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Open Question: What does he want from me? and more... Open Question: What does he want from me?I've know this guy for a little over 4 years and we've always had great chemistry both emotional and physical We flirt and enjoy our time together. Every time we speak he has to look into my eyes and if someone walks in on your conversion he give them a dirty look (guy or girl). When I'm around he has to have my full attention if he doesn't he will find away to get it and he seems to have a problem when he sees me with other guys or girls. But here's the kicker... He has told me in the past that if he didn't have a girlfriend we would be dating... Well he has gone through 2 other relationships and still never thought of dating me. But I've always been there to lend a ear if he's having problems with them. I've made it know how I feel to a point, so I can't say that I didn't try. But the man is up and down like a bloody yo-yo, one min all he wants to do is talk to me and then next he's running for the hills... I'm so confused and I'm starting to fall in love with him... Can anyone tell me what's going on in his head? Open Question: I have an HP Laptop, I uninstalled Norton and now it crashes whenever I start up. Help?I have an HP Pavilion DV6-2030sa. It came with Norton Internet Security 2009, a 60 day trial version. I recently purchased Norton 360 3.0 (a "better" version of Norton) which has 3 users. My friend installed one, and in order for me to take advantage of the full 365 days I had to install it today. So before installing, I uninstalled Norton Internet Security and it said to restart. When I restarted, every time it comes to the log on screen the system just goes blue screen and restarts. I can only start the laptop in Safe Mode. I restored the system to an earlier date (last week) and it worked fine. I then tried to install Norton 360 and it said to restart. As I restarted it, the same problem occured - it goes blue screen on the log on. Is this problem to do with Norton, or my Laptop? How do I fix this problem? The preferred outcome would be to have Norton 360 on my Laptop with no errors. Please help. Thanks. Open Question: Relationship problems with my ex.?Ookay, like it says in the title. I have a really bad relationship problem. Me and my ex were dating for about a month, then I found out she was apparently still in love with HER ex and was trying to get over her. Well, I decided that it'd probably be best if I gave her some space to break and let her sort her feelings, so I broke up with her. Well after about a week, she got a new boyfriend, When I heard she had a new boyfriend my heart sunk. I want her back SO bad but I just can't have her back, she refuses. I'm trying SO hard. Honestly even though we dated for a month I think she's the only girl who I actually fell for and would do almost ANYTHING for. I still would, I feel so guilty even saying Hi to another girl. She just doesn't understand that I'm in love with her. Also she thinks I like her friend, my girlfriend was grounded for about 95% of the time we dated, so I talked to her friend about my girlfriend like 24/7, well, she thinks I started to like her friend, so right now every time I bring up out relationship to my ex she'll just be like "Why don't you go to heather." that's her friends name, and it's just so hard for me. Short simple terms, I want her back but I can't have her, should I try harder?? My best friend's girlfriend is like best friends also with my ex, she even said herself she hates my ex's new boyfriend and she wishes me and her were still dating, she said she'd help but the hard part is, she just wont. What should I do? Open Question: I feel angry and let down by my boyfriend family, I don't know how ot act now.?URGENT!! THIS IS LONG BUT READ IF YOU CAN GIVE ME ADVICE: HOW TO DEAL WITH DEPRESSION AND BOYFRIENDS PARENTS WHO WONT ACKNOWLEDGE IT... My boyfriend and I have dated for the last four year, He is 25 now and I am 24. We bought a house in Massachusetts together and have lived together for about 2 1/2 years now. We have 2 dogs and are planning on getting married. We are extremely healthy and practical young adults and we are doing out best to make it independently in this world without having to fail or move back in with our parents. The stress is heavy but our bills are still getting paid and food is always on our table. After over a year of being efficient in living on our own, The past four months my boyfriend has dropped into a stage of being overwhelmed and depressed. He has begun going to see a therapist because he started to lash out on me personally and have these breakdowns where he got really angry and unreasonable. With winter coming he has gotten to the lowest point I have ever seen him. His attitudes are unpredictable and he says some pretty rotten things to me I never thought he'd say. Very manic, very uneven. His mother is very depressed, his parents have been wanting to divorce for years but his siblings