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Open Question: What do i need to do? 10 points!!? and more... Open Question: What do i need to do? 10 points!!?key points: i need to get rid of a friend(without hurting my best friend) i need to figure out how to do this without screwing up my life anymore it is a long story but i just dont know what to do. i need to get my best friend to understand please please help!! ok so i have this one friend who ive known since i moved to where i am living now 6 years ago. She was my first friend and she was always around when i needed someone and hadn't met and got to know everyone at first. but since i found other friends i removed myself from her a little bit to go to my other friends that i clicked with better. don't get me wrong this girl was nice to me but we just weren't "best friend" material or anything like that. well as the years went by i would still room with her on trips and stuff like that when none of my closer friends go on these and we were cool with each other but still just "using" each other i guess when no one else was around. as years still went by, she started to become extremely obsessed with getting attention from guys, its pathetic. and at this point my newest best friend has decided that this girl is one of her closest friends next to me. so i felt that i needed to stay close to this girl in fear that i would lose my newest best friend. as we have gone through the last 3 years of high school being like a little group of three friends....me and my best friend slowly started to get annoyed and angry at her (i am more angry at her than my best friend is) girls are born with the desire for at least some male attention and when i finally got that chance with a guy i like and was just play flirting and joking with him...she came up and started "extreme flirting" to the point where he follows her around like a little puppy now...and it hurts because friends dont do that to each other even if we arent "best friends" and she did this while she just got a new boyfriend 2 days ago. nothing will stop her...not even her parents grounding her and what not. theyve had to sit her down one time to tell her to not hang out with guys all the time. (in a 3 day time span she went on 4 dates with 4 different guys) on top of this she always choses any guy out there over her friends to talk to and be with. its not how friends are supposed to be... but now our group of three has planned to go on a disney world trip during the summer. my best friend is the one that has planned it and her parents are paying for most of it for all of us. problem is that she has finally decided that this girl will make the trip miserable like i tried to tell her in the beginning....but is too scared to tell her she cant go anymore for fear of being mean. (i honestly wouldnt care about being mean...) but anyways ive told my parents about what all that girl has done to me and how she acts and they no longer are going to let me go on this trip if she is gonna be there (there is alot to this story i cant tell because it is too long but she is not what a friend should be) ok so when i told my friend i cant go until she is uninvited, she now is mad at me because she cant be mean to the other girl and tell her she cant go. so this is basically going to tear our friendship apart. i dont know what to do. Open Question: hi guys would URGENTLY need some good advice?Hi, people basically its been 2and a half months since i properly split from my ex girlfriend...but it was on going from summer....in a nutshell basicall i was going through some bad times depression and personnel issues, and i do admit i did play a little part in the break up and pushed her away a little, but all through those months she went on holidays and never saw me, and all through that time she never once picked up or replyied back to my calls....and it ended up basically us splitting cause i kept asking we we was gonna talk and stuff yet she would say a date then blow me off, then turn things around on me...she really does not know how she had affected me we were supposed to be in a relationship and she really turned on me....i have my suspsions why she did but i try (like she was sleeping with someone else and stuff) but i try not to think about it now... so basically whatmy problem is, is that she always used to go on at me how she never cheats and never lies and would never cause me pain or dis respect me and all that stuff and she really was not like that....but i guess people change..... she was my first real realtionship with a girl and before her i had never been with many girls and always suffered from a low self esteem, and confidence, but just before her i was tackling those demons and i guess i started feeling happy wothin myself and starting seeing girls... but now she has gave me so much self doubt, my self esteem is back to square one, i feel like i have to be something different to get a girl and stuff, i feel so isecure about myself and its hard because all my friends are out getting with girls and i just feel so alone and inadaquate.... so tonight we are all going out for a flatmates 21st, but i dont feel right in my head to be in a club enviroment i just think im less of a man cause my ex was probably out there screwing someone else, and im gonna be out not even beable to talk to a girl....dont know what to do tonight i used to be so confident and happy even if i didnt get with a girl i would still have a good night and enjoy myself, but now i feel like if i cant get a gal, now i never will for a long time and go through what i went through for so many years during my teens... any advice would be really appreciated thank you! Open Question: If you were on progesterone suppositories, when did you stop them?Both the RE (who is the one that prescribed them) and my OBGYN have told me to stop them at 12 weeks. I know the placenta is supposed to have taken over by then, I'm just