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Open Question: What should I do about this? Why does she want me back now? and more... Open Question: What should I do about this? Why does she want me back now?So the dilemma is this, I started dating this girl late 2002. All was great, we dated for a long time I never thought I could care about a person more than this girl, I was young at the time I guess but I was almost sure this was what love was. Well we dated into 2003 and I signed up for the Marines and when I told her she didn't seem to have a problem with it. Well a month before I was to leave for training she dumped me for no reason, I have no idea what could have happened...there was no explanation. I was broken and puzzled when I got out of training to find she was dating a guy we knew from high school who I really didn't like (he was a tool, one of those guys that every girl seems to like for some reason they seem to like cocky assholes). Well I served 4 of the toughest years I have ever had in my life and recently finished my time as a Marine, am very fortunate I have made it out having seen so many of my close buddies and friends pass before my eyes. But now after getting back, she wants to get back together? She found me over facebook and I am utterly perplexed why she would even ask to get back together...she dated the biggest asshole in the world when I treated her with respect, kindness, and dignity. What in the world do women want? I am in school now (reason I joined the Marines, to pay for my tuition and pursue my dream as a biomedical engineer, to help others) I just don't have time for drama, and why would she put me through a hard time before I headed off to do one of the biggest things of my life? What should I do? Do I take her back or take it slow? Should I even give her my time? Thanks Open Question: Should I dump him? and how?Well ive been dating this guy for almost 3 months. I used to have a major crush on him 3 years ago but i thought that could never happen so basically when he asked me out I had a little crush. I went to my friends for advice, and they all thought that I should give him a chance. Well i did. But when it was around our 2 month anniversity, my mom found out I was dating him. And well she took my phone away and she doesnt trust me anymore. She just doesnt want me to date any one currently and focus on school. Well every day Im lying to her that we broke up. But sometimes i do wish i did brake up with him. But the problem is that my boyfriend is very emotional, I caught him cutting himself and I was the only one who could help him out. Sadly im afriad that If i do brake up with him he might go suicidal since he always says "Ive never felt this way about any girl before". Another bad part is that before he asked me out like 3 months ago, all my emotions for him basically died, so right now im trying really hard to love him as much as he says he loves me. But i always have doubt that he doesnt mean half of the things he says. I just need like a reason to dump him at the right moment. Help Please! Open Question: Boy Problems PLEASE HELP!!?Okay... I'm great friends with this guy. He's nice and all... I don't really like him that much but I do like him a little bit. He's really perverted and he's good at giving nice compliments. But the thing is he's basically a player or whatever. Anyways I'll tell you more details about it. (I'll make up names). So my friend Jenny said that Mike likes me a lot. And that my other friend Steph told me that Mike likes me a lot. I asked them why they are making this assumptions. Well Jenny told me that Mike's best friend Alex told he something... "So when do you think Mike and Lilly would start dating" that's how Jenny made that assumption. And my other friend Steph told me that a few of her friends that is also friends with him told her that Mike likes me. And a lot of people in school thinks were dating even though for a fact that we are not dating. And it really bothers me. Mike and I knew each other this year, sometime in between end of March and beginning of April. I knew that he kind of liked me, we were freshmans and know were sophs. And know his dating this girl that I don't know. I don't see him a lot in school, I see him everyday in the morning though. So every morning he acts like a jacka** to me most of the time for no reason and it really pisses me off. Like I said in the beginning he's a "player" type. Anyways he always acts like a jacka** to me but not to the other girls he sees (he flirts with them in front of his girlfriend) anyways when I see him during the afternoon, he walks me to class and everything is alright he is way to nice to me. And also when we hug goodbye I notice that he kisses my head. Other information are that he gives me compliments like "sexy" or "pretty". He always touches my ass.. and this really bothers me. I told him to stop a several times but he won't. I don't get him at all. And I told my friend Jenny that he could date anyone, but I know for a fact that their just desperate. I know this for a fact, because one of the girls in my grade dated him and she got hurt a lot. Does anyone know the situation. Does he like me or not? BTW he never told me that he was dating someone, the way that I found out that he was dating someone is that a person asked him if he was dating this girl and he said yeah (it was really quiet the way he said this). Open Question: Does age difference matters in love?Well, i'm wondering. In love, is there age difference can make problems? Like 20 aged girl dates with someone 30. Or like, 10-20 ages between people. I want to know what other people thinks. Please no rude answers. I'm serious and want your help. Open Question: Does he want to date me or what the heck is he thinking?When I started college I was dating a guy, and we had been together for a little over a year. We started having alot of problems right away, and we broke up about once every 2 weeks for about 2 months. During those months everytime we were broke up I hooked up with my new best friend. This guy became my best friend when I started college. He lives across the hall from me so I see him alot and we're very close. Now me and that boyfriend have been broken up for about a month and a half. During that month I've spent about every day doing something with him. He sleeps over and is very sweet. But when we talk about getting together he tells me he wants to be with me, and only me. He hasn't been with anyone else since we've started hooking up, even when I was dating my boyfriend. He told me he waited me for, but he doesn't want a relationship. He basically wants to be best friends with "exclusive" benefits. Does this make any sense?! Open Question: I'm a poor girl. How can I get an upper middle class guy?I'm always insecure around middle class and upper middle class guys. Even if they date me, problems come up. How can I become upper middle class without college? How can I fit in more with upper middle class guys so I don't embarrass them or their parents? I know "it shouldn't matter", but I have had enough experiences to know that my social class does matter, even with a guy who means well. We can't even have holidays at my house and I can't introduce him to my family because my house is trashed and no one will get rid of anything, and we're poor, and one of my parents is an alcoholic, etc. So what are some steps I can take to seem like I'm from the middle or upper middle class, or how can I make an income in that range? I just want to be a Martha Stewart type girl, with a nice sized house and nice things, and freedom from embarrassment. But I don't want him to have the upperhand like you said. People have had the upperhand all my life and I can't take it anymore. And even if I went to community college or a university, I'm so shy that I probably would only be able to make about $40k a year max that way, and that's still lower middle class. More Recent Articles |
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