. and she was about 5 months pregnant at that time. So, she told me not to tell anyone about that coz maybe it might destroy his image. So i kept it as a secret. Time after time, I never knew he would fall for me. He told my best friend that He likes me. He told his other classmates that he likes me but i never wished this to happened since i liked someone else. He started asking for my cellphone number but i never gave it to him. but he kept on asking for it so i gave my cellphone number 1-2 months after. Then, he asked for my telephone number again. I never gave it to him until the next month passed. So, we kept on texting and talking with the phone. on that time, he always asked for a date. I never accepted ever. but when i really got annoyed, i gave him a chance. I gave him one day. So, we went to the mall, window shopping, karaoke and arcade. I made everything to make him feel comfortable. After the date, he asked for another day. i told him,, that was enough. but he never agreed. He kept on asking and asking and asking. so i gave him another day and another and another. After that, my sister told me to never ever communicate to that guy again coz her classmate who got pregnant got so paranoid that she blamed my sister coz i was communicating with the guy. so i told the guy to stop the text, the call and the chat with me. He never agreed but i was against him. so i followed my sister's will. after that, he asked and begged for me to stop what i'm doing. he wanted me to with him. he begged me to continue our friendship.so i did. i took the risk and continued sending SMS msgs, the chat and the call and dating with him. after that, the i got caught. My sister got really angry and warned me that if i'm going to communicate with the guy again, she will erase my fb account and confiscate my cellphone. so, i txtd the guy again. to never, ever ever txt nor call nor chat with me ever again. He was sad. really really sad, he begged and begged and begged. Firstly, i was obedient with my sister's will but still, i gave the guy a chance again. I was so confused. I really dont know what to do. I told him i like somebody, but he wasn't listening. He knew that i knew he's going to be a father but i don't know what's with him. He told me He and the girl broke up because of many reasons. One is, he never had time with himself. He cant even go to skul because the girl jst wantd him to be with her even when it's his examinations. Anyway. So, we continued seeing each other but then, i got caught again and this time, my sister gone wild. she through things at me and squeezed me with her fingers. She even changed my fb password. i got so embarrassed. i was even given the name "bitch and whore". i knew it was my fault. T_T then, i texted the guy some bad words, i told him to go away. i told him that i love the other guy and not u. i told him all the piercing words to say. But actually, i started to like him. I've learned to love him. But i don't want war. i wanted peace. i would make way for harmony. I pregy girl was so obsessed with the guy.So i did it for her. She's pregnant, she should be given attention. That was the day when paman and cotto fought and the day, the guy had a dragrace. He crashed. He had injuries. after that, he never texted me, never called, never chatted. When i saw him at skul, he had bandages. He had hard time walking.I felt so guilty. I felt like a criminal but i have nothing else to do. I can't be a bitch or a whore forever. I'm not a theft and just steel men away. I'm not selfish. all i wanted was peace but i can't bear to see the guy suffering. My friends which happened to be his classmates told me that he withdrawn some of his subjects, he only goes to skul often, he never sleeps and he never eats. i got so so so so worried but i really can't do anything. one day, one of the guy's friends texted me and told me to spare some time with him. i replied and said sure. then, he chided me cause i left him hanging. He told me, that the guy kept on calling him while crying and never ate anything and never slept for about a week already (suicidal). and he kept on travelling to his friends apartment just to escape from our memories which is 2 hours from here. He told me to do something and left me the responsibility if don't want things to be left like so. So, I texted hi http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtIzVzrcDS8tZN9MdJ1Uz_rsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091205235721AAb3GwQ please continue reading the second part. thank you for your advices. i gladly appreciate it all. please continue reading the second part. thank you for your advices. i gladly appreciate it all. Open Question: *HELP PLEASE* boyfriend problems.....?my boyfriend and i just started dating but we've been "talking" for a very long time. he has a baby with this girl and he says that he doesn't want her to know that we're together because it will hurt her and break her heart and she might not let him see the baby anymore just because of the fact that he is with me...but she's moving soon...to a different state and until then he wants her to think that their kind of together to "keep the peace" and so he can see the baby...but once she moves and is there for awhile he is going to tell her about us.... it also makes me angry that when he's with me he texts her all the time but when he isn't with me, i hardly