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Open Question: What does it mean when a guy wants to be exclusive but not bf/gf yet? and more... Open Question: What does it mean when a guy wants to be exclusive but not bf/gf yet?Ok see me and this guy have been seeing each other for about 2 weeks now. And we were hanging out tonight driving to his house and we were just talking and some how the subject came up and he asked me, "What exactly are we?" (In the relationship sense). And I said I wasn't sure. So he said to me that he only wanted to date me right now. But that he just wants us to be exclusive until things settle down in his life and it's not as stressful. He's really tight on money and he starts a good job in like a month. And that's when he said things will start getting normal again. I have no problem being just exclusive with him and not being bf/gf because I mean we do and act like we are anyway lol. He's affectionate with me in public, holds my hand, wraps his arms around me. So i'm not really too worried. I'm just more so curious as to why he would rather be exclusive than bf/gf. Also I know I'm not 'the other woman' lol. I'm at his house all the time. Around his dad and all his friends. He introduces me to everyone who hasn't met me yet lol. He's always so excited to introduce me to new people lol. I'm like the shiny new toy sometimes haha. Open Question: Should I continue to be his friend?I have a best friend that is a guy. Let's call him Rob. I have a best friend that is a girl. Let's call her Lily.So Rob really likes Lily. He has asked her out over 9 times! He tells her he loves her. The problem is, Lily doesn't love him back. Yet Rob won't give up. So Rob asked me to help him.Rob is my friend, so I tried to do what I could without betraying Lily's secrets. I didn't mind. I didn't give away any secrets, and tried to help both of them. When Rob asked out Lily, I helped Lily find a nice way to put him down. When Rob was depressed because Lily said no, I would try to comfort him. But things have changed, and it's starting to annoy me. On messenger, Rob would ask: Hey, it seems like Lily is mad at me. Do you think you could find out for me? I talked to Lily, and found out she liked someone else. She told me who too. So later Rob asks: Did you talk to Lily? Sarah: yeah, she's not mad, just having a hard time with friends. Rob: ? Sarah: I can't really say much. I promised I wouldn't tell anyone. But don't worry, it's not anything serious. She's not mad at you. Rob: oh... I see..... (and he says it as if I'm the bad person for not giving him enough information) Sarah: Sorry (I did nothing wrong, yet i tried to be nice) Rob: eh.... oh well...... (as if to say, Wow... you weren't helpful at all!) Sometimes when lily is on messenger and Rob is on messenger, I'll be talking to Rob. Then Lily will sign off. Then Rob will say, gtg. I asked him, you're leaving already? and Rob says: yeah, I only came on so I could talk to Lily. (!!!) then he signed off without saying bye. So lately I feel like he only talks to me when he wants to hear about Lily. We use to be best friends, now he totally ignores me. Even when he dated other people, he always talked to me as a best friend. It's getting me mad and aggravated. So is this normal or would you classify him as a jerk? Lily has been a good friend to me. She always helps me out in tough spots and asks if I would like to help her. If I say no, she would totally be fine and still talk to me. Open Question: Is he still my friend? He only seems to care when he wants something?I have a best friend that is a guy. Let's call him Rob. I have a best friend that is a girl. Let's call her Lily.So Rob really likes Lily. He has asked her out over 9 times! He tells her he loves her. The problem is, Lily doesn't love him back. Yet Rob won't give up. So Rob asked me to help him.Rob is my friend, so I tried to do what I could without betraying Lily's secrets. I didn't mind. I didn't give away any secrets, and tried to help both of them. When Rob asked out Lily, I helped Lily find a nice way to put him down. When Rob was depressed because Lily said no, I would try to comfort him. But things have changed, and it's starting to annoy me. On messenger, Rob would ask: Hey, it seems like Lily is mad at me. Do you think you could find out for me? I talked to Lily, and found out she liked someone else. She told me who too. So later Rob asks: Did you talk to Lily? Sarah: yeah, she's not mad, just having a hard time with friends. Rob: ? Sarah: I can't really say much. I promised I wouldn't tell anyone. But don't worry, it's not anything serious. She's not mad at you. Rob: oh... I see..... (and he says it as if I'm the bad person for not giving him enough information) Sarah: Sorry (I did nothing wrong, yet i tried to be nice) Rob: eh.... oh well...... (as if to say, Wow... you weren't helpful at all!) Sometimes when lily is on messenger and Rob is on messenger, I'll be talking to Rob. Then Lily will sign off. Then Rob will say, gtg. I asked him, you're leaving already? and Rob says: yeah, I only came on so I could talk to Lily. (!!!) then he signed off without saying bye. So lately I feel like he only talks to me when he wants to hear about Lily. We use to be best friends, now he totally ignores me. Even when he dated other people, he always talked to me as a best friend. It's getting me mad and aggravated. So is this normal or would you classify him as a jerk? Lily has been a good friend to me. She always helps me out in tough spots and asks if I would like to help her. If I say no, she would totally be fine and still talk to me. Open Question: I want to move and travel and explore, but my boyfriend