really nervous about stopping them. I was thinking maybe do a week or 2 past 12 weeks just to make sure. At my appointment on Monday I was 10w2d going by the due date I got on my first visit, but measure 11w, so when I run out of suppositories I'll be 12w2d or 13w. I'm trying to decide if I should just stop them or get the refill and go a little longer. When did you stop? Was it exactly when your doctor said to? Did you have nay problems? Open Question: What visa do I need if I want to own and run a joint venture English school in China?I'm getting really, really dizzy with the lack of understandable information on the net and a lot of bureaucrats acting like it's pass the parcel with me. It goes like this... I am an expat currently working in China as an English Teacher, with 7 years experience in China, degree, TESOL, CELTA, married to a Chinese Citizen for 3 years. My wife is also an English teacher with 8 years experience. We have saved up for a long time and want to open our very own private English school in April 2010. From reading around, I believe that a joint venture is best way to do so but my problem comes from visas, foreign expert certificates and residence permits. My foreign expert certificate will run out in February as will my residence permit - the date I finish the contract with my current company. To renew my residence permit I need to show my foreign expert certificate, but to renew my foreign expert certificate.... I don't know because I will be self employed with my own school. To get foreign teachers we'll need to be open and running for a year at least and apply for a foreign expert hiring license.. but does that mean I can't legally teach in my own school that I will jointly own with my wife? What visas do expats doing joint ventures apply for and how long do they last? My wife suggests I just get a spouse (L) visa and teach using that, although I'm pretty sure I can't legally work on an L visa.. although I wouldn't be getting a salary anyway.. China.. so confusing. Any help would be really really appreciated, even a tiny bit. Open Question: How can I get past this?For some reason I have always been very uncomfortable with my boobs around my family. Around everyone else I don't think about them at all, but at home I completely change the way I dress in order to hide them. I developed an eating disorder a few years ago (but I've always engaged in some of the behavior since I was a child), and I always pray that it makes my chest flat again. My older siblings kind of lost the love of my parents when they grew-up and I'm really petrified of that happening to me as well. My parents want me to be mature in that I am able to listen to their problems and in that I am able to cook and clean, but otherwise they want me to be a child. I thought I'd outgrow this as I got older, but I'm 17 now and I still feel this way, which is really pathetic. I've been with my friends around their families for years and they all dress the same way they do at school and actually talk with their parents about the rules for wearing makeup and dating (this seems normal to me, but my family never mentions anything even related to those topics- I get asked out, but I never accept, and I have makeup, but I never wear it). Despite being a complete freak I behave totally normally at school and relate really well with everyone there, but at home I do a complete turn around so that I can keep my parents' love. I'm sorry, I know this is pathetic and weird. How can I get past this? Thank you very much. Open Question: This guy keeps talking to me, and telling his friends he's going to "get me"?So there are no guys worth looking twice at in my school and they are all dumb, perverted and no where near good looking. They think it's so much fun to screw with every girl, and go brag about it. I don't have a problem telling guys to not talk to me, or to leave me alone, and definitely don't have a problem telling a guy to not touch me. This guy comes up to me and this is how our conversation went: First he put his hand on my back and was like "hey sexy, when are we chillin" i turned around and said "um first off u dont touch me, 2nd u dont talk to me like that, and 3rd i never looked twice at u what makes u think i want to talk to you let alone hang out with you? He looked like me and was like "are you serious?" i said, "yes, im very serious, now don't talk to me." and I turned back around to my locker, and he stood there in shock or something, he said wait, and i said, "is there a problem with me not wanting to talk to you?" he said yea, and I walked away. Now every day he's at my locker and acts as if I want to talk to him, and if another guy tries to talk to me he gets all defensive like I'm his. In science today he came and sat himself next to me, and said hey, then my friend came and was like "taking my seat?" and he said yea if you don't mind. and my friend likes his friend, so she had no problem taking his seat, so all through out class, I would get these little notes that said stuff like: "Sorry, I didn't mean to come off as a tool, but I really like you." or "Let me take you out to dinner? Please, it would be amazing" or "hiii...I'm just saying your pretty." and i would barely crack a smile, and i'd get a not saying. ":) you have a pretty smile too." I'm really not interested in him, he's a tool and dates girls to sleep with him, and I thought I was pretty b..itchy to him... and hes in the grade above, btw but we r in the same science class then people started coming up to me asking me how long we've been dating i was like wtf i never dated him, so apparently hes telling people that he can get me, and he already did, so he came up to me and before he said anything to me i was like "we are never going to date, so stop" he asked why and i told him its because im too good for him, and he laughed and keeps on talking to me More Recent Articles
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