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Open Question: What do I do now? Need a plan of action? and more... Open Question: What do I do now? Need a plan of action?I dated a guy for over a year and I loved him but wasn't really in love with him. To be honest the only reason I started going out with him in the first place is because I was lonely, tired of being single, and my friends all were dating; I was just tired of sitting home by myself every Friday night. After about a year we decided to get married, but there was a problem. I kept meeting guys that were really awesome, and that I was really into, but the only problem was I was still involved with this guy. Well, eventually I met someone that I really fell for and, and we exchanged numbers and I just knew he was "the one". Problem was I still had this other guy I was involved with. So, I didn't want to cheat on him so I just decided to end our relationship. I know he was really hurt and I felt bad for hurting him but I had to follow my heart. Well as it turns out my relationship with the other guy didn't get too far because he turned out to be a jerk and he cheated on me. The problem is, my feelings for my ex came back and I think I really do love him now, and I am sure he still loves me because I can feel a vibe whenever we see each other. He is a great guy and I didn't appreciate it before but I appreciate it now. I want him back but I don't know how to get him from the woman he is currently dating? What should I do? I know that when we broke up it broke his heart and I am sorry for that but I just needed time to explore and really find myself and what I was looking for. How do I get him back? I truly believe we belong together, and it breaks my heart when I am out and see him with her. I just want my fiance back! :( Is there any hope after I screwed up? Open Question: Is there a reason he wont bring me over?Ive been dating my bf for almost 3 months. he lives about 20 Min's away from me. he drives in almost every night and comes to my house just to sit and watch tv with me and my mom ( i no lame loll ) and we go for drives around town and out of town but not to far, we go out to dinner and movies and he tells me he loves me all the time. no problems there. but i haven't met his parents yet and he keeps saying soon. MY mom thinks its because hes embarrassed about them and that they aren't as well off as we are but i still don't no :( HELP Open Question: perfect guy, one problem.?I'm 20 years old and have been dating the man I've always thought of as perfect. He's 27 years old. We've been in a PERFECT relationship for 2 years and about 5 months.. In this time I have kept my mouth shut about a "possible future" until I thought would be a good time. I finally just brought it up and was shocked at how the conversation went. He became very angry at me and we actually ended up fighting with each other. I was in tears! The problem is, he is still living at home and he told me that he hasn't and can't think of a future. I understand he has financial issues to sort out first, I wasn't asking for a ring...I just wanted to talk about it. Am I doing something wrong here? Open Question: I really like this boy, but my mom doesn't want me to go out with a black guy. What to do?Last night a friend of mine/guy i like and I went to a performance thing for our sisters. His sister was in it, and same with mine. Well, we sat beside each other, and it was great. We were laughing the whole time, he would tell me I smelled good, took me out to his car, etc..We didn't do anything though sexual, not even hold hands ( which I wouldn't of anyways). We exchanged #'s last night, but I have to go buy another battery for my phone. We go to the same high school I'm 15 him 17, and I think this could go to the next level of us liking each other more. The only problem is, I asked my mom last night if she minds if I date a black guy. She says, " I would have to think about it, but It's not right for culture difference". I think she is racist, but I want to be able to see him without her getting pist. What should I do? by the way, we go to the same school but we don't have any classes together. Open Question: New Boyfriend got upset and called if off. Now he text me everyday but won't ask me out.?We are both divorced. Both have kids and both on the dating scene again. We meet on a dating website. We hit it off so well. We were both excitted how great it was going. He says to me he is getting off the dating website we met on. I say ok me too. We both delete or profiles. Life is going really good. I see that he has another profile on another website. I mention it to him and tell him that it upset me. He says he forgot all about it and showed me he had not logged into it it several months. (this is true it has last log in date on it). Well he tappers off from seeing me. Things slow way way down. He starts to have problems with his kids and tells me this is why he hasn't been seeing me. We were in Love. Planning on moving in together. He was the one planning the moving in and pushing forward. I was always following his lead. He breaks 3 dates in a row with me. He starts doing the minimal to hold on to me. Like instead of sending me 6-7 text messages a day I was just getting one. He would call me every few days instead of 3 times a day. Whenever I called him it would go straight to voice mail. I'd leave messages and he'd call me back 3 days later saying he was so so busy with his kids and trying to sort them all out. Meanwhile I happen to notice he still has his dating website, never took it down and he Chats a lot with other girls on facebook. Anyway I had to end it. I didn't want to but I couldn't allow someone to treat me like that. I ended it and he basically said ok. He didn't try to keep me. Now he is texting me and calling a little saying he was so stressed out