wants to stay near his family his whole life...?I've dated my boyfriend for four years now. We have discussed marriage (in a hypothetical, relaxed way) and have decided that we both were against getting married or engaged while still in college. However I wouldn't be surprised if this time next year, after we have both graduated, we were engaged. We very happy together and we've always been great at compromising to get through problems. However I grew up in a dysfunctional family in the south, and he grew up very very close to his family (he spent most afternoons at his grandparents' or cousins' houses) in New England. We both now go to school in Boston, and we graduate in June. I've always wanted to travel as much as possible and would love to live for a few years in California or Arizona or British Columbia... I honestly feel like I've wanted this for so long that I might not be able to be happy if I just stayed in one place my whole life. To add to that, I really don't like New England, and I have zero interest in living here after I graduate. My boyfriend on the other hand loves snow and hates heat, can't imagine living more than an hour from his family, has no interest in going farther south than nyc. He doesn't seem like he's going to change his mind, and I don't know if I want him to. He really loves his family, and they are so important to him that I'm not sure how happy he'd be if he had to live very far away and only see them during the holidays. To me, seeing your family more than twice a year isn't a big deal, but obviously to him it's huge. Plus I want to move all over, and he loves New England. I'm not sure what to do. I've talked to him, but I don't think it's going anywhere. What should I do when I graduate and he refuses to leave? He's perfect, and we're perfect together, and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. But how much should I give up to be with him... How should I decide? Open Question: How can i feel better about myself to date this guy i like?I have liked this guy since the begging of my new school (started 3 weeks ago), today in class he kept looking at me. on the bus, he kept talking to me. I felt so happy. He told me straight up that he liked me, and gave me his phone number, he made it obvious. I am so happy! I can't wait for school tomorrow because of him. but the only problem is that i have low self esteem, im afraid that that i am not good enough for him. He practically can get any girl he wants, but he made it clear that he is interested in me. I don't wanna mess things up, i really like him a lot. Im afraid that he wont like me anymore. Can someone please help? how can i build more self confidence? thanks, serious answers only. Open Question: I like to stick metal in my face. What do you think about this ? :D?I currently have 17 piercings, and four tattoos. which are as follows : two tongue bars (one either side of the tongue) two lip rings (snakebites) a septum, industrial, tragus, x2 cartilage x6 lobe x1 16mm stretch x1 5mm stretch. tattoos are a green star on my left outer wrist, a red star on my right outer wrist "stay" in swirly writing on my left inner wrist and "gold" in swirly writing on my right inner wrist. and on friday im getting both my nipples pierced. I also would like to get my tongue split in the near future. I;ve never had a problem with dating, and in fact i get many compliments, from different people from different walks of life (not just those interested in body modification.) So im not really concerned about that, as long as I feel happy. But Im intrigued. What do you personally think of someone with this many mods- unattractive? Ugly? Turn off? Or positive? Would you find me scary and unapproachable, or would you make any wild assumptions? It just really intrigues me to know. I'm actually doing a presentation on body modification 2mw so it could be helpful to throw in, but really, im more intrigued then anything. And the split tongue/two tongue piercings thing...opinions? Open Question: I'm starting to feel like my best friend is using me?I have a best friend that is a guy. Let's call him Rob. I have a best friend that is a girl. Let's call her Lily.So Rob really likes Lily. He has asked her out over 9 times! He tells her he loves her. The problem is, Lily doesn't love him back. Yet Rob won't give up. So Rob asked me to help him.Rob is my friend, so I tried to do what I could without betraying Lily's secrets. I didn't mind. I didn't give away any secrets, and tried to help both of them. When Rob asked out Lily, I helped Lily find a nice way to put him down. When Rob was depressed because Lily said no, I would try to comfort him. But things have changed, and it's starting to annoy me. On messenger, Rob would ask: Hey, it seems like Lily is mad at me. Do you think you could find out for me? I talked to Lily, and found out she liked someone else. She told me who too. So later Rob asks: Did you talk to Lily? Sarah: yeah, she's not mad, just having a hard time with friends. Rob: ? Sarah: I can't really say much. I promised I wouldn't tell anyone. But don't worry, it's not anything serious. She's not mad at you. Rob: oh... I see..... (and he says it as if I'm the bad person for not giving him enough information) Sarah: Sorry (I did nothing wrong, yet i tried to be nice) Rob: eh.... oh well...... (as if to say, Wow... you weren't helpful at all!) Sometimes when lily is on messenger and Rob is on messenger, I'll be talking to Rob. Then Lily will sign off. Then Rob will say, gtg. I asked him, you're leaving already? and Rob says: yeah, I only came on so I could talk to Lily. (!!!) then he signed off without saying bye. So lately I feel like he only talks