are still teenagers and so they stay together. His family are in no way emotionally efficient. They dont talk about problems, they bottle them all up. He has been going home after work to do odd jobs for his parents every day after work and not coming straight home from work like he used to. He always "stops in" to check on them or to pick something up or drop something off. I understand his need for seeing his family regularly but they don't help him with his serious depression. He has expressed to me he has suicidal thoughts and they pretend everything is just the same. His dad won't even acknowledge he is in therapy. HIS FAMILY DOES NOTHING TO HELP HIM. I have to deal with the manic attitudes, and the depression, and the complaining about the shadows cast over life, while his family gets to not have to face it. I have to bear the brunt of his depression. This has caused a divide divide between his family and I. I feel they aren't trying to help him out of this rough period. They pretend he isn't sad and depressed and everything is okay, they pretend not to hear when he comments about therapy or depression. How do I act around his family. Can I express to his parents how disappointed I am with them at their lack of support for their suffering son, what do I do about being so angry and resentful that I am the only one who has to deal with this depressed man? Where are the boundaries? Since his family tends to clam up when faced with real issues of importance or of heavy emotion how should I approach this. Is writing a letter to them rude aqnd cold or is is appropriate and descrete? I don't want to cause more stree for bf by creating and argument between me and them. Open Question: What do I do about my Ex/best friend?Ok so me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up about 3 months ago, but since then we have stayed super close like we were before, but now hes dating this highschool chick ( we're both in College) and I dont think its going to last between them both. Problem right now is that I feel like he doesnt want to hang out with me anymore, cause of his new fling( btw she was my bestfriend and she stabbed me by asking him out RIGHT after we broke up), though he stated that Im his best friend and he wouldnt know what to do without me. I still love him, but know that i have to wait to get him back, But my question is.... How do i confront him about the ignoring me, not calling me when hes in town ( he lives just outside town) and just ditching me in general to see her? Like i know that he wants to spend time with her and whatever, he does.... but recently... hes just be rude about it. PS. hes like my only friend beyond my two other friends that are dating and are all about just being alone. so I dont really hang with them much. I really have no one else to hang with but him. So what do I do? Open Question: Asking a guy out through email?Okay, here's a little background- there's this guy that I was friends with in middle school. We're in high school now, but we go to different ones. We talk daily through email, but I don't have any other way of contacting him. We've never hung out or anything though. I've had a crush on him pretty much the whole time we've known each other, and he knew I liked him but doesn't think I still do. I want to ask him to go to the movies with me and a few other people so it's less awkward, but I have a few problems. 1. Is it too impersonal? I would ask him in person if I could, but this is the only contact I have with him. 2. What do I say? I've actually never been on a date or asked somebody before, so I'm pretty clueless :( Open Question: Why am i getting a syntax error ?if (year_date == multiply ); { System.out.println("The date is " + month_date + "/" + day_date + "/" + year_date); System.out.println("THIS DATE IS MAGICAL!!!!!!"); System.exit(0); } else { System.out.println("The date is " + month_date + "/" + day_date + "/" + year_date); System.out.println("I am sorry. This date is not magical."); } its giving me a syntax error on the else. i cant figure out the problem Open Question: How do I go about canceling a date with one girl to go with another?I'm going to a holiday party. I wanted to invite a date so I asked the first woman I came in contact with. I asked my neighbor as platonic aquaintances. She said she would check her schedule and would get back to me about it. 2 or 3 days later I was talking with another woman I know and in the conversation I let it slip that I was going to an Xmas party and I ended up asking her to it. I know it was a dick move but it just came out of me, probably because deep inside I enjoy her company and really want to take her. Now how do I break my plans with my neighbor in a gentle way? Should I wait to have her tell me she can't go, thereby making the problem moot? Or should I tell her asap. Should I tell her the truth or make up something so as not to hurt her feelings? How does one have this conversation? More Recent Articles
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