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Open Question: What should I do? Can my boyfriend be cheating on me behind my back? and more... Open Question: What should I do? Can my boyfriend be cheating on me behind my back?I just found out that my boyfriend wrote a message to one of his close friends and it stated "I hope you dont have any problems with being just friends with benefits for now." there was more to that note, but i just want you guys to know the main thing.... We've been dating for a year and 6 months now.. and i found out this just a couple of days and he wrote it in July of this year... anyways, I can get jealous sometimes when it comes to him hanging out with other girls in his circle of friends. and I do trust him in a way, but it's hard whenever i don't trust him because I'm afraid to lose another guy since I've been hurt before.. he said that he loves me very much, wants to have a future with me, and he would never hurt me since i'm a bit sensitive because of all the shit going on with my parents getting a divorce and i feel like he would do the same behind my back like my dad did to my mom... and he also said that he would never do anything like that to me. I don't know what else to do, because whenever he gets mad or upset of me, he doesn't tell me his feelings and he goes directly to his friends to talk about me... i told him that i am his girlfriend and i will always be there to listen if something is bothering him, but i feel as though, i'm like this second class friend and just pretending to be my girlfriend... you know what i mean??? i just need someones opinion on this..preferably someone who had this happen to them before.. i love him very much and i can't risk losing another guy that i truely love and he loves me that same way... Open Question: What should i do? i can't seem to find clarity or get any help.. i'm pretty much stuck?well, to make an extremely long story somewhat short, i'm in love with this girl. i've seen her in a serious relationship, i've seen her get cheated on and be completely broken. i've seen her rise from that, and she's now in a relationship but she always says "it's nothing serious." this january will make 3 years that i've known her/felt this way for her. friends tell me to try and date others, and i dated this one girl but it didn't work out at all, she ended up hurting me. i ended up going to the girl i'm in love with for advice, because she's one of the only ones i could trust with it. she helped me through it. she'll sometimes do things that look like she could possibly be into me, too. (walking into a circle of people i'm in and bringing up a show i told her i was watching the night before. like, 'so how about criminal minds last night?!' and taking me out to clear my head, asking me to go to her job with her to get papers and contiuously telling me 'i'm so happy you came with me, i'd be so bored without you.' showing a lot of skin around me, etc.) but then my insecurities get the best of me and i point out all the things that would make her NOT like me (besides the fact that she's 5 years older.) we don't talk everyday, maybe a couple times a week.. sometimes less than that. she leads a very busy life. i know many of you are probably like "okay, i don't see the problem.. just tell her how you feel." well, it's truthfully not that easy. it's taken me so long to finally get her to trust me and open up to me like she does now. i'm willing to wait, because i've been waiting this long and some of her (meaning having her as a friend) is better than none of her. i just don't know what to do.. i'm so in love with her, and it breaks my heart to not have her. i miss her so much the pain is excruciating. i don't know what to do.. someone PLEASE help?! she's the only reason for happiness i have in my life, and i don't know what i'd do if i lost that. but i feel like i'm not good enough for her and she deserves so much better than me.. Open Question: iPhoto dates aren't translating right?Yeah, I know how to change the date and time of my photos. The problem I'm having is that the uploads to facebook are dated wrong, and I'm wondering if changing the overall date in iPhoto will automatically fix the date showing in Facebook. Thanks. Open Question: Can I end it now or wait until xmas is over?My partner and I have been having relationship problems for about one year now. He moved out one month ago and we agreed to try going back to just dating to see how things go. However, I know 100% that its just not going to work. I don't love him anymore (in that way) although he is still my best friend and cant bear hurting him. Even when he has been staying over he stays in the spare room, we haven't slept together for 4 month now. The point is I jut don't think I can go through christmas putting this pretence on, I can barely let him hold my hand. We are supposed to be spending xmas with his family but really don't think I can go thought with it anymore but can I really put an end to things just before xmas? I would feel terrible doing that to him. Really don't know what to do :-((( Open Question: Cant I end it now or wait until xmas is over?My partner and I have been having relationship problems for about one year now. He moved out one month ago and we agreed to try going back to just dating to see how things go. However, I know 100% that its just not going to work. I don't love him anymore (in that way) although he is still my best friend and cant bear hurting him. Even when he has been staying over he stays in the spare room, we haven't slept together for 4 month now. The point is I jut don't think I can go through christmas putting this pretence on, I can barely let him hold my hand. We are supposed to be spending xmas with his family but really don't think I can go thought with it anymore but can I really put an end to things just before xmas? I would feel terrible doing that to him. Really don't know what to do :-((( More Recent Articles |
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