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Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Open Question: What does it mean when a guy wants to be exclusive but not bf/gf yet? and more...

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Open Question: What does it mean when a guy wants to be exclusive but not bf/gf yet? and more...

Open Question: What does it mean when a guy wants to be exclusive but not bf/gf yet?

Ok see me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 2 weeks now. And we were hanging out tonight driving to his house and we were just talking and some how the subject came up and he asked me, "What exactly are we?" (In the relationship sense). And I said I wasn't sure. So he said to me that he only wanted to date me right now. But that he just wants us to be exclusive until things settle down in his life and it's not as stressful. He's really tight on money and he starts a good job in like a month. And that's when he said things will start getting normal again. I have no problem being just exclusive with him and not being bf/gf because I mean we do and act like we are anyway lol. He's affectionate with me in public, holds my hand, wraps his arms around me. So i'm not really too worried. I'm just more so curious as to why he would rather be exclusive than bf/gf. I know I'm not another woman lol. I'm at his house all the time. Around his dad and all his friends. He introduces me to everyone who hasn't met me yet lol.

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Open Question: Whats the problem?????????????

Its not like I am desperate, but i never kissed nor dated a girl and I am 14 1/2. I am a huge guy. About 6ft 4 and 195 lbs. I am very athletic and good looking (from my point of view) It seems like no girl is interested in me. Is it because I am too big for them? I usually try to know if a girl likes me so i can ask her out but none have fell in love. I see a bunch of losers in my school get GF's while i have no luck. What should I do?

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Open Question: Calling all physics geniuses...completely and totally ridiculous physics problem?

You have just picked up a "blind date" and are driving down the highway. You notice that your date is not wearing a seat belt and decide she is looking really good and you want her much closer to you (she is in passenger's seat of the car). You notice that she is wearing a polyester outfit and know that the coefficient of static friction between polyester and the car seat is .6. You also know that the coefficient of static friction between the road and the tires is .978590. You decide to make the move and take a curve at an appropriate speed to get her next to you. How fast must you go if the radius of the curve is 100 meters? What is the max speed you can go before the car begins to slide? I don't even know where to start... how on earth do I do this problem?! any tips or advice would be much appreciated!! thanks!

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Open Question: GUYS what do you DO with your girlfriends?

Basically I've been talking w/ this one girl, she seems pretty cool, thinking of making her my GF. Problem is I'm a bit strapped for cash at the moment being a college student, what are some cheap date ideas? The more ideas the better, I've never been good at deciding what to do for dates LOL

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Open Question: could my good feeling about this be right?

me and my ex broke up in may. we broke up because he was starting to develop a drug problem, and since then he's gotten himself into some trouble. despite everything that's happened, i still love him as much as i did when we were together. today i was walking and he comes up to my all excited and tells me he quit smoking weed. he then starts to tell me how he thinks he should "make some new friends". that's exactly what he said to me a year and a half ago right before we started hanging out a lot and then dating. i don't want to get too excited, but does this sound like it might mean he wants to be better friends again?

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Open Question: why do people hate on kim kardashian?

I dont understand yea she might seem a lil fake but i feel that people should just let her live. I see all these people saying that she wants to be black and all that..i dont understand and so what if she likes black men so do i>>i love spanish and black men..and maybe thats because im spanish...it seems that less people have a problem with me dating spanish and black men because im expected to..but so what if she likes black men let the chick live...any responses>>>

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Open Question: Should I moved or he should move ?

I am dating a guy for 3 years now. I have a son 6 years old. I like him a lot and he claims that he loves me and want to be with me and my son. He is good for my son, responsible, hard working guy. But there is one big problem. I live in one city and he lives in another one - 5 hours driving. He has a very, very good job over there and I know he does not want to loose this job.I have a son here that the real father has a visitation schedule. I spoke with my lawyer and he told me that if I would like to relocate it will be very hard but its not impossible. However if I relocate my ex will have all holidays, extended vacation etc. I am not sure if I will like that. On the other hand I don't see any other solution for us in order to be together. I am kind of tired see him only for the weekend. Plus is time I think to think about something serious between us. My boyfriend told me that he want to get married but first he would like to see if I can move. What do you think about that situation ?

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Open Question: friend/girl trouble! can you help me?

ok im sorry that this is so long but bear with me ok so my best friend recently started dating the girl I like, and I'm completely 100% ok with it. He's my best friend and he really likes this girl, and I don't blame him. but I'm not so sure she likes him as much as he likes her. and I think that I could be a part of the problem, and I'm not even doing anything. His gf and I dated last year, and we liked each other this year, but I didn't really want to date her because I didn't want to ruin our friendship. (She's like my best girlfriend) She seems to actually be interested in me, or something. For example, we were all hanging out at some place, and he asked her if she wanted to go get a snack or something. Normally she would have said yes, as an excuse to be alone with her. she said no, and instead the other guy in the group went with him. Then I was sitting there alone with her and she was just smiling at me. I couldn't just not say anything to her, so we talked till they got back. Also, the next day at school, when me and my friend were in the orchestra room we were on opposite sides, at our lockers, and she walked in the door, looked at him, then looked at me, and I was thinking (oh FUCK) and she had a smile on when she saw me notice her. she walked up to me and started talking to me about this big ass test that she thought she failed, and then I just walked over to my friend and we started talking, and it turns out she talks to me more than him. That all happened over the span of like 3 days, and as much as I like her smiling at me when i notice her looking at me and all the attenition she gives me, I don't want to hurt my friend! I mean, hes my BEST FRIEND. I don't know what to do. I can't tell if she feels uncomfortable around him (BAD) and talks to me so it's less akward, or if she likes me. (WORSE) Either way, I want to let my friend know, but I dont want to hurt him. I also really like the girl. what should I dooooooooo?????

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Open Question: NEVER HAD A GIRLFRIEND 19?

SO i'm turnin 19 now, and i can't help but wonder if theirs somethin wrong with me, i admitt , i'm the most insecure guy when it comes to girls looks and for some reason i have high expectations when it comes to girls. For some reason i don't understant good looking girls tell me that i'm attractive but its only the ones i'm not really into that come and tell me they like me. I look back at my life and theirs been at least 10 girls wanted to gout with me but most of them i didn't find attractive. Me personally i'm not that difficult wit girls its just that i feel i will be judged if i have a girl thats not attractive . I 'm not tryin to be conceited but this is really becoming a problem for me and it gets me really depressed... I go out to clubs a lot and for some reason I'm able to hookup wit girls that i'm interested in their. Am i right to be so picky or should i just date the next girl that comes around.

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Open Question: Would you put up with her?

so i have this girl friend and she's dating my best guy friend who is also BFF's with my boyfriend so we have this little square going on. ever since our boyfriends left for college things have been different. she treats me like dirt, always suspects me of being up to something, acts like she knows more than me and just...isn't much of a friend anymore. i want to kinda disassociate myself from her but i dont think i can because of our "square". my boyfriend says i should do what makes me happy, and her boyfriend really could care less. i guess the biggest problem is that i always back down because these people are older than me and i dont feel like gettin in this huge fight. help! what would you do?

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