to me when he wants to hear about Lily. We use to be best friends, now he totally ignores me. Even when he dated other people, he always talked to me as a best friend. It's getting me mad and aggravated. So is this normal or would you classify him as a jerk? Lily has been a good friend to me. She always helps me out in tough spots and asks if I would like to help her. If I say no, she would totally be fine and still talk to me. Open Question: Problems with Girl Friend HELP!?So, me and my Gf have been dating for 6 1/2 months."im 17." Also, our relationship is awesome but when her friends are around she trys 2 goof off and make me look stupid. But it really doesn't work..... So My PROBLEM is that my Gf has very low self esteem, Constantly saying shes Fat, and that shes ugly and all sorts of random stuff. Ive known her for about a year or more.... She always feels like im going 2 leave her for a prettier girl, and stuff... My Gf is actually REALLY pretty, and yet myself am Handsome... "and no I am not bragging". So my question is how can i make her self esteem go up... ALSO she is very possesive how do i change that....? Thankyou! Thanks alot.... but ive talked to her about the possessive stuff I just dont know how 2 get her full TRUST like her ex boyfriends cheated and "fked her over" and yeaa she doesn't jst hand out her trust.... so it kinda bugs me but im OPEN about EVERYTHING with her whatever i feel she has the right 2 know..... like i just dont know how 2 explain it to her how lucky she is that im not an ass! i dont cheat i dont talk 2 other girls... i put myself in her shoes for everything i do... and it works out fine but... she has issues =/ sadly... Open Question: What do you do in this messy situation?So, where shall I start? Well it all started when my boyfriend gave me a iphone as a gift, though it needed to be unlocked in order for me to use it but my boyfriend never got to it. Eventually I took the phone myself and went around a few places but they all charged over 100 dollars to unlock it so I waited until I could find a cheaper place. Me and my boyfriend ended up breaking up for a while so an old friend of mine, John began to talk to me on the web and asked me to hang out with him some day, so I called him on a saturday and told him about my cellphone issue and fortunately he knew how to unlock cellphones and since he knew me he was going to do it for free on that following day. So it was about time to meet him and I gave him my cellphone for him to do his job and hung out there for a bit but when I left I forget it at his cousin's house so he said he would get it for me by next weekend because me and him were really busy that week. Throughout the week he kept constantly calling me and harassing me in a way and he eventually began liking me and kept asking me on dates but I would always politely decline. It was eventually saturday again and that was the day me and john had planned to meet each other that night so he would return my cellphone back but he wouldn't answer his cellphone throughout the day and I had other things planned that night and there wasn't no sign of him until last minute but unfortunately I wasn't able to make it, so I told him to move it to sunday. The next day I called him and he told me he gave my cellphone to his friend to use while he was out of the city because the night before he went to a party and didn't want rto risk losing it, though I was very angry for him not asking for my permission. By Monday I got back with my boyfriend and had told him what had happened so he got really upset and since John is in his College class he wanted to do something about this problem which did not sound too good. I ended calling back John and we ended up having a huge fight and ended our friendship he then gave me the number of the guy that had my iphone so i I would stop calling him. I knew this had to with him being jealous that I got back with my boyfriend and eventually I called the guy that had my iphone but the phone was always off so I had to call John back but he would not answer his phone so I gave it one more shot and a girl picked saying that John was in the bathroom and that her boyfriend was the one John gave my iphone to which ended up being passed down to her and she supposedly "lost" the phone and she was really sorry, she ended up giving me her phone number and said she would call me when she had the money for the phone and she would meet me up during the week. Personally I think that was all bullshit and I think this guy John is using this story because since we're not friends anymore he doesn't care wether I get the phone or not and he's using this girl to meet me up to probably get me hurt or somewhere around those boundaries. My boyfriend now is really furious and he's determined to beat him up 2 days from now but I don't want it to escalate that far, I know where John lives, works, and goes to school so maybe I can hunt him down myself since he won't talk to me himself. In conclusion I have no clue what to do now and i'm a very bad situation, what would do in this if you were in my shoes? Open Question: Theres only 1 thing bothering me in my relationship....?I currently have been dating this girl that I really love for a year now. She is so sweet and is the one for me. However the only problem is we really do not have sex that often. I would like to say it is maybe once every 2 weeks, but sometimes more or less. The last gf I had we had sex a few times a week and she actually wanted it more than me. I dont want to feel pushy, but I do not know what to do because I am still not used to it. Any advice? More Recent Articles |
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