with the custidoy battle with his kids and he knew he handled it wrong. Says he's sorry and he should of treated me better. But he makes no attempt to see me. This has been going on for 2 weeks. He says nothing about getting back together. I asked him if he is dating and he said he is just haging out with friends. But I heard he is seeing an ex-girlfriend. Everyday when I get one of the text messages it makes my heart stop. I never wanted to loose him. I still love him. I wish we were together. I don't know how to respond to his messages. I'm afraid he is just being nice and he might be seeing his ex. I don't want to get hurt again. What should I do with this guy? Open Question: Ugh starting not to like her anymore what should i do?So im having a problem with this girl who i used to be bffs with. we'll call her Ashley. Well Ashley got a boyfriend and i was fine with it until he started breaking up withe her so they got back together and she let him do stuff to her (fingering and almost sex) at 13! he broke up with her AGAIN and they keep on dating and she comes crying to me and calling him bad names but then they date again! its about the 8th time they have dated and im getting tired of it and she needs to get over him! I really dont even wanna talk to her because she is constantly getting on my nerves. After she did that stuff with him she lost all her friends and i felt bad for her so i was really close to her but now i totally understand why she lost all of them and she is about to lose me cause i cant take it anymore. I hope i dont sound stupid and bitchy but its really getting under my skin! please help! and the really annoying part is i sit by her in like every class and i then i will start to feel guilty that im not talking to her. and at lunch i sit right across from her. Open Question: Why so long to open an Office document?This is not happening on my computer, but I have been asked to diagnose the problem. When Word or Excel documents are double-clicked in Windows Explorer or from an email attachment, nothing happens for a minute or two and then it finally opens. The CPU is sitting idle and nothing appears to be happening (no hourglass, etc.). If Word or Excel is launched from the Start Menu (without opening a file), the application opens almost immediately. Rebooting fixes the problem, but then later in the day it will start doing it again. I have witnessed the problem on the person's PC. Everything seems to be up-to-date and the CPU is literally idle while he waits for a minute or so for the document to open. The same thing happens with local files, files from network drives, and files from email attachments. Intel Core 2 Quad, 3 GB RAM, Win XP Pro, Office 2003 Pro, AVG Network Edition Thanks Open Question: What should I do? Help me!?Ok, I have a major crush on a guy that goes to my school. I have known him since kindergarten. The problem is, he is dating another girl. My worst enemy. He has known her since 3rd grade, which I think is not fair!!!!!!!!!!! What should I do? Did I miss my chance? Should I try to get him back??? HELP ME!!! - Bee About the whole "getting him back" I meant taking him back. And I dont like that idea even if I thought of it Open Question: Are you a SPONTANEOUSLY SOCIABLE person who has FUN?(Please, do read this until the end before answering) I don't know what's up with me. I don't go out of my apartment (I don't feel any need to it, except shopping once a week or less). I don't have any friends. I don't feel the need to have friends. I don't have a GF (I'm a 23yo guy). I don't feel the need to have a GF. I'm considered a very handsome guy and worked as a model, dated models for a long time. People like me very much and feel they connect with me, but they don't. I'm just being friendly, but I can't honestly connect with them. Even thought, I'm hungry for being with someone, caressing and being caressed and stuff. It's weird, I know. There's a lot of people who wanna be friends with me (well, maybe not anymore, after me pushing them away so badly), but I don't feel I connect with no one in anything. I don't have ANY interest in them, and Ican't fake I do anymore. I tried, it didn't work, it's no fun, it's a miserable life to live faking your feelings. I moved out of my country of origin and lived in many other countries. Now that I've returned I REALLY feel I can't connect with no one. Can anyone tell me anything that works so that I can HONESTLY start liking people?? I'm a good person, I do my best to be. I just don't know why I can't like no one. I swear to God it's true that I want to be a good person and like people and have fun. i just can't manage to do it, from inside. If anyone had a problem like that and SOLVED IT PERMANENTLY, PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU'VE DONE!! THANK YOU! Open Question: please help me with this dell wireless WLAN thing?Alright, first of all the main problem is this damn popup error message saying that the dell wirless WLAN stopped working...but yet im still on the internet as of now and it wont stop poping up as soon as i click close..i just dont get it, iv tried to uninstall and reinstall, i even tried a simple restart, i tried updateing it and it told me that its already up to date with the latest driver...im so confused. idk what to do..please help someone. My laptop btw is a dell inspiron 1525 with vista home premium its actuall message is: Dell wireless WLAN card wireless network controller has stopped working Open Question: How can I SPONTANEOUSLY like people and be SOCIABLE?I don't know what's up with me. I don't go out of my apartment (I don't feel any need to it, except shopping once a week or less). I don't have any friends. I don't feel the need to have friends. I don't have a GF (I'm a 23yo guy). I don't feel the need to have a GF. I'm considered a very handsome guy and worked as a model, dated