hear from him...he says he really wants to be with me really bad but i'm not quite seeing that...i want to tell that girl what is going on since he won't... any advice is greatly appreciated! Open Question: Is this possibly depression?I would never harm myself, but I've been starting to wonder if I'm showing signs of depression. (My freshman year I was struggling, and I suspected it then.) I've never brought it up with my mom, and I definitely wouldn't want my dad knowing if so. He'd end up telling me I'm full of it. I'm planning on enlisting with the National Guard soon as well. My dad would probably have a field day about enlisting with "depression". My family is pretty normal. My lifestyle is pretty decent and I should be more thankful. I don't understand why I feel so crappy-there's been little ups and downs, but nothing traumatic. Lately it seems like at school and home I've been irritable, short, antisocial, apathetic, ....that all sounds lovely. Friends at school have noticed and started making comments about it-which ends up ticking me off more. My grades have slipped this year; It's my senior year, so I'm a bit stressed, but that's no excuse. I used to get As and Bs; this year I'm making an F in Chemistry and a C in Algebra III. I know I'm not myself this year. I've never put dating before grades, but that's what has happened this semester. I've been avoiding a guy because I know I don't want to get wrapped up again. I have no "real" friends at school right now. I mean, I have "acquaintances", but noone I can really talk to. I've ended up pushing people away. My best friend of six years lives an hour or two away, and between school and work-we haven't seen or talked really since July. (small talk on Facebook) I've been really tired lately as well-I'm hardly doing anything that would be exhausting. In fact, I've been super lazy. This past week I've been paranoid that my sleep paralysis was going to start up, but it hasn't. I usually get a little under six hours on weekdays. Weekends-usually 2/3AM-11 or 12. I'm partial right now. Don't get me wrong, I'm looking forward to enlisting/military college, but I'm dreading graduation. I still need to learn how to drive. I don't know what my deal is. I can name all my problems-I just don't know what to do or if it's depression or the dreaded senior-itus. Sorry-turned out much longer than I expected! Thank you. Open Question: What should I do about my girlfriends urination problem?My girlfriend and I have been dating for about six months now, and about 3 months ago she decided to tell me that she has absolutely no control of her bladder at night and wears diapers to protect her bed. I was a little shocked, but was pretty much fine with this. However on Thursday we were at the mall eating with some of our friends, and all of a sudden she stopped talking and when everyone else wanted to go shopping she told us all to go on without her. I was confused and asked what was wrong but she just told me to go. I was a little suspicious but then Friday her and I hung out at my friend's house for a while and out of nowhere she wet her pants. My friend laughed a bit but I solved that problem. Now she wont look me in the eye. I have tried to explain that it is OK and to comfort her, but she just calls herself a baby whenever I am making progress. I want to help her, but If she won't let e I don't know what to do. Open Question: My best friend and I had a flirtation. His girlfriend deserves to know, but should I be the one to tell her?My friends seem to think I should tell her, but I'm not sure. My best friend, his girlfriend, and I have been in a sort of love triangle for about nine months now. She doesn't know it. My friend and I go to college together, and his girl friend attends school out of state. My friend and I have known that we have feelings for each other since before him and his girlfriend started dating. Even though they are together, he flirts with me all of the time. I thought it would cool down over summer break because we wouldn't see each other. It didn't. He called me everyday-- when he was getting off work, when he was on his way to his girlfriend's house, when he was driving back from his girlfriend's house, and once when he was on a date with his girlfriend and she was in the bathroom. He would send me random pictures of himself with captions like "don't i look good, today? ;)". (But I was also the one he called to cry to when his girlfriend had to go back to school earlier than he expected.) And when we got back to campus a few months ago, he was just as flirtatious as he was last spring. Nothing happened between us, but I recently walked away from the friendship because I was tired of feeling like the "other girl", and he didn't seem to think anything was wrong. The problem is, his girlfriend thinks that she's going to marry him someday. He tells her he's in love with her, but he flirts with me and every other girl he comes in contact with. Before, I didn't want to tell her because I didn't want her to keep us from being friends and I didn't want him to be mad at me. But him and his girlfriend are taking a break because he did something stupid and she's trying to decide whether or not to trust him. I don't know whether I should tell her how he acts at school when she's not around or not. More Recent Articles
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