models for a long time. People like me very much and feel they connect with me, but they don't. I'm just being friendly, but I can't honestly connect with them. Even thought, I'm hungry for being with someone, caressing and being caressed and stuff. It's weird, I know. There's a lot of people who wanna be friends with me (well, maybe not anymore, after me pushing them away so badly), but I don't feel I connect with no one in anything. I don't have ANY interest in them, and Ican't fake I do anymore. I tried, it didn't work, it's no fun, it's a miserable life to live faking your feelings. I moved out of my country of origin and lived in many other countries. Now that I've returned I REALLY feel I can't connect with no one. Can anyone tell me anything that works so that I can HONESTLY start liking people?? I'm a good person, I do my best to be. I just don't know why I can't like no one. I swear to God it's true that I want to be a good person and like people and have fun. i just can't manage to do it, from inside. If anyone had a problem like that and SOLVED IT PERMANENTLY, PLEASE TELL ME WHAT YOU'VE DONE!! THANK YOU! Open Question: Is it weird that my boyfriend is friends with his ex?My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months. He just told me today that his ex is going to be at his family's holiday party and wants to meet me. She was his girlfriend for 2 years and they both lost their virginity to each other. Is it weird that they are still friends? Apparently she has a boyfriend, but I have never met anyone who has remained friends after breaking up, especially after 2 years. I have had problems in the past with boyfriends cheating on me with their ex's so I don't really know what to think at this point. Help… Open Question: My girlfriend has a huge problem with ex-girlfriends -- both mine and her ex-husbands. Why?I'm trying to figure out a phenomenon that isn't making sense to me. My girlfriend is tremendously loving and caring. She's wonderful, I love her in every way and she loves me back. She got married at a young age and divorced, but has really only had three men in her life, me included. We've been together nearly two years. There is one thing that gets me: She has a passionate hatred for ex-girlfriends. And not just mine. We're social dancers and she knows I will socialize and dance with other women, much the way she will socialize and dance with other men. She has always kind of watched the other girls like a hawk and tends to give me the third degree if she thinks a girl is taking interest in me. She knows I really only have one ex-girlfriend and she moved away. She's told me it would inspire great rage within her if this woman were ever to move back. Funny thing is, I know she has male friends she does stuff with. I'm OK with it. A few are good guys. I wouldn't even be totally opposed to an open-type relationship, though she repeatedly insists she wants only to be with me (and only wants me to be with her), and I'm not opposed to that, either. The kicker, though, was last night. She found out her ex-husband has found his first "new woman" -- he reunited with the last girl he dated before he started dating her. She was very mad and said it was a "slap in the face." She said she wouldn't have been upset if it was anyone but her. She doesn't suspect he was ever cheating on her while they were married. I don't get it. Didn't she let him go? What does it matter? Obviously he liked this woman before, but he left her to marry my girlfriend. Why shouldn't he like her again? I just don't really get it. Even worst-case scenario -- let's say she were to leave me for her ex-husband, or I were to leave her for my ex -- I wouldn't be that upset if everyone were happier. One would think getting back with his ex-girlfriend is what makes her ex-husband happy, but she's both "hurt" and mad. Help? Specifically, can someone explain why she reacts like this? She was married for six years, but had been involved with the man for about 13 years. Open Question: HUGE PROBLEM!!! all experts i need your help?so i dated this guy for almost a year and we messed round an did a bunch of stuff (like everything but sex) and then we broke up i was crushed but then i was ok and i started dating his best friend and he seemed ok with it. well me and the friend broke up. now i hear that they both are planinng on asking me back out. i never gave the 2nd guy the same chances as the 1st so i cant decide who to pick when the time come. what do u think? Open Question: my boyfriend just isnt the same anymore. what should i do?My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months we moved in together after been together for only 7 months. It just made sense because he lived 15 minutes out of town and he worked in town, and since I don't drive he was driving back and forth a lot. Also I was just making ends meet, and wouldn't have extra money to spend on dates and if we go out he would have to pay for everything (which I hated). So we moved in together because we were together everyday anyways and always had sleepovers. Everything is great with living together, we don't have disagreements of how we live or who's cleaning or cooking. The only problem is we argue about me going to the city (I am from there and that's where all my friends are.) He was cheated on before and thinks I would do it and not remember because I had too much to drink. I usually go to the city to party with my friends and there has been 2 times where I have called him and don't remember talking to him. I know I wouldn't cheat under any circumstances because I was with my friends and I have no desire for other guys. So later I told him I was going to the city for my 2 friend's birthdays and he got mad at me. So I told him I couldn't be in this relationship if he didn't trust me. So we talked about it and then he was fine with me going to Calgary. I ended up not going because I was short cash. A few weeks later on a Friday afternoon my co-worker friend asked if I wanted to go for a few drinks after work. Which I thought that would be fun since I only go out with my mom or my bf and his friends. I texted my boyfriend to let him know/ask if it was okay because this co-worker is a single guy our age. I didn't want my bf to think anything. He replied so you don't need a ride then and I said no. Later my boyfriend calls me and said what are you doing. I told him we were just picking up my coworkers friend and going to a bar to have drinks and told him I would call him back. But he called me back like a minute later saying well I thought we were going to do recycling and have dinner. But I told him that we didn't have no plans for dinner and we said we would do the recycling during the weekend sometime. He was like okay when will you be home. Anyways when I got home he argued with me about it. Saying I shouldn't be going out with single guys. Well first he is my co worker and there is nothing going on. So after we argued some people came over for drinks. Myself who was completely pissed off had to many drinks and fell over and didn't remember. So the next day he said he didn't want to be with me anymore because I get to drunk all the time(and probably embarrass him). I told I didn't want to be with him because he got mad over me going for a few drinks. We were just talking about I would we do this (break up) because we live together and then it went to I didn't want to break up anymore for a couple of days we were undecided. So in the end I admitted I have a problem and told him I would quit, so I could be with him. But he was like oh you really think you can quit yeah right. But I know I can quit because it's not like I am addicted to liquor, I just don't know my limit of handling it. Anyways it just doesn't seem the same anymore after a few days of fighting. I know he will continue to get mad if I tell him I am going to the city, and I know I can't hang out with my coworker anymore because on that Monday he texted me like oh do you need a ride or you going to get one from Chris. Also he doesn't say I love you, I always say it first. So I haven't said it in 2 days. I am going to see how long it takes him to say it. Yes I know he sounds controlling and clingy but barely hangs out with his friends because then I have nothing to do and he said he would honestly spend his time with me. I just want to make this right. I want him to tell me he loves me and be more romantic. I have told him this but nothing seems to change. I asked why don't you do all the sweet nice things and why don't we go on fun adventurous dates like we used to. He basically said that he was trying to impress me. So now that he knows he gots me he doesn't try as hard. It just sucks because I fell in love with the guy he used to be and not exactly who he is today. He still has many of the great qualities I fell in love with like his sense of humour, his determination, and how he always wants to be with me. I know relationships change after awhile but I feel like I have to work for his love. I love him so much and want it to work. I just want thoughts what do you think.. and thanks I know it was long but I wanted to make sure I got all the details. To angleia, I only drink like once or twice a month. So its not as big as you just made it. Open Question: Dating this guy? But am kind of worried?I will be 18 in Jan....And i have been talking to this guy at my job for about 5 months. we are planning to make it official on my 18th birthday. We had no sexual contact nor never been on an actual date. he has his own house, car and he has 3 children. The problem is he is 32 and I will be 18. Although its legal this relationship will not seem right through the eyes of others. What do you think? Open Question: Okay for a 24 year old guy to date a 15 year old girl?We are not going to have sex before marriage. Parents are also not having any problem with us, they said it's fine but is it REALLY weird? Thanks! Open Question: 50% effaced, not dilated?i have been in "early labor" for a few days now, as you can see by my past few questions. problem is, i'm not progressing at all. i went to the hospital 2 days ago for contractions 5 minutes apart, i was 50% effaced but not dilated so they sent me home. I have a doctor's appointment tomorrow, but as I'm only 38w1d by his new due date and he doesn't check til 39 weeks, I won't know if I have progressed more yet. By my first due date (LMP) I would be 40 weeks tomorrow. That makes me nervous that he won't check. Anyway, has anyone else been effaced but not dilated and how fast did you progress? Or any help, advise? Also, this is kindof important to me, Has anyone experienced contractions that push up instead of down? If you have you would know what I mean. AND what is the 1st day after delievery like at the hospital? I know just about how everything works before delivery, but what about after? Thanks! <3 Open Question: Excel formula help, please?I have 3 starting cells for which everything will reference to... Starting Weight, Goal Weight, and Goal Weight Loss. I have a column which has the dates for each day of the next two months, weight, cumulative loss, pounds from goal, etc. They are all auto-populated when I type in the weight for each day. They all have formulas which reference other cells so that I only have to type in Weight. My problem is, for instance, that Total weight loss for a day that I haven't entered yet is listed as "225" because there is nothing entered in the cell (the formula is that cell minus starting weight). I want these cells to not display anything until I enter my weight for that day. Is there a way to format it so that it doesn't display